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Hypergamy: How the harebrained notions of white nationalist F. Roger Devlin took the Manosphere by storm

Hypergamy in action?
How manosphere doofuses think the world actually works.

Another in an ongoing series of posts on seminal works in the manosphere canon, as it were. At some point, I’ll make a page for these.

Like Warren Farrell’s The Myth of Male Power, F. Roger Devlin’s 2006 essay Sexual Utopia in Power (downloadable here) is a kind of Manospherian urtext, an original source of many of the terrible ideas that are now accepted as gospel wherever misogynists gather in large numbers online. Though the name of Devlin is hardly as well known as that of Farrell, many of his ideas, most notably his reworked notion of “hypergamy” — which we will get to in a minute — are omnipresent in the manosphere.

Among misogynists with intellectual pretensions, Devlin’s Sexual Utopia is considered a must-read. Originally brought to the attention of fellow manospherians by PUA pseudointellectual Roissy — now Heartiste — in 2007, the essay has received lavish praise on such familiar sites as The Spearhead (where WF Price praised Devlin’s “critiques of feminism” as “some of the best out there”) and A Voice for Men (where one post described the essay as “supremely indispensable.”)  It’s listed in the sidebar of The Red Pill subreddit as “required reading.” And Norwegian MRA Eivind Berge gushed that the essay was

possibly the best article I have ever read. My blogging against feminism is almost redundant after F. Roger Devlin has put it so well.

So what exactly are all these guys falling over themselves to praise so highly? To put it bluntly, a strange and sprawling compendium of ideas that range from frankly abhorrent to merely silly, motivated by misogyny and racism. Virtually none of the essay’s many gross generalizations about women (or men) are supported by any sort of evidence.

And did I mention that it originally ran in a white nationalist journal?

Yes, “Sexual Utopia in Power” originally ran in The Occidental Quarterly, an explicitly racist journal that described its mission as protecting “the civilization and free governments that whites have created” from the rise of the evil non-white hordes. Indeed, Devlin is on the editorial advisory board of the journal, which currently features an article on its site praising Disney’s Snow White as “a White Nationalist classic.”

While the bulk of Devlin’s essay deals with gender, not race, it is framed — in the very first sentence — by his concern over what he calls the “catastrophic decline” of “white birthrates worldwide.” In other words, no one who has read his article, even if they don’t know what the Occidental Quarterly is, can possibly miss Devlin’s fundamental racism (which is spelled out even more explicitly at the end of this piece).

There is so much in Devlin’s essay that is so objectionable that it cannot fit in a single post, so today I will focus only on his reworked notion of “hypergamy.”

The term was originally a technical way of saying “marrying up” — that is, “the act or practice of marrying a spouse of higher caste or status than oneself,” as Wikipedia rather unromantically puts it.

In Devlin’s hands, the term comes to mean something entirely different:

It is sometimes said that men are polygamous and women monogamous. …

It would be more accurate to say that the female sexual instinct is hypergamous. Men may have a tendency to seek sexual variety, but women have simple tastes in the manner of Oscar Wilde: They are always satisfied with the best. By definition, only one man can be the best. These different male and female “sexual orientations” are clearly seen among the lower primates, e.g., in a baboon pack. Females compete to mate at the top, males to get to the top.

This may sound vaguely familiar to you. Brian Eno once said of the Velvet Underground’s first album that only 30,000 people may have bought copies of it, but “everyone who bought one of those 30,000 copies started a band.” Similarly, everyone who has read Devlin seems to have started a blog or YouTube channel.

Women, in fact, have a distinctive sexual utopia corresponding to their hypergamous instincts. In its purely utopian form, it has two parts: First, she mates with her incubus, the imaginary perfect man; and, second, he “commits,” or ceases mating with all other women. This is the formula of much pulp romance fiction. The fantasy is strictly utopian, partly because no perfect man exists, but partly also because even if he did, it is logically impossible for him to be the exclusive mate of all the women who desire him.

It is possible, however, to enable women to mate hypergamously, i.e., with the most sexually attractive (handsome or socially dominant) men. In the Ecclesiazusae of Aristophanes the women of Athens stage a coup d’état. They occupy the legislative assembly and barricade their husbands out. Then they proceed to enact a law by which the most attractive males of the city will be compelled to mate with each female in turn, beginning with the least attractive. That is the female sexual utopia in power.

And yes, we are rapidly moving towards the manosphere myth that virtually all women are having sex with the same tiny number of men.

Although there may be only one “alpha male” at the top of the pack at any given time, which one it is changes over time. In human terms, this means the female is fickle, infatuated with no more than one man at any given time, but not naturally loyal to a husband over the course of a lifetime.

From here, it seems, comes the widespread manosphere myth that women are inherently amoral creatures who will instantly dump whatever man they’re with whenever an alpha strolls by.

Devlin is also the apparent source of the related manosphere myth that most men live lives of quiet celibacy.

An important aspect of hypergamy is that it implies the rejection of most males.

