Another in an ongoing series of posts on seminal works in the manosphere canon, as it were. At some point, I’ll make a page for these.
Like Warren Farrell’s The Myth of Male Power, F. Roger Devlin’s 2006 essay Sexual Utopia in Power (downloadable here) is a kind of Manospherian urtext, an original source of many of the terrible ideas that are now accepted as gospel wherever misogynists gather in large numbers online. Though the name of Devlin is hardly as well known as that of Farrell, many of his ideas, most notably his reworked notion of “hypergamy” — which we will get to in a minute — are omnipresent in the manosphere.
Among misogynists with intellectual pretensions, Devlin’s Sexual Utopia is considered a must-read. Originally brought to the attention of fellow manospherians by PUA pseudointellectual Roissy — now Heartiste — in 2007, the essay has received lavish praise on such familiar sites as The Spearhead (where WF Price praised Devlin’s “critiques of feminism” as “some of the best out there”) and A Voice for Men (where one post described the essay as “supremely indispensable.”) It’s listed in the sidebar of The Red Pill subreddit as “required reading.” And Norwegian MRA Eivind Berge gushed that the essay was
possibly the best article I have ever read. My blogging against feminism is almost redundant after F. Roger Devlin has put it so well.
So what exactly are all these guys falling over themselves to praise so highly? To put it bluntly, a strange and sprawling compendium of ideas that range from frankly abhorrent to merely silly, motivated by misogyny and racism. Virtually none of the essay’s many gross generalizations about women (or men) are supported by any sort of evidence.
And did I mention that it originally ran in a white nationalist journal?
Yes, “Sexual Utopia in Power” originally ran in The Occidental Quarterly, an explicitly racist journal that described its mission as protecting “the civilization and free governments that whites have created” from the rise of the evil non-white hordes. Indeed, Devlin is on the editorial advisory board of the journal, which currently features an article on its site praising Disney’s Snow White as “a White Nationalist classic.”
While the bulk of Devlin’s essay deals with gender, not race, it is framed — in the very first sentence — by his concern over what he calls the “catastrophic decline” of “white birthrates worldwide.” In other words, no one who has read his article, even if they don’t know what the Occidental Quarterly is, can possibly miss Devlin’s fundamental racism (which is spelled out even more explicitly at the end of this piece).
There is so much in Devlin’s essay that is so objectionable that it cannot fit in a single post, so today I will focus only on his reworked notion of “hypergamy.”
The term was originally a technical way of saying “marrying up” — that is, “the act or practice of marrying a spouse of higher caste or status than oneself,” as Wikipedia rather unromantically puts it.
In Devlin’s hands, the term comes to mean something entirely different:
It is sometimes said that men are polygamous and women monogamous. …
It would be more accurate to say that the female sexual instinct is hypergamous. Men may have a tendency to seek sexual variety, but women have simple tastes in the manner of Oscar Wilde: They are always satisfied with the best. By definition, only one man can be the best. These different male and female “sexual orientations” are clearly seen among the lower primates, e.g., in a baboon pack. Females compete to mate at the top, males to get to the top.
This may sound vaguely familiar to you. Brian Eno once said of the Velvet Underground’s first album that only 30,000 people may have bought copies of it, but “everyone who bought one of those 30,000 copies started a band.” Similarly, everyone who has read Devlin seems to have started a blog or YouTube channel.
Women, in fact, have a distinctive sexual utopia corresponding to their hypergamous instincts. In its purely utopian form, it has two parts: First, she mates with her incubus, the imaginary perfect man; and, second, he “commits,” or ceases mating with all other women. This is the formula of much pulp romance fiction. The fantasy is strictly utopian, partly because no perfect man exists, but partly also because even if he did, it is logically impossible for him to be the exclusive mate of all the women who desire him.
It is possible, however, to enable women to mate hypergamously, i.e., with the most sexually attractive (handsome or socially dominant) men. In the Ecclesiazusae of Aristophanes the women of Athens stage a coup d’état. They occupy the legislative assembly and barricade their husbands out. Then they proceed to enact a law by which the most attractive males of the city will be compelled to mate with each female in turn, beginning with the least attractive. That is the female sexual utopia in power.
And yes, we are rapidly moving towards the manosphere myth that virtually all women are having sex with the same tiny number of men.
