Another in an ongoing series of posts on seminal works in the manosphere canon, as it were. At some point, I’ll make a page for these.
Like Warren Farrell’s The Myth of Male Power, F. Roger Devlin’s 2006 essay Sexual Utopia in Power (downloadable here) is a kind of Manospherian urtext, an original source of many of the terrible ideas that are now accepted as gospel wherever misogynists gather in large numbers online. Though the name of Devlin is hardly as well known as that of Farrell, many of his ideas, most notably his reworked notion of “hypergamy” — which we will get to in a minute — are omnipresent in the manosphere.
Among misogynists with intellectual pretensions, Devlin’s Sexual Utopia is considered a must-read. Originally brought to the attention of fellow manospherians by PUA pseudointellectual Roissy — now Heartiste — in 2007, the essay has received lavish praise on such familiar sites as The Spearhead (where WF Price praised Devlin’s “critiques of feminism” as “some of the best out there”) and A Voice for Men (where one post described the essay as “supremely indispensable.”) It’s listed in the sidebar of The Red Pill subreddit as “required reading.” And Norwegian MRA Eivind Berge gushed that the essay was
possibly the best article I have ever read. My blogging against feminism is almost redundant after F. Roger Devlin has put it so well.
So what exactly are all these guys falling over themselves to praise so highly? To put it bluntly, a strange and sprawling compendium of ideas that range from frankly abhorrent to merely silly, motivated by misogyny and racism. Virtually none of the essay’s many gross generalizations about women (or men) are supported by any sort of evidence.
And did I mention that it originally ran in a white nationalist journal?
Yes, “Sexual Utopia in Power” originally ran in The Occidental Quarterly, an explicitly racist journal that described its mission as protecting “the civilization and free governments that whites have created” from the rise of the evil non-white hordes. Indeed, Devlin is on the editorial advisory board of the journal, which currently features an article on its site praising Disney’s Snow White as “a White Nationalist classic.”
While the bulk of Devlin’s essay deals with gender, not race, it is framed — in the very first sentence — by his concern over what he calls the “catastrophic decline” of “white birthrates worldwide.” In other words, no one who has read his article, even if they don’t know what the Occidental Quarterly is, can possibly miss Devlin’s fundamental racism (which is spelled out even more explicitly at the end of this piece).
There is so much in Devlin’s essay that is so objectionable that it cannot fit in a single post, so today I will focus only on his reworked notion of “hypergamy.”
The term was originally a technical way of saying “marrying up” — that is, “the act or practice of marrying a spouse of higher caste or status than oneself,” as Wikipedia rather unromantically puts it.
In Devlin’s hands, the term comes to mean something entirely different:
It is sometimes said that men are polygamous and women monogamous. …
It would be more accurate to say that the female sexual instinct is hypergamous. Men may have a tendency to seek sexual variety, but women have simple tastes in the manner of Oscar Wilde: They are always satisfied with the best. By definition, only one man can be the best. These different male and female “sexual orientations” are clearly seen among the lower primates, e.g., in a baboon pack. Females compete to mate at the top, males to get to the top.
This may sound vaguely familiar to you. Brian Eno once said of the Velvet Underground’s first album that only 30,000 people may have bought copies of it, but “everyone who bought one of those 30,000 copies started a band.” Similarly, everyone who has read Devlin seems to have started a blog or YouTube channel.
Women, in fact, have a distinctive sexual utopia corresponding to their hypergamous instincts. In its purely utopian form, it has two parts: First, she mates with her incubus, the imaginary perfect man; and, second, he “commits,” or ceases mating with all other women. This is the formula of much pulp romance fiction. The fantasy is strictly utopian, partly because no perfect man exists, but partly also because even if he did, it is logically impossible for him to be the exclusive mate of all the women who desire him.
It is possible, however, to enable women to mate hypergamously, i.e., with the most sexually attractive (handsome or socially dominant) men. In the Ecclesiazusae of Aristophanes the women of Athens stage a coup d’état. They occupy the legislative assembly and barricade their husbands out. Then they proceed to enact a law by which the most attractive males of the city will be compelled to mate with each female in turn, beginning with the least attractive. That is the female sexual utopia in power.
And yes, we are rapidly moving towards the manosphere myth that virtually all women are having sex with the same tiny number of men.
Although there may be only one “alpha male” at the top of the pack at any given time, which one it is changes over time. In human terms, this means the female is fickle, infatuated with no more than one man at any given time, but not naturally loyal to a husband over the course of a lifetime.
