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Another in an ongoing series of posts on seminal works in the manosphere canon, as it were. At some point, I’ll make a page for these.
Like Warren Farrell’s The Myth of Male Power, F. Roger Devlin’s 2006 essay Sexual Utopia in Power (downloadable here) is a kind of Manospherian urtext, an original source of many of the terrible ideas that are now accepted as gospel wherever misogynists gather in large numbers online. Though the name of Devlin is hardly as well known as that of Farrell, many of his ideas, most notably his reworked notion of “hypergamy” — which we will get to in a minute — are omnipresent in the manosphere.
Among misogynists with intellectual pretensions, Devlin’s Sexual Utopia is considered a must-read. Originally brought to the attention of fellow manospherians by PUA pseudointellectual Roissy — now Heartiste — in 2007, the essay has received lavish praise on such familiar sites as The Spearhead (where WF Price praised Devlin’s “critiques of feminism” as “some of the best out there”) and A Voice for Men (where one post described the essay as “supremely indispensable.”) It’s listed in the sidebar of The Red Pill subreddit as “required reading.” And Norwegian MRA Eivind Berge gushed that the essay was
possibly the best article I have ever read. My blogging against feminism is almost redundant after F. Roger Devlin has put it so well.
So what exactly are all these guys falling over themselves to praise so highly? To put it bluntly, a strange and sprawling compendium of ideas that range from frankly abhorrent to merely silly, motivated by misogyny and racism. Virtually none of the essay’s many gross generalizations about women (or men) are supported by any sort of evidence.
And did I mention that it originally ran in a white nationalist journal?
Yes, “Sexual Utopia in Power” originally ran in The Occidental Quarterly, an explicitly racist journal that described its mission as protecting “the civilization and free governments that whites have created” from the rise of the evil non-white hordes. Indeed, Devlin is on the editorial advisory board of the journal, which currently features an article on its site praising Disney’s Snow White as “a White Nationalist classic.”
While the bulk of Devlin’s essay deals with gender, not race, it is framed — in the very first sentence — by his concern over what he calls the “catastrophic decline” of “white birthrates worldwide.” In other words, no one who has read his article, even if they don’t know what the Occidental Quarterly is, can possibly miss Devlin’s fundamental racism (which is spelled out even more explicitly at the end of this piece).
There is so much in Devlin’s essay that is so objectionable that it cannot fit in a single post, so today I will focus only on his reworked notion of “hypergamy.”
The term was originally a technical way of saying “marrying up” — that is, “the act or practice of marrying a spouse of higher caste or status than oneself,” as Wikipedia rather unromantically puts it.
In Devlin’s hands, the term comes to mean something entirely different:
It is sometimes said that men are polygamous and women monogamous. …
It would be more accurate to say that the female sexual instinct is hypergamous. Men may have a tendency to seek sexual variety, but women have simple tastes in the manner of Oscar Wilde: They are always satisfied with the best. By definition, only one man can be the best. These different male and female “sexual orientations” are clearly seen among the lower primates, e.g., in a baboon pack. Females compete to mate at the top, males to get to the top.
This may sound vaguely familiar to you. Brian Eno once said of the Velvet Underground’s first album that only 30,000 people may have bought copies of it, but “everyone who bought one of those 30,000 copies started a band.” Similarly, everyone who has read Devlin seems to have started a blog or YouTube channel.
Women, in fact, have a distinctive sexual utopia corresponding to their hypergamous instincts. In its purely utopian form, it has two parts: First, she mates with her incubus, the imaginary perfect man; and, second, he “commits,” or ceases mating with all other women. This is the formula of much pulp romance fiction. The fantasy is strictly utopian, partly because no perfect man exists, but partly also because even if he did, it is logically impossible for him to be the exclusive mate of all the women who desire him.
It is possible, however, to enable women to mate hypergamously, i.e., with the most sexually attractive (handsome or socially dominant) men. In the Ecclesiazusae of Aristophanes the women of Athens stage a coup d’état. They occupy the legislative assembly and barricade their husbands out. Then they proceed to enact a law by which the most attractive males of the city will be compelled to mate with each female in turn, beginning with the least attractive. That is the female sexual utopia in power.
And yes, we are rapidly moving towards the manosphere myth that virtually all women are having sex with the same tiny number of men.
Although there may be only one “alpha male” at the top of the pack at any given time, which one it is changes over time. In human terms, this means the female is fickle, infatuated with no more than one man at any given time, but not naturally loyal to a husband over the course of a lifetime.