Although there may be only one “alpha male” at the top of the pack at any given time, which one it is changes over time. In human terms, this means the female is fickle, infatuated with no more than one man at any given time, but not naturally loyal to a husband over the course of a lifetime.
From here, it seems, comes the widespread manosphere myth that women are inherently amoral creatures who will instantly dump whatever man they’re with whenever an alpha strolls by.
Devlin is also the apparent source of the related manosphere myth that most men live lives of quiet celibacy.
An important aspect of hypergamy is that it implies the rejection of most males.
Indeed, Devlin is so convinced by this notion that he simply hand-waves away all data to the contrary.
Survey results are occasionally announced apparently indicating male satisfaction with their “sex lives” and female unhappiness with theirs. This creates an impression that there really is “more sex” for men today than before some misguided girls misbehaved themselves forty years ago. …
It is child’s play to show, not merely that this is untrue, but that it cannot be true. … What happens when female sexual desire is liberated is not an increase in the total amount of sex available to men, but a redistribution of the existing supply. Society becomes polygamous. A situation emerges in which most men are desperate for wives, but most women are just as desperately throwing themselves at a very few exceptionally attractive men. …
Sexual liberation really means the Darwinian mating pattern of the baboon pack reappears among humans.
And …. scene!
Devlin is sometimes described as an “independent scholar,” but even aside from its misogyny and racism “Sexual Utopia in Power” is anything but scholarly. There are only a relative handful of footnotes, which don’t come close to backing up Devlin’s numerous factual claims. Most of the footnotes refer to the writings not of scholars but of conservative and far-right journalists. One links to an article on the racist hate site VDare.com; another favorably cites this article by Henry Makow, an early Men’s Rights Activist turned conspiracy theorist who literally believes that feminists are in league with an evil Satanic-Illuminati cult that rules the world.
Devlin offers precisely zero evidence to back up his claims about hypergamy — aside from a couple of surveys, whose conclusions he rejects, and several quotes from literature, including that one from Oscar Wilde. The rest is, to use the formal term for it, assdata.
Nonetheless, the manosphere has adopted Devlin’s new-and-not-improved version of “hypergamy” with enthusiasm. I won’t even bother citing examples; a Google search for “manosphere” and “hypergamy” brings up 17,700 results. Hell, there are several dozen articles about hypergamy on A Voice for Men alone. And of course I’ve written about the manosphere obsession with hypergamy many times before.
But so far essentially the only people who have picked up on this particular definition of hypergamy have been misogynists, pickup artists, MRAs and others vaguely associated with, or around, the manosphere. The only academic I know of who has ever even addressed Devlin’s peculiar thesis is libertarian economist Tyler Cowan, who wrote about it briefly, and I think accurately, on his blog several years back.
This essay is not politically correct and at times it is misogynous and yes I believe the author is evil (seriously). The main behavioral assumption is that women are fickle. So they are monogamous at points of time but not over time; Devlin then solves for the resulting equilibrium, so to speak. The birth rate falls, for one thing. The piece also claims that the modern “abolition” of marriage strengthens the attractive at the expense of the unattractive. Some of you will hate the piece. I disagree with the central conclusion, and also the motivation, but it does seem to count as a new idea.
As an actual idea, new or old, this is probably all the consideration Devlin‘s version of “hypergamy” really deserves. But as a case study in the history and sociology of bad ideas, the strange story of Devlin’s hypergamy is a bit more interesting, and I no doubt will return to it in future posts.
There is also a good deal in Devlin’s essay that’s a good deal worse than his discussion of hypergamy, and I’ll be coming back to that as well.
I still want you to fuck off. If I’d had a question for how many people want you to fuck off, I’d have posted that. But I can guess that that’d say “most of them want you to fuck of”. So GO FUCK OFF.
“I call People Covered in Fish.”
Aww, really now?! Really? But I’m the aquatic, um, uh, liaison? Whatever it was.
I have concluded through rigorous empirical analysis that I am sitting in my bed and typing a comment. FACT.
LBT — cuz he can’t wrap his head around the idea of a man being raped. Just a guess.
Ally — you too?!
Guys! GUYS!!! I got the religions compiled for the first 1,000 surveys or so!
Pick what’s next, smart ass section, or politics?
