In a post ostensibly about the imminent arrival of female Viagra, our dear friend JudgyBitch weighs in on yet another subject about which she knows shit: the reasons that women who are not her might not want to have sex with their husbands:
Loss of libido in women, excepting rare medical conditions, in my opinion, is a direct result of not seeing men as emotionally complex beings. If you’re married, at some point, your husband probably stood in front of you and promised to love you forever. Rejecting him physically is a very wounding thing to do. It hurts. Sex is one of the most important, intimate ways married couples show that they love one another. Refusing to have sex with your husband is telling him, in a very painful way, that you don’t love him. That you don’t care for him or about him.
Huh. If I hadn’t seen her on video, thus confirming her status as an adult human female, I would have a hard time believing that it was an actual woman saying this and not some horny, creepy teenage boy in the process of trying to manipulate his girlfriend into “going all the way.”
Oh, but she’s got more:
I guess the only way to justify that is to think of men as emotionless. It doesn’t hurt men to be rejected because they don’t feel anything to begin with.
Really? The only way to justify saying “no” to your husband when you don’t want to have sex with him is if you convince yourself he’s emotionless? But women should just force themselves to say “yes” to sex when they don’t want to and simply endure what follows?
That’s the ugly little reality behind female viagara. Will it actually boost women’s libido? Who knows. What difference will it make, though, if women are going to continue to see men as less than completely human? That’s the real problem.
Does anyone know where to get irony meters at a reasonable price? Mine just leapt off the table, ran around the room screaming, and exploded.
@Argent
“Dada rejected reason and logic, prizing nonsense, irrationality and intuition.”
I don’t know… that actually sounds pretty close to the mark.
Lol, but idk if ProPatria gets that. Also, Christian Dadaism?
Indeed, a big problem with separatism is figuring out policies to trade people, so those who fit better in a different country can move there.
Lovely euphemism. Just call it deportation, alright? No need for sugar.
I mean, that’s the real problem with separatism. People who don’t fit can be deported… sure. They can be torn away from their homes and sent to live in another country, where they are immediately, and more or less eternally, now “the foreigners.”
Personally, I wouldn’t care either way if my home county formed the USSY (United Socialist States of Yorkshire) with the other Yorkshires (there are four of us!) so long as the laws didn’t become draconian nonsense. As long as I was home, I would be fairly happy. But if I didn’t “fit” and was “given the opportunity” to leave, I would be very unhappy. This land is my home… it’s just land, but it’s where I fit on the map. The moors are beautiful, York is beautiful. Even the Humber is beautiful if you don’t look too closely. Other lands are beautiful, true, but they are not beautiful in the way home is. They say that home is where the heart is… and some people take that to mean that home is anywhere is long as you have love there, but it can also mean that your heart will always remain there, no matter where you are in the world. Ever wonder why Israel has so much trouble with their neighbours? I mean beyond the obvious and pointless religious tension.
I know Stee..uh, PPT is banned, but –
“maybe we should try to form our own country somewhere, but where?”
Reddit Island!
I actually checked in on the reddit island subreddit the other day. Sadly, the project seems to have stalled out. Who could ever have forseen that?
(Rhetorical question: obviously every single person on planet earth except for the 30 guys really into it.)
http://www.reddit.com/r/redditisland/
@propatria
Somewhere far away from the rest of us please.
*falls off chair laughing, scares cats*
I really don’t have anything else to say. That’s just hilarious.
Are you sure you don’t want to live in an anarcho-syndicalist commune instead?
Reddit Island is just going to be Lord of the Flies, but with straw feminism accusations or something… Maybe we should install super secret feminist hidden cameras. I’ll get the popcorn if this happens.
ellex, “Help! Help! I’m being repressed!” could be one of the cries of the MRM, fersure! 😀
Even though that’s not how quicksand works, though he seems to have a better idea of quicksand than he does of feminism.
Well, we’re rid of him and Mr Patty Al, mercifully.
til the next sock anyways.
True, true … he really needs to up his game, though. He’s crashed since the days of Steele.
I propose a troll trade! We can give MSteele to AVFM, and they can give us anyone who is not among the 99%.
Hmm, is there anyone over there who’d be less of a douche in zir real persona than all of Mr 99%’s, even with their “boundaries, what are they?” I dunno … still, they might be marginally less boring.
Not really. Death used to do the job quite neatly.
My great-grandmother’s family contained children of five, count them five, marriages. Her mother and father married and produced her and a few more children. Mother died. Father married a widow – with children from her first marriage. Repeat whole process. So children of father’s three marriages plus the children of his second and third wives earlier marriages. Serial monogamy and step-children are not a new or unusual thing in this world.
Personally, being a sissy who likes people to live long rather than die too young, I think easily available divorce is a much better option.
@Kittehs
He spent a lot of time on steele. Might be a while before he comes up with something that …elaborate again.
Speaking of troll trades, I spotted The First Joe over at the Spearhead. He was actually chastising them over the Jimmy Savile case, which didn’t go well.
BWAHAHAHA that’d be funny! Was he telling them they were victim-blaming or should be paying attention to all those dreadful Muslims instead?
He was appalled that they were sticking up for a child molester, so it was probably one of his finer moments. And then he was attacked, since (a) things were different in the 60s and 70s, and (b) those are just allegations.
Oh yeah cause child molestation was much less damaging in the 60s and 70s. /SARCASM!!
I can’t help wondering how long he’ll be able to hold onto the illusion that his political comrades are actually interested in helping men (and are not horrible people).
*There are some good ones. But it’s true the best ones are actually female MRAs like Sunshine Mary.*
This pure MR. AL.