From here, it seems, comes the widespread manosphere myth that women are inherently amoral creatures who will instantly dump whatever man they’re with whenever an alpha strolls by.
Devlin is also the apparent source of the related manosphere myth that most men live lives of quiet celibacy.
An important aspect of hypergamy is that it implies the rejection of most males.
Indeed, Devlin is so convinced by this notion that he simply hand-waves away all data to the contrary.
Survey results are occasionally announced apparently indicating male satisfaction with their “sex lives” and female unhappiness with theirs. This creates an impression that there really is “more sex” for men today than before some misguided girls misbehaved themselves forty years ago. …
It is child’s play to show, not merely that this is untrue, but that it cannot be true. … What happens when female sexual desire is liberated is not an increase in the total amount of sex available to men, but a redistribution of the existing supply. Society becomes polygamous. A situation emerges in which most men are desperate for wives, but most women are just as desperately throwing themselves at a very few exceptionally attractive men. …
Sexual liberation really means the Darwinian mating pattern of the baboon pack reappears among humans.
And …. scene!
Devlin is sometimes described as an “independent scholar,” but even aside from its misogyny and racism “Sexual Utopia in Power” is anything but scholarly. There are only a relative handful of footnotes, which don’t come close to backing up Devlin’s numerous factual claims. Most of the footnotes refer to the writings not of scholars but of conservative and far-right journalists. One links to an article on the racist hate site VDare.com; another favorably cites this article by Henry Makow, an early Men’s Rights Activist turned conspiracy theorist who literally believes that feminists are in league with an evil Satanic-Illuminati cult that rules the world.
Devlin offers precisely zero evidence to back up his claims about hypergamy — aside from a couple of surveys, whose conclusions he rejects, and several quotes from literature, including that one from Oscar Wilde. The rest is, to use the formal term for it, assdata.
Nonetheless, the manosphere has adopted Devlin’s new-and-not-improved version of “hypergamy” with enthusiasm. I won’t even bother citing examples; a Google search for “manosphere” and “hypergamy” brings up 17,700 results. Hell, there are several dozen articles about hypergamy on A Voice for Men alone. And of course I’ve written about the manosphere obsession with hypergamy many times before.
But so far essentially the only people who have picked up on this particular definition of hypergamy have been misogynists, pickup artists, MRAs and others vaguely associated with, or around, the manosphere. The only academic I know of who has ever even addressed Devlin’s peculiar thesis is libertarian economist Tyler Cowan, who wrote about it briefly, and I think accurately, on his blog several years back.
This essay is not politically correct and at times it is misogynous and yes I believe the author is evil (seriously). The main behavioral assumption is that women are fickle. So they are monogamous at points of time but not over time; Devlin then solves for the resulting equilibrium, so to speak. The birth rate falls, for one thing. The piece also claims that the modern “abolition” of marriage strengthens the attractive at the expense of the unattractive. Some of you will hate the piece. I disagree with the central conclusion, and also the motivation, but it does seem to count as a new idea.
As an actual idea, new or old, this is probably all the consideration Devlin‘s version of “hypergamy” really deserves. But as a case study in the history and sociology of bad ideas, the strange story of Devlin’s hypergamy is a bit more interesting, and I no doubt will return to it in future posts.
There is also a good deal in Devlin’s essay that’s a good deal worse than his discussion of hypergamy, and I’ll be coming back to that as well.
RE: SittieKitty
It’s been duckling/gosling season over here, and Sneak’s been going gaga over the little fluffbuckets. They are pretty endearing, not gonna lie.
I’m so confused, Orion, why do you act like a 10 year old? Well now you sound like a 10 year old whose babysitter gave some wine as a desperate attempt to make him shut the fuck up.
(I’m not advocating giving alcohol to children to make them quiet. Just understand that most people would be pretty desperate if they had to babysit someone like Orion).
orion doesn’t know what orion is trying to talk about. It’s why he has no citations. He just wants a place to be moderately abusive to women and “manginas”.
RE: pecunium
Don’t be silly! We’re the ones being abusive to HIM, being oh-so-intolerant of his beliefs that women don’t respond to niceness and are therefore responsible for him acting like an asshole. We’re just looking to be offended. Now, if we weren’t such bigots, we’d hug him sweetly, tell him it wasn’t his fault that women are such hypergamous bitches, and then gently, oh-so-sweetly, educate him on why he doesn’t have to be an asshole anymore.
And we’re reward him with pussy.
Whoever it was in the TN thread who said orion needed a dominatrix might be right.
Wait, LBT, why do you call yourself that?
Is it LesbianBisexualTrans or something else, like sandwiches?
