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Hypergamy: How the harebrained notions of white nationalist F. Roger Devlin took the Manosphere by storm

Hypergamy in action?
How manosphere doofuses think the world actually works.

Another in an ongoing series of posts on seminal works in the manosphere canon, as it were. At some point, I’ll make a page for these.

Like Warren Farrell’s The Myth of Male Power, F. Roger Devlin’s 2006 essay Sexual Utopia in Power (downloadable here) is a kind of Manospherian urtext, an original source of many of the terrible ideas that are now accepted as gospel wherever misogynists gather in large numbers online. Though the name of Devlin is hardly as well known as that of Farrell, many of his ideas, most notably his reworked notion of “hypergamy” — which we will get to in a minute — are omnipresent in the manosphere.

Among misogynists with intellectual pretensions, Devlin’s Sexual Utopia is considered a must-read. Originally brought to the attention of fellow manospherians by PUA pseudointellectual Roissy — now Heartiste — in 2007, the essay has received lavish praise on such familiar sites as The Spearhead (where WF Price praised Devlin’s “critiques of feminism” as “some of the best out there”) and A Voice for Men (where one post described the essay as “supremely indispensable.”)  It’s listed in the sidebar of The Red Pill subreddit as “required reading.” And Norwegian MRA Eivind Berge gushed that the essay was

possibly the best article I have ever read. My blogging against feminism is almost redundant after F. Roger Devlin has put it so well.

So what exactly are all these guys falling over themselves to praise so highly? To put it bluntly, a strange and sprawling compendium of ideas that range from frankly abhorrent to merely silly, motivated by misogyny and racism. Virtually none of the essay’s many gross generalizations about women (or men) are supported by any sort of evidence.

And did I mention that it originally ran in a white nationalist journal?

Yes, “Sexual Utopia in Power” originally ran in The Occidental Quarterly, an explicitly racist journal that described its mission as protecting “the civilization and free governments that whites have created” from the rise of the evil non-white hordes. Indeed, Devlin is on the editorial advisory board of the journal, which currently features an article on its site praising Disney’s Snow White as “a White Nationalist classic.”

While the bulk of Devlin’s essay deals with gender, not race, it is framed — in the very first sentence — by his concern over what he calls the “catastrophic decline” of “white birthrates worldwide.” In other words, no one who has read his article, even if they don’t know what the Occidental Quarterly is, can possibly miss Devlin’s fundamental racism (which is spelled out even more explicitly at the end of this piece).

There is so much in Devlin’s essay that is so objectionable that it cannot fit in a single post, so today I will focus only on his reworked notion of “hypergamy.”

The term was originally a technical way of saying “marrying up” — that is, “the act or practice of marrying a spouse of higher caste or status than oneself,” as Wikipedia rather unromantically puts it.

In Devlin’s hands, the term comes to mean something entirely different:

It is sometimes said that men are polygamous and women monogamous. …

It would be more accurate to say that the female sexual instinct is hypergamous. Men may have a tendency to seek sexual variety, but women have simple tastes in the manner of Oscar Wilde: They are always satisfied with the best. By definition, only one man can be the best. These different male and female “sexual orientations” are clearly seen among the lower primates, e.g., in a baboon pack. Females compete to mate at the top, males to get to the top.

This may sound vaguely familiar to you. Brian Eno once said of the Velvet Underground’s first album that only 30,000 people may have bought copies of it, but “everyone who bought one of those 30,000 copies started a band.” Similarly, everyone who has read Devlin seems to have started a blog or YouTube channel.

Women, in fact, have a distinctive sexual utopia corresponding to their hypergamous instincts. In its purely utopian form, it has two parts: First, she mates with her incubus, the imaginary perfect man; and, second, he “commits,” or ceases mating with all other women. This is the formula of much pulp romance fiction. The fantasy is strictly utopian, partly because no perfect man exists, but partly also because even if he did, it is logically impossible for him to be the exclusive mate of all the women who desire him.

