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So what sorts of things make some men so furious that they feel the need to send women they’ve never met literal death and rape threats on the internet? It doesn’t take much, apparently. A woman suggesting that it’s not such a good idea to hit on women in elevators at 4 AM. A woman making videos suggesting that there’s sexism in video games. A woman captured on video telling some men to shut the fuck up. A woman complaining about sexist jokes at a tech conference.
Add to this: a woman campaigning successfully to have Jane Austen’s face put on the Bank of England’s ten pound notes.
Over the past week, writer and activist Caroline Criado-Perez, who organized the campaign to get Austen memorialized on the bank note, has been harassed relentlessly on Twitter by assholes and misogynists and trolls for her efforts. Some of this harassment has taken the form of literal rape and death threats. One 21-year-old Manchester man was arrested and questioned in connection with the threats.
Similar threats and harassment were directed at noted British classics professor Mary Beard and female Members of Parliament.
Here’s a sadly typical example of one of the threatening comments sent to Criado-Perez from an account that Twitter temporarily banned — then reinstated.
https://twitter.com/CCriadoPerez/status/362499703285358592
And a more graphic example:
https://twitter.com/ianmcqui/status/361587787511779328
And some even more graphic threats directed at female MPs.
https://twitter.com/JonathanHaynes/status/361967658087890945
https://twitter.com/JonathanHaynes/status/361964227516309504
For many more examples of messages sent to Criado-Perez and others, see Catalina Hernández’ blog I Will Not Put Up With This: here, here, here, here, here, here and here.
And if you had any doubt about how little in the way of repercussion most of these harassers expected to get for their threatening tweets, some tweeted using what are presumably their real names. Here are some comments from one Ivan Garcia of San Diego, as collected by Hernández.
And here is his blog, where this fan of jazz, video games and threatening rape shares his poetry with the world.
The harassment obviously raises a lot of issues,most notably: Why the fuck does this keep happening? And: What’s the best way to deal with this sort of harassment — and these sorts of harassers?
Twitter has promised to add a “report abuse” button; some activists see this as a step in the right direction, while others worry that the “report abuse” button will be itself abused to shut down critics of harassment. Twitter’s record in dealing with harassers has not exactly been a great one; just ask Anita Sarkeesian.
British journalists and assorted bloggers have been trying to sort through some of these issues over the past few days. Here are some links to some of the more interesting pieces, from a variety of perspectives. (Well, I’m not including the pro-rape threat perspective.) Links aren’t necessarily endorsements.
First, for a little more background, see:
Twitter under fire after bank note campaigner is target of rape threats
Caroline Criado-Perez Twitter abuse case leads to arrest
And here are some posts and pieces looking at the issues:
A ‘report abuse’ button on Twitter will create more problems than it solves, by Sharon O’Dea
A button will not, alone, rid Twitter (or the wider world) of mysogyny and abuse. These are complex issues that will take more than a button to resolve. But ‘report abuse’ buttons have been known to be widely abused on other networks. ….
Introduction of a similar mechanism on Twitter ironically creates a whole new means by which trolls can abuse those they disagree with. The report abuse button could be used to silence campaigners, like Criado-Perez, by taking advantage of the automatic blocking and account closure such a feature typically offers. In that way, it could end up putting greater power in the trolls’ hands.
Why does it always come back to rape? by Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett and Holly Baxter of the Vagenda Magazine, in the New Statesman
Rape is the popular choice when women become more visible than they apparently should be, and that’s because it’s easy. …. Whatever their opinion, however they conducted their arguments, however well-researched and nuanced their replies to criticism are, they’re women and male trolls could rape them and that’s what really matters. …
[Academic] Mary Beard got called a “dirty old slut” with a “disgusting vagina” just as [Member of Parliament] Stella Creasy was being tweeted “YOU BETTER WATCH YOUR BACK… I’M GONNA RAPE YOU AT 8PM AND PUT THE VIDEO ALL OVER THE INTERNET”. …
The message is that women’s vaginas are, literally, always up for grabs. If they’re young, the rape threats will come thick and fast; if they’re older, maybe the trolls will settle for insulting their vaginas and telling them that they were “sluts” in the past.
If Every Male Troll Took a Walk in Women’s Shoes, Would He Finally Feel Our Outrage? by Elizabeth Plank
Withstanding rape threats has become a right of passage for female writers or personalities, just as making them as become a right of passage for cowardly and anonymous misogynist trolls. If you’re a woman who happens to possess opinions, and write about feminist issues (god forbid!), chances are you will be violently trolled. … the issue is not that women receive more criticism than men, but rather that it comes in more violent and vitriolic forms. Men will be attacked for their opinion, whereas women will be threatened because they have opinions.
[O]ne study showed that female usernames in chat forums received 25 times more abuse than male ones. In an experiment conducted by the University of Maryland, researchers found that “Female usernames, on average, received 163 malicious private messages a day.” So all else equal, if you’re a woman online, you’re going to be on the receiving end of more hate.
I believe it. I get a lot of shit from misogynists for running this blog — and the occasional threat — but what I get is nothing compared to the harassment similarly controversial feminist bloggers who happen to be women have gotten.
What women-hating trolls really believe, by Emma Barnett
First troll up was Peter from Whitechapel. …
“She was asking for it,” he told me. According to this nitwit, if you campaign about issues such as keeping a woman on English banknotes, you should “expect to receive rape threats”. I delved further.
