So the Men’s Rights subreddit has temporarily relaxed its policy of not allowing links to the terrible cesspool of lies that is Man Boobz to allow this post attacking me for detailing the disgusting threats and harassment a certain Canadian feminist activist has faced in recent days.
Most of the commenters flatly ignored the evidence of doxing and harassment that I included in my post — if they even bothered to read it — and simply invented their own story of what had happened. Instead of denouncing those who left death threats, they attacked me and the activist in question. And blamed all the ugliness on “trolls.”
Men’s Rights regular Sigil1, who used to post awful comments on Man Boobz as Eoghan (and using countless other sockpuppet accounts) responded in an all-too-predictable fashion, by falsely accusing me of making “false accusations” against MRAs.
You may recall that in my post I offered two pieces of evidence that showed that MRAs were involved in posting this woman’s personal information on the internet — that is, doxing her. One was a large screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum containing a wide array of her personal information including phone numbers and her home address. I also noted that the A Voice for Men forum featured links to several of her dating profiles.
In other words, these are clearly MRAs, and they have been disseminating her personal information — that is, doxing — her. To repeat, and I’m sorry that I have to repeat such an utterly simpleminded point: THE FACT THAT SOME PEOPLE (WHO ARE MRAS) ARE DOXING HER MEANS THAT MRAS HAVE BEEN DOXING HER. Other people who are probably not MRAs have also been doxing her.
In the Reddit thread, giegerwasright complains that “they” — meaning me –“are also moving the goalposts on doxxing to suit their needs.” Well, no. I’d say that a post on a Men’s Rights forum that includes her picture, links to her Facebook page, her Tumblr blog, her YouTube account, her old Twitter account, a dating profile, her home address and two phone numbers is “doxing” by pretty much everyone’s definition of the term.
As anyone who looks at the large screenshot I posted earlier would see, its author — a famous MRA spammer who goes by the name John Rambo — urged men to “contact her through one of the below methods and ask her why she hates men so much.”
In my earlier post I showed you the sort of horrific stuff many of those who have been contacting her have been saying.
Did I provide proof that any of these threatening and harassing comments were from MRAs? Well, aside from one message from A Voice for Men’s Dan Perrins, which was more of a gloating message than a threatening one, no. Part of the reason for this is that most of the direct threats sent to the activist were sent — wait for it — anonymously. That’s how threat-makers generally do things. Cuts down the possibility of getting in trouble.
As for the YouTube comments, I didn’t check. Why? Because, given that the video in question was titled “mras and feminists arguing at u of t mra event,” and that the video was linked to on assorted Men’s Rights sites including the Men’s Rights subreddit and A Voice for Men, I figured that the odds were pretty good that a lot of them were MRAs; certainly the odds that none of them were MRAs were pretty much zero. (And of course I never claimed they were all MRAs.)
But as I sat down to write this post I found I was curious about these nasty YouTube people. So I did a little experiment. I went through the list of awful YouTube comments that I posted on Monday, and took at look at the YouTube feeds of the various commenters who left them to see if I could determine whether or not they were MRAs. I included only those who made threatening and/or misogynist comments, and left out a few that didn’t provide enough information for me to make an educated guess.
Here are the results. But first, a TRIGGER WARNING, because I quote liberally from their nasty, violent and often crudely sexual comments. (You can skim down to my summary of what I found if you wish to avoid the gruesome details.)
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YouTuber Kilz Bryce, who wished a gruesome “death by cheese grater” to the red-haired activist (henceforth RHA), is an otherwise unassuming Japanese fan of Taylor Swift and Carly Rae Jepsen. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.
Slurpos, who suggested shooting the RHA, is a racist conspiracy-monger who recently called MSNBC’s Melissa Harris-Perry a “slut.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.
Joris667, who suggested a “cock up the arse,” recently “liked” an antifeminist video by Mykeru, who just happens to be a contributor to A Voice for Men. VERDICT: Possibly an MRA.
Damndisplace07, who suggested punching the RHA, has posted a bunch of rambling, ranty misogynistic videos on YouTube, some of which rely heavily on Manosphere ideology and jargon. VERDICT: Probably an MRA.
BusinessmanBandit is a young entrepreneur and goldbug who likes referring to women as “bitches.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.
Lazywhiteb0y, who “would love to punch this annoying cunt directly in the face,” is a fan of rap, country music, guns and beer. VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.
