Another in an ongoing series of posts on seminal works in the manosphere canon, as it were. At some point, I’ll make a page for these.
Like Warren Farrell’s The Myth of Male Power, F. Roger Devlin’s 2006 essay Sexual Utopia in Power (downloadable here) is a kind of Manospherian urtext, an original source of many of the terrible ideas that are now accepted as gospel wherever misogynists gather in large numbers online. Though the name of Devlin is hardly as well known as that of Farrell, many of his ideas, most notably his reworked notion of “hypergamy” — which we will get to in a minute — are omnipresent in the manosphere.
Among misogynists with intellectual pretensions, Devlin’s Sexual Utopia is considered a must-read. Originally brought to the attention of fellow manospherians by PUA pseudointellectual Roissy — now Heartiste — in 2007, the essay has received lavish praise on such familiar sites as The Spearhead (where WF Price praised Devlin’s “critiques of feminism” as “some of the best out there”) and A Voice for Men (where one post described the essay as “supremely indispensable.”) It’s listed in the sidebar of The Red Pill subreddit as “required reading.” And Norwegian MRA Eivind Berge gushed that the essay was
possibly the best article I have ever read. My blogging against feminism is almost redundant after F. Roger Devlin has put it so well.
So what exactly are all these guys falling over themselves to praise so highly? To put it bluntly, a strange and sprawling compendium of ideas that range from frankly abhorrent to merely silly, motivated by misogyny and racism. Virtually none of the essay’s many gross generalizations about women (or men) are supported by any sort of evidence.
And did I mention that it originally ran in a white nationalist journal?
Yes, “Sexual Utopia in Power” originally ran in The Occidental Quarterly, an explicitly racist journal that described its mission as protecting “the civilization and free governments that whites have created” from the rise of the evil non-white hordes. Indeed, Devlin is on the editorial advisory board of the journal, which currently features an article on its site praising Disney’s Snow White as “a White Nationalist classic.”
While the bulk of Devlin’s essay deals with gender, not race, it is framed — in the very first sentence — by his concern over what he calls the “catastrophic decline” of “white birthrates worldwide.” In other words, no one who has read his article, even if they don’t know what the Occidental Quarterly is, can possibly miss Devlin’s fundamental racism (which is spelled out even more explicitly at the end of this piece).
There is so much in Devlin’s essay that is so objectionable that it cannot fit in a single post, so today I will focus only on his reworked notion of “hypergamy.”
The term was originally a technical way of saying “marrying up” — that is, “the act or practice of marrying a spouse of higher caste or status than oneself,” as Wikipedia rather unromantically puts it.
In Devlin’s hands, the term comes to mean something entirely different:
It is sometimes said that men are polygamous and women monogamous. …
It would be more accurate to say that the female sexual instinct is hypergamous. Men may have a tendency to seek sexual variety, but women have simple tastes in the manner of Oscar Wilde: They are always satisfied with the best. By definition, only one man can be the best. These different male and female “sexual orientations” are clearly seen among the lower primates, e.g., in a baboon pack. Females compete to mate at the top, males to get to the top.
This may sound vaguely familiar to you. Brian Eno once said of the Velvet Underground’s first album that only 30,000 people may have bought copies of it, but “everyone who bought one of those 30,000 copies started a band.” Similarly, everyone who has read Devlin seems to have started a blog or YouTube channel.
Women, in fact, have a distinctive sexual utopia corresponding to their hypergamous instincts. In its purely utopian form, it has two parts: First, she mates with her incubus, the imaginary perfect man; and, second, he “commits,” or ceases mating with all other women. This is the formula of much pulp romance fiction. The fantasy is strictly utopian, partly because no perfect man exists, but partly also because even if he did, it is logically impossible for him to be the exclusive mate of all the women who desire him.
It is possible, however, to enable women to mate hypergamously, i.e., with the most sexually attractive (handsome or socially dominant) men. In the Ecclesiazusae of Aristophanes the women of Athens stage a coup d’état. They occupy the legislative assembly and barricade their husbands out. Then they proceed to enact a law by which the most attractive males of the city will be compelled to mate with each female in turn, beginning with the least attractive. That is the female sexual utopia in power.
And yes, we are rapidly moving towards the manosphere myth that virtually all women are having sex with the same tiny number of men.
Although there may be only one “alpha male” at the top of the pack at any given time, which one it is changes over time. In human terms, this means the female is fickle, infatuated with no more than one man at any given time, but not naturally loyal to a husband over the course of a lifetime.
