Another in an ongoing series of posts on seminal works in the manosphere canon, as it were. At some point, I’ll make a page for these.
Like Warren Farrell’s The Myth of Male Power, F. Roger Devlin’s 2006 essay Sexual Utopia in Power (downloadable here) is a kind of Manospherian urtext, an original source of many of the terrible ideas that are now accepted as gospel wherever misogynists gather in large numbers online. Though the name of Devlin is hardly as well known as that of Farrell, many of his ideas, most notably his reworked notion of “hypergamy” — which we will get to in a minute — are omnipresent in the manosphere.
Among misogynists with intellectual pretensions, Devlin’s Sexual Utopia is considered a must-read. Originally brought to the attention of fellow manospherians by PUA pseudointellectual Roissy — now Heartiste — in 2007, the essay has received lavish praise on such familiar sites as The Spearhead (where WF Price praised Devlin’s “critiques of feminism” as “some of the best out there”) and A Voice for Men (where one post described the essay as “supremely indispensable.”) It’s listed in the sidebar of The Red Pill subreddit as “required reading.” And Norwegian MRA Eivind Berge gushed that the essay was
possibly the best article I have ever read. My blogging against feminism is almost redundant after F. Roger Devlin has put it so well.
So what exactly are all these guys falling over themselves to praise so highly? To put it bluntly, a strange and sprawling compendium of ideas that range from frankly abhorrent to merely silly, motivated by misogyny and racism. Virtually none of the essay’s many gross generalizations about women (or men) are supported by any sort of evidence.
And did I mention that it originally ran in a white nationalist journal?
Yes, “Sexual Utopia in Power” originally ran in The Occidental Quarterly, an explicitly racist journal that described its mission as protecting “the civilization and free governments that whites have created” from the rise of the evil non-white hordes. Indeed, Devlin is on the editorial advisory board of the journal, which currently features an article on its site praising Disney’s Snow White as “a White Nationalist classic.”
While the bulk of Devlin’s essay deals with gender, not race, it is framed — in the very first sentence — by his concern over what he calls the “catastrophic decline” of “white birthrates worldwide.” In other words, no one who has read his article, even if they don’t know what the Occidental Quarterly is, can possibly miss Devlin’s fundamental racism (which is spelled out even more explicitly at the end of this piece).
There is so much in Devlin’s essay that is so objectionable that it cannot fit in a single post, so today I will focus only on his reworked notion of “hypergamy.”
The term was originally a technical way of saying “marrying up” — that is, “the act or practice of marrying a spouse of higher caste or status than oneself,” as Wikipedia rather unromantically puts it.
In Devlin’s hands, the term comes to mean something entirely different:
It is sometimes said that men are polygamous and women monogamous. …
It would be more accurate to say that the female sexual instinct is hypergamous. Men may have a tendency to seek sexual variety, but women have simple tastes in the manner of Oscar Wilde: They are always satisfied with the best. By definition, only one man can be the best. These different male and female “sexual orientations” are clearly seen among the lower primates, e.g., in a baboon pack. Females compete to mate at the top, males to get to the top.
This may sound vaguely familiar to you. Brian Eno once said of the Velvet Underground’s first album that only 30,000 people may have bought copies of it, but “everyone who bought one of those 30,000 copies started a band.” Similarly, everyone who has read Devlin seems to have started a blog or YouTube channel.
Women, in fact, have a distinctive sexual utopia corresponding to their hypergamous instincts. In its purely utopian form, it has two parts: First, she mates with her incubus, the imaginary perfect man; and, second, he “commits,” or ceases mating with all other women. This is the formula of much pulp romance fiction. The fantasy is strictly utopian, partly because no perfect man exists, but partly also because even if he did, it is logically impossible for him to be the exclusive mate of all the women who desire him.
It is possible, however, to enable women to mate hypergamously, i.e., with the most sexually attractive (handsome or socially dominant) men. In the Ecclesiazusae of Aristophanes the women of Athens stage a coup d’état. They occupy the legislative assembly and barricade their husbands out. Then they proceed to enact a law by which the most attractive males of the city will be compelled to mate with each female in turn, beginning with the least attractive. That is the female sexual utopia in power.
And yes, we are rapidly moving towards the manosphere myth that virtually all women are having sex with the same tiny number of men.
