Another in an ongoing series of posts on seminal works in the manosphere canon, as it were. At some point, I’ll make a page for these.
Like Warren Farrell’s The Myth of Male Power, F. Roger Devlin’s 2006 essay Sexual Utopia in Power (downloadable here) is a kind of Manospherian urtext, an original source of many of the terrible ideas that are now accepted as gospel wherever misogynists gather in large numbers online. Though the name of Devlin is hardly as well known as that of Farrell, many of his ideas, most notably his reworked notion of “hypergamy” — which we will get to in a minute — are omnipresent in the manosphere.
Among misogynists with intellectual pretensions, Devlin’s Sexual Utopia is considered a must-read. Originally brought to the attention of fellow manospherians by PUA pseudointellectual Roissy — now Heartiste — in 2007, the essay has received lavish praise on such familiar sites as The Spearhead (where WF Price praised Devlin’s “critiques of feminism” as “some of the best out there”) and A Voice for Men (where one post described the essay as “supremely indispensable.”) It’s listed in the sidebar of The Red Pill subreddit as “required reading.” And Norwegian MRA Eivind Berge gushed that the essay was
possibly the best article I have ever read. My blogging against feminism is almost redundant after F. Roger Devlin has put it so well.
So what exactly are all these guys falling over themselves to praise so highly? To put it bluntly, a strange and sprawling compendium of ideas that range from frankly abhorrent to merely silly, motivated by misogyny and racism. Virtually none of the essay’s many gross generalizations about women (or men) are supported by any sort of evidence.
And did I mention that it originally ran in a white nationalist journal?
Yes, “Sexual Utopia in Power” originally ran in The Occidental Quarterly, an explicitly racist journal that described its mission as protecting “the civilization and free governments that whites have created” from the rise of the evil non-white hordes. Indeed, Devlin is on the editorial advisory board of the journal, which currently features an article on its site praising Disney’s Snow White as “a White Nationalist classic.”
While the bulk of Devlin’s essay deals with gender, not race, it is framed — in the very first sentence — by his concern over what he calls the “catastrophic decline” of “white birthrates worldwide.” In other words, no one who has read his article, even if they don’t know what the Occidental Quarterly is, can possibly miss Devlin’s fundamental racism (which is spelled out even more explicitly at the end of this piece).
There is so much in Devlin’s essay that is so objectionable that it cannot fit in a single post, so today I will focus only on his reworked notion of “hypergamy.”
The term was originally a technical way of saying “marrying up” — that is, “the act or practice of marrying a spouse of higher caste or status than oneself,” as Wikipedia rather unromantically puts it.
In Devlin’s hands, the term comes to mean something entirely different:
It is sometimes said that men are polygamous and women monogamous. …
It would be more accurate to say that the female sexual instinct is hypergamous. Men may have a tendency to seek sexual variety, but women have simple tastes in the manner of Oscar Wilde: They are always satisfied with the best. By definition, only one man can be the best. These different male and female “sexual orientations” are clearly seen among the lower primates, e.g., in a baboon pack. Females compete to mate at the top, males to get to the top.
This may sound vaguely familiar to you. Brian Eno once said of the Velvet Underground’s first album that only 30,000 people may have bought copies of it, but “everyone who bought one of those 30,000 copies started a band.” Similarly, everyone who has read Devlin seems to have started a blog or YouTube channel.
Women, in fact, have a distinctive sexual utopia corresponding to their hypergamous instincts. In its purely utopian form, it has two parts: First, she mates with her incubus, the imaginary perfect man; and, second, he “commits,” or ceases mating with all other women. This is the formula of much pulp romance fiction. The fantasy is strictly utopian, partly because no perfect man exists, but partly also because even if he did, it is logically impossible for him to be the exclusive mate of all the women who desire him.
It is possible, however, to enable women to mate hypergamously, i.e., with the most sexually attractive (handsome or socially dominant) men. In the Ecclesiazusae of Aristophanes the women of Athens stage a coup d’état. They occupy the legislative assembly and barricade their husbands out. Then they proceed to enact a law by which the most attractive males of the city will be compelled to mate with each female in turn, beginning with the least attractive. That is the female sexual utopia in power.
And yes, we are rapidly moving towards the manosphere myth that virtually all women are having sex with the same tiny number of men.
Although there may be only one “alpha male” at the top of the pack at any given time, which one it is changes over time. In human terms, this means the female is fickle, infatuated with no more than one man at any given time, but not naturally loyal to a husband over the course of a lifetime.
From here, it seems, comes the widespread manosphere myth that women are inherently amoral creatures who will instantly dump whatever man they’re with whenever an alpha strolls by.
Devlin is also the apparent source of the related manosphere myth that most men live lives of quiet celibacy.
An important aspect of hypergamy is that it implies the rejection of most males.
Indeed, Devlin is so convinced by this notion that he simply hand-waves away all data to the contrary.