From here, it seems, comes the widespread manosphere myth that women are inherently amoral creatures who will instantly dump whatever man they’re with whenever an alpha strolls by.
Devlin is also the apparent source of the related manosphere myth that most men live lives of quiet celibacy.
An important aspect of hypergamy is that it implies the rejection of most males.
Indeed, Devlin is so convinced by this notion that he simply hand-waves away all data to the contrary.
Survey results are occasionally announced apparently indicating male satisfaction with their “sex lives” and female unhappiness with theirs. This creates an impression that there really is “more sex” for men today than before some misguided girls misbehaved themselves forty years ago. …
It is child’s play to show, not merely that this is untrue, but that it cannot be true. … What happens when female sexual desire is liberated is not an increase in the total amount of sex available to men, but a redistribution of the existing supply. Society becomes polygamous. A situation emerges in which most men are desperate for wives, but most women are just as desperately throwing themselves at a very few exceptionally attractive men. …
Sexual liberation really means the Darwinian mating pattern of the baboon pack reappears among humans.
And …. scene!
Devlin is sometimes described as an “independent scholar,” but even aside from its misogyny and racism “Sexual Utopia in Power” is anything but scholarly. There are only a relative handful of footnotes, which don’t come close to backing up Devlin’s numerous factual claims. Most of the footnotes refer to the writings not of scholars but of conservative and far-right journalists. One links to an article on the racist hate site VDare.com; another favorably cites this article by Henry Makow, an early Men’s Rights Activist turned conspiracy theorist who literally believes that feminists are in league with an evil Satanic-Illuminati cult that rules the world.
Devlin offers precisely zero evidence to back up his claims about hypergamy — aside from a couple of surveys, whose conclusions he rejects, and several quotes from literature, including that one from Oscar Wilde. The rest is, to use the formal term for it, assdata.
Nonetheless, the manosphere has adopted Devlin’s new-and-not-improved version of “hypergamy” with enthusiasm. I won’t even bother citing examples; a Google search for “manosphere” and “hypergamy” brings up 17,700 results. Hell, there are several dozen articles about hypergamy on A Voice for Men alone. And of course I’ve written about the manosphere obsession with hypergamy many times before.
But so far essentially the only people who have picked up on this particular definition of hypergamy have been misogynists, pickup artists, MRAs and others vaguely associated with, or around, the manosphere. The only academic I know of who has ever even addressed Devlin’s peculiar thesis is libertarian economist Tyler Cowan, who wrote about it briefly, and I think accurately, on his blog several years back.
This essay is not politically correct and at times it is misogynous and yes I believe the author is evil (seriously). The main behavioral assumption is that women are fickle. So they are monogamous at points of time but not over time; Devlin then solves for the resulting equilibrium, so to speak. The birth rate falls, for one thing. The piece also claims that the modern “abolition” of marriage strengthens the attractive at the expense of the unattractive. Some of you will hate the piece. I disagree with the central conclusion, and also the motivation, but it does seem to count as a new idea.
As an actual idea, new or old, this is probably all the consideration Devlin‘s version of “hypergamy” really deserves. But as a case study in the history and sociology of bad ideas, the strange story of Devlin’s hypergamy is a bit more interesting, and I no doubt will return to it in future posts.
There is also a good deal in Devlin’s essay that’s a good deal worse than his discussion of hypergamy, and I’ll be coming back to that as well.
WTF? Why can’t you masturbate? Its a lot quicker and easier, and doesn’t need someone else to help you fulfill it.
And what sorts of evidence to you have here? Also, where do bi women fall? Can I find someone to fuck easily?
Also, if all the straight women are only going after attractive guys, won’t they have incredibly high competition, and therefore it’d be hard to get laid? Or are the attractive guys super busy, like “hold on, I’ve got Clarisse in at 800, but if I take a quick shower and rush over I can be at your place by 1100…”
Just like any man can, as long as they are indifferent to who the layer is.
MRAs make it sound like any woman, no matter how conventionally unattractive, can walk into a bar and pick up a conventionally attractive man for sex, anytime they choose. Citation required cos I’m thinking bullshit!
Of course, now that I’m a dried up old harridan, I’m temptied to walk into a bar one night and demand sex. Just to see how many offers I get. I’m thinking none, except possibly from some bloke too drunk to perform.
Fucking someone who you don’t like and aren’t attracted to doesn’t cure loneliness, for most people. If you’re attempting to make it do so…well, that’s a big part of your problem right there. Fucking strangers is not a substitute for relationships (romantic or otherwise) and won’t give you the emotional support that relationships provide.
