Another in an ongoing series of posts on seminal works in the manosphere canon, as it were. At some point, I’ll make a page for these.
Like Warren Farrell’s The Myth of Male Power, F. Roger Devlin’s 2006 essay Sexual Utopia in Power (downloadable here) is a kind of Manospherian urtext, an original source of many of the terrible ideas that are now accepted as gospel wherever misogynists gather in large numbers online. Though the name of Devlin is hardly as well known as that of Farrell, many of his ideas, most notably his reworked notion of “hypergamy” — which we will get to in a minute — are omnipresent in the manosphere.
Among misogynists with intellectual pretensions, Devlin’s Sexual Utopia is considered a must-read. Originally brought to the attention of fellow manospherians by PUA pseudointellectual Roissy — now Heartiste — in 2007, the essay has received lavish praise on such familiar sites as The Spearhead (where WF Price praised Devlin’s “critiques of feminism” as “some of the best out there”) and A Voice for Men (where one post described the essay as “supremely indispensable.”) It’s listed in the sidebar of The Red Pill subreddit as “required reading.” And Norwegian MRA Eivind Berge gushed that the essay was
possibly the best article I have ever read. My blogging against feminism is almost redundant after F. Roger Devlin has put it so well.
So what exactly are all these guys falling over themselves to praise so highly? To put it bluntly, a strange and sprawling compendium of ideas that range from frankly abhorrent to merely silly, motivated by misogyny and racism. Virtually none of the essay’s many gross generalizations about women (or men) are supported by any sort of evidence.
And did I mention that it originally ran in a white nationalist journal?
Yes, “Sexual Utopia in Power” originally ran in The Occidental Quarterly, an explicitly racist journal that described its mission as protecting “the civilization and free governments that whites have created” from the rise of the evil non-white hordes. Indeed, Devlin is on the editorial advisory board of the journal, which currently features an article on its site praising Disney’s Snow White as “a White Nationalist classic.”
While the bulk of Devlin’s essay deals with gender, not race, it is framed — in the very first sentence — by his concern over what he calls the “catastrophic decline” of “white birthrates worldwide.” In other words, no one who has read his article, even if they don’t know what the Occidental Quarterly is, can possibly miss Devlin’s fundamental racism (which is spelled out even more explicitly at the end of this piece).
There is so much in Devlin’s essay that is so objectionable that it cannot fit in a single post, so today I will focus only on his reworked notion of “hypergamy.”
The term was originally a technical way of saying “marrying up” — that is, “the act or practice of marrying a spouse of higher caste or status than oneself,” as Wikipedia rather unromantically puts it.
In Devlin’s hands, the term comes to mean something entirely different:
It is sometimes said that men are polygamous and women monogamous. …
It would be more accurate to say that the female sexual instinct is hypergamous. Men may have a tendency to seek sexual variety, but women have simple tastes in the manner of Oscar Wilde: They are always satisfied with the best. By definition, only one man can be the best. These different male and female “sexual orientations” are clearly seen among the lower primates, e.g., in a baboon pack. Females compete to mate at the top, males to get to the top.
This may sound vaguely familiar to you. Brian Eno once said of the Velvet Underground’s first album that only 30,000 people may have bought copies of it, but “everyone who bought one of those 30,000 copies started a band.” Similarly, everyone who has read Devlin seems to have started a blog or YouTube channel.
Women, in fact, have a distinctive sexual utopia corresponding to their hypergamous instincts. In its purely utopian form, it has two parts: First, she mates with her incubus, the imaginary perfect man; and, second, he “commits,” or ceases mating with all other women. This is the formula of much pulp romance fiction. The fantasy is strictly utopian, partly because no perfect man exists, but partly also because even if he did, it is logically impossible for him to be the exclusive mate of all the women who desire him.
It is possible, however, to enable women to mate hypergamously, i.e., with the most sexually attractive (handsome or socially dominant) men. In the Ecclesiazusae of Aristophanes the women of Athens stage a coup d’état. They occupy the legislative assembly and barricade their husbands out. Then they proceed to enact a law by which the most attractive males of the city will be compelled to mate with each female in turn, beginning with the least attractive. That is the female sexual utopia in power.