Survey results are occasionally announced apparently indicating male satisfaction with their “sex lives” and female unhappiness with theirs. This creates an impression that there really is “more sex” for men today than before some misguided girls misbehaved themselves forty years ago. …
It is child’s play to show, not merely that this is untrue, but that it cannot be true. … What happens when female sexual desire is liberated is not an increase in the total amount of sex available to men, but a redistribution of the existing supply. Society becomes polygamous. A situation emerges in which most men are desperate for wives, but most women are just as desperately throwing themselves at a very few exceptionally attractive men. …
Sexual liberation really means the Darwinian mating pattern of the baboon pack reappears among humans.
And …. scene!
Devlin is sometimes described as an “independent scholar,” but even aside from its misogyny and racism “Sexual Utopia in Power” is anything but scholarly. There are only a relative handful of footnotes, which don’t come close to backing up Devlin’s numerous factual claims. Most of the footnotes refer to the writings not of scholars but of conservative and far-right journalists. One links to an article on the racist hate site VDare.com; another favorably cites this article by Henry Makow, an early Men’s Rights Activist turned conspiracy theorist who literally believes that feminists are in league with an evil Satanic-Illuminati cult that rules the world.
Devlin offers precisely zero evidence to back up his claims about hypergamy — aside from a couple of surveys, whose conclusions he rejects, and several quotes from literature, including that one from Oscar Wilde. The rest is, to use the formal term for it, assdata.
Nonetheless, the manosphere has adopted Devlin’s new-and-not-improved version of “hypergamy” with enthusiasm. I won’t even bother citing examples; a Google search for “manosphere” and “hypergamy” brings up 17,700 results. Hell, there are several dozen articles about hypergamy on A Voice for Men alone. And of course I’ve written about the manosphere obsession with hypergamy many times before.
But so far essentially the only people who have picked up on this particular definition of hypergamy have been misogynists, pickup artists, MRAs and others vaguely associated with, or around, the manosphere. The only academic I know of who has ever even addressed Devlin’s peculiar thesis is libertarian economist Tyler Cowan, who wrote about it briefly, and I think accurately, on his blog several years back.
This essay is not politically correct and at times it is misogynous and yes I believe the author is evil (seriously). The main behavioral assumption is that women are fickle. So they are monogamous at points of time but not over time; Devlin then solves for the resulting equilibrium, so to speak. The birth rate falls, for one thing. The piece also claims that the modern “abolition” of marriage strengthens the attractive at the expense of the unattractive. Some of you will hate the piece. I disagree with the central conclusion, and also the motivation, but it does seem to count as a new idea.
As an actual idea, new or old, this is probably all the consideration Devlin‘s version of “hypergamy” really deserves. But as a case study in the history and sociology of bad ideas, the strange story of Devlin’s hypergamy is a bit more interesting, and I no doubt will return to it in future posts.
There is also a good deal in Devlin’s essay that’s a good deal worse than his discussion of hypergamy, and I’ll be coming back to that as well.
Yup, witness the “polite man” in action. /barf
@MaudeLL
I am approaching 40.
Now I get laid.
I have asked that repeatedly, WHY OH FUCKING WHY?
Could you please adress this.
I think we have already covered that I am scum pretty thoroughly.
Y’all saw his first comment about socks to me, right? That was basically “hah, you and I both know I’m socking, dare you to do something about it”.
Sorry, kiddo, the only way I’m willing to domme you is if you pay me. Actually not even then.
Orion: Women do not respond to kindness.
In thirty years (and more than, “my share” of lovers”) this has no been my experience. It has, oddly enough, not been the experience of my friends.
I think you might benefit from engage in the Self-Examined Life Socrates recommends.
So, and I am trying to be as neutral about this as possible, why should I be kind to a woman if behaving like a dick will get my dick wet?
Because being decent to people isn’t about getting laid. Are you only decent to guys who are willing to fuck you? No.
So you are classifying men and women as two diffent kinds of people. That’s just plain being a dick.
You might think you dont need me, but I would look closely at the tax revenue in your area and see how much men contribute and how much women do,
It’s about evenly split thanks. But looking at the asshole factor, men seem to be winning.
I can easily live without women, women depend on us entirely.
That fact is masked by the welfare state, but you can look it up easily, if you would be so kind to do so,
If it’s se easy why do you need women to do the work for you?
I am afraid though that none of it entitles you to your own facts, those very facts have invited you to dig up repeatedly.
I see, too lazy, stupid, or dishonest to present evidence to back your extraordinary claims. Absent that evidence I must presume you are full of shit.
If it’s so easy, show your work. After all, if I pull up different stats you will just say yours refute them. You are making the claim, you get to support it.
So, is anyone going to adress the disparaty of tax revenue when it comes to both sexes
You haven’t, why should we?
I do not understand you people and you dont understand me.
I understand you, you’re a sad and a pathetic little man who hates women and blames them for his troubles. That so many of them are happy, while you aren’t eats at your liver and spoils your days.