Although there may be only one “alpha male” at the top of the pack at any given time, which one it is changes over time. In human terms, this means the female is fickle, infatuated with no more than one man at any given time, but not naturally loyal to a husband over the course of a lifetime.
From here, it seems, comes the widespread manosphere myth that women are inherently amoral creatures who will instantly dump whatever man they’re with whenever an alpha strolls by.
Devlin is also the apparent source of the related manosphere myth that most men live lives of quiet celibacy.
An important aspect of hypergamy is that it implies the rejection of most males.
Indeed, Devlin is so convinced by this notion that he simply hand-waves away all data to the contrary.
Survey results are occasionally announced apparently indicating male satisfaction with their “sex lives” and female unhappiness with theirs. This creates an impression that there really is “more sex” for men today than before some misguided girls misbehaved themselves forty years ago. …
It is child’s play to show, not merely that this is untrue, but that it cannot be true. … What happens when female sexual desire is liberated is not an increase in the total amount of sex available to men, but a redistribution of the existing supply. Society becomes polygamous. A situation emerges in which most men are desperate for wives, but most women are just as desperately throwing themselves at a very few exceptionally attractive men. …
Sexual liberation really means the Darwinian mating pattern of the baboon pack reappears among humans.
And …. scene!
Devlin is sometimes described as an “independent scholar,” but even aside from its misogyny and racism “Sexual Utopia in Power” is anything but scholarly. There are only a relative handful of footnotes, which don’t come close to backing up Devlin’s numerous factual claims. Most of the footnotes refer to the writings not of scholars but of conservative and far-right journalists. One links to an article on the racist hate site VDare.com; another favorably cites this article by Henry Makow, an early Men’s Rights Activist turned conspiracy theorist who literally believes that feminists are in league with an evil Satanic-Illuminati cult that rules the world.
Devlin offers precisely zero evidence to back up his claims about hypergamy — aside from a couple of surveys, whose conclusions he rejects, and several quotes from literature, including that one from Oscar Wilde. The rest is, to use the formal term for it, assdata.
Nonetheless, the manosphere has adopted Devlin’s new-and-not-improved version of “hypergamy” with enthusiasm. I won’t even bother citing examples; a Google search for “manosphere” and “hypergamy” brings up 17,700 results. Hell, there are several dozen articles about hypergamy on A Voice for Men alone. And of course I’ve written about the manosphere obsession with hypergamy many times before.
But so far essentially the only people who have picked up on this particular definition of hypergamy have been misogynists, pickup artists, MRAs and others vaguely associated with, or around, the manosphere. The only academic I know of who has ever even addressed Devlin’s peculiar thesis is libertarian economist Tyler Cowan, who wrote about it briefly, and I think accurately, on his blog several years back.
This essay is not politically correct and at times it is misogynous and yes I believe the author is evil (seriously). The main behavioral assumption is that women are fickle. So they are monogamous at points of time but not over time; Devlin then solves for the resulting equilibrium, so to speak. The birth rate falls, for one thing. The piece also claims that the modern “abolition” of marriage strengthens the attractive at the expense of the unattractive. Some of you will hate the piece. I disagree with the central conclusion, and also the motivation, but it does seem to count as a new idea.
As an actual idea, new or old, this is probably all the consideration Devlin‘s version of “hypergamy” really deserves. But as a case study in the history and sociology of bad ideas, the strange story of Devlin’s hypergamy is a bit more interesting, and I no doubt will return to it in future posts.
There is also a good deal in Devlin’s essay that’s a good deal worse than his discussion of hypergamy, and I’ll be coming back to that as well.
RE: Kittehserf
I love that he still seems to think I have a penis. Sssh! Nobody tell him!
$10/letter sounds reasonable to me. Plus higher rates for capitals, punctuation marks and spaces.
The asshole tax is strong with this one.
RE: Argenti
I generally go for two cents a word. A typewritten page is roughly 500 words, just to give you an idea. But I can probably make that story happen, when you can afford it!
1) you’re undercharging for Biff then (but I thought that already)
2) how many pages are we talking? I was debating adding a straight up gift to my order but remembered what you said about feeling like you owe people (and your refusal to let me buy you lunch)…in short, I can maybe afford that.