No, LBT its not that you are a man, Its that you are willing to engage in a somewhat honest dialogue.
You can be whatever you want to be, but that shit kind of matters, dont you agree?
Not that it was completely honest, but apparently the best your site can come up with?
Thats not nothing,
Thats something.
I vote for smart ass section being done first =P
Argenti-
I was joking (because you seem to be good at it)! I do have a stats paper to write, though. Must get to it now. It’s really useful stuff (I’m learning to use R to crunch data), but the process is a bit tedious. Arguing with trolls is tedious too, so that was probably self-defeating.
I vote for politics as the next section!
RE: orion
Most folk here are being honest. You just don’t like it.
Also, since you do seem to sorta-kinda-tolerate me, are you MRAL? Please tell me you’re just some random other guy who wandered in off the digital street.
You’re tied. And I’m not going to get to it until…fuck. Tomorrow afternoon? Maybe I’ll bring the mac int my mother’s office so I can work on it there…
I vote smartass!
Also, fuck off, Al. You wouldn’t know honesty if it bit you on your arse.
LBT, I tolerate most, I respect very few,
Foir the life of me, what is an MRAL?
This dude is awful. Way to shart all over half the population at length and THEN leave a special little skidmark on LBT’s life too.
Aw, I hadn’t seen Ally’s vote.
Well, both will be interesting. I thought the smart ass part would be a good finale.
I’m surprised there were so many respondents, must be a lot of work. It’s kind of awesome though. Less than 50% hetero is surprising (I do love you, straight manboobzers).
Somehow I feel like we’ll have more diversity than mr/reddit. But that might just be my own assfax.
I got defeated by smart ass. *bows down*
RE: orion
Phew. Least I have that much.
Also, be happy. I’m writing porn in your honor now. (Not about you. That’d be creepy.)
Isn’t “For the life of me, what is MRAL” a typical MRAL reply?
“Are you a horse?”
“What, my good sir, is a horse? I don’t think we have those here at the Kentucky Derby.”
By the way, orion –
You still haven’t explained why
v
Is somehow a woman’s fault.
So do tell me, once again, why your inner life is the fault of someone else? Why your inability to parse differentials in personality is somehow the fault of the world at large?
Or… What, you’re just going to gloss over that and wait? q:
Also, I’m gay but my husband was quite the straight manwhore back in the day, and he says his experiences are pretty much mirror-reverse from yours–he was a bit of an ass in high school, and got progressively more popular and well-banged as he aged and grew less jerkish. Also, he dated a domme for a while, and he knows for a fact she preferred to take the reins.
@orion
Fact 1: women are not punishing you by not having sex with you. They are not taking something you have or denying you access to something you’re owed, because sex is not something you are owed just by existing. Not having sex is the default;
Fact 2: you were not being nice to women before, you were being a manipulative asshole in the hopes of getting sex out of it. (And I’m betting by “nice” you mean putting women on pedestals and treating them as if they fart rainbows, that’s not nice, that’s creepy);
Fact 3: there are plenty of people who treat each other with kindness without expecting sex in return, it’s called not being an asshole;
Fact 4 (corollary): you are an entitled creepy asshole, fuck off.
Well…I have to calculate what racial breakdown I’d expect to see given what countries we had how many replies from, but at a once over, we’re whiter. And more diverse than them in every other metric.
Except we may not be whiter. We’ve had A LOT of replies from very, very white countries. The r/mr study was compared to reddit in general, all I have for an actually useful metric is the weighted averages of where replies come from. We’re probably still going to be whiter than average. But I’d love if their data had had any sort of country breakdown (is r/mr made up of more people from very white countries? Less?)
I think what I’m going to do is see how white I’d expected us to be given the countries the replies are from, compare that to what I’ve got. And then compare that with the r/mr versus reddit data.
Chi-squared tests are yummy.
Maude – “Isn’t “For the life of me, what is MRAL” a typical MRAL reply?”
Yup. He does it sooner or later in most of his socking.
WTF happened in this thread when I went to dinner? (Yum, squash blossoms.)
Kittehs, that’s Buster in my gravatar. FACT.
RE: cloudiah
Oh, you know, orion was polite and civil, we circle-jerking feminists tarred and feathered him for no reason, and now I’m writing consentporn in his honor.
Other than that, you haven’t missed much.