Another in an ongoing series of posts on seminal works in the manosphere canon, as it were. At some point, I’ll make a page for these.
Like Warren Farrell’s The Myth of Male Power, F. Roger Devlin’s 2006 essay Sexual Utopia in Power (downloadable here) is a kind of Manospherian urtext, an original source of many of the terrible ideas that are now accepted as gospel wherever misogynists gather in large numbers online. Though the name of Devlin is hardly as well known as that of Farrell, many of his ideas, most notably his reworked notion of “hypergamy” — which we will get to in a minute — are omnipresent in the manosphere.
Among misogynists with intellectual pretensions, Devlin’s Sexual Utopia is considered a must-read. Originally brought to the attention of fellow manospherians by PUA pseudointellectual Roissy — now Heartiste — in 2007, the essay has received lavish praise on such familiar sites as The Spearhead (where WF Price praised Devlin’s “critiques of feminism” as “some of the best out there”) and A Voice for Men (where one post described the essay as “supremely indispensable.”) It’s listed in the sidebar of The Red Pill subreddit as “required reading.” And Norwegian MRA Eivind Berge gushed that the essay was
possibly the best article I have ever read. My blogging against feminism is almost redundant after F. Roger Devlin has put it so well.
So what exactly are all these guys falling over themselves to praise so highly? To put it bluntly, a strange and sprawling compendium of ideas that range from frankly abhorrent to merely silly, motivated by misogyny and racism. Virtually none of the essay’s many gross generalizations about women (or men) are supported by any sort of evidence.
And did I mention that it originally ran in a white nationalist journal?
Yes, “Sexual Utopia in Power” originally ran in The Occidental Quarterly, an explicitly racist journal that described its mission as protecting “the civilization and free governments that whites have created” from the rise of the evil non-white hordes. Indeed, Devlin is on the editorial advisory board of the journal, which currently features an article on its site praising Disney’s Snow White as “a White Nationalist classic.”
While the bulk of Devlin’s essay deals with gender, not race, it is framed — in the very first sentence — by his concern over what he calls the “catastrophic decline” of “white birthrates worldwide.” In other words, no one who has read his article, even if they don’t know what the Occidental Quarterly is, can possibly miss Devlin’s fundamental racism (which is spelled out even more explicitly at the end of this piece).
There is so much in Devlin’s essay that is so objectionable that it cannot fit in a single post, so today I will focus only on his reworked notion of “hypergamy.”
The term was originally a technical way of saying “marrying up” — that is, “the act or practice of marrying a spouse of higher caste or status than oneself,” as Wikipedia rather unromantically puts it.
In Devlin’s hands, the term comes to mean something entirely different:
It is sometimes said that men are polygamous and women monogamous. …
It would be more accurate to say that the female sexual instinct is hypergamous. Men may have a tendency to seek sexual variety, but women have simple tastes in the manner of Oscar Wilde: They are always satisfied with the best. By definition, only one man can be the best. These different male and female “sexual orientations” are clearly seen among the lower primates, e.g., in a baboon pack. Females compete to mate at the top, males to get to the top.
This may sound vaguely familiar to you. Brian Eno once said of the Velvet Underground’s first album that only 30,000 people may have bought copies of it, but “everyone who bought one of those 30,000 copies started a band.” Similarly, everyone who has read Devlin seems to have started a blog or YouTube channel.
Women, in fact, have a distinctive sexual utopia corresponding to their hypergamous instincts. In its purely utopian form, it has two parts: First, she mates with her incubus, the imaginary perfect man; and, second, he “commits,” or ceases mating with all other women. This is the formula of much pulp romance fiction. The fantasy is strictly utopian, partly because no perfect man exists, but partly also because even if he did, it is logically impossible for him to be the exclusive mate of all the women who desire him.
It is possible, however, to enable women to mate hypergamously, i.e., with the most sexually attractive (handsome or socially dominant) men. In the Ecclesiazusae of Aristophanes the women of Athens stage a coup d’état. They occupy the legislative assembly and barricade their husbands out. Then they proceed to enact a law by which the most attractive males of the city will be compelled to mate with each female in turn, beginning with the least attractive. That is the female sexual utopia in power.
And yes, we are rapidly moving towards the manosphere myth that virtually all women are having sex with the same tiny number of men.
Although there may be only one “alpha male” at the top of the pack at any given time, which one it is changes over time. In human terms, this means the female is fickle, infatuated with no more than one man at any given time, but not naturally loyal to a husband over the course of a lifetime.
From here, it seems, comes the widespread manosphere myth that women are inherently amoral creatures who will instantly dump whatever man they’re with whenever an alpha strolls by.
