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Why haven’t Men’s Rights Activists turned on Paul Elam for falsely accusing Arianna Pattek of civil rights violations? [UPDATE: Elam retraction]

Graphic from SAVE Services, whose press releases are regularly run on A Voice for Men. Why doesn't this apply to Paul Elam?
Graphic from SAVE Services, whose press releases regularly run on A Voice for Men. Why doesn’t this policy apply to Paul Elam?

UPDATE: Elam has retracted his original story. See the end of this post for more details.

Men’s Rights Activists often insist that false accusations of rape are literally as bad as rape itself, and that false accusers of rape should spend as much time in prison as actual rapists.

Presumably they feel the same way about false accusers of other crimes, from murder to check kiting.

So in the wake of Paul Elam’s reckless false accusations against recent Georgetown graduate Arianna Pattek, one would expect other MRAs to rise up en masse to demand that Elam turn himself in.

Elam, you may recall, accused Pattek of serious violations of civil rights laws, claiming that she, as an employee of Georgetown’s admissions office, showed clear bias against white men. Indeed, Elam didn’t even qualify his accusations with an “alleged,” as journalists routinely do when writing about those accused but not convicted of crimes. Here’s what he wrote about her:

Pattek, who clearly has issues with sexual and racial bigotry, decided she would not only trash the applications of white males on sight, she also decided to blog about her activities under what she assumed was anonymous conditions. Writing for a web blog called The Feminist Conservative, Pattek laid out precisely what she was doing in very clear terms. …

Clearly this is a person not only warped by ideology, but who also holds deep seated prejudices that guided her unscrupulous actions. Her targets were selected by sex, race, political beliefs and perhaps even religion. Her identity was traced after she referenced the subject of her master’s thesis at Georgetown in some of her writing, including the “about” page at the Feminist Conservative.

The trouble is that absolutely none of this is true. There’s nothing linking Pattek to the blog, which seems to be a hoax, and numerous things suggesting that she is NOT the author of the blog any more than Paul Elam is.

As Georgetown has made clear, Pattek never worked for the school’s admissions office. She never wrote a Master’s thesis; she graduated from Georgetown in 2012 with a bachelors degree, not a masters (as Elam claims) or a doctorate (as the FeministConservative blogger claimed about herself, if she is even a she). Pattek’s thesis was a Senior thesis required for her minor in Justice and Peace, which a program for undergraduates. The topic(s) of her senior thesis only bear a slight resemblance to the topic(s) of the alleged doctoral thesis of the FeministConservative blogger. Even a quick perusal of the “evidence” posted on A Voice for Men will reveal numerous other discrepancies.

Indeed, the falsity and recklessness of Elam’s charges against Pattek are so patently obvious that even some MRAs have begun to doubt. On the Men’s Rights subreddit, for example, the mods have added “May be fake” to the title of the thread discussing the feministconservative blog controversy.

In the comments, someone called isktamin offers this take:

I’ve been on another forum with a couple other people, and this is absolutely a fake. [Pattek’s] thesis states that she is of Jewish descent and identifies wholly as Jewish, while the blog states that she is Christian and not of Jewish descent.

Pattek seems to be a pretty good person. Someone’s been deleting all traces of her from the GU website, likely another student. Google archives are telling us that she has multiple awards, she helped children in need in Kenya. Her thesis is of pretty good quality, too. The blog is of shit quality without effort to spell things correctly. It’s quite the blatant online defamation campaign, and I haven’t the slightest idea why.

Incidentally, he’s right about the difference in religion, the awards, the work Pattek did in Kenya, the difference in quality between the blog and Pattek’s thesis. He’s wrong about who deleted the information: as we learned yesterday, it was the current director of the Justice and Peace program, in response to harassment from white supremacists.

Meanwhile, alt right Manosphere blogger Chuck Ross of Gucci Little Piggy has also cast serious doubt on Elam’s accusations.

Even on A Voice for Men a few Men’s Rights Activists have challenged Elam’s case, most notably Chris Deslone, the founder of the Men’s Rights subreddit and a contributor to AVFM.

So where is the upswelling of outrage amongst MRAs at Elam’s false accusations? Where are the calls for him to be charged with crimes as serious as the civil rights violations he has accused Pattek of? Where are the calls for him to turn himself in – or at the very least, to apologize for his misdeeds and step down from his position at A Voice for Men?

I haven’t seen any.

For MRAs, sorry seems to be the hardest word.

You might expect Pierce Harlan of the so-called Community of the Wrongly Accused to have some sympathy for the wrongly accused Pattek. But he’s said nothing on his site (or anywhere else, as far as I know) about Elam’s false and reckless accusations, and Elam is still listed in the Community of the Wrongly Accused sidebar as a “False rape activist,” whatever that is.

