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Hypergamy: How the harebrained notions of white nationalist F. Roger Devlin took the Manosphere by storm

Hypergamy in action?
How manosphere doofuses think the world actually works.

Another in an ongoing series of posts on seminal works in the manosphere canon, as it were. At some point, I’ll make a page for these.

Like Warren Farrell’s The Myth of Male Power, F. Roger Devlin’s 2006 essay Sexual Utopia in Power (downloadable here) is a kind of Manospherian urtext, an original source of many of the terrible ideas that are now accepted as gospel wherever misogynists gather in large numbers online. Though the name of Devlin is hardly as well known as that of Farrell, many of his ideas, most notably his reworked notion of “hypergamy” — which we will get to in a minute — are omnipresent in the manosphere.

Among misogynists with intellectual pretensions, Devlin’s Sexual Utopia is considered a must-read. Originally brought to the attention of fellow manospherians by PUA pseudointellectual Roissy — now Heartiste — in 2007, the essay has received lavish praise on such familiar sites as The Spearhead (where WF Price praised Devlin’s “critiques of feminism” as “some of the best out there”) and A Voice for Men (where one post described the essay as “supremely indispensable.”)  It’s listed in the sidebar of The Red Pill subreddit as “required reading.” And Norwegian MRA Eivind Berge gushed that the essay was

possibly the best article I have ever read. My blogging against feminism is almost redundant after F. Roger Devlin has put it so well.

So what exactly are all these guys falling over themselves to praise so highly? To put it bluntly, a strange and sprawling compendium of ideas that range from frankly abhorrent to merely silly, motivated by misogyny and racism. Virtually none of the essay’s many gross generalizations about women (or men) are supported by any sort of evidence.

And did I mention that it originally ran in a white nationalist journal?

Yes, “Sexual Utopia in Power” originally ran in The Occidental Quarterly, an explicitly racist journal that described its mission as protecting “the civilization and free governments that whites have created” from the rise of the evil non-white hordes. Indeed, Devlin is on the editorial advisory board of the journal, which currently features an article on its site praising Disney’s Snow White as “a White Nationalist classic.”

While the bulk of Devlin’s essay deals with gender, not race, it is framed — in the very first sentence — by his concern over what he calls the “catastrophic decline” of “white birthrates worldwide.” In other words, no one who has read his article, even if they don’t know what the Occidental Quarterly is, can possibly miss Devlin’s fundamental racism (which is spelled out even more explicitly at the end of this piece).

There is so much in Devlin’s essay that is so objectionable that it cannot fit in a single post, so today I will focus only on his reworked notion of “hypergamy.”

The term was originally a technical way of saying “marrying up” — that is, “the act or practice of marrying a spouse of higher caste or status than oneself,” as Wikipedia rather unromantically puts it.

In Devlin’s hands, the term comes to mean something entirely different:

It is sometimes said that men are polygamous and women monogamous. …

It would be more accurate to say that the female sexual instinct is hypergamous. Men may have a tendency to seek sexual variety, but women have simple tastes in the manner of Oscar Wilde: They are always satisfied with the best. By definition, only one man can be the best. These different male and female “sexual orientations” are clearly seen among the lower primates, e.g., in a baboon pack. Females compete to mate at the top, males to get to the top.

This may sound vaguely familiar to you. Brian Eno once said of the Velvet Underground’s first album that only 30,000 people may have bought copies of it, but “everyone who bought one of those 30,000 copies started a band.” Similarly, everyone who has read Devlin seems to have started a blog or YouTube channel.

Women, in fact, have a distinctive sexual utopia corresponding to their hypergamous instincts. In its purely utopian form, it has two parts: First, she mates with her incubus, the imaginary perfect man; and, second, he “commits,” or ceases mating with all other women. This is the formula of much pulp romance fiction. The fantasy is strictly utopian, partly because no perfect man exists, but partly also because even if he did, it is logically impossible for him to be the exclusive mate of all the women who desire him.

It is possible, however, to enable women to mate hypergamously, i.e., with the most sexually attractive (handsome or socially dominant) men. In the Ecclesiazusae of Aristophanes the women of Athens stage a coup d’état. They occupy the legislative assembly and barricade their husbands out. Then they proceed to enact a law by which the most attractive males of the city will be compelled to mate with each female in turn, beginning with the least attractive. That is the female sexual utopia in power.

And yes, we are rapidly moving towards the manosphere myth that virtually all women are having sex with the same tiny number of men.