RE: Argenti
Biff is a different story. (*rimshot*) The money is selling paper copies, rather than a one-time, “pay now, up for free forever after.” For now, I don’t plan to put “Bodily Reconstruction” up online. (Maybe one day I’ll save it for something?)
As for how many pages… honestly, I haven’t quite reached the point you’re talking about, unless you want AU fic. It’s, like… there’s a lot of context that you don’t have. I could write it, maybe in… I don’t know, ten, twenty pages if I hauled ass, but a lot of it would have pre-story context that hasn’t been written yet.
Unless you want AU, in which case I can slam it out in the usual $20 chunk and have Trans!Grey and M.D. fighting giant radioactive hamsters from the planet near Mars or something.
So Grey is Trans*!
And I can wait. That one just has me all ō.Ó? since they’re enemies normally.
RE: Argenti
In AU, Grey can be whatever you want. Honestly, I see him as canonically cis, just because… I really don’t think Bob could deal with the nuances otherwise. That said, the one snippet I did of Trans!Grey was a lot of fun, and she had her own stolid dignity.
Ah, LBT,
you dont get us at all, dont you?
If you could take a moment from trying to get your precious feelings hurt, you would actually get that is not what we are trying to do.
We just wont tiptoe around so that they are not.
Women do that.
We dont, and there is nothing wrong with that.,
So, your avoiding us is not so much because we might confirm your preconceived notions, it is because we might destroy them by being what we are.
In a way, you are as repsonsible for the things you do not expose yourself to as for the thing you do.
Btw, thiis site is hilarious.
I never got such a reaction by not even trying to troll.
You really hate my guts dont you?
And I think that that is hilarious.
Am I becoming outcome independent at last?
RE: orion
My god, I’m actually glad to see you!
If you could take a moment from trying to get your precious feelings hurt, you would actually get that is not what we are trying to do.
I think you misunderstand. You haven’t hurt my feelings. I’m BEMUSED by you, and ASTOUNDED, but I wouldn’t say ‘hurt.’ Except when you proclaimed yourself my Muse, but I’d consider that more ‘indignation’ than ‘hurt feelings.’
We just wont tiptoe around so that they are not.
Women do that.
I have male friends who consider my feelings as well, you know. It’s not a gender thing. It’s just that I don’t want to hang out with people who make gay jokes. I don’t consider that an unusual preference.
So, your avoiding us is not so much because we might confirm your preconceived notions, it is because we might destroy them by being what we are.
Dude, it’s a BODYBUILDING website. I’m not a bodybuilder. And I’m not avoiding you; I’m talking to you right now! You’re the only person on that site I know, and I don’t like you very much.
You really hate my guts dont you? And I think that that is hilarious.
I don’t hate anyone. It’s beneath me. I admit that you got me ANGRY, and that I’ve also found you entertaining as hell, but that’s not the same thing as hate.
Look, you’re trying to entice me to a website full of strangers. That alone isn’t something I generally do, even if someone I like vouches. The website has nothing to do with my interests. Also, they do make gay jokes, and you seem oddly fixated on me being gay, when the only mention I made of it was regarding my husband, and that I wouldn’t care about your interest in women.
Am I becoming outcome independent at last?
What do you mean?
I think in this context “outcome independent” means “lots of people are telling me I’m an asshole and I just don’t care anymore… Because I’m an asshole.”
But I am also curious about what orion will say about it.
1) like Grey could find the words to explain to Bob anyways…
2) …I forget, it had something to do with the idiocy of demanding you go join his little bodybuilding site
Or “I am so desperate for attention I’ll take any I can get, even if it doesn’t include people doing what I tell them to.”
RE: cloudiah
Ah, okay. That makes sense, I suppose. Still, I’ll wait to hear it from orion.
RE: Argenti
Yeah, no. Verbal language is not Grey’s friend. (Sign language and singing however, are fine.) I actually still have a “Grey in high school” story lying around.
And why BODYBUILDING? I mean, the only sites I’m really active on are here, LJ, DA (sorta), and tumblr (sorta), and I haven’t changed any of that in something like two years. Getting me to join another forum is just doomed to failure in general; I’d be more inclined to IM with orion than go to some random site. (Especially one on body-building, which I know nothing about–though hubby’s old best friend used to be an amateur, apparently.)