Indeed, Devlin is so convinced by this notion that he simply hand-waves away all data to the contrary.

Survey results are occasionally announced apparently indicating male satisfaction with their “sex lives” and female unhappiness with theirs. This creates an impression that there really is “more sex” for men today than before some misguided girls misbehaved themselves forty years ago. …

It is child’s play to show, not merely that this is untrue, but that it cannot be true. … What happens when female sexual desire is liberated is not an increase in the total amount of sex available to men, but a redistribution of the existing supply. Society becomes polygamous. A situation emerges in which most men are desperate for wives, but most women are just as desperately throwing themselves at a very few exceptionally attractive men.  …

Sexual liberation really means the Darwinian mating pattern of the baboon pack reappears among humans.

And …. scene!

Devlin is sometimes described as an “independent scholar,” but even aside from its misogyny and racism “Sexual Utopia in Power” is anything but scholarly. There are only a relative handful of footnotes, which don’t come close to backing up Devlin’s numerous factual claims. Most of the footnotes refer to the writings not of scholars but of conservative and far-right journalists. One links to an article on the racist hate site VDare.com; another favorably cites this article by Henry Makow, an early Men’s Rights Activist turned conspiracy theorist who literally believes that feminists are in league with an evil Satanic-Illuminati cult that rules the world.

Devlin offers precisely zero evidence to back up his claims about hypergamy — aside from a couple of surveys, whose conclusions he rejects, and several quotes from literature, including that one from Oscar Wilde. The rest is, to use the formal term for it, assdata.

Nonetheless, the manosphere has adopted Devlin’s new-and-not-improved version of “hypergamy” with enthusiasm. I won’t even bother citing examples; a Google search for “manosphere” and “hypergamy” brings up 17,700 results. Hell, there are several dozen articles about hypergamy on A Voice for Men alone. And of course I’ve written about the manosphere obsession with hypergamy many times before.

But so far essentially the only people who have picked up on this particular definition of hypergamy have been misogynists, pickup artists, MRAs and others vaguely associated with, or around, the manosphere. The only academic I know of who has ever even addressed Devlin’s peculiar thesis is libertarian economist Tyler Cowan, who wrote about it briefly, and I think accurately, on his blog several years back.

This essay is not politically correct and at times it is misogynous and yes I believe the author is evil (seriously).  The main behavioral assumption is that women are fickle.  So they are monogamous at points of time but not over time; Devlin then solves for the resulting equilibrium, so to speak.  The birth rate falls, for one thing.  The piece also claims that the modern “abolition” of marriage strengthens the attractive at the expense of the unattractive.  Some of you will hate the piece.  I disagree with the central conclusion, and also the motivation, but it does seem to count as a new idea.

As an actual idea, new or old, this is probably all the consideration  Devlin‘s version of “hypergamy” really deserves. But as a case study in the history and sociology of bad ideas, the strange story of Devlin’s hypergamy is a bit more interesting, and I no doubt will return to it in future posts.

There is also a good deal in Devlin’s essay that’s a good deal worse than his discussion of hypergamy, and I’ll be coming back to that as well.

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Zanana the Pegging Queen
Zanana the Pegging Queen
11 years ago

I’ve heard this is supported by the increasingly popular Women Don’t All Share The Same Brain, You Ignorant Jackass hypothesis

Seriously.

A highlight of my week was that the same a-hole called me both “hypergamous” (because my boyfriend is older than me) and “having low standards” (because I’m poly).

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Wait, what if you’re poly and will only fuck people who’re really hot? How would that fit into this theoretical framework?

Shaenon
11 years ago

I am reminded of the time I had an online argument with a guy who tried to convince me that women were “naturally” prostitutes because female chimps had been observed having sex with a male chimp who had earlier given her some fruit he found. To my unworthy opponent, this was clearly a transaction; it didn’t even occur to him that maybe the two chimps were friends, and he gave her food because friends do nice things for each other, and she had sex with him because she liked him.

God, I remember when that study came out, and the media universally reported it as “Chimps Engage in Prostitution!” rather than the more accurate but admittedly less grabby “Chimps Share Food!”

If I remember correctly, the actual behavior observed was that some of the males in a captive group saved up special treats to share with females they liked. Which, even if you insist on anthropomorphizing animals, is more “romantic gesture” than “cruising for monkey hookers.”

annabanana12698
11 years ago

@Shaenon
Wait, seriously? There was nothing better to write an article on besides monkey whores?

Kittehserf
11 years ago

@Rane – “Why on earth is it wrong to want to date and maybe marry someone makes you happy?”

Because that person will never, never be an MRA.

mollymixtures
mollymixtures
11 years ago

Am I weird in thinking that the female chimps who accepted the shared treats were more likely to become familiar with the male chimps who shared said treats with them, and thus became more comfortable/emotionally close to them? After a while this shared emotional bond could lead to sexual feelings that culminated in a much easier/understandable mating experience.

Or is it just a case of one slice of banana = ape blow-job?