Although there may be only one “alpha male” at the top of the pack at any given time, which one it is changes over time. In human terms, this means the female is fickle, infatuated with no more than one man at any given time, but not naturally loyal to a husband over the course of a lifetime.

From here, it seems, comes the widespread manosphere myth that women are inherently amoral creatures who will instantly dump whatever man they’re with whenever an alpha strolls by.

Devlin is also the apparent source of the related manosphere myth that most men live lives of quiet celibacy.

An important aspect of hypergamy is that it implies the rejection of most males.

Indeed, Devlin is so convinced by this notion that he simply hand-waves away all data to the contrary.

Survey results are occasionally announced apparently indicating male satisfaction with their “sex lives” and female unhappiness with theirs. This creates an impression that there really is “more sex” for men today than before some misguided girls misbehaved themselves forty years ago. …

It is child’s play to show, not merely that this is untrue, but that it cannot be true. … What happens when female sexual desire is liberated is not an increase in the total amount of sex available to men, but a redistribution of the existing supply. Society becomes polygamous. A situation emerges in which most men are desperate for wives, but most women are just as desperately throwing themselves at a very few exceptionally attractive men.  …

Sexual liberation really means the Darwinian mating pattern of the baboon pack reappears among humans.

And …. scene!

Devlin is sometimes described as an “independent scholar,” but even aside from its misogyny and racism “Sexual Utopia in Power” is anything but scholarly. There are only a relative handful of footnotes, which don’t come close to backing up Devlin’s numerous factual claims. Most of the footnotes refer to the writings not of scholars but of conservative and far-right journalists. One links to an article on the racist hate site VDare.com; another favorably cites this article by Henry Makow, an early Men’s Rights Activist turned conspiracy theorist who literally believes that feminists are in league with an evil Satanic-Illuminati cult that rules the world.

Devlin offers precisely zero evidence to back up his claims about hypergamy — aside from a couple of surveys, whose conclusions he rejects, and several quotes from literature, including that one from Oscar Wilde. The rest is, to use the formal term for it, assdata.

Nonetheless, the manosphere has adopted Devlin’s new-and-not-improved version of “hypergamy” with enthusiasm. I won’t even bother citing examples; a Google search for “manosphere” and “hypergamy” brings up 17,700 results. Hell, there are several dozen articles about hypergamy on A Voice for Men alone. And of course I’ve written about the manosphere obsession with hypergamy many times before.

But so far essentially the only people who have picked up on this particular definition of hypergamy have been misogynists, pickup artists, MRAs and others vaguely associated with, or around, the manosphere. The only academic I know of who has ever even addressed Devlin’s peculiar thesis is libertarian economist Tyler Cowan, who wrote about it briefly, and I think accurately, on his blog several years back.

This essay is not politically correct and at times it is misogynous and yes I believe the author is evil (seriously).  The main behavioral assumption is that women are fickle.  So they are monogamous at points of time but not over time; Devlin then solves for the resulting equilibrium, so to speak.  The birth rate falls, for one thing.  The piece also claims that the modern “abolition” of marriage strengthens the attractive at the expense of the unattractive.  Some of you will hate the piece.  I disagree with the central conclusion, and also the motivation, but it does seem to count as a new idea.

As an actual idea, new or old, this is probably all the consideration  Devlin‘s version of “hypergamy” really deserves. But as a case study in the history and sociology of bad ideas, the strange story of Devlin’s hypergamy is a bit more interesting, and I no doubt will return to it in future posts.

There is also a good deal in Devlin’s essay that’s a good deal worse than his discussion of hypergamy, and I’ll be coming back to that as well.

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Maude LL
Maude LL
11 years ago

“Most men are desperate for wives”
I thought the narrative was that women were trying to trick men into marriage, and that MGTOW were heroically denying all those women a wedding ring.

La Strega
11 years ago

Thanks for doing this, David. For those like myself new to this movement, it is helpful to get some historical background. I have to come back to this later because there is a lot to read here and I’m rushing to work. Have a great day everyone and I’ll rejoin the conversation later.

La Strega
11 years ago

BTW, your graphic here (as always) is genius. Where do you find these images?

Falconer
Falconer
11 years ago

Always wondered why Janet goes to Carterhaugh even when she’s warned that Tam Lin will either demand her kirtle, or sex.

It’s the hypergamy, which is evidenced by the loads of sex Tam Lin is obviously getting, because of the warning, you see.

Hey, it makes as much sense as anything I just read.

Falconer
Falconer
11 years ago

Re: The post image. Obviously the way to be Alpha is to cosplay Lounge Lizard Captain America. Lounge Lizard Jean-Paul Sartres certainly cannot compete with the awesome peacocking thereof.

