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So who exactly has been harassing that red-haired Canadian feminist? A not-quite-scientific survey

MRAs rarely let facts get in the way of their tantrums
MRAs rarely let facts get in the way of their tantrums

So the Men’s Rights subreddit has temporarily relaxed its policy of not allowing links to the terrible cesspool of lies that is Man Boobz to allow this post attacking me for detailing the disgusting threats and harassment a certain Canadian feminist activist has faced in recent days.

Most of the commenters flatly ignored the evidence of doxing and harassment that I included in my post — if they even bothered to read it — and simply invented their own story of what had happened. Instead of denouncing those who left death threats, they attacked me and the activist in question. And blamed all the ugliness on “trolls.”

Men’s Rights regular Sigil1, who used to post awful comments on Man Boobz as Eoghan (and using countless other sockpuppet accounts) responded in an all-too-predictable fashion, by falsely accusing me of making “false accusations” against MRAs.

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You may recall that in my post I offered two pieces of evidence that showed that MRAs were involved in posting this woman’s personal information on the internet — that is, doxing her. One was a large screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum containing a wide array of her personal information including phone numbers and her home address. I also noted that the A Voice for Men forum featured links to several of her dating profiles.

In other words, these are clearly MRAs, and they have been disseminating her personal information — that is, doxing — her. To repeat, and I’m sorry that I have to repeat such an utterly simpleminded point: THE FACT THAT SOME PEOPLE (WHO ARE MRAS) ARE DOXING HER MEANS THAT MRAS HAVE BEEN DOXING HER. Other people who are probably not MRAs have also been doxing her.

In the Reddit thread, giegerwasright complains that “they” — meaning me –“are also moving the goalposts on doxxing to suit their needs.” Well, no. I’d say that a post on a Men’s Rights forum that includes her picture, links to her Facebook page, her Tumblr blog, her YouTube account, her old Twitter account, a dating profile, her home address and two phone numbers is “doxing” by pretty much everyone’s definition of the term.

As anyone who looks at the large screenshot I posted earlier would see, its author  — a famous MRA spammer who goes by the name John Rambo — urged men to “contact her through one of the below methods and ask her why she hates men so much.”

In my earlier post I showed you the sort of horrific stuff many of those who have been contacting her have been saying.

Did I provide proof that any of these threatening and harassing comments were from MRAs? Well, aside from one message from A Voice for Men’s Dan Perrins, which was more of a gloating message than a threatening one, no. Part of the reason for this is that most of the direct threats sent to the activist were sent — wait for it — anonymously. That’s how threat-makers generally do things. Cuts down the possibility of getting in trouble.

As for the YouTube comments, I didn’t check. Why? Because, given that the video in question was titled “mras and feminists arguing at u of t mra event,” and that the video was linked to on assorted Men’s Rights sites including the Men’s Rights subreddit and A Voice for Men, I figured that the odds were pretty good that a lot of them were MRAs; certainly the odds that none of them were MRAs were pretty much zero. (And of course I never claimed they were all MRAs.)

But as I sat down to write this post I found I was curious about these nasty YouTube people. So I did a little experiment. I went through the list of awful YouTube comments that I posted on Monday, and took at look at the YouTube feeds of the various commenters who left them to see if I could determine whether or not they were MRAs. I included only those who made threatening and/or misogynist comments, and left out a few that didn’t provide enough information for me to make an educated guess.

Here are the results. But first, a TRIGGER WARNING, because I quote liberally from their nasty, violent and often crudely sexual comments. (You can skim down to my summary of what I found if you wish to avoid the gruesome details.)

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YouTuber Kilz Bryce, who wished a gruesome “death by cheese grater” to the red-haired activist (henceforth RHA), is an otherwise unassuming Japanese fan of Taylor Swift and Carly Rae Jepsen. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

Slurpos, who suggested shooting the RHA, is a racist conspiracy-monger who recently called MSNBC’s Melissa Harris-Perry a “slut.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Joris667, who suggested a “cock up the arse,” recently “liked” an antifeminist video by Mykeru, who just happens to be a contributor to A Voice for Men. VERDICT: Possibly an MRA.

Damndisplace07, who suggested punching the RHA, has posted a bunch of rambling, ranty misogynistic videos on YouTube, some of which rely heavily on Manosphere ideology and jargon. VERDICT: Probably an MRA.

BusinessmanBandit is a young entrepreneur and goldbug who likes referring to women as “bitches.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Lazywhiteb0y, who “would love to punch this annoying cunt directly in the face,” is a fan of rap, country music, guns and beer. VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Akranejames, who also favors punching “this type of feminist,” is mostly obsessed with video games. But he also made a recent comment suggesting that we should abandon feminism and “machism” for “equalism,” and the only people I’ve ever heard use that ridiculous term have been hopeless MRA types. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least a sometime reader of Mens’ Rights sites.