And yes, we are rapidly moving towards the manosphere myth that virtually all women are having sex with the same tiny number of men.
Although there may be only one “alpha male” at the top of the pack at any given time, which one it is changes over time. In human terms, this means the female is fickle, infatuated with no more than one man at any given time, but not naturally loyal to a husband over the course of a lifetime.
From here, it seems, comes the widespread manosphere myth that women are inherently amoral creatures who will instantly dump whatever man they’re with whenever an alpha strolls by.
Devlin is also the apparent source of the related manosphere myth that most men live lives of quiet celibacy.
An important aspect of hypergamy is that it implies the rejection of most males.
Indeed, Devlin is so convinced by this notion that he simply hand-waves away all data to the contrary.
Survey results are occasionally announced apparently indicating male satisfaction with their “sex lives” and female unhappiness with theirs. This creates an impression that there really is “more sex” for men today than before some misguided girls misbehaved themselves forty years ago. …
It is child’s play to show, not merely that this is untrue, but that it cannot be true. … What happens when female sexual desire is liberated is not an increase in the total amount of sex available to men, but a redistribution of the existing supply. Society becomes polygamous. A situation emerges in which most men are desperate for wives, but most women are just as desperately throwing themselves at a very few exceptionally attractive men. …
Sexual liberation really means the Darwinian mating pattern of the baboon pack reappears among humans.
And …. scene!
Devlin is sometimes described as an “independent scholar,” but even aside from its misogyny and racism “Sexual Utopia in Power” is anything but scholarly. There are only a relative handful of footnotes, which don’t come close to backing up Devlin’s numerous factual claims. Most of the footnotes refer to the writings not of scholars but of conservative and far-right journalists. One links to an article on the racist hate site VDare.com; another favorably cites this article by Henry Makow, an early Men’s Rights Activist turned conspiracy theorist who literally believes that feminists are in league with an evil Satanic-Illuminati cult that rules the world.
Devlin offers precisely zero evidence to back up his claims about hypergamy — aside from a couple of surveys, whose conclusions he rejects, and several quotes from literature, including that one from Oscar Wilde. The rest is, to use the formal term for it, assdata.
Nonetheless, the manosphere has adopted Devlin’s new-and-not-improved version of “hypergamy” with enthusiasm. I won’t even bother citing examples; a Google search for “manosphere” and “hypergamy” brings up 17,700 results. Hell, there are several dozen articles about hypergamy on A Voice for Men alone. And of course I’ve written about the manosphere obsession with hypergamy many times before.
But so far essentially the only people who have picked up on this particular definition of hypergamy have been misogynists, pickup artists, MRAs and others vaguely associated with, or around, the manosphere. The only academic I know of who has ever even addressed Devlin’s peculiar thesis is libertarian economist Tyler Cowan, who wrote about it briefly, and I think accurately, on his blog several years back.
This essay is not politically correct and at times it is misogynous and yes I believe the author is evil (seriously). The main behavioral assumption is that women are fickle. So they are monogamous at points of time but not over time; Devlin then solves for the resulting equilibrium, so to speak. The birth rate falls, for one thing. The piece also claims that the modern “abolition” of marriage strengthens the attractive at the expense of the unattractive. Some of you will hate the piece. I disagree with the central conclusion, and also the motivation, but it does seem to count as a new idea.
As an actual idea, new or old, this is probably all the consideration Devlin‘s version of “hypergamy” really deserves. But as a case study in the history and sociology of bad ideas, the strange story of Devlin’s hypergamy is a bit more interesting, and I no doubt will return to it in future posts.
There is also a good deal in Devlin’s essay that’s a good deal worse than his discussion of hypergamy, and I’ll be coming back to that as well.
I am reminded of the time I had an online argument with a guy who tried to convince me that women were “naturally” prostitutes because female chimps had been observed having sex with a male chimp who had earlier given her some fruit he found.
So if a dude’s wife makes him dinner and he later sleeps with her, all men are naturally prostitutes? Hey, it’s the logical extrapolation.