It is possible, however, to enable women to mate hypergamously, i.e., with the most sexually attractive (handsome or socially dominant) men. In the Ecclesiazusae of Aristophanes the women of Athens stage a coup d’état. They occupy the legislative assembly and barricade their husbands out. Then they proceed to enact a law by which the most attractive males of the city will be compelled to mate with each female in turn, beginning with the least attractive. That is the female sexual utopia in power.

And yes, we are rapidly moving towards the manosphere myth that virtually all women are having sex with the same tiny number of men.

Although there may be only one “alpha male” at the top of the pack at any given time, which one it is changes over time. In human terms, this means the female is fickle, infatuated with no more than one man at any given time, but not naturally loyal to a husband over the course of a lifetime.

From here, it seems, comes the widespread manosphere myth that women are inherently amoral creatures who will instantly dump whatever man they’re with whenever an alpha strolls by.

Devlin is also the apparent source of the related manosphere myth that most men live lives of quiet celibacy.

An important aspect of hypergamy is that it implies the rejection of most males.

Indeed, Devlin is so convinced by this notion that he simply hand-waves away all data to the contrary.

Survey results are occasionally announced apparently indicating male satisfaction with their “sex lives” and female unhappiness with theirs. This creates an impression that there really is “more sex” for men today than before some misguided girls misbehaved themselves forty years ago. …

It is child’s play to show, not merely that this is untrue, but that it cannot be true. … What happens when female sexual desire is liberated is not an increase in the total amount of sex available to men, but a redistribution of the existing supply. Society becomes polygamous. A situation emerges in which most men are desperate for wives, but most women are just as desperately throwing themselves at a very few exceptionally attractive men.  …

Sexual liberation really means the Darwinian mating pattern of the baboon pack reappears among humans.

And …. scene!

Devlin is sometimes described as an “independent scholar,” but even aside from its misogyny and racism “Sexual Utopia in Power” is anything but scholarly. There are only a relative handful of footnotes, which don’t come close to backing up Devlin’s numerous factual claims. Most of the footnotes refer to the writings not of scholars but of conservative and far-right journalists. One links to an article on the racist hate site VDare.com; another favorably cites this article by Henry Makow, an early Men’s Rights Activist turned conspiracy theorist who literally believes that feminists are in league with an evil Satanic-Illuminati cult that rules the world.

Devlin offers precisely zero evidence to back up his claims about hypergamy — aside from a couple of surveys, whose conclusions he rejects, and several quotes from literature, including that one from Oscar Wilde. The rest is, to use the formal term for it, assdata.

Nonetheless, the manosphere has adopted Devlin’s new-and-not-improved version of “hypergamy” with enthusiasm. I won’t even bother citing examples; a Google search for “manosphere” and “hypergamy” brings up 17,700 results. Hell, there are several dozen articles about hypergamy on A Voice for Men alone. And of course I’ve written about the manosphere obsession with hypergamy many times before.

But so far essentially the only people who have picked up on this particular definition of hypergamy have been misogynists, pickup artists, MRAs and others vaguely associated with, or around, the manosphere. The only academic I know of who has ever even addressed Devlin’s peculiar thesis is libertarian economist Tyler Cowan, who wrote about it briefly, and I think accurately, on his blog several years back.

This essay is not politically correct and at times it is misogynous and yes I believe the author is evil (seriously).  The main behavioral assumption is that women are fickle.  So they are monogamous at points of time but not over time; Devlin then solves for the resulting equilibrium, so to speak.  The birth rate falls, for one thing.  The piece also claims that the modern “abolition” of marriage strengthens the attractive at the expense of the unattractive.  Some of you will hate the piece.  I disagree with the central conclusion, and also the motivation, but it does seem to count as a new idea.

As an actual idea, new or old, this is probably all the consideration  Devlin‘s version of “hypergamy” really deserves. But as a case study in the history and sociology of bad ideas, the strange story of Devlin’s hypergamy is a bit more interesting, and I no doubt will return to it in future posts.

