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So here’s an interesting chart. Guess what it represents?

A) The membership of the David Duke Fan Club

B) The racial breakdown of the most successful Liberace impersonators

C) The demographics of the Men’s Rights subreddit

Well, ok, that was too easy. It is of course all of the above. I’m guessing. It’s definitely C, at least, as this chart was prepared to show the results of the 2013 Men’s Rights subreddit demographic survey.

Now, you might say, well, isn’t Reddit itself a pretty white place? And you would be right. But the Men’s Rights subreddit seems to be a bit whiter — and a lot less black — than Reddit as a whole, if Quantcast’s estimates of Reddit’s overall ethnic breakdown are accurate.

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In other completely non-surprising news, 89% of Men’s Rights Redditors are men. And a lot of them are libertarians. MRAs complain endlessly that we pigeonhole them as a bunch of entitled white dudes. They’re really not doing much to challenge that assumption.

The most important issue to these fellas (and the small minority that aren’t fellas)? Survey says: False rape accusations.

Other critical issues to the Men’s Rightsers include “custody rights” (which is a bit odd because 92% of those surveyed have no kids), “legal discrimination” (whatever that means), “education discrimination” (this is a thing?), and “male disposability.”

“Male birth control” and “paper abortion,” while relatively less important to the Men’s Rightsers, each got hundreds of votes.

I’m surprised “friendzoning” isn’t at the top of the list, but unfortunately it wasn’t one of the choices. I blame misandry.

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Howard Bannister
11 years ago

“By dating short men, men who do not show traditional masculinity, and by paying for the first date?”

O: Do I take all this to mean that you can’t give any examples?

Why do you ignore citations given? Bah.

Obsidian Files
11 years ago

@Howard:
“Oh, FFS. Even Tom Martin had to admit that feminism was better on this one.

Tom fucking Martin!”

O: Who is Tom Martin?

O.

pecunium
11 years ago

Wow. I am impressed. In years of dealing with the manosphere, and going on 25 years of being on the net, I’m hard pressed to think of a more dishonest actor then OF. That’s including the straight up trolling of Mr. Al. It’s pretty amazing.

Fibinachi
Fibinachi
11 years ago

O: OK. Let’s discuss the Feminists’ tearing down the wall of gender roles as it relates to dating. How many Feminsts are dating very short Men? Men who do not evidence traditional male traits? Asking (and paying) for those first dates with such Men – and where can I go to see this being openly written about by Feminists online?
..
O: For the same reasons why Feminists don’t see it necessary to present a better model of pickup to the fellas? *shrug*
..
O: And again, no one is preventing those who wish to challenge lapses in the criminal justice system in those other areas. The MRA agenda, when it comes to Black Men especially, is indeed very important on this score.
..
O:Asking (and paying) for those first dates with such Men – and where can I go to see this being openly written about by Feminists online?

… So what’s more important to the MRA agenda? The false accusations of rape, acquiring a better model of pickup or making sure short men get dates?

I’m not saying you can’t answer “All three”, but I am going to say that if you answer “All three”, your priorities are out of sync with what I normally understand to be “activism”.

Here’s something:

“Overwhelmingly, these assaults are done by men. Unsurprisingly, there is still a culture that ties women’s self-worth to their sexual availability and the madonna/whore complex still very much exists. Rape is a sensitive and shame-laden topic, and yet it’s also normalized through rape culture by the prevalence of rape jokes where the victim is the punchline, through people victim blaming, and through shaming the victim, among others.”

O: All of which, while regrettable, are not against the law; people have the right to make off-color jokes. Moreover, there are stiff legal penalties for those who commit the crime of rape, and rightly so.

When the question comes up, and we talk about stuff
like roles, trolls and being the butt of jokes
Normalized rapes and terrile tropes
of sexual availability, victims and men
then?

You reply, high and dry: “…. not against the law”.

You’re right, it isn’t, and your mired, blinkered
slightly foggy perspective
is quite indicative of a biased objective

“Secure father’s rights! Let men live, not die! Get proper support and accord for the children of men!

And also, let the short men bang again! Those women pay for their food and, if you think something crude, write your own guide on how to get men pussy!”.

*come* *on*

inurashii
inurashii
11 years ago

Yeah, done with Mr. Evidence-c’est-pour-l’autres. Have fun y’all.

Tulgey Logger
Tulgey Logger
11 years ago

Shorter ObsidianFiles:

[quotes self, ignoring responses]

O: So you have no evidence.

O.