Everyone’s property in Schechem.
Did any “Westerners” live as hunter gatherers more recently than ca. 10,000BCE?
I think the errors are in the absolutist claim to universality. But Devlin may be right about the USA now.
My first blockquote fail, it’s like a rite of passage.
I think you mean their wives are KIDNAPPED (stolen implies they’re property) and raped.
I noticed the word usage too, but I’m even more fascinated by the notion that women being kidnapped, raped, and enslaved, and their husbands murdered by the kidnappers, is an example of women exercising “hypergamy.” Yeah, they totally chose that situation.
@Eurosabra
Women are not property, period. Don’t try to brush this off with an “everyone’s property in Schechem” or w/e, especially since women have been treated as property in LOTS of places and LOTS of time. And it would still be KIDNAPPING. Being treated as property doesn’t mean that you BECOME property
Also, you’re forgetting that even if people are treated as property, that doesn’t mean you have to contribute to it. You have the choice not to be misogynistic.
Cookies that look like kitties can only lead to tears.
Eurosabra,
Sorry, I was referring to the human evolutionary environment, in which any hypothetical inherently human mating strategy would have arisen. Jericho, Ai and the Book of Joshua are all at least 100,000 years too late.
And as others have pointed out, being kidnapped by men from alien tribes or city-states is not hypergamy.
Well, if they interpret things that are done to women as things that women choose to do then that does rather explain how they reach such ridiculous conclusions.
What I’m saying is that you guys are dumb, really really dumb.
I don’t think either Bob Goblin or myself claimed that h-g society or post-ag violence and hierarchy were female-driven hypergamy. As for “stolen”, perhaps too much Biblical perspective. Ba’al/Ishah =/= “husband/wife.”
So your misogyny was okay because there’s misogyny in the bible?
Reminds me why I don’t go to church anymore…
The real problem to me is that these guys are completely re-defining a word, so when you first hear them talk about hypergamy you think they’re going to say something with some merit and meaning (until you understand what MRA’s/manosphere mean by the term.)
As for the ACTUAL definition of hypergamy… yeah… that’s really common, a lot of women do “marry up” or want to. (But then I’m sure by many definitions many men would be considered to have “married up” as well.) This is not in any kind of real dispute, though I think this is also influenced by opportunities. Women who have stable, secure finances outside of a man don’t “need” to “marry up” because it’s not a survival necessity like it once was (and these guys conveniently forget that… that women weren’t ‘hypergamous’ because they were evil shrews but because they… wanted to live… and not starve… and have enough for their children. Oh how evil and horrible! Those bitches!), maybe some still want to, but my guess is (and I have no scientific basis for this just personal intuition) is that for a lot of women it doesn’t become nearly as big of a deal whether they “marry up” or not. But, women for whom it “isn’t” a big deal if they date or marry a man of lesser means than them… they may still have to deal with it being a big deal “to him”.
I think both genders in a culture of serial monogamy often experience “grass is greener” syndrome. I don’t think it’s limited to women. I also don’t think people must act on every feeling they ever randomly have. i.e. you might have a fleeting feeling that “What if I’d married that person instead” but it doesn’t mean you run out and have an affair. The implication that women are just cheating harlots who, even if they did have a hypergamous feeling, are therefore obligated to act upon it is pretty disgusting.
If the only kinds of women these men know is women like what they describe, then maybe they should look at who they are and what they are doing, because like attracts like. You can’t always blame attracting low rent people into your life on an entire gender. (Actually you can never do that, but it doesn’t stop these guys!)
Argenti: Ehh, I haz a wary on your logic Bob, it needs the note of “if you’re hurting people in the process” — see that conversation on the trans* thread (the thread is trans*!) about otherkin. I really don’t care as long as they aren’t hurting anyone.
But the PUA/MRM aren’t limiting this to how they deal with the world as it is. They are arguing the rest of the world needs to change to meet their expectations.
Eurosabra, let me work North to South?