Leinster4life13, who wanted to ship her to Saudi Arabia, is a soccer enthusiast who also recently “liked” a video by the notoriously misogynistic Manhood Academy. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least an MRA-in-training.

Chocolateking1, who made a joke about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen, seems to be, well, the sort of trolly asshole who thinks jokes about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen. VERDICT: Misogynist, probably not an MRA.

MadDogFritz, who railed about “feminazi propaganda” and made three separate comments on three different videos demanding to know “who is the the red headed pig monster with the attitude,” has recently commented on a number of MRA videos and is also a big fan of TheAmazingAtheist and his antifeminist rants. Also has complained about “women’s lib.” VERDICT: Seems pretty damn MRAish to me.

Robert alakaka, who declared that the RHA is “one of the most unlikable cunts in his [?] existence,” and that he “sincerely hopes she dies,” is a raging misogynist and homophobe who recently “liked” a video featuring the MRA-ish “Dick Masterson” explaining how “men are better than women.” Aaaaand he’s a fan of TheAmazingAtheist. VERDICT: Definitely MRA-ish.

TheTrueValkyrie66, who compared the RHA unfavorably to goatse, is also a fan of TheAmazingAtheist and — wait for it — MyLittlePony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but seems to have stepped straight out of the Big Book of Redditor Stereotypes.

HUEHEUHE HEUHEUEH, who made a generic misogynist remark, seems to be a Brony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

EndlessCycleofPride, who declared “I hope you get raped,” is way into bodybuilding. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but a terrible person nonetheless.

Dominic Galvin, who declared “I want to punch her,” is a vintage car enthusiast and yet another fan of TheAmazingAtheist, especially his antifeminist rants. VERDICT: Possible MRA.

Corbbin Goldsmith, who suggested oral rape, is a software synth enthusiast and bedroom musician. VERDICT: An awful person, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.

Amaurypenseur, who thinks that “feminists deserve rape as punishment,” is a weird Belgian who hates American culture, “hanker[s for] a society based on war, inequality and irrationally,” and is a sort-of fan of, um, Hitler. Verdict: Antifeminist (obviously) but probably not an MRA as such.

Theninja36, who wanted to “punch her in the face,” is a American gamer who seems a tad obsessed with Japan. VERDICT: Clearly hates feminists, as several of his comments attest, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.

About all I can tell  about Jack Ofalltrades, who made a crude, racist sexual suggestion, is that he’s a fan of the XFactor. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

So what have we learned here, aside from the sad fact that going through the histories of a whole bunch of YouTubers takes a fuck of a lot longer than I thought it would when I started out? Well, a number of things.

Out of the nineteen horrible commenters I was able to determine anything about, only one, Chocolateking1, seems to even vaguely fit the stereotype of the amoral, lulz-seeking troll that our friend Sigil1 wants to blame for all this.

Most of the commenters have been on YouTube for some time, with most of them using the site as an outlet for their various obsessions, which may or may not include hating on feminism. In a few cases they seem to be posting under their real names, which makes it all the more amazing that they’re perfectly willing to post violent and/or sexual comments as if no one except the nasty feminists would find any of this at all objectionable. Virtually all of them seem to be genuinely and unashamedly misogynistic.

Eight of the nineteen commenters are explicitly antifeminist, which puts them more than halfway along the route to possible MRAhood. Six — roughly a third of the total — are probably MRAs, or at the very least consumers of Men’s Rights and/or Manosphere media. Four are fans of TheAmazingAtheist. (NOTE TO SELF: TheAmazingAtheist has some really, really shitty fans.)

So congratulations, fellas: only perhaps a third of the many hundreds of terrible people who have been harassing and threatening the activist in question on YouTube seem to be MRAs or MRA-adjacent. Given that the total number of MRAs in the world is probably less than the number of people who watched that one video, that’s pretty impressive.

The comments I looked at here, nonetheless, are only a small fraction of the total number of threatening and/or harassing comments about the red-haired activist that have been posted to YouTube, and that are still being posted as you read this. She also received hundreds of messages directly, most of them anonymous.

Even if most of these messages weren’t sent by people who identify explicitly as MRAs, a signficant proportion clearly were, so we’re still talking about many dozens, perhaps even hundreds, of MRAs and fellow travelers who decided that the appropriate response to the video of the red-haired activist was to fire off comments and messages calling her a “bitch” or a “cunt” or something equally odious — and/or suggesting that she should be punched, or raped or even killed.