“If you put your head above the parapet, like she has, then you deserve this type of abuse. It’s what you get when you are a woman shouting about something,” Peter told me, starting to get a little irate. …
Then Gary from Birmingham decided to call in [and] told me in no uncertain terms that “feminists like Caroline were undermining what it is to be a man” and needed “sorting out”.
“Men are predators,” he explained calmly. “And this [rape threats] is what we do.”
And here, after all this awfulness, is a piece that manages to be funny about it all: How to use the internet without being a total loser.
I just stopped reading Quark’s comments because there was nothing of note there. I’m willing to take a bullet with folks like orion and ObsidianFiles, but no way. Rape posts are my hard limit, y’all.
WHAT?
From the moment the dame walked into my office, I knew she was going to be trouble.
@kitteh’s
Naw, she’s aight, she’s got the padding. Typical feminist though, trying to appropriate men’s oppression 😛
20 cc’s of brain bleach, stat!
@tooimpureangel – Slavey and his “morning wood” inspired this Pierre. (Read the notes for the background!)
BABBIES! *is instantly soothed*
Shadow – LOL!
Mr K’s house is terribly misandrist. All the padding there gets appropriated by the Furrinati.
Is anyone else having trouble refreshing? Every time I do, it jumps to the middle of the page.
I’m so glad I have never met that man in meatspace *shudders*
Oh, it’s not just me with the page jumping? Good to know.
For me, it jumps up aways. While I was catching up, every click to the next page ended up by the scented … candle.
@Hyena girl and the legion of librarians
Do you listen to the podcast Pop Culture Happy Hour? They mention quite often that they have a huge librarian following.
Ditto on “good, it’s not just me”!
Re: talking animal books
I love everything by Dick King-Smith. He wrote The Sheep-Pig, which was made into the movie Babe. They are kids books, but they hold up extremely well for adults.
Mmmm. Caught up now. Thanks everyone.
You know, that first comment… there was a moment when I thought it could have been less than a complete train wreck. There was so much that was fucked up, but there seemed to be the possibility of something better. She was wrong, but at first it seemed to me that it could be naivete rather than malice. I really wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt, and I tried to for at least a page of comments.
I apologize unreservedly to all of you for prolonging that.
I should have let it go but I just couldn’t quite manage it. I really wanted to believe that it was possible to explain
The movie Babe is based on a book???? Must read.
Currently re-reading Small Gods, which I found thusly: A few weeks ago we had a bad storm (“it was a dark and stormy day”) and a blackout. I had just finished a book and needed a new one, so walked to the library to see if their power was on – it wasn’t. On my walk back, I saw what I thougth was a large birdhouse in a front yard… but it had BOOKS in it. Turns out it was a backyard library, apparently licensed by the city. You could borrow a book, or trade a book. I grabbed Small Gods, and traded it for a hardcover Robert R McCammon. Best day ever!
@Shadow re: Atwood, read The Robber Bride. Not dystopian at all, just fascinating characters and relationships.
I haz a sad that I missed the live troll. I wanted to tell her that her fuckwitted trollfuckery was fucking up my happy lurking and if she just fuckstepped outta here that would be fuckedy-doodle-dandy. Alas, she flounced so I won’t bother.
Aw Gilly, we’ve all been there. Have an internet cookie (they’re chocolate chip!)
@gillyrosebee you shared your story in good faith (thank you for that, BTW). Not your fault it wasn’t received as such – I’d have tried too.
And yes, I’m having the same jumping thing, even when I try opening a message in a new tab instead of just reloading the same page.
*collapses* this is what I get for assuming my father, who kept fish years ago, can be trusted to alert me BEFORE the problem goes critical mass.
Whatever algae has decided to massively colonize the 10g light had taken over the 29g. And this shit isn’t hair algae in the “scrape off and siphon” sense, nor the boring “scrape it off and ignore” stuff, oh no, this shit is like 6″ sticky hair algae that refuses to be siphoned. Which is bad enough on the 10g light, but it is just the light — one round submerged tube — slide hand down light, drop gunk in bucket. The 29g? FUCKING EVERYWHERE.
And then I checked the filter…oh boy.
The mechanical filtration was clogged beyond the point of cleaning it, which alone makes me wary because it does colonize a fair bit of helpful bacteria. The chemical pouch was no less gross. And just to totally wreck my bacteria colonies, the parts of the bio media box that are above the water line were colonizing mold. Luckily the chemical stuff is specially ammonia remover, so I’m not freaky about attacking my bacteria colonies (and I de-molded the box without getting the media itself wet). But fuck, CLEARLY he is not capable of noticing issues before they’re devil’s core level critical.
Now I’m going to go seed the 29g with some of the researched and then purchased stuff that does actually contain said good bacteria (seachem’s stability for any other aquarists)
/fish rant
RE: gillyrosebee
There, there. I did it with Orion and ObsidianFiles, you’ve nothing to be ashamed over.
gillyrosebee – I wasn’t commenting, just reading, but fwiw you’ve no need to apologise for anything. You shared a truly dreadful experience, and the oh-so-sincere troll didn’t even engage. Hugs if you want them! Also cat furs, because I have lots to share.
No need to apologize, gillyrosebee. You didn’t do anything wrong. If it means anything, I had the same impression you did after that first comment.
Thanks, Shiraz and Tracy.