Also, what hellkell said. Behavior patterns tend to have a certain consistency in individuals. People who demonstrate poor boundaries in some situations almost always demonstrate them in others. What your behavior here shows us is that when people tell you that they don’t like you and don’t want to be around you, you don’t care, and you insist on continuing the interaction no matter how much the other person protests. I can see why you don’t like us pointing this out and noting what it tells us about your behavior and respect for boundaries in general, but that doesn’t change the fact that the behavioral patterns in question is obvious to anyone who’s seen your comments here.
If you had any respect for other people’s boundaries and wishes you’d have stopped coming here to tell us your tales of PUA woe a long time ago.
Cassandra: But his tales of PUA woe are all out of date. He’s much better than 1:300, these days he’s probably down to 1:75, all is splendid, and he teaches other men how to have this phenomenal success with women.
Now, there is the question: If women are complaining they can’t get laid,and he’s out there talking to that many (since it’s reasonable to assume he isn’t managing 75 approaches in an evening), and we assume that these are women who are (in the main) not in a relationship which precludes them from having a roll in the hay with him (or his ilk) then the idea that any woman can get laid anytime founders.
Because it only works if any woman would be willing to sleep with any man; which is contra the core tenet of PUA, which is that women don’t want to sleep with just anyone, but with the Secrets of PUA you can trick them into thinking you are (for a night at least) The One they want.
But even so EuroSabra is complaining that it’s hard work, even after his attainment of mastery (from years of perfecting his technique, and the mild-gaslighting he has resort to, “occasionally”).
Given that he’s yet to convince us of, well, anything, even that he’s one of many that we’d like to talk to, I can’t say I’m buying the idea that he has the social skills to talk anyone into anything.
Wtf is “Gaslighting”? I’ve been skimming all these comments and I must have missed it…
Gaslighting is a form of manipulation/abuse, where things the gaslighter knows to be false are presented as true; this includes telling the victim things which the victim knows to be true are false.
Eurosabra says he “used to”, SOMETIMES, engage in, “mild” gaslighting, because if he didn’t he couldn’t trick women in to sleeping with him.
But he doesn’t do that any more, and he respects boundaries and is all for total (and enthusiastic) consent.
And pig fly out my ass when I shit.
Auggie: Gaslighting = making someone doubt themselves, especially their sanity or ability to reason, usually by saying something they’re experiencing doesn’t exist. Comes from the movie “Gaslight”.
Eurosabra: No, women can’t “get sex anytime they want”. For one thing, SOME OF US ARE GAY, SHITHEAD. And don’t pretend for a second that excluding us was accidental; it’s a feature of your worldview. Second…uh, no? Het women are straight-up telling you that they have trouble finding sex partners. Therefore, they do. I can’t imagine how little a man would have to think of women to make a statement that, by definition, requires the input of women to be examined, and when women provide this input, just go “nah, I’m right, you’re lying”.
And even if that were true, why would you think that’s a good thing? My absolute favourite analogy is applicable here: if a chicken walked into Chick Fil A and asked who was ready and willing to eat her, everyone there would stand up. That doesn’t mean it’s a good thing, or that she has power or privilege over humans or even that she can use it as a bargaining chip to improve her situation; merely, that humans view her as a thing that provides them with a service they enjoy.
Can you not masturbate, Eurosabra?
Auggie: I don’t care that he does, I just want him to stop doing it here.
Masturbating or gaslighting?
Gaslighting your hand is no fun.
Masturbating. I want him to stop gaslighting everywhere, but I’ll settle for him not coming here to wank. Given what appears to be his fundamental nature, I don’t see either happening.
This whole conversation reminds me of when I was talking to a male friend and said something about how I could never get a date when I was in high school, because everyone knew I was a mental case, and that was such a huge stigma, I was just “the freak”. And he goes “NOOOO that can’t be true because you’re ATTRACTIVE and ATTRACTIVE women can ALWAYS get dates”. Uh, you’re absolutely right, of course I’ve always had tons of dates, I just made up that story for… reasons?
The notion that there are no women who can’t get sex at will is laughably easy to disprove (I know some). The notion that there are no (non-rock-star) men who can get sex at will is laughably easy to disprove (probably there are several such manboobzers).
I’d be willing to accept that, due to patriarchal pressures and socalization, there may be a higher number of women who can get sex at will with partners they actually want. But the actual disparity or the meaning of that disparity doesn’t seem to have anything to do with what any of our troll friends are talking about.