Inuits
Attikamekw — a Cree band
Iroquois — partially hunter-gatherer, matrilineal
Navajo
Amazonia still has more than a few hunter gatherer tribes:
Pirahā
Aché
You want more? All of those are within the last couple hundred years, or still hunter-gatherer, so yes more recently than ca. 10,000 BCE
. The book Sex at Dawn is crap.
The problem with mapping any animals behavior to ours is that we aren’t them. There is no way to say, “we are most like them, because they are most like us,” because we aren’t them.
In some ways we could compare ourselves to dophins (no visible estrous.
The thing is that studying ourselves teaches us one thing of critical importance: there is no biologically determined pattern of mating.
Dave: Also, I love that you guys know about eleventy billion times more about baboons and apes and evolution than Devlin. Also, that he even got the plot of the Aristophanes play wrong. And that you guys posted all this stuff utterly and totally demolishing him less than 2 hours after my post went up.
This is our “tribe”. Smart people who like to share information: and think people ought to be treated well.
I think MRA’s like to tell themselves this, because It explains their lack of success with women. It’s easier than having to face the fact that they’re unattractive and entirely lacking in charm.
Thanks for the history lesson. I’d never heard the word hypergamy until I started lurking on some MRA sites like Dalrock and Sunshine Mary. I thought I was stupid for not being familiar with the concept.
The scariest bloggers in my opinion are the women mras who preach about this. They often write about how hypergamy is so ingrained in us that we can’t help ditching our hubbys just for the chance of finding someone better. Just like we can’t help sleeping with alphas, I guess.
Pecunium — sorta? I’m still wary of a pronoun argument from the likes of Joe or Brz. That saying they’re unreasonable of expecting society to change means we’re unreasonable (especially, folks like me who just scoff at the whole binary thing and range from “I don’t care” to “androgyny please” to “take your gender standards and chew on this!”). Like, even if they can accept calling trans* women by female pronouns, I want to change the language. The hurting people argument is a better one I think.
Also, Eurosabra needs to learn how to google.
“And I’ve never known a young woman to enjoy playing around with guys feelings just to get them to put their cards on the table and admit they have feelings for her – before pocketing the ego boost…”
You know, I’ve done this [I’m a dude, obviously.] I’m married and a stay at home dad and I am quite used to having close friendships with women I’m attracted to. It generally works fine but there was one woman who I really liked and without realizing it on a truly conscious level I sort of took us down a path that eventually led to her revealing some pretty intense feelings for me. This caused some heartache which is putting it mildly. It was a really bad mistake by me that led to some very severe hurt feelings and strain on multiple familiies.
Which is just to say, you know, this stuff is hard. People make mistakes in matters of the heart. It’s not because we’re evil or conniving or even consciously selfish. It’s just something that happens because people misstep and behave in ways that aren’t just and don’t realize it until it’s too late.
So if you feel like a “young woman” manipulated you and intentionally got you on the hook so she could bask in the glory of your love and then ditch you… I mean, maybe she did. But maybe she’s just a normal person like you who is doing the best she can. Not everything is a big conspiracy.
@Just Julia
I’d argue that MRA women talking about how they’re selfish and out of control is reflective of a broader general trend in MRA’s, namely that they have no trust in human capacity to act rationally.
Think about it, they constantly go on about following “ancient wisdom,” and how if you go against it, you’re doomed to fall (and, of course, argue that “ignorance of women’s nature” is bringing us down). Essentially, we can’t progress, we’re stuck within a broken human condition of women ruining everything.
“This is our “tribe”. Smart people who like to share information: and think people ought to be treated well.”
*cheers* But you forgot the funny people who want to learn and think people ought to be treated well. This isn’t Mensa after all, there’s no test for entry besides passing “being a decent human being 101”
But yes, we seem to collect smart people (and smart asses, and people who are both *cough*)
Can Eurosabra ever not be creepy?
I would add that I asked about Westerners, and all of the peoples you mentioned were/are colonized by the West, even the technically-sovereign Iroquois.
hellkell, Eurosabra could post nothing but kitten videos and the creepiness would still flood off of him in waves.
QFT!
Plus those of us who like posting pics, relevant or not. 😉
Fawkner Park looked lovely this grey and soggy morning.