RE: hellkell
I dunno that I’d wish him on the most obnoxious of dommes. I find him entertaining, but I seem to be in the minority. (Also, I find it telling that even some people on TN seem to find him trying.)
Also I love how Orion is still “that guy” even in his community. Like that one guy no one really wants to be around because he acts like a 10 year old brat and thinks he’s HARDC0R3 for making sexist jokes and being a PUA.
RE: auggziliary
It’s because the two screen-names we’re most known by on the web is Loony-Brain and BaaingTree. So I initialized it and squished it together, for a super-secret stealth name.
But then I was out of the closet and it became a moot point. I suppose I ought to change the screename, since there’s no point in it now, really.
LBT — there’s a point to it! Mentioning you to my mother make sher want a BLT XD
The stuck-on bodiless head of a tick sounds about right for orion.
If you’re still lurking this post, orion, (and come on, we all know you are), I want you to consider something. I want you to take a good, long look at how you react to people who disagree with you here. Then I want you to take another good, long look at how you respond to the people who disagree with you back in the threads you’ve started over on your forum.
Really, seriously consider the differences between them. Think about what the cause of those differences might be. The tone you’re getting over there really isn’t appreciably different from what you’d gotten here, so it must be something else. What is it?
I want you to think about that, and then decide whether you actually came here in good faith, as you’re so eager to claim.
if MRa’s and PUA’s are ==so== unimportant and ==so== wrong….. why are you obsessing about them?
Hi Eliezer, Thanks for stopping by to necro a thread that died more than 2 months ago. Did you take a look at the FAQ? We’re here to mock misogyny, and there’s plenty to mock in the manosphere. We also like to share funny animal videos and talk about bra sizing and makeup and philosophy and Tolkien and gaming and … well, lots of things. Basically, we like each other and this is a fun place to hang out. Probably not for you, though — we’d make you our chew toy, and while that is fun for us, the chew toys never seem to enjoy it as much as we do.
Obsessing? No. But neither are we ignoring them. If you don’t think we matter why are you necromancing a two-months past post to make a passive aggressive dig at the commenters here?
Mind you, in the question you ask, you carry the seeds of the why we pay attention to them, they are so wrong. As Hillel asked, “if I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I am only for myself, what am I”?.
Things I am actually obsessed over — anyone got ideas how to kill my feral algae for good, without killing the plants in the tank? Cuz I got nothing and it’s fucking absurd how fast that shit takes over.
Plant update! My sundew is growing beautifully, to that point that pecunium’s sundew will be delivered the next time I see him; his African violet cuttings are also still looking good (well, 3 of the four, lost the fourth)…killed the damned ivy, idfk, and pecunium, remember the might be an annual? Killed that too so it’s moot. Meanwhile the orchid is all “air root over here, air root over there, roots everywhere!”
And my cactus is in bloom again.
The crassula is starting to root. The late dill is in massive leaf, the nasturtia are in bloom, and only one of the orchids we bought because they were dying is actually dying (so we saved one).
W00t for the crassula, and I’ll take a look at that orchid, probably pointless, but no harm in another set of eyes. And maybe I’ll get to see the nasturtia, assuming we don’t have another scheduling nightmare.
Also…wtf do I do with a 2′ diameter mum? Cuz my mum bought a mum. And either I let her put it outside until it freezes, or I take it in as one of mine. And seeing how it’s a living organism…yeah, I have a mum now. And no room for a plant that size. How little light can they survive on? Cuz I can rearrange and find shelf space up top, but indirect light, at best, up there.
Double equal signs for emphasis. Totally not obnoxious at all.
Mums are pretty good houseplants. They were happy when my mother left them sitting on my computer table in between two windows. They were underneath a house light too.
Does that help?
It’s dead. The center has rotted out. I’m going to baby it so long as it has pseudobulbs, but I have no real hope.
Pecunium — oh, yeah, it’s probably gone then.
Alice — sorta, yeah. Should be fine in most of my room then, since the fish tanks all have full spectrum daylight bulbs and the rest is either windows, or my bed. Thanks 🙂
My co-workers gave me a lovely orchid when I finished grad school, and even though in the past I have been able to kill IVY (which is supposed to be unkillable) I have now kept this orchid alive for nearly 9 months through a combination of really good light and benign neglect. I know there are more important things in the world, but I am REALLY proud of not killing my orchid.
Argenti – no problem. Don’t forget to water them and they should be fine. 🙂
Oooh, ooh, are we talking about what we really obsess over?
… Everyone already knows what I do.
::retires disconsolately to corner::