Rane
Rane
11 years ago

Glad I’m asexual. Unfortunately that won’t stop misogynists from bugging me.

Modern Feminine Mystique

And where are Devlin’s sources? Was he a psychologist of some sort, or did he come up with the nonsense? Another thing, I always ignore mrm terms such as female hypergamy and the feminine imperative (because we all know women where protected and respected through history in the name of those poor men who died – sarcasm). Now after learning what female hypergamy is I will continue to ignore the nonsense.

Darth Conans
Darth Conans
11 years ago

The use of baboons in the example is strange. Presumably, if you were trying to argue by analogy using primates, you’d want to use things that are more directly related to humans. Baboons aren’t even apes. In fact, if you’re going to argue that humans are somehow currently enslaved to biology and that we can understand the terms of this durance by studying our close relatives (an idiotic thing to do, obviously, but one that Devlin seems to insist on), you’d probably arrive at the conclusion that we’re meant to live our lives in mated pairs , with a somewhat high cheating rate, not the bizarre babbon troupe harem Devlin suggests.
You can generally tell what kind of reproductive model an ape will have based on its level of sexual dimorphism (greater dimorphism correlates with greater mate competition and more limited reproductive options for non-dominant males) and sexual adaptations. Though our closest relative, the chimpanzee, has a reproductive life characterized either by endless sexual coercion and infanticide or wild sexual experimentation, depending on subspecies, it’s not a good analogue for humans. Chimps exhibit moderate sexual dimorphism and the males have lots of adaptations for dealing with sperm competition (a male chimp’s testes are about the same size as it’s brain, for instance). Humans are less sexually dimorphic, and possess none of these adaptations (aside from possibly the shape of the male penis, although the studies arguing this were very shoddy). Gorillas are an even poorer model, with simply incredible levels of dimorphism (you can sex a gorilla skeleton with total certainty from a 5 second glance at the skull, something that is unthinkable in a human). Orangutans are also fairly dimorphic (flesh pads on the male face) and also probably too solitary in the wild to serve as anything like a model for humans. That leaves the lesser apes (gibbons and siamangs). If you were looking (for some insane reason) for an ape with equivalent sexual characteristics to a human, these are a good fit. Mild sexual dimorphism, not hyper adapted to deal with sperm competition. However, the reproductive model gibbons use (mated life pairs, with a surprising amount of cheating by both parties) is very different from this hypergamy bullshit.
Leaving aside all of the other biological determinist, sexually essentialist, binary perpetuating, misogyny fueling, entitlement abetting, generalizing nonsense that Devlin tries here, his argument isn’t even internally consistent.

pineapplecookies
pineapplecookies
11 years ago

Is it just me or MRAs sound like boys who can’t get a date? Sounds as women rejected them and thus women are evil and just want alphas which they are not.. am I following this? Because it sounds so puerile…

… and like women get any men they want. Any. Just like that. Look cute and you are set. Which I believe we all know it’s not reality. And if they think it is, it does not speak well of the picture of man they are portraying.

An Inconvenient Truth
An Inconvenient Truth
11 years ago

“manosphere myth” def. A reality of life that offends feminist sensibilities.

Hypergamy don’t real! IRepeat, hypergamy don’t real at all!

pineapplecookies
pineapplecookies
11 years ago

“A reality of life that offends feminist sensibilities”? What? õ_ô

Fade
11 years ago

@inconvenient truth

I control “f”ed hypergamy in the ucla article, and I didn’t see it. So how’s it supposed to prove it exists if they don’t even mention it?

Bonelady
Bonelady
11 years ago

What’s interesting is that he isn’t even right about baboons. In the Olive Baboon (Papio anubis) as I recall, males and females developed what the scientist studying them called “friendships” – they foraged together, the male helped care for the female’s current young (whether or not he was the genetic father), and when the female came into season she was more likely to mate with the friend than with the alpha male of the troop. This comes from a book by Barbara Smuts, Sex and Friendship in Baboons. So nope, you can’t blame hypergamy on baboons. Must be fun to do “research” when you can make all your facts up.

Fade
11 years ago

Eh, i’m super bored and waiting for lunch to bake, so I skimmed the UCLA article

TL;DR cis women might treat their partners slightly differently during different points in their hormone cycle. I wonder if they do any studies about this for cis men… I’m gonna guess probably not.

Even reading the article, it totally does not prove that hypergamy exists. I mean, it felt a little evo-psych-bullshitty to me (though i can’t pinpoint why), but it did not say any of the stuff you thought it would say, truthy

budmin
budmin
11 years ago

So the concept of hypergamy was corrupted by a white nationalist but not created by him. That’s a relief.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Troofy: go away.