Howard Bannister
11 years ago

O: Who is Tom Martin?

Wait, what?

You say you’ve been hanging on the Spearhead?

He’s written stuff for them.

But you’ve never heard of him?

How long have you been in the MRM?

Howard Bannister
11 years ago

*come* *on*

Yeah, *seriously.*

Obsidian Files
11 years ago

@SittieKitty:
“Nope, we completely disagree on this. Reread what I said. Roe V Wade and Doe V Bolton were about legalizing abortion. You also didn’t cite anything.”

O: Yes, I did; it is not my problem if you don’t wish to accept it.

As for Roe, it was indeed about the right to privacy. We have agreed that medically safe abortions were around prior to the Roe ruling, so that wasn’t at issue. The ability to provide them was there, it was whether a Woman was able to get them legally or not. Part of the argument was whether a Woman has the right to privacy. Hence Roe. Roe For Men argues for the same thing. Men should not be penalized for their private decisions.

“This wasn’t the topic?”

O: Sure it was; you broached it.

“My claim was that tearing down gender roles allows women to no longer be the default in childrearing. This is regarding family court issues.”

O: Alright; evidence, please?

“My other claim was that for men who want to be able to walk away, allowing the government to give the child support would decrease any financial pressure on the woman to get an abortion when she doesn’t want one.”

O: Why do Women need said support, when they are already the breadwinners in a majority of American homes, and Black Women in particular attend college at higher rates than anyone else in American life? Can’t they raise the child(ren) on their own?

“This is regarding reproductive rights. Neither of those is about fighting for the rights of dads to be involved in the lives of their kids. Jesus, you’re bad at reading comprehension. And no, that’s not an ad hominim, that’s just a statement of fact.”

O: That remains to be seen, given your inability to offer sources supporting your claims about Feminists…

“I’m done with you unless you start addressing shit and citing your claims.”

O: You first…

O.

Tulgey Logger
Tulgey Logger
11 years ago

Mr. O has been spending way too much time with the kind of people who think “well, it’s not illegal” is a reasonable hand-wave.

SittieKitty
11 years ago

Lmao. The seduction community is about trying to get laid as much as possible and giving fuck all about how you go about it as long as it’s free. It’s not about dating. It’s about date raping.

Queer issues affect straight people as well. There’s this handy little thing that happens when you tear down barriers in the queer community that it often carries over into the hetcis communities. Acceptance of queer issues and reduction of gender roles through that helps hetcis communities.

Actually, they do, per Pinker’s findings of the stats, data and research. For example, and in alignment with Pinker’s argument per his book, not only has violent crime of all kinds been on the steady decline over time, but here in my hometown of Philly, violent crime has been lower than the country as a whole. That would include rape.

Again, off on some irrelevant tangent. Saying something has decreased isn’t the same as saying it’s not a big deal, not a societal problem, or shouldn’t be addressed. And yes, that’s exactly what you’re trying to say. It’s the same as saying that black women are attending uni at an all time high – it’s political window dressing trying to say the problem is less worse than it is.

Just like the Brian Banks’ of the world isn’t mentioned by the Feminists…

Yes, but the problems affecting women are discussed and prioritized by feminists! So the problems affecting men should analogously be discussed and prioritized by MRAs? And yet, it’s not. That’s kinda my whole point.

Yes, it is.

No, it’s not. Citations, maybe? You still haven’t provided me with anything other than assertions.

You have no idea whatsoever as to what work I have or haven’t done

True. So? It’s speculation. I’m not saying you definitively haven’t looked. If I was, I’d be asserting something I can’t prove. You’re making claims, without backing up any of it. You aren’t just speculating. Pretty much you’re just being disingenuous. You stated: “they seem to have a very narrow set of (self-serving) interests that don’t have anything to do with all the things you have profferred above.” That’s an assertion. You need to back that up by providing examples of how they aren’t doing anything in Philly except having a very narrow set of self-serving interests.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Then there’d be no need for the community. “Just being yourself” has proven itself not to work.

I can see why, in your instance.

What a dishonest turd this one is.

Obsidian Files
11 years ago

@Howard:
“Wait, what?

“You say you’ve been hanging on the Spearhead?”

O: Yup.

“He’s written stuff for them.”

O: I’ll look into it.

“But you’ve never heard of him?”

O: Nope.

“How long have you been in the MRM?”

O: I’ve been writing for the Spearhead for the past few years; I have never claimed that I’ve known personally everyone else who’s written for them.