Over on the Men’s Rights subreddit, meanwhile, the mods actually deleted a post asking “So, when does the woman you guys falsely accused get an apology?” (You can still find it here, but you can no longer reach it from the Men’s Rights subreddit itself.) The comments, naturally, are full of denial, and many have been deleted, making for a surreal discussion indeed. “I don’t recall having falsely accused anyone of anything,” real-boethius wrote indignantly. “Even AVFM had the story up as “Georgetown University Coverup?” – note the question mark, and they state that the evidence is inconclusive.”

Uh, Did. You. Actually. Read. Elam’s. Post?

Elam, for his part, after adamantly attacking all those who challenged his accusations in any way, may now realize that he’s made a huge mistake. He hasn’t admitted this, of course, but he has awkwardly appended to his post some of the information gathered by Chris Deslone that clearly shows that his accusations are completely bogus. So now we have the strange spectacle of a post that accuses Pattek of various civil rights violations, without even an “allegedly” to qualify the accusations, which ends with links to official statements from Georgetown that undercut everything Elam has said:

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Here, here and here are the Twitter links in that screenshot.

All of this is surreal enough, but perhaps the most surreal response to the whole thing comes from the Reno, Nevada MRA known as Scarecrow, a former-but-now-banned Man Boobz commenter, in a comment on Reddit:

scare

Apparently nothing is ever the fault of MRAs ever, including the things they do.

UPDATE: Elam has now retracted his original story naming Pattek as a civil rights violator. Here are the key bits of his retraction:

In hindsight it is apparent that I was too fast on the trigger in establishing a connection between the blogger who claimed to have sabotaged the applications and that of a former student at Georgetown. While there is circumstantial evidence that does connect the two, and many unanswered questions, there is nothing that makes that connection a verifiable certainty.

It was a mistake on my part for which I apologize to the woman in question, and to any readers who felt they were misled. The original article naming her has been updated with a link to this retraction and her name has been redacted from the article. I am also removing all comments to the article and closing them to make sure no references to her are made.

I think this somewhat mealymouthed mea culpa is about as close to an admission of wrongdoing as we’re ever likely to get from Elam on anything.

Elam continues to cast vague aspersions on Georgetown itself, however:

I also want to make it clear that this retraction does not mean that AVFM is abandoning its investigation into the validity of the claims made about trashing university applications based on sex and race. Additionally, we are not done with concerns about the university itself, whose unusual and somewhat cryptic manner of responding to this story leaves more questions than answers.

Actually, I think Georgetown was fairly direct in responding to most of the questions on its official Twitter account. Elam also brings up his conspiracy theory, saying that

we did not take an interest in it until it became apparent that Georgetown University was moving, without explanation, to remove all references to her from their websites.

In fact, the director of the Justice and Peace program at Georgetown, Mark Lance, provided an explanation of this to my readers yesterday, as I pointed out in this post. But I’ll recap: according to Lance, the past director of the Justice and Peace program took her information down in response to harassment from white supremacists. There’s nothing particularly mysterious about that.

I’m honestly surprised to see Elam admit to being wrong about anything. I suspect — though I have no proof, and this is simply speculation — that he may have spoken to a lawyer — either his own, or someone else’s.

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Kittehserf
11 years ago

Blockquote yay! 😀

La Strega
11 years ago

Ignore this. I’m trying to use the block quote now!

La Strega
11 years ago

I’ll try again later.

opheliamonarch
11 years ago

Thank you Bagelsan, you’re lovely 🙂 you know what they say,

what doesn’t break you makes you stranger

You see, I’m getting overconfident now, sod’s law says that blockquote ain’t gonna work.

opheliamonarch
11 years ago

Go me, go me, next stop Excel…..:)

opheliamonarch
11 years ago

Although smileys are apparently beyond me 🙁

Bagelsan
Bagelsan
11 years ago

If you master Excel, teach me its mysteries! 😀

Kittehserf
11 years ago

That’s a really good article, opheliamonarch.

I see it only took about four comments before some twit was “misandry is a thing!” though. ::rolls eyes::

Kittehserf
11 years ago

“What doesn’t break you makes you stranger” – please tell me that’s not a typo, it’s too good to be a typo! 😀

opheliamonarch
11 years ago

Hey Kittehserf, definately not a typo, long-standing joke with Mr.M. 🙂

Speaking of Mr’s, how’s Louis, hope he’s not too big on privacy, as I’ve been reading your blog (absolutely fabulous darling) and having a look at his chequered past,
he’s quite the guy 🙂

opheliamonarch
11 years ago

Bagelsan, normally leave the computer stuff to Mr.M, he’s a games developer, good excuse for me to remain a tech philistine 🙂

Kittehserf
11 years ago

Oh yay, ‘cos I like that saying and may just steal it!