Devlin is also the apparent source of the related manosphere myth that most men live lives of quiet celibacy.
An important aspect of hypergamy is that it implies the rejection of most males.
Indeed, Devlin is so convinced by this notion that he simply hand-waves away all data to the contrary.
Survey results are occasionally announced apparently indicating male satisfaction with their “sex lives” and female unhappiness with theirs. This creates an impression that there really is “more sex” for men today than before some misguided girls misbehaved themselves forty years ago. …
It is child’s play to show, not merely that this is untrue, but that it cannot be true. … What happens when female sexual desire is liberated is not an increase in the total amount of sex available to men, but a redistribution of the existing supply. Society becomes polygamous. A situation emerges in which most men are desperate for wives, but most women are just as desperately throwing themselves at a very few exceptionally attractive men. …
Sexual liberation really means the Darwinian mating pattern of the baboon pack reappears among humans.
And …. scene!
Devlin is sometimes described as an “independent scholar,” but even aside from its misogyny and racism “Sexual Utopia in Power” is anything but scholarly. There are only a relative handful of footnotes, which don’t come close to backing up Devlin’s numerous factual claims. Most of the footnotes refer to the writings not of scholars but of conservative and far-right journalists. One links to an article on the racist hate site VDare.com; another favorably cites this article by Henry Makow, an early Men’s Rights Activist turned conspiracy theorist who literally believes that feminists are in league with an evil Satanic-Illuminati cult that rules the world.
Devlin offers precisely zero evidence to back up his claims about hypergamy — aside from a couple of surveys, whose conclusions he rejects, and several quotes from literature, including that one from Oscar Wilde. The rest is, to use the formal term for it, assdata.
Nonetheless, the manosphere has adopted Devlin’s new-and-not-improved version of “hypergamy” with enthusiasm. I won’t even bother citing examples; a Google search for “manosphere” and “hypergamy” brings up 17,700 results. Hell, there are several dozen articles about hypergamy on A Voice for Men alone. And of course I’ve written about the manosphere obsession with hypergamy many times before.
But so far essentially the only people who have picked up on this particular definition of hypergamy have been misogynists, pickup artists, MRAs and others vaguely associated with, or around, the manosphere. The only academic I know of who has ever even addressed Devlin’s peculiar thesis is libertarian economist Tyler Cowan, who wrote about it briefly, and I think accurately, on his blog several years back.
This essay is not politically correct and at times it is misogynous and yes I believe the author is evil (seriously). The main behavioral assumption is that women are fickle. So they are monogamous at points of time but not over time; Devlin then solves for the resulting equilibrium, so to speak. The birth rate falls, for one thing. The piece also claims that the modern “abolition” of marriage strengthens the attractive at the expense of the unattractive. Some of you will hate the piece. I disagree with the central conclusion, and also the motivation, but it does seem to count as a new idea.
As an actual idea, new or old, this is probably all the consideration Devlin‘s version of “hypergamy” really deserves. But as a case study in the history and sociology of bad ideas, the strange story of Devlin’s hypergamy is a bit more interesting, and I no doubt will return to it in future posts.
There is also a good deal in Devlin’s essay that’s a good deal worse than his discussion of hypergamy, and I’ll be coming back to that as well.
@Dvärghundspossen Saying you’re bisexual and kissing other women in bars seems to be the trendy thing to do. But that doesn’t negate actual orientation that some people have and genuine attraction to other women. But you’re right about lower percentages toward same-gender attraction would have just been ignored previously because since the woman was attracted more to men, it wasn’t a “big deal”. But now it’s acceptable, so you can feel free to say it.
Though because it’s so socially acceptable now I think there is a big difference in someone who kisses girls just because they want to turn some guys on… and someone who is genuinely sexually attracted to them. Of course, being bi, they may like to kiss girls AND like to excite guys with it… I mean… because bisexual. 😛
@Wonderwoman: Hm, I’ve actually bumped into that myself when young and single – women wanna make out with me merely to entice guys. It always pissed me off. Like, some hot girl comes up and hit on me and I’m like “yeah RIGHT”, and it turns out she’s got zero interest in me, merely used me to turn on some guy…
I felt it was pretty refreshing when I met my husband that he had no girl on girl fantasies or just couldn’t see the allure in such scenarios. Not that it’s anything wrong with being a man and turned on by lesbian sex, but still… refreshing to meet someone who’s not at all like “you’re bi, WOW THAT’S HOT” but just “okay”.
cloudiah – yup, you’re right. They’re softening you up, for sure. Like WonderWoman said, never let down your guard with Cat Anger Consequences!