@wordsp1nner
Any time I hear this hypergamy crap, I immediately think about the most pure and clearcut example of this set up that I can think of, and I can’t believe that most of the MRA/PUA theorizers somehow miss it so constantly – the FLDS. If you want to see hypergamy in action as it is most often practiced (and not by women themselves as these deluded idiots would like to think). “Women” (often preteen girls) are traded and collected by “alpha” men – powerful leaders in the church who use their seniority and standing to compel the sexual availability of whomever they choose, while the omega men (usually boys) are literally cut out, not just of the mating and marriage game but out of the community completely, often to live on the streets, shunned by their community and forbidden to communicate with their families.
This? Modernity, gender equity and feminism didn’t produce this. It’s not clear to me that you could possibly find a more misogynist, anti-feminist social arrangement than this.
(Of course, many of the self-loathing, self described ‘beta’ and ‘omega’ guys probably think that such structurings would provide them with a partner whom they would not have to work to woo, and who would not be free to decline their pairing or leave them for a more preferable partner, so they might not have a problem with such a social arrangement. Of course, the reality is that they would most likely be yet another one of those “surplus” males cast out to live on the street without the comfort or support of, or even contact with, their families.)
The simple lonely guy who might not be having much luck on the dating scene at some point in his life may be worthy of compassion and sympathy (and even friendship if it wasn’t too horrifying and soul-crushing for them to suffer the indignity of being befriended by women), but they don’t really have it all that bad. Sure it sucks to be alone when you don’t want to be, but for all that they try to aggrandize loneliness and lack of success in dating into a life-threatening condition, they are not the ones who are suffering the worst effects of a ‘hypergamous’ social situation, and the normal modern social order has nothing on these incongruous holdovers from the ‘bad old days’ of our social past.
@Inurashii: Exactly. I’m not saying that it’s precisely as easy for a man as for a woman. If you took a hetero man and a hetero woman who had equal social skills, and, say, the average man would rate the woman a “five” on some stupid ranking system and the average woman would likewise rate the man a “five” – then yeah, I’d think the woman would find it a bit easier to find a decent one-night-stand than the man. But going from “a bit easier for the woman” to “any woman can get sex any time she likes but for all men it’s super hard” is really a leap.
Okay, I’m a little confused. How would an average women find it easier finding a man to go home with than the average man? Is it because she can like walk up to a man and be “hey, you wanna have sex?” and he’d be less likely than a woman responding to man to think she might rape him or to think he’d be slut shamed for sleeping with someone?
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/i just don’t feel like i’m getting this, sorry
@Fade: Pretty much those two points. I think the average woman is a little more wary than the average man when it comes to having one-night-stands, because a) higher rape risk, and b) more slut-shaming directed towards women.
So, maybe out of a hundred single women ten are into one-night-stands, and out of a hundred single men twenty are into one-night-stands. (Obviously I just pulled these numbers out of my arse and unlike our dear trolls I won’t pretend otherwise; maybe it isn’t so, but I think it plausibly could be.)
Ah, that makes a little more sense.
I can understand more men wanting one night stands than women, b/c see aforementioned slut shaming and higher rape risk. Only MRAs would try to turn this (not huge difference) into SLUTS LOOKING FOR THE BEST MAN HYPERGAMY RAGE!!!
Fade: Okay, I’m a little confused. How would an average women find it easier finding a man to go home with than the average man? Is it because she can like walk up to a man and be “hey, you wanna have sex?” and he’d be less likely than a woman responding to man to think she might rape him or to think he’d be slut shamed for sleeping with someone?
The studies on this say it’s actually more subtle than that.
1: both people enjoy sex.
2: both people want to have a good time, while having sex.
3: Men are more certain to have said good time with a random person.
As a result women who ask men are more likely to have one say yes, even in situations where slut-shaming isn’t an issue (e.g. someone who is out of town on a trip and around complete strangers).
I only post on PUA-related threads, and perceptions of scarcity and social disorder like Devlin’s are at the root of PUA. Even more than friendzoning, which has lately been de-emphasized. More PUA noobs now complain of being unattractive, “Friends into Lovers” is a Ross Jeffries thing from the 90s.
Oh! Is THAT what that idiotic non sequitur was supposed to mean?
Nope. And you can’t just want to listen to the music, you must ipsie-factie want to bang the lead singer (not the bass guitarist or the drummer, either, just the singer!!)
@Eurosabra
So, perceptions of a deranged racist, with no backing in anthropology or psychology, are at the root of your worldview?