LOL if Louis was fussed about privacy I wouldn’t be blogging my diary at all – it’s there to be read.

He certainly had one hell of a life earth-side, one he was glad to leave. I have two shelves full of books about him, or his times, gathered over twenty-plus years.

We’ve had some lovely days at Home this week, finishing the spring planting, enjoying the results and having Scrabble fights. 😉 Oh, and celebrating our sixth marriage-anniversary (not wedding – long story) last night, which I shall have to write up carefully for fear of tripping into TMI territory.

He’s sitting here at work now with his feet up and sort of half-napping, and just looked up (he’s like a cat, knows when people are talking about him, lol) enough to say Hi.

timetravellingfool
11 years ago

Oh my god, princessbonbon- trolling those guys has got to be the least fun ever. Ever play that game defend you castle? It starts off all fun and easy, you’re hurling stick men into the sky and they splat on the ground. And then more stick men start coming. And you’re hurling them around and they start to run faster and then you get ahead levels but you realize there is no end to this game, there is just more and more stick men and it will never end!! That is what it is like to troll youtube. Never again. But you sound very sane, btw!! And you are much nicer than I am- I am a mean troll.

Mikey
Mikey
11 years ago

Elam is the leader of a movement which is attempting to reverse all the gains made by feminism. Think about that for a second or two.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

So like Jezebel when someone links an article from there on Deadspin because Gawker likes to troll its own users.

freemage
11 years ago

I’m just gonna stick up some brain-bleach and happiness pics here.
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These two just seem like they’re potential metaphors for the arrival of a troll on this board:
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princessbonbon
11 years ago

Oh my god, princessbonbon- trolling those guys has got to be the least fun ever. Ever play that game defend you castle?

Never heard of the game but it is definitely like that. Your comments were funny though, I enjoyed them.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

All the squees!

Quackers
Quackers
11 years ago

Regarding that poster, from everything I’ve seen from MRAs including this, they want to make it completely unacceptable to ever mention the facts that rapists tend to usually be male. This to me is silencing free speech, and not only that but silencing facts too.

I’m not saying rapists are never women, or that we should never mention female rapists…but lets be fucking realistic here. This is really disturbing to me because essentially we are no longer allowed to discuss rape unless its dictated on MRA terms. Fuck. That. Shit. Notice how they’re coming into all these things with videocameras too? I wonder why. To make sure no one says anything meaaaaan or anti-MRA. If they do, they dox away.

They claim its so unfair to “teach men not to rape” yet they have no problem “teaching women not to dress like sluts, its just protection doncha know!

What about men who get women drunk on purpose so they can get their guard down? those types of men do exist. What about how we structure male/female sexuality? men chase and get the girl as a prize…Men have to obtain sex, women have to give up sex. Like this isn’t at all damaging.

I don’t know about you guys but I think if this continues its going to do a lot of harm. Silencing is what they are after.

cloudiah
11 years ago

freemage, did they cross a yeti with a chicken in that last photo? Wow.

opheliamonarch
11 years ago

Quackers, this is why I love the Buddhist take on any type of sex abuse. They say (paraphrasing) no sexual misconduct, that, to me, covers it all, from child abuse to rape, and includes not being a wanker in the bedroom. Hope that made sense.

Kittehserf, any good book titles on Louis (pref on kindle) love the history 🙂

Kittehserf
11 years ago

Quackers, yeah, I raise my eyebrows a bit at the “but other kinds of rape!” if that means suggesting that rape isn’t overwhelmingly a crime committed by men against women.

Quackers
Quackers
11 years ago

we teach people stealing is wrong…oh what does that mean we’re all theives?! how dare they insinuate that!!!

we teach people cheating on their spouse is wrong…oh what are they saying we’re all cheaters?? how dare they!!!

I’ve no problem if they want to change the slogan or whatever to “teach people rape is wrong” to make it sound more fair, but I’ve not seen enough evidence to see that rape is a gender neutral in regards to perpetrators, and one 12 month CDC survey is not enough to convince me yet.

And does anyone notice how ironic it is, that for MRAs who complain so much about how “PC” our culture is, they are trying to do just that with the slogan? trying to make it politically correct so that it doesn’t hurt their feelings? No one bloody well thinks all men are rapists, that’s just ridiculous and them saying feminists all think at over and over does not make it true.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

@ Quackers

This is one of those classic “reality has a liberal bias” things.