So, is anyone interested in an exchange of ideas or is this to be an echochamber?
You first sonny. Share some evidence, or go home.
Unless you believe you have it all right and I have it all wrong?
Nailed it one. As I said, my experience (and the evidence of others) is that treating women as reasonable human beings with their own wants, needs, desires, etc. works. And it gets one supportive friends.
Win-win, even if your dick stays dry.
What’s self evident to any functioning human being is that you don’t shit on someone for being raped. I don’t give a fuck what you think a real man is, you little piece of shit.
Sorry for mentioning there might be hope for you, shithead.
@ at all the other proxy offended,
If LBT is offended he will tell me and I will deal with it,
I honestly wanted to know, so please, get lost.
“I think we have already covered that I am scum pretty thoroughly.”
That’s nice; you admit that you’re asshole. Honesty is good and stuff. Now fuck off.
@Fibinachi
Dammit, I’m trying to eat lunch here!
@LBT
… oh, never mind.
“@ at all the other proxy offended,
If LBT is offended he will tell me and I will deal with it,
I honestly wanted to know, so please, get lost.”
I won’t get lost. Oh, and it doesn’t matter if he was offended; you’re still awful, and we will call you awful.
Hence why I said you were either a teen or an ideological man using misogyny to avoid facing his own problems. Thanks for clarifying you are the latter.
I played a game once, called Call of Cthulhu: Dark Corners of the Earth.
It’s a good game, if you accept the flaws.
It has a neat mechanic as a representation of growning dissocation with reality. If you see things that are “Supernatural”, your screen gets blurry. Your aim gets wobbly. Things get fuzzier and fuzzier, and while this is by no means a good representation of insanity, it is a good representation of a desperate, desperate desire to gloss over and blur the things the character you’re playing desperately wishes where not so.
At the very end, your world is so fuzzy and out of focus that other characters are just solid shapes and corridors weird, angular masses. Shadows carren and dance out of your peripheral vision. You mutter yourself. Nothing is real, everything is just a fuzzy representation and if you hope desperately enough, you won’t have to see any more fishmen.
In this case, the fishmen would be the notion that kindness isn’t a mating strategy, it’s a life strategy.
He’s almost 40 and is carrying on like a fucking teenager? That’s an insult to the many non-asshole teens we have here.
LBT:
But not too many.
Truly, a man who creates 57 sock puppets because he can’t stand being told to go away and taunts rape victims just so that people won’t ignore him is lost.
(Gets philosophical)
Beautiful. The troll brigade in one.
Hey, MrOrionAl? You don’t get to tell any regulars here to get lost. But you know that, of course.
Also I am a golem, created from clay by Rabbi Loew, risen from my attic-y grave by the levels of assholery in the world. I have been hiding in other people’s attics for the past eighty years, and when my cause is done, I shall ascend to the fifth moon of Jupiter, Ganymede, which is where all gay golems go.
Truly.
Work on those boundary issues, MRAL.
Welp. This explains everything.
Orion is the Master.
@Fibinachi
I saw Victor Frankl you know, because I live in Vienna and he visited his home town to give lectures before he died.
Excuse me, but I do not see the arguments you perhaps thought you made?
You have to understand that I have a noogenic crisis.
You can tell me all you want, but I know what women react to.
Does that make me proud, happy, feel superior.
NO!!!
It makes me despair.
Do you get me now?
I dont want it to be that way, but all of my experience tells me that it is just so.
Idea for a new kickstarter: Buy Orion a clue.
hellkell
Absolutely – my suggestion he might be young was based on the amount of decent guys I know who thought that’s how the world worked when they were teens. In no way meant to be an insult to teens in general. [apologies to teens]
“Nobody deserves sex, and If he cried like the little ,,, well, I am not impressed one bit.”
Like a what? Girl? Gay man? Cuz we’ve got both in here and they’ve got far more dignity than you ever will.
“And I dont mean a no, nooo, ohhhh, noooez, Oh my god YESSSS, I mean a hard NO!”
You often make sex noises at someone who was just telling you about being raped or decided to make and exception?
Oh right, you think being an asshole is hot. You do it one purpose. Which is why I say, again GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE.
And no, I’m not backing down either. The line, you fucking crossed it.
(Do I need to change my nym to “do not go after Argenti’s friends”?!)
He cried like a little ellipses made of commas.
He knows how women react! No amount of evidence will change this truthteller’s mind, even though he really ,,,,, really doesn’t like it!!!11!!!!
Poor sock puppet, he doesn’t want it to be that way. *tear*
Damn you, Argenti. Now I’m imagining socky going to the coffee shop.
Would you like room for cream?
Noooo, ohhh, nooo. Hard no!
(Raises eyebrows) OK, so that was a no. That’ll be $2.50.
Wait, I mean yes! Leave me room for cream, baby!
…Fine. Here’s your coffee.
Yeeesss! I mean no.