There is also a good deal in Devlin’s essay that’s a good deal worse than his discussion of hypergamy, and I’ll be coming back to that as well.

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CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Spaces before commas are the mark of a sock puppet, healthy commenters don’t do that.

orion
orion
11 years ago

@LBT

Jesus what are you.

Gay, Lesbian, regrettably raped,what exactly?

Hi, I am Orion, a cisgendered heterosexual male.

What are you?

LBT
LBT
11 years ago

RE: orion

That is the ,mark of a psychopath, healthy males are not like that.

See, I’d like to think that. But you know what? That man cried pretty easily. He believed himself to be very sensitive. He wrote me love poetry, and he cared a great deal what I thought of him. He was an emphatic pacifist.

He just felt that he deserved sex, and if I didn’t want it… well, it was only fair that he take it by force. To call him a psychopath is to dismiss him.

You say I’m not far away from you. Well, I’m telling you now that you aren’t far away from him either.

MaudeLL
11 years ago

I’m with you LBT! (metaphorically, again)

Seriously though, while the chances of Orion trying to hear us out is minimal, I know so many men who thought the way he does when they were young. They all laugh at how ridiculous they were now. Orion sounds young to me (I might be wrong about this), if so, there’s hope. Only the highly ideological/misogynist dudes actually keep this mindset despite reality.

There’s hope, LBT.

(Assholes-get-laid believer to decent guy story by Ian Cromwell as an example) http://freethoughtblogs.com/crommunist/2013/01/09/i-was-a-nice-guy/

Kittehserf
11 years ago

@LBT –

I think I’m going to have to get spectacularly laid tonight. WHO’S WITH ME?*

*Not literally, of course. I mean, figuratively, in the spirit, in a non-voyeuristic way.**

**This metaphor train just derailed.

Me me me! Not that bozo the troll gave me a sad, but in the spirit of Manboobz solidarity and all.*

Hopefully without feline or canine interference this time.

@Ally – merci madame!

*this is what’s known technically as an excuse.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

A particular sock in fact.

“Gut me like a fish.”

No. No gutting fish on my watch! Leave the fishies out of it! Particularly since I actually can’t think of a single species where the males only manage to spawn by being “aggressive”. (Plenty of fishie harems, plenty of really weird mating rituals, a fair number of mated pairs, but no force her species that I can think of.)

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Someone who’s begging strange women to gut him like a fish on the internet needs to stop being so cheap and just hire a domme.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

I’m starting to think this is Mr 90%.

serrana
serrana
11 years ago

Is it time to talk about bras?

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

“@LBT

Jesus what are you.

Gay, Lesbian, regrettably raped,what exactly?

Hi, I am Orion, a cisgendered heterosexual male.

What are you?”

The line, you just fucking crossed it. What LBT is is none of your goddamned business. You come in here, claiming you have to be an asshole to get your dick wet. Prove that you’re an asshole regardless, claim to be polite while advocating “just being aggressive” (which sounds real fucking rapey btw). And then! And then!! Have the fucking gall to get all confused that LBT could’ve been raped since you can’t wrap your microscopic little brain around a man being raped.

Go to hell. Go fuck yourself, literally, and shut the FUCK up.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

Argenti – how about we feed him to the fish instead? Though they’d probably spit him out, considering.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

orion: you really need to fuck off.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

Bras or kitties!

cloudiah, is that Hazel or Buster in your pic now?

serrana
serrana
11 years ago

I wouldn’t mind feeding him to the snails.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Yes, Al was the one with the ,weird ,commas.

And this fucker has proven, yet again, that the easiest way to make me swear at you is to fuck with my friends.

Seriously you little shitstain who cares more about his goddamned dick than insulting regulars in their own goddamned house get the fuck out. You weren’t welcome here in the first place and you sure as shit aren’t now.

anadiomene122
anadiomene122
11 years ago

Imagine feeling so emasculated by your own needs, so guilty that you constantly overcompensate.