Hypergamy, like misandry, is not a thing. Since when are these MRA jagoffs so hot to get married in the first place? I thought that was slavery or something to them.

Bob Dole
Bob Dole
11 years ago

I recently submitted some Devlin shit to FSTDT, and now David writes about him. Coincidence? Probably.

And I’d like to thank you, Mr. Futrelle, for writing about ol’ Fucker Roger Devlin (I consider it a sort of birthday present, btw). While your going after commenters is also good, in the immortal words of Gradius, shoot the core.

pecunium
11 years ago

Chimps have large testes, not as large as their brains:

The brain of a chimpanzee has been measured at… a general range of 282–500 cc. Human brains, in contrast, have been measured as being three times larger, variously reported volumes include …averages of ~1330 cc

Chimpanzee testicles are unusually large for their body size, with a combined weight of about 4 oz (110 g)

(wikipedia entry on chimpnzees) (human testicles are about 1 oz.)

GreySky
GreySky
11 years ago

Even taken at its own (silly) terms this makes no sense.
If you’re so in to evo psych and biological determinism, shouldn’t you just accept that women are what their biology dictates (I know, but we’re taking this on its own terms right now)? What’s the point in railing against it? It’s like being angry that people eat or sleep.

Also, why are men desperate? If we really are like the species of apes where only the Alpha mates with the females in the group – except for the occasional fuck on the side, when he’s not looking – shouldn’t men have evolved to accept this order of things? Non-Alpha gorilla and chimp males don’t seem to be flipping out.

tarnishedsophia
11 years ago

I covered some of this myth of “most men have no chance with women” on my post The Games We Play (Part 2). Although only from the viewpoint of gaming culture (which has so many stereotypes of single geek guys it’s incredible), I show that it really doesn’t seem to be true.

Usually when I bring my (admittedly casual) data up in conversation with MRAs, I’m told that I and/or my store are “outliers”. I’m getting ready to ask how many outliers it takes before one realizes they are the norm…

Fade
11 years ago

@GreySky

Let me see if I can imitate a manospherian long enough to figure this out.

*clears throat*

*manospherian mode engaged*

MEN need to mate with as many people as possible because SPERM, but females should be lucky for MEN because who else will protect them from saber tooth lions? females do not possess the ability to run away of course1!!!!!eleventy

MENS BIOLOGY MEANS WE CAN ACT HOWEVER WE WANT!!!!

FEMALES BIOLOGY MEANS SHAPE UP LADIES!!!!

*rage quits life*

/manospherian off.

obviously, b/c women are evil.

Darth Conans
Darth Conans
11 years ago

Amendment to my earlier post: although a chimp’s brain is of comparable size to its testicles, the testicles are indeed smaller. See attached image (possibly nsfw, depending on your work’s attitude toward skinless testicles):
http://www.atomicnerds.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Picture1-5.png

Buntzums
Buntzums
11 years ago

I met a guy who wanted to get a gun licence to protect himself from “white knights” whom he had never met because of this kind of pseudo-science. It’s a sad day when people have to invent impossible scenarios. His level of thinking went so far as to believe that other men would attack him for asking women out and the like.

Aaron
11 years ago

This reminds me of free market ideology. The argument has the same structure: first, start with a somewhat plausible premise, usually an essentialized or slightly-off version of something that’s actually true. Women generally tend to prefer men who have the respect or admiration of others; rephrase that as “alpha” or “status” to make it seem less obvious. Then they treat it like an axiom and derive elaborate structures of thought only loosely affiliated with the world we actually live in.

freemage
freemage
11 years ago

So, just out of curiosity, I just read the play the author of this silly, silly essay cited, Ecclesiazusae of Aristophanes. And yes, the women do take over the Senate, but then, whereas he claims that:

Then they proceed to enact a law by which the most attractive males of the city will be compelled to mate with each female in turn, beginning with the least attractive. That is the female sexual utopia in power.

What actually happens is that the women declare that the least attractive women and men must be satisfied first. What is then created is a situation whereby ugly men become wingmen for attractive men. It is, in fact, the exact opposite of a polygamous situation; instead, if one were to use the thrice-damned ‘point’ scale, a self-sorting procedure occurs whereby the ugliest people sleep with… other ugly people.

If anything, what results in the play, as a result of women, is an end to several men battling for one “ten”.

So, even within the horribly fucked-up universe of the MRA worldview, they get it wrong.

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