Akranejames, who also favors punching “this type of feminist,” is mostly obsessed with video games. But he also made a recent comment suggesting that we should abandon feminism and “machism” for “equalism,” and the only people I’ve ever heard use that ridiculous term have been hopeless MRA types. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least a sometime reader of Mens’ Rights sites.
Leinster4life13, who wanted to ship her to Saudi Arabia, is a soccer enthusiast who also recently “liked” a video by the notoriously misogynistic Manhood Academy. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least an MRA-in-training.
Chocolateking1, who made a joke about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen, seems to be, well, the sort of trolly asshole who thinks jokes about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen. VERDICT: Misogynist, probably not an MRA.
MadDogFritz, who railed about “feminazi propaganda” and made three separate comments on three different videos demanding to know “who is the the red headed pig monster with the attitude,” has recently commented on a number of MRA videos and is also a big fan of TheAmazingAtheist and his antifeminist rants. Also has complained about “women’s lib.” VERDICT: Seems pretty damn MRAish to me.
Robert alakaka, who declared that the RHA is “one of the most unlikable cunts in his [?] existence,” and that he “sincerely hopes she dies,” is a raging misogynist and homophobe who recently “liked” a video featuring the MRA-ish “Dick Masterson” explaining how “men are better than women.” Aaaaand he’s a fan of TheAmazingAtheist. VERDICT: Definitely MRA-ish.
TheTrueValkyrie66, who compared the RHA unfavorably to goatse, is also a fan of TheAmazingAtheist and — wait for it — MyLittlePony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but seems to have stepped straight out of the Big Book of Redditor Stereotypes.
HUEHEUHE HEUHEUEH, who made a generic misogynist remark, seems to be a Brony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.
EndlessCycleofPride, who declared “I hope you get raped,” is way into bodybuilding. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but a terrible person nonetheless.
Dominic Galvin, who declared “I want to punch her,” is a vintage car enthusiast and yet another fan of TheAmazingAtheist, especially his antifeminist rants. VERDICT: Possible MRA.
Corbbin Goldsmith, who suggested oral rape, is a software synth enthusiast and bedroom musician. VERDICT: An awful person, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.
Amaurypenseur, who thinks that “feminists deserve rape as punishment,” is a weird Belgian who hates American culture, “hanker[s for] a society based on war, inequality and irrationally,” and is a sort-of fan of, um, Hitler. Verdict: Antifeminist (obviously) but probably not an MRA as such.
Theninja36, who wanted to “punch her in the face,” is a American gamer who seems a tad obsessed with Japan. VERDICT: Clearly hates feminists, as several of his comments attest, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.
About all I can tell about Jack Ofalltrades, who made a crude, racist sexual suggestion, is that he’s a fan of the XFactor. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.
So what have we learned here, aside from the sad fact that going through the histories of a whole bunch of YouTubers takes a fuck of a lot longer than I thought it would when I started out? Well, a number of things.
Out of the nineteen horrible commenters I was able to determine anything about, only one, Chocolateking1, seems to even vaguely fit the stereotype of the amoral, lulz-seeking troll that our friend Sigil1 wants to blame for all this.
Most of the commenters have been on YouTube for some time, with most of them using the site as an outlet for their various obsessions, which may or may not include hating on feminism. In a few cases they seem to be posting under their real names, which makes it all the more amazing that they’re perfectly willing to post violent and/or sexual comments as if no one except the nasty feminists would find any of this at all objectionable. Virtually all of them seem to be genuinely and unashamedly misogynistic.
Eight of the nineteen commenters are explicitly antifeminist, which puts them more than halfway along the route to possible MRAhood. Six — roughly a third of the total — are probably MRAs, or at the very least consumers of Men’s Rights and/or Manosphere media. Four are fans of TheAmazingAtheist. (NOTE TO SELF: TheAmazingAtheist has some really, really shitty fans.)
So congratulations, fellas: only perhaps a third of the many hundreds of terrible people who have been harassing and threatening the activist in question on YouTube seem to be MRAs or MRA-adjacent. Given that the total number of MRAs in the world is probably less than the number of people who watched that one video, that’s pretty impressive.
The comments I looked at here, nonetheless, are only a small fraction of the total number of threatening and/or harassing comments about the red-haired activist that have been posted to YouTube, and that are still being posted as you read this. She also received hundreds of messages directly, most of them anonymous.
