In a post ostensibly about the imminent arrival of female Viagra, our dear friend JudgyBitch weighs in on yet another subject about which she knows shit: the reasons that women who are not her might not want to have sex with their husbands:
Loss of libido in women, excepting rare medical conditions, in my opinion, is a direct result of not seeing men as emotionally complex beings. If you’re married, at some point, your husband probably stood in front of you and promised to love you forever. Rejecting him physically is a very wounding thing to do. It hurts. Sex is one of the most important, intimate ways married couples show that they love one another. Refusing to have sex with your husband is telling him, in a very painful way, that you don’t love him. That you don’t care for him or about him.
Huh. If I hadn’t seen her on video, thus confirming her status as an adult human female, I would have a hard time believing that it was an actual woman saying this and not some horny, creepy teenage boy in the process of trying to manipulate his girlfriend into “going all the way.”
Oh, but she’s got more:
I guess the only way to justify that is to think of men as emotionless. It doesn’t hurt men to be rejected because they don’t feel anything to begin with.
Really? The only way to justify saying “no” to your husband when you don’t want to have sex with him is if you convince yourself he’s emotionless? But women should just force themselves to say “yes” to sex when they don’t want to and simply endure what follows?
That’s the ugly little reality behind female viagara. Will it actually boost women’s libido? Who knows. What difference will it make, though, if women are going to continue to see men as less than completely human? That’s the real problem.
Does anyone know where to get irony meters at a reasonable price? Mine just leapt off the table, ran around the room screaming, and exploded.
Came late to the party but enjoyed meeting David M. Green. His poetry is a hoot, too.
Argenti –
You just helped me in my stats class. Seriously.
So my mother should be shamed because she decided to leave my violent, abusive father for a loving man who actually regards her as fully human? Cool.
Kittehserf wrote:
And you know perfectly well that is NOT what rape means in modern English.
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The reason the English language is unique and remains dynamic is because those who speak it constantly borrow words and their original meanings from other languages.
“The reason the English language is unique and remains dynamic is because those who speak it constantly borrow words and their original meanings from other languages”
LOL seriously? The English language is most definitely not unique in that regard. Learn to linguistics for once.
My official internet diagnosis of DMG fits his initials – driveling misogynist gobshite.
@ Kittehserf
I’m sorry you had to go through that. I know I’m constantly reminded of how lucky I am that I get to go to college. I hope your life is awesome and full of good food and cats and Mr. K now.
@ DMG
Oh poor thing, having to listen to your mother complain about money. Was your father ever legally bound to pay the amount your mother wanted? I really doubt it.
And what’s that? Your father had to make sure the children from all of his marriages didn’t starve? The humanity.
Patty Truthy has gone right to Poe territory.
G’day Mr Al, how’s Boston these days? Still being spat upon, are we?
My boss gets a grand total of…….
160 dollars in child support a month. I guess she is wallowing in luxury now too? Or how about my supervisor who raised the three kids from her marriage by herself after her divorce.
@augochlorella –
“I’m sorry you had to go through that. I know I’m constantly reminded of how lucky I am that I get to go to college. I hope your life is awesome and full of good food and cats and Mr. K now.”
Thank you! The not getting to do uni was the worst bit, I think, because of what it did to my earning prospects. But I think I’ve been very lucky overall. And definitely yes to the food and cats and Mr K! 😀
Maude LL — w00t, awesome! Glad to hear that my random interjections about stats are helpful!
My furry overlord is demanding that I feed her now; here is some brain bleach. byes.
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Twinkle twinkle little misogynist!
How I wonder how you got so screwed up.
(Really, the quicksand thing? Speaking of sociopathic tendencies…)
Oh! Beagle hugging kitty! TEH CUTE!
::swoons::
I have no sympathy for the “fathers shouldn’t have to pay child support” part of MRA, although perhaps the system should have a few reforms.
Not in Boston, sorry; very far from there in fact.
neuroticbeagle wrote:
Only a quarter of all adult women (age 18 and older) with incomes below the poverty line are single mothers. Over half of all poor adult women—54 percent—are single with no dependent children.
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Yet these women continue to choose to work for employers who are well known for paying low wages as well as work in jobs that require less education, less risk and don’t work as many hours than their more successful male counterparts.
That’s all one could expect of an Elam fanboy.
Ah, yes this is your economics degree coming out right David?
Because you know the whole principal of supply and demand right? It applies to employment too.
Look at Americas unemployment rate. Guess what you take what you can get. And guess what even if you have a bachelors degree in economics you can end up working a full time job and still be under the poverty line.
Guess what else! You can work a 60 hour week, EVERY week and work holidays and still get paid shit. Isn’t life ridiculous.
Bye, bye, DMG. Combine the creepiness of those quicksand stories with threatening language towards a commenter here, and you’re going to have to find somewhere else to post.
Good riddance.
melody –
I think the principle is that women work shit jobs on purpose so that they can financially rape nice guys who think that buying a drink to a strange woman will get them laid.
Well that lasted long. If you’re still around, can you see if ProPatria is a repeat customer?
Yeah, “DMG” is better. “David” gets confusing.
Oh how silly of us. All those years of living in poverty and it all could have been solved by simply choosing to not be stuck in a low paying job. If only we had known!
DMG, fuck off.