O.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Pecunium: I know right? This one refuses to find–forget own–his shit. Impressive.

SittieKitty
11 years ago

Agreed percunium and inurashii. I’m done. C’est la vie, that was an interesting first troll discussion but I’m not interested in wasting time doing this dipshits research for them. I’ve done my homework and gotten the degree already. I don’t have time to take them through university level discussion right now because K-12 is apparently also necessary.

Howard Bannister
11 years ago

O: I’ve been writing for the Spearhead for the past few years; I have never claimed that I’ve known personally everyone else who’s written for them.

I don’t expect you to know everybody. But given his feuding with, ahem, certain sectors, I thought you ought to have known *him.* Ah, well.

Howard Bannister
11 years ago

@SittieKitty | June 21, 2013 at 2:26 pm

Wow. This is terrifying…

http://nymag.com/thecut/2013/05/when-men-sabotage-birth-control.html

Yeah. The amount the MRM whines about coercion and sperm-burgling and what-not? Pure white-hot projection.

That’s all they ever have.

Obsidian Files
11 years ago

@SittieKitty:
“Lmao. The seduction community is about trying to get laid as much as possible and giving fuck all about how you go about it as long as it’s free. It’s not about dating. It’s about date raping.”

O: If your and others’ claims are true in this regard, you have clear grounds to prosecute. What are you all waiting for?

“Queer issues affect straight people as well.”

O: Really? How so? Please explain?

“There’s this handy little thing that happens when you tear down barriers in the queer community that it often carries over into the hetcis communities. Acceptance of queer issues and reduction of gender roles through that helps hetcis communities.”

O: OK – could you please cite some examples? Thanks!

“Again, off on some irrelevant tangent.”

O: No, it’s on-point…

“Saying something has decreased isn’t the same as saying it’s not a big deal, not a societal problem, or shouldn’t be addressed. And yes, that’s exactly what you’re trying to say. It’s the same as saying that black women are attending uni at an all time high – it’s political window dressing trying to say the problem is less worse than it is.”

O: That’s because…it is…

“Yes, but the problems affecting women are discussed and prioritized by feminists!”

O: Precisely. So why do you have a problem with this being done by the MRA community when it comes to Men and false rape charges/convictions? Why are you good with it when Feminists do it, but are so against it when the MRAs do it? Please explain?

“So the problems affecting men should analogously be discussed and prioritized by MRAs? And yet, it’s not. That’s kinda my whole point.”

O: Not true. Both the poll Dave broached in this post topic and the poll I linked to per the GMP says otherwise…

“No, it’s not. Citations, maybe? You still haven’t provided me with anything other than assertions.”

O: Yes, I have. Meanwhile, you haven’t provided anything in the way that supports your claims about Feminists working so hard in the communities on the issues we’re discussing. I still await them.

“True. So?”

O: So it’s wholly off topic. Remember?

“It’s speculation. I’m not saying you definitively haven’t looked. If I was, I’d be asserting something I can’t prove. You’re making claims, without backing up any of it.”

O: Not true. You’re the one not backing up claims.

“You aren’t just speculating. Pretty much you’re just being disingenuous. You stated: “they seem to have a very narrow set of (self-serving) interests that don’t have anything to do with all the things you have profferred above.” That’s an assertion. You need to back that up by providing examples of how they aren’t doing anything in Philly except having a very narrow set of self-serving interests.”

O: Just like you need to prove that Feminists ARE indeed doing things along the lines you’ve asserted.

Like I said: you. First…

O.

SittieKitty
11 years ago

Howard B, RSS feed was a great idea! Thanks!

Obsidian Files
11 years ago

@Howard:
“I don’t expect you to know everybody. But given his feuding with, ahem, certain sectors, I thought you ought to have known *him.* Ah, well.”

O: *shrugs*

O.

Obsidian Files
11 years ago

@Hellkell:
“I can see why, in your instance.”

O: Oh, really? You a clarivoyant now?

“What a dishonest turd this one is.”

O: Look who’s talking…

O.

hippodameia8527
hippodameia8527
11 years ago

I have to get back to work but I want to call for a spectacular meltdown five hours max. Have fun with the chew toy!

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Oh, more from the “NO U” school of argument.

Howard Bannister
11 years ago

“What a dishonest turd this one is.”

O: Look who’s talking…

You know, that doesn’t work? I mean, we can actually read what you said, see her reply, and when you say ‘look who’s talking,’ we do. We see it. And we smile and nod along.

Your pithy reply doesn’t skewer who you think it skewers.

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