Even if most of these messages weren’t sent by people who identify explicitly as MRAs, a signficant proportion clearly were, so we’re still talking about many dozens, perhaps even hundreds, of MRAs and fellow travelers who decided that the appropriate response to the video of the red-haired activist was to fire off comments and messages calling her a “bitch” or a “cunt” or something equally odious — and/or suggesting that she should be punched, or raped or even killed.
This whole exercise has helped to make even clearer to me why so many MRAs have made their names posting videos on YouTube: Because YouTube is filled to overflowing with the sort of terrible people who think rape threats are hilarious and that GirlWritesWhat is a genius.
MRAs, these people are your audience. Your peeps. Your most likely source of future converts. (Well, maybe not that Belgian Hitler fan. He’s got some ideas about statutory rape of teen boys that are as likely to offend MRAs as they are to offend feminists.)
And you wonder why so many see the Men’s Rights movement as a hate movement. (Hint: It’s the hate.)
NOTE: My promised post reflecting a bit more on A Voice for Men’s role in this all should go up tomorrow.
bahumbugi: The one I linked to? Then he’s even more stupid than the previous evidence led me to believe; because it completely undercuts the only pretense of an argument he had (that the actions of RHA prevented the speaker from being able to speak).
It was the whole, “if you don’t condemn he harassment you can’t condemn the people who harassed her” (which, of course, completely fails to account for scope, scale and intent, even if one thinks what she did was wrong).
Clint is dumber than a box o’ rocks. He might think teddy bear cholla really was a good substitute for loofah.
Y’all, I have only recently started commenting here after a long, long period of lurking. But I have to say, I am already learning so much.
Abnoy has called us all hypocrites (I think?) because if MRAs didn’t say such awful shit so frequently, this site wouldn’t have as much material to post. And this should make Manboobz, not MRAs, feel bad.
*tilts head to one side*
*tilts head to other side*
Uh…huh.
Mark Jones is of course all over this thread. We’ve got the fantastic “YouTube handle = real name, address, phone number, and Facebook and Twitter accounts”. We, by acknowledging and/or linking to the publicly-posted violence/death/sexual assault threats made by YouTubers, are clearly AS BAD as the people making violence/death/sexual assault threats. Hence, we are all hypocrites.
Also, there is a possibly pro-MRA-ish article up on a local cable news site. MRA victory is at hand! (To be fair, MRAs have reason to be triumphant, as I’m pretty sure that’s more ‘activism’ than they managed all of last year?)
DaBoys is here to let us know that anyone who can’t take hundreds of threats against your person, combined with the dissemination of pretty much every scrap of personal information amongst the people making said threats…is just a crybaby and a coward.
Study Question: Is having one’s YouTube account linked on Manboobz bad enough to be legitimately upset? Or is Marky being a ‘sad pathetic child’ in DaBoy’s eyes by being upset on those YouTubers’ behalf about their ‘doxxing’?
DaBoys also told informed us that feminism is a hate movement, because clearly it’s feminists sending those hundreds of threats to RH. IT WAS EARTH ALL ALONG, YOU GUYS. (I’ve…actually never seen Planet of the Apes. Also, I think it’s past my bedtime.)
PEMRA has told us that The Amazing Athetist makes some good points! Ahahahahaha okay.
Doug Spoonwood has informed us that one can ONLY judge a movement by its leader, and not by the entire mass of people who believe or follow the movement. For example, the Catholic Church cannot be criticized for the priest-abuse cover-up because Jesus didn’t do it? I guess? And because none of the dozen commenters Dave happened to look at was one of the leaders of the MRA (as far as we know), no conclusions can be drawn from them.
Real Question I Am Echoing Others By Asking: Doug, in your opinion, who ARE the leaders of the MRA movement? Whose behavior can we look to to judge MRAs as a whole?
Clintiskeen is here to call us out! Because when MRAs say that no MRAs are making threats, what they mean is that no GOOD MRAs are making threats. Anyone who comments on YouTube is automatically a troll, so even if they are MRA trolls, they don’t count. The only threatening YouTube comments that would count as MRA threats would be those not made by YouTube commenters.
Also, Fibinachi and all of the regulars are awesome…but I already knew that. 🙂
@Amatyultare
Hi and welcome 😀
Same here XD And I got distracted by manboobz last night and stayed up late…need to not do so again.