From here, it seems, comes the widespread manosphere myth that women are inherently amoral creatures who will instantly dump whatever man they’re with whenever an alpha strolls by.
Devlin is also the apparent source of the related manosphere myth that most men live lives of quiet celibacy.
An important aspect of hypergamy is that it implies the rejection of most males.
Indeed, Devlin is so convinced by this notion that he simply hand-waves away all data to the contrary.
Survey results are occasionally announced apparently indicating male satisfaction with their “sex lives” and female unhappiness with theirs. This creates an impression that there really is “more sex” for men today than before some misguided girls misbehaved themselves forty years ago. …
It is child’s play to show, not merely that this is untrue, but that it cannot be true. … What happens when female sexual desire is liberated is not an increase in the total amount of sex available to men, but a redistribution of the existing supply. Society becomes polygamous. A situation emerges in which most men are desperate for wives, but most women are just as desperately throwing themselves at a very few exceptionally attractive men. …
Sexual liberation really means the Darwinian mating pattern of the baboon pack reappears among humans.
And …. scene!
Devlin is sometimes described as an “independent scholar,” but even aside from its misogyny and racism “Sexual Utopia in Power” is anything but scholarly. There are only a relative handful of footnotes, which don’t come close to backing up Devlin’s numerous factual claims. Most of the footnotes refer to the writings not of scholars but of conservative and far-right journalists. One links to an article on the racist hate site VDare.com; another favorably cites this article by Henry Makow, an early Men’s Rights Activist turned conspiracy theorist who literally believes that feminists are in league with an evil Satanic-Illuminati cult that rules the world.
Devlin offers precisely zero evidence to back up his claims about hypergamy — aside from a couple of surveys, whose conclusions he rejects, and several quotes from literature, including that one from Oscar Wilde. The rest is, to use the formal term for it, assdata.
Nonetheless, the manosphere has adopted Devlin’s new-and-not-improved version of “hypergamy” with enthusiasm. I won’t even bother citing examples; a Google search for “manosphere” and “hypergamy” brings up 17,700 results. Hell, there are several dozen articles about hypergamy on A Voice for Men alone. And of course I’ve written about the manosphere obsession with hypergamy many times before.
But so far essentially the only people who have picked up on this particular definition of hypergamy have been misogynists, pickup artists, MRAs and others vaguely associated with, or around, the manosphere. The only academic I know of who has ever even addressed Devlin’s peculiar thesis is libertarian economist Tyler Cowan, who wrote about it briefly, and I think accurately, on his blog several years back.
This essay is not politically correct and at times it is misogynous and yes I believe the author is evil (seriously). The main behavioral assumption is that women are fickle. So they are monogamous at points of time but not over time; Devlin then solves for the resulting equilibrium, so to speak. The birth rate falls, for one thing. The piece also claims that the modern “abolition” of marriage strengthens the attractive at the expense of the unattractive. Some of you will hate the piece. I disagree with the central conclusion, and also the motivation, but it does seem to count as a new idea.
As an actual idea, new or old, this is probably all the consideration Devlin‘s version of “hypergamy” really deserves. But as a case study in the history and sociology of bad ideas, the strange story of Devlin’s hypergamy is a bit more interesting, and I no doubt will return to it in future posts.
There is also a good deal in Devlin’s essay that’s a good deal worse than his discussion of hypergamy, and I’ll be coming back to that as well.
He’s still at it?
OK, let’s try this. Yaoi! Thoughts about, recommendations, things that make you snicker.
Protip: approaching all women as if they are merely instantiations of the mysterious archetype Woman will not help you get laid.
Being ballsy enough to walk up to a stranger in a bar who is looking for a one night stand might. For some value of “asshole”, this strategy will work at times, but not for the reasons you think it does.
@hellkell
There is no such think as “involuntary celibacy”
I can most defnitiely assure you, there was a time in my life where I could not get laid for the life of me.
Now I can.
What changed?
“You cannot simply ignore it or rise above it, you need to get laid.”
See those things you’re typing with? Those things called hands? Have fun!
“OK, let’s try this. Yaoi! Thoughts about, recommendations, things that make you snicker.”
Gravitation, cuz banana suit.
@orion, since that sex drive of yours is *so* uncontrollable and you don’t seem to have learned this in middle school, here’s a 100% infallible way of solving that problem no matter what women think of you.
http://media.tumblr.com/88e99fd0c788948e672152c16da49d50/tumblr_inline_mmlixpzH551qz4rgp.gif
anadiomene –
Winner #2! 😀 I’d subsitute energetic for aggressive in my own case (aggressive has only bad connotations for me) but we can like these things at different times with the same person!!!!eleventy!