Your apostrophe escaped and became a comma!
Can you blame an apostrophe for trying to escape from orion’s mess?
In always relevant news, BOOTS!
http://zierashoes.com/Style/634/squire?cat=6&hash=5|||6
Rats, the shop doesn’t have ’em in my size. Oh well.
Ooh, those are cute. I’m always happy to see attractive flats. I would totally wear those.
Wait, we’re being trolled via a bodybuilding site?
Steroids are bad, guys. They don’t make you sexy or awesome, they just make you an angry asshole with shrunken balls.
Also I think kittehs set off a shopping spree, because those boots now seem to be sold out. In other news, I bought adorable sneakers!
http://www.shoezoo.com/media/catalog/product/cache/1/image/2056c3925ef7ac82992bf9e6a11c16f0/303549_06.jpg
Oooh, those sneakers are lovely!
I took a look at those boots in the shop on the way home. They weren’t nearly as smart as they look on the website. The texture of the leather looked a bit cheap and nasty – what do you call that slightly snakeskin-like texture on plain leather? It didn’t have a shine and it wasn’t really matter like nubuck or very soft leather. Not sorry I didn’t get a pair, now.
I can recommend Ziera boots for comfort, though. They do wide fittings and have orthotic-friendly styles. My green ones are prolly my most comfortable boots.
http://zierashoes.com/Style/628/savvy
I’d join in the shoes discussion, but the last pair I bought were a cheapo pair of sandals from Wal-Mart because it’s getting warmer and my last pair of sandals were worn out.
And I also bought Wil Wheaton’s t-shirt and I’m hoping to get something a little sassier.
… Orion, are you drunk? Or high? Or did you drop something on your head so as to suffer a severe concussion?
I don’t say that to demean, but what the actual hell does any of that *mean*? I can read the responses just fine to the things I said, on the thread, because it’s open! Public. I can *read* the words. It wasn’t a particularly egregirously boisterious welcome, and everyone was actually kinda funny. And charming. And at least a little amusing.
But “Poo-bear” isn’t.. even what… it… the words. The words literally say “Boo-bear”.
It’s a relatively small mistake, you’ve exchanged a p for a b but… I don’t even… I cannot possibly grasp how you get from there to “We might have called you that” when it wasn’t “we”; it was a guy, and it wasn’t “Might”, it was right there in writing.
And how does that even fucking relate to lions by any order of magnitude? This is so confusing and entirely random I CANNOT EVEN RHYME ABOUT IT.
And if you had some nebolous grip on a forum of body builders, why would you harness them to call people boo-bear? Assuming you could make them do things, they’d all have the basic fitness to rival most national armies and they’d be perfect hench-people for some grand, wild eyed “TAKE OVER THE WORLD!” scheme.
Bees, man. Bees, my god.
I don’t even know what orion is trying to talk about anymore. Not that I did to begin with, it seems a pattern to trolls is to start talking and then become as vague as possible so they never have to actually argue anything… Because no one can follow wtf they’re saying in the first place.
RE: SittieKitty
All I know is that orion seems to have imprinted on me like a wee duckling. I’m not sure why.
RE: shoes
Since I plan to hit the road this fall, I’m debating whether I’m going to need new shoes. I have a pair of sneakers that’ll be almost three years old, and they’re still good, but definitely seeing some wear and tear, they have all the water-proofness of tissue paper. Considering investing in some army boots, the kind that’re waterproof to the ankle, but I’m nervous because that’s quite an investment for me, and I want shoes that I can walk for hours in.
I… I think I know what’s going on with the troll! I feel… dirty.
So, boo-bear is a thing, right? It’s specifically a sort of feminizing thing. It’s a thing you call people. But it means you have to be slightly conversant with culture and what people are actually saying and calling each other.
Pooh-bear is something a child might remember and cling to, a real thing.
If you’re just a child, not actually conversant with culture at all, you could totally make that mistake.
But you’d also have to be speed-reading, or perhaps a bit of a case of Dunning-Krugger, where you thought anything you didn’t understand perfectly was a mistake on the other person’s part.
I feel like this explains EVERYTHING about Orion, in a single word, in a nutshell, BAM.
Wee ducklings are cute LBT. I’d say orion is more like a tick that leaves its head behind when you try to remove it.