This whole exercise has helped to make even clearer to me why so many MRAs have made their names posting videos on YouTube: Because YouTube is filled to overflowing with the sort of terrible people who think rape threats are hilarious and that GirlWritesWhat is a genius.

MRAs, these people are your audience. Your peeps. Your most likely source of future converts. (Well, maybe not that Belgian Hitler fan. He’s got some ideas about statutory rape of teen boys that are as likely to offend MRAs as they are to offend feminists.)

And you wonder why so many see the Men’s Rights movement as a hate movement. (Hint: It’s the hate.)

NOTE: My promised post reflecting a bit more on A Voice for Men’s role in this all should go up tomorrow.

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Fade
11 years ago

I will admit (since I want to talk with manboobzers!) I have been at my computer all day, with a manboobz tab open. ANd I have also been doing school on my computer. Because I get to do school online. XD

Online school is the best ever. At least for people with depression and fibromyalgia. At least if they affect you the same way they affect me. And you have the same personality as I do.

Well, it’s good for me at the least. XD

thebewilderness
thebewilderness
11 years ago

I do not understand how people can recognize “A Modest Proposal” but fail to grasp the “SCUM Manifesto”. Seriously. A Modest Proposal that people eat their babies and Society for Cutting Up Men Manifesto? Come on d00dz. You get it, you just don’t want to admit it.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

Fuck, clint is the dumbest yet, and that’s saying something. Still drawing false equivalences, still unable to grasp that public protest =/= harassment, still trying to deflect onto Redhead’s supposed terrible terrible behaviour. Still, for that matter, totally ignoring when people have said they don’t approve of what she said about male suicide. Still harping on one person’s behaviour in a public protest and whining about it here, instead of, say, writing his own blog post saying “Okay, I think what she did was wrong, but there is no equivalency with rape and death threats and they are far, far worse and should STOP.”

No, I don’t expect to see that sort of blog post anytime soon, because a man who whines about the very idea of boys and men being educated not to rape doesn’t really give a shit.

bahumbugi
bahumbugi
11 years ago

Clint, so, you would be happy and satisfied if we said yes, she was rude, made a sarcastic response when someone yelled out about suicide, drowned out a soft speaker at a public event, and was a rowdy protestor–that’s what you want?

Kittehserf
11 years ago

Whoot, I haz summoned Teh Argenti! I haz power!

bahumbugi
bahumbugi
11 years ago

I don’t know why I care that he doesn’t get the gravity of what I tried to warn him about. It is making me uneasy. Do you want to be harassed? What if a bunch of crazy feminists read your blog and then easily find out all this other personal stuff about you? Is that okay by you? I mean, probably, since you know they would never do that.

pecunium
11 years ago

Clint: You lost. You lost so badly that you have lost it.

You lost when you tried to equate an act of political protest to death threats, rape threats, stalking, and desires to see her tortured before she was killed for people’s enjoyment.

You lost more when you lied about what happened; in an attempt to make her protest an “act of harassment”.

The best part, you can’t accept that you’ve lost, so you keep coming back her to lose some more You are a gift that keeps on giving; and you do it all on your own, a self-winding toy.

pillowinhell
11 years ago

“Oh geez I wasn’t supposed to do that?!” – Steubanville rapists and their supporters.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Clint,

Literally?

cloudiah

Fade
11 years ago

@Bahumbugi

Strikes me as part of his bubble of male privilege. Like, he knows that he’s not at risk for being harrassed to that degree, both because he’s a man, and because we’re not MRAs.

bahumbugi
bahumbugi
11 years ago

And the part of me who has experienced harassment still wants to prevent him from having to experience it. Only lego-stepping on, cactus petting (cactus heavy petting, even!).

Oops, I forgot I’m a female and incapable of empathy.

Aaliyah
11 years ago

“They [feminists] control thoughts with repeated mantras like a cult. The most vitriolic is teach men not to rape. In just that sentence, they paint all men as rapists. No other crime is talked about like that. We don’t say teach men not to bank rob, because we all inherently know that most men aren’t bank robbers and all men know bank robbing is wrong, but some people just take what they want. The rape culture is a construct made by feminists, in order to gain power and attention at the expense of actual victims.”

Yeah, let’s just ignore the fact that the majority of rapists are male. (And no, bringing up the CDC study isn’t going to help him). Teaching men not to rape doesn’t rely on the assumption that all men are wild beasts – rather, it relies on the assumption that men need particular attention because most rapists are male. How this is hard for MRAs to understand, I have no idea.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Kittehserf
11 years ago

“Only lego-stepping on, cactus petting (cactus heavy petting, even!). ”

Ow. I’m seeing lips with cactus now!

pecunium
11 years ago

Wow… that blog is something.