Though I daresay the latest troll* doesn’t grasp that, either, since nobody’s likely to bother with him twice.
*or latest sock, ‘cos that’s always a possibility.
I really hope the comment about all women liking aggressive sex sometimes wasn’t meant to imply submission, because nope.
Actually nope even if that wasn’t implied, because some people really do only like very soft cuddly emotional sex.
Sex is a reward women have to give men when they ‘behave’ properly now. What a wonderful view of men. The root of your disrespect is simple: entitlement.
On the men/women sex drive thing, I’m sure you are aware that historically, women were considered to be the dangerous high sex drive ones luring men into sex (I’m talking about Western/European history here, from Ancient Greece to Early Modern Europe). They too had ‘factual’ proof about this, seemingly the same type as we hear today to ‘prove’ the opposite. This was used as a reason to restrict women’s movements and access to the public sphere.
In what way is your evidence superior? My anecdotal experience is completely different, yet I know it doesn’t indicate anything about men.
I like the idea of yaoi but not the artwork – manga (is that the right term?) style just doesn’t appeal to me. I liked Kimba the White Lion and the cartoons of that era as a kid, but for erotica … noooo. I’ll stick to my own art for that. 🙂
And again, as long as I held y<our opinions I could not get laid.
Now I can.
WHAT CHANGED?
The 64000 $ question really.
“No, I am not a piece of shit”
Yes, yes you are. Now please give your keyboard a break.
I don’t know enough about yaoi to have an opinion.
Cassandra – yes, the word aggressive doesn’t work for me, either. Energetic, playful, whatever – but aggressive? That implies hostility to me (ymmv), and even in play, nope, nope, nope.
Sometimes being too affectionate too soon is a form of coming on too strong, which will scare a person away. Also, following them around like a desperate puppy dog won’t do wonders for your sex life either.
…and cue world’s tiniest violin for straight, white male incels the world over… on second thought, imma save up my feels for the child sex slaves…
Orion: perhaps you finally crawled up the right chicken’s ass?
I don’t know or care why you can or can’t get laid. It’s not because you’re an asshole, though, that I guarantee.
I wonder how he manages the alarmingly high sex drive while trolling? Straps on a Fleshlight when he sits down at his desk?
Cassandra: probably.
@Orion:
You tell me.
As long as I held my views, I could get laid.
Incidentally, I hold my opinion because I find it right (And the most logically coherent)
So try as you might
You can’t prove that it was your OPINIONS that deadlocked you in the no bone zone
(Badum-tish).
Maybe it was your actions, maybe it was your in-actions.
Maybe it was your smell
Your age
Your lack of grace
Your face?
That’s not an insult, I mean it literally, as in, maybe you stared at people and then stopped and that helped?
You act different now, and that seems to work for you? Awesome, congratulations.
Now be less of a dick, and everyone wins!
NOTICE HOW NO ONE HERE IS SAYING THEY CAN’T GET LAID, despite, apparently, our “wrong” opinions.
Henceforth, it must be something else.
Ponder that.
Also my question. Why is it my fault to deal with your madonna-whore complex? :]
Yeah, I don’t think of “energetic” sex as particularly “aggressive” either, but the MRAs sure seem to…
I think it’s a rape culture thing. Note the troll’s use of the term “conquer” up there. Sex is war: passionate sex can only be framed as domination.
Ok, super NSFW and possible brain bleach material if you’re thinking of Orion.
http://www.brainreleasevalve.com/?p=4945
@MaudeLL
No, I neber said being an asshole is the only way, I claimed it was the cheapest way and I expressed my misgivings,
Would you please reas my post before replying to them?
Thank you.
Shut up, orion.
@MaudeLL
Whose entitlement?
Do yourself a favor and think that one through.
….
“Ten thousand dudebros marched on the nightclub, alight as it was with neon grace. Illuminated, it stood – their final fortress to conquer. The bouncers were vigiliant, and each in their own way, well trained. They would be a formidable trial, requiring both guile and grace, but even that would pale against the inhabitants of the Night Club itself. Shielded by noise-carriers so loud, designed to brush away any sly neg. Defended by glaring lights set at angle to steepen shadows and thus, mask features that would deadly in the daylight. Their might dudebro march would be assailed by the offers of lady drinks and tiny umbrellas, and even then, if they somehow rallied against the odds and broke though, they would find themselves pitted against that most nefarious foe… Cockblockers”.
Sorry where was I? I got carried away.