That must mean that after 4 years of my friend at work disposing of my waste cardboard for me, I must by now owe him some seriously elaborate sexual favours.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

thebionicmommy, love your Uncle Sam poster! I too laughed aloud. At work.

Another thing that makes this “hypergamy” shit so stupid and offensive is that it’s like a twist of how women’s status was tied to men’s, which was an actual thing controlling their marriages and class divisions. I know that in Mr K’s earthly days a noblewoman marrying someone lower in rank than herself lost her place, and if she married someone not of the nobility she’d be cut off from her family. The misogyny shows in that men controlled it, and didn’t lose status by “marrying down” – it’s the old thing of a nobleman being able to marry a woman of the third estate (ie everyone not in the nobility or clergy) for her wealth, for instance, instead of her rank. They had a charming way of putting it, too: that even the best land needed manuring occasionally.

It’s fucking typical of MRAs to warp something that was misogynistic in its class setting centuries ago and blame women for it when it isn’t even a thing in modern Western society (and never existed in the way they whine about anyhow). Though I doubt any of these stinking turds of ignorance knows any history at all, any more than they know anything about biology or sociology or psychology.

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Eurosabra — would it kill you to try 5 min on google instead of pulling shit out of your ass — http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hunter-gatherer#Social_and_economic_structure

Do explain how matrilineal societies fit your worldview.

thebionicmommy
thebionicmommy
11 years ago

My in laws are going to take me and my family to Silver Dollar City this month, and May is when they have their bluegrass festival. I’ll have to do an evo psych experiment and see if I can control my female hypergamy there.

princessbonbon
11 years ago

Recently a lawyer I consider a friend became single. He makes buckets of money. One would think all of the women (including me) would be chasing him. And yet, he is still single and I would not touch him even if it meant that the world would be saved from a super volcano or some other disaster.

Could it be that this theory is nonsense? Nah. I am sure it our fault somehow for being female. How, I do not know but I am sure it is.

Also, I think cruising for monkey hookers will be the name of my first novel.

Nepenthe
Nepenthe
11 years ago

They don’t have concerts where you live?

*pictures symphonic band concert* *pictures the trombonists* *shudders*

Although I may be judging too soon. My girlfriend is a flautist, never saw that coming.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

Hmm. Last concert I went to was The Chieftains.

… nope.

thebionicmommy
thebionicmommy
11 years ago

I guess I will ruin my marriage when my hypergamous lady brain makes me have sexy times with some old guy that plays a banjo. Either that, or I will say “This concert is boring. Let’s go ride Outlaw Run, the new roller coaster”. One of the two will probably happen.

princessbonbon
11 years ago

*guesses the latter and wonders if she will get a prize*

I like cookies. Cookies are a great prize.

thebionicmommy
thebionicmommy
11 years ago

The Chieftains don’t look too bad, kittehserf. They do have two fiddlers, so that’s pretty cool.

thebionicmommy
thebionicmommy
11 years ago

Don’t worry, princessbonbon, I will make a responsible decision and not ride such a wild roller coaster. And you win a cookie from the Silver Dollar City bakery.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

My sister offered to buy me a ticket to the Springsteen concert here a couple of months back. Much as I love his music and use his face in dozens of photo composites, I don’t see myself leaping into bed with him. In fact such an opportunity would cancel itself out, because hello, he’s married, not happening. But even were he single and interested, it wouldn’t happen ‘cos I don’t fancy him!

But this is too complicated for Troofy & co to figure out.

princessbonbon
11 years ago

And you win a cookie from the Silver Dollar City bakery.

Yay! *nom nom nom* Anyone want some of the extra?

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Since I love both punk and metal my record collection is full of guys who fell from the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down. Chances of me fucking any of those guys? Zero.

I mean, it’s not like groupies don’t exist, but acting as if every woman who likes music is a groupie is pretty much like writing “sexist asshole” on your own forehead with a sharpie.

cloudiah
11 years ago

I will trade you a box full of kittens for a bite of your cookie, princessbonbon.

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Last concert I went to? Emilie Autumn, so yeah, she’s gorgeous, and I hear she’s actually a really nice person, but HELLO! She’s a woman. So how’s hypergamy work here?

princessbonbon
11 years ago

I will trade you a box full of kittens for a bite of your cookie, princessbonbon.

I will accept your trade but at least the cookies look like kitties so you are not giving up too much.

Eurosabra
Eurosabra
11 years ago

Sorry, still living between Schehem and Jerusalem. I would tend to think matrilineal groups do well in high-carrying-capacity terrain, rich lands with easy pickings. Agriculture means warfare, no?

Fade
11 years ago

As soon as violence is organized, some men die without issue and their wives are stolen to bear other men’s seed

I think you mean their wives are KIDNAPPED (stolen implies they’re property) and raped.

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Ok, obvious problem here is obvious Eurosabra. We were talking about hunter gatherer societies, you are apparently thinking of agricultural ones.

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