It wasn’t Kernberg, I believe it was Deleuze, who said that a sadist is just someone who feels guilty about their own masochism.

I read, too, you know.

MaudeLL
11 years ago

However, If I posted that I will not put up with a lot of female behavior because the allure of pussy is not that strong, you would not like me either.

Be my guest.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Behold, the solution to all of socky’s problems.

http://boston.backpage.com/Domination/mistress-jada-sinn-bostons-only-true-pro-dominatrix-30/5424717

(He should offer to pay her extra for being annoying, though.)

MaudeLL
11 years ago

Wtf is that “what are you” bullshit?

Fibinachi
Fibinachi
11 years ago

@Orion:

I never hinted you didn’t read.

Merely that screed and proffessed creed is reprehensible both in thought and in possible deed.

But you wanna play Literature Reference?

Sure, I’ll go two points in for Viktor Frankl, and gently argue
That he found in, in a camp, pressed on all sides by death
That what lead him on was reason, friendship and stale bread
And not the need to violate someones taboos
Nor some sense of tremendous need to splurge his spooge.

(That’s Logotherapy, by the by)

So the statement of male sexuality and need, this carnal relations desire for aggression
is just some harebrained for impression you’ve happened to store.

I guess that’s not going to convince you, alas?
Fine.

What if we play the game of Neurosis, it’s a fun one, and it’s even somewhat corney
Because I’m referencing a book Karen, Horney
(That was a pun)

And in a simple summation: The crux of the argument is that displaced desires often take the mental pedestal of growth and thus mire you into some sense of wanting or needing something you can’t claim, nor have, nor really want.

I read too, you know.

Oh, and also? That excuses provide by your brain (This is normal for all of my claim, all of my kin!) are often just that – excuses, rationalizations cooked up to defend your ego.

Or hey.

You need chemicals to persist, in daily motion
You don’t need to get laid, it’s a not a required portion
of some token notion
of existence.

Try again.

And if we have to argue from what we believe, why don’t you try the same – and don’t deflect in an attempt to decieve? q:

orion
orion
11 years ago

@LBT
Nobody deserves sex, and If he cried like the little ,,, well, I am not impressed one bit.

If you cannot swallow a no with dignity your are not a real man.

And I dont mean a no, nooo, ohhhh, noooez, Oh my god YESSSS, I mean a hard NO!

Yes there is a difference, yes, it is very, very important.

And quite frankly, that is not a subtlle difference,

That is not a grey area.

That is self evident to any functioning human being.

Gillian
Gillian
11 years ago

You know, I’ve been missing the chewtrolls lately.

This one, though… I don’t think so. This one isn’t worth the bad taste.

orion, you are wrong. Your fundamental mistake is one of universalizing your own experience (or at least your experience as you represent it anonymously on an internet site), but you are also (unless you are suggesting that you can read minds too) oversimplifying something that is complex and highly overdetermined.

And you have indicated that you feel it is justified to treat people abusively for your own sexual gratification.

But mostly, you are tedious and crassly tendentious.

You don’t deserve to be engaged with. You can pitch a wobbly and get yourself banned if you like, but you don’t get to set the terms on what we talk about. It may work with your “dates” (personally, I call bullshit) but you don’t get cookies for being an asshole here.

LBT
LBT
11 years ago

RE: orion

Jesus what are you.

You know, I COULD use Calpurnia Addams’ retort of, “if you can’t tell, you don’t need to know,” but you are special. I’m a gay man, who was raped by a man, and is currently married to a man. There be a plethora of dicks upon my dance floor, yo.

Ally S
11 years ago

@LBT

Jesus what are you.

Gay, Lesbian, regrettably raped,what exactly?

Hi, I am Orion, a cisgendered heterosexual male.

What are you?

…Yeah, GTFO.

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