Something incomprehensible. He even fails at cooking (and dood, I thank God I will never be as “cool” as you, the diminuition in my coolth would be devastating). If I were in need of cooking lessons so badly that his tutelage was an improvement… The horror is impossible to envision.

And, perforce, he is hopelessly smug about it.

The worst part (or perhaps the best) is that his cookery writing is at least coherent. The attempts at political philosophising are just sad.

cloudiah
11 years ago

He talks about cookery? I wonder if his cookery is this good:
http://www.lileks.com/institute/gallery/

pillowinhell
11 years ago

Pecunium, are we talking someone who can’t make Jello, or someone who can set a pot of boiling water on fire?

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Utterly an completely off topic, but for once I managed to burn myself without it being a cooking accident. T’was playing with a candle, in a glass holder, hot glass, thumbs…yeah.

We need standard troll ID cards, like, instead of nation and/or, hair color, eye color, height…
Morning height?
Thoughts on SSI?
How about overweight people?
Are you in or around Boston?
Expert at anything? If so, what?
Are you so boring that we all forget you exist? Or so boring that we wish we could forget you?

We’d solve at least half our repeat trolls if they just answered these questions from the get go.

So, Clint, want to take a shot at answering them? Or you need one of us to go first?

thebewilderness
thebewilderness
11 years ago

Shoot I could set a pot of boiling water on fire when I was six.

pecunium
11 years ago

I’m going to do you all a solid. You will never be as cool as, me, but I am going to help you out a little bit on the road to being a man, I’m going to teach you how to cook.

Some might ask, Doc, cooking is traditionally a woman’s job, how is cooking going to make me more manly?

First of all, I’d tell you that there isn’t any such thing as a woman’s job and a man’s job anymore. The pentagon has decided that if they ever find a woman tough enough to carry a 100 pound kit, plus 35 pounds of food, water, and miscellaneous gear up over mountains and not fall behind the boys she’s welcome to join. Second I’d tell you that you’re thinking of baking. Baking is for sissy cheesebody ladies who like to have tea and cupcakes while they gossip about the PTA. That’s not what I’m talking about. Not knowing how to cook is like not being self sufficient. It’s like those people who drive their cars around and don’t know how to change the oil or a flat.

And… when he gets to baking meat (he thinks it ought to be wrapped in tinfoil), he says shit like this:

There’s just the two of us, so I’m going to cut a couple pounds off and put it in the freezer, the rest is going to be lunch for a week. Now here is the first trick I’m going to teach you. Meat left in the freezer for a long time gets weird ice crystals on it and they suck all the flavor of the meat out. What I do is make a marinade which is just like a sauce you let soak in before you cook, then put it in a bag covered in it. That way those ice crystals suck the flavor out of the juice instead of the meat. . This time I used worcestershire, vinegar, and olive oil.

Now, he’s right, sort of, that encasing food in ice will reduce freezer burn, but the salts in the sauce, and the acids in the vinegar and olive oil won’t be completely dormant. What you need to do is get an airtight seal, not have a frost free refrigerator, and use it inside of 6 weeks.

The DK effect is strong in him.

pecunium
11 years ago

And my sweetie is calling me to bed, so I shall collect my pillows and depart. See you in the morning.

Amatyultare
Amatyultare
11 years ago

Argenti and kittehs – my very own welcome package! *snuggles it* Thank you everyone for the welcome. It’s nice to finally be commenting!

Clintiskeen – So, I assume you decry the kindergarten ‘sharing is caring’ motto with equal vehemence? Like, how dare those kindergarten teachers assume all those students will grow up to be mean selfish people? It must be a misanthropic conspiracy, etc?

Okay, the trolls are starting to depress me with their willful cluelessness. Bedtime for real. Night, all!

pillowinhell
11 years ago

Yeah, so over on the spearhead…there was a troll moaning about how he’s only 5’8.. He has no patience for fat acceptance but would support a lack of height acceptance.

Now, I’m a lofty height of five feet fuck all, so I get that people who are shorter do sometimes face some challenges in getting taller people to respect us. But since when was 5’8 anything other than the average height for a north american man?? And a whole social movement on height…erm I can see where people with dwarfism (sorry, if there’s a prefered term I’d be happy to use it) could use it… Not someone with a pretty typical height.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

cloudiah, I’ve just lost a chunk of my day laughing at those Jello paintings, thankyouverymuch.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

“I’m going to do you all a solid. You will never be as cool as, me, but I am going to help you out a little bit on the road to being a man, I’m going to teach you how to cook.”

Did he learn punctuation from Steele’s misandrist teacher?

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