(I am so in love with that term.)
I have to admit, I think it’s really hot when the guys I meet are bi. >.> They don’t make out to attract me, though, and I think this is a DAMN SHAME.
iknowathreesomeisunlikelybutstillHAWT
@Dvärghundspossen My husband is the same way. Not really a thing/turn-on for him. So maybe they aren’t so rare!
Reblogged this on oogenhand and commented:
In fact, it is the Radical “Left” who needs chimpanzee-like violence to stay attractive to their girlfriends. There is a reason these animals have small manhoods.
Is there a reason you’re too embarrassed to type the word penis?
Futrelle, the only “man boob” is you.
Wow, duder, that was quite the burn. Got anything else in your arsenal, or did you blow your wad on that nugget of brilliance?
David is rubber, you are glue!
(I got him good!)
Look at the comic panel at the top. The woman depicted is at the top of the sexual hierarchy – a 9 or 10 portrayed to the best of the artist’s ability.
Are you a young man? Do you want to have sex or marriage with such a woman? Reading this site will not help you.
Photos of Mr Futrelle only prove this point. He has nothing to offer an ambitious, talented young man who wants personal success including success with beautiful women.
So MrT, please find yourself a cartoon woman or a 9-10 to date and leave people with no drawing or number fetish alone. Thank you.
Also thread necromancy.
Mr. T: I pity the fool that can’t comprehend the header of this site.
Hint: this is not the blog for dating dips, moron. It’s the one that mocks.
These necromancers are hilarious. “Men, would you like a chance to date, marry, or sex up a cartoon HB 9 or 10? Send me $500 for my failsafe tips to manipulate cartoon women!”
Even more hilarious are the suckers who believe them and defend them. It’s kind of sad, but mostly hilarious the way PUA supporters will defend the men who con them out of their money.
Again, misogynists of the world: if the only way you would consider treating women with decency and respect is if they might reward you with sex, you have a problem.
No, actually, if that becomes the prevailing attitude, it is you that has the problem.
…wow, this one is both horribly wrong and horribly right. Yes, if “the only way you would consider treating women with decency and respect is if they might reward you with sex” becomes the norm, we’ll have a problem. Like, how will cashiers say “have a good day ma’am” if she won’t fuck them?!
But you meant people not rewarding kindness with sex brought it on themselves. Which is such a load of bullshit I know a cow shit pit that smells less foul.
I do not know who this was adressed to, but here I go.
Women do not respond to kindness.
They respond to other things and you can be kind and nice and whatnot, but it does not get their panties wet.
So, and I am trying to be as neutral about this as possible, why should I be kind to a woman if behaving like a dick will get my dick wet?
Thats not something for me to sort out, seriously, its not,
Thats something women have to sort out among themselves,
Good luck!
If it actually was directed at me, that is pure wishful thinking.
Look, I dont need you.
You might think you dont need me, but I would look closely at the tax revenue in your area and see how much men contribute and how much women do,
I can easily live without women, women depend on us entirely.
That fact is masked by the welfare state, but you can look it up easily, if you would be so kind to do so,
What if men no longer care?
They dont need to plot and scheme, all they have to do is turn their backs.
Look at herbivores in Japan, MGTOWs in the Anglosphere, they have already begun to do so.
*dies laughing* you know, get back to us about sex when you aren’t referring to any part of it with the word “wet”…exception made for sex in the shower.
And I LOVE when I assumed to be female cuz I think being nice to women without getting sex out of it is still a reason to be nice.
Like, are you seriously so hard up for sexytimes that you can’t be arsed to be polite if she won’t “get your dick wet”?
It’s about to rain here, pretty sure that’ll get your dick wet.
That is all you have?
I find it lacking,
You were invited to check out the stats wherever it is you live, because they are the same everywhere.
You were invited to check out what really turns women on, also the same everywhere.
And that is your comeback?
Alright,
I’m already elbow deep in stats. Get someone who isn’t working on over 1,400 survey replies to do your homework. Being an asshole for the sake of “getting your dick wet” doesn’t require any rebuttal besides “you’re an asshole”.
And now that the weather’s turning rainy instead of too hot to think, I have surveys to return to.
You can be cis-trans-homo-hetero and anything in between.
I honestly dont care.
I am afraid though that none of it entitles you to your own facts, those very facts have invited you to dig up repeatedly.
Would you please do so.
You would not believe them if I posted them.
I really want to know what the poor herbivore guys ever did to deserve their current status as the go-to appropriation tool for creepy American dudes.