And with that note I guess I will actually try to go to bed. Welcome again, and goodnight everyone 😀 Have fun with
clintthe chew toy, if it’s possible with one this boring.@ Clintiskeen –
Also, in all seriousness, you should take a lesson in learning about internet privacy. There’s information on you on the internet that I doubt you want public that can be found through your blog links that you posted here. Unlike y’all trolls, I don’t think you should be personally harassed, your location, employment, etc., revealed.
Actually Clint, we teach children not to steal, not to lie, not to harm others with hands or weapons. We teach children a lot of things. We also teach children a lot of harmful things or leave out very important topics. One of the topics we do teach is that women are for sex, baby making and house chores. One of the things we leave out is having respect for our sexual partners and showing that respect by asking if they want to have sex, when they would like sex or what kind of sex acts they would like to do with the person asking. We also show respect by not forcing someone to have sex they don’t want or can’t consent to at the time. Most women who are raped, are raped by men. The teach men not to rape is a direct reponse to the idea that rather than focus on the bad acts of the rapists we should teach women how to avoid rape.
@Amatyultare – I am a longterm reader newly delurked, welcome, you seem pretty awesome. This is one of 2 online communities I take part in, and it took me many months to commit, but they’re pretty great.
I said they were wrong from the beginning, the thing I refuse to go along with is that we’re going to sit here and say that Big Red did nothing wrong other than use the F word with people trying to interrupt her as David said. That’s wrong. Two wrongs don’t make a right, but one big wrong doesn’t go back in time and make the first wrong never happen
Have I already said Hi and welcome, Amatyultare? (Bad case of CRS* syndrome here.) If not, Hi and welcome! Argenti’ll have the full welcome package later but in the meantime have an antique hard chair with extra misandry.
The ideas and basis of Christianity come from Jesus and his apostles, NOT their followers (given Christianity as qualifying as a movement). The ideas and basis of the American Civil Rights Movement come from people like Dr. Martin Luther King and Malcolm X. The ideas and basis of ideological Feminism come from people like Gloria Steinem, Andrea Dworkin, Valerie Solanas, Betty Friedan, and Bell Hooks… not the feminists taking their first gender studies course.
No, it’s fair to judge a movement by its followers. That doesn’t mean that every member of a movement has to be above reproach. That would be impossible. But if the vast majority of members act like assholes, and the movement is known primarily for asshole behavior, it’s not a worthwhile movement, no matter how admirable its leaders may be.
Not that this applies to MRAs, since MRA leaders, as far as I can tell, are as nasty as MRA followers.
To borrow your examples, have you noticed how it’s not very common for feminists or civil rights activists to threaten to rape and kill people? That’s because they are good movements and people usually (not always) learn good things from their philosophies. Have you noticed how MRAs threaten to rape and kill people a lot? Like, it’s kind of their hobby? Yeah.
P.S. Valerie Solanas is not a feminist leader or prominent feminist thinker. As hilarious as I find the SCUM Manifesto, it is not, contrary to MRA belief, a major work of feminist theory that women study seriously for advice on wiping out men.
@Kittehserf
That kitty on the hard chair is so adorable and mildly evil looking at the same time
Fuck off, Clint, or at least go on having that ragefroth if you must hang around. Your own words demonstrate (interminably) that you don’t actually give a shit about what was done to Redhead, because all you can think about is OOH SHE WAS NASTY TO TEH MENZ.
Fade, I thought so too! 🙂
OH SHIT I WASN’T SUPPOSED TO DO THAT??!?!!- no rapist ever
PS you can call me Kittehs, if you like.
Now that Clint has lost the ability to respond to anyone’s points, he is repeating the shame shtick that has been addressed already a hundred times.
Shut it, you lying MRA cheeseweasel. Geez, I did not even get to collect my bet for your false epiphany!
Warren Farrel reading, MRA talking point writing, lying about being an MRA, MRA!
You cannot even fake not being an MRA correctly.
I literally have never said I dont’ care what happened to her, and I have literally said over and over what happened to her is wrong, HOWEVER, that doesn’t make her not guilty of things far beyond “Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters.”
I mean you can pretend I said whatever, but you’d still be a lying ass, and if you have to do that to “win” some discussion on the internet, I’m not going to be able to stop you.
Poor Clint keeps trying, but he’s too stupid to know when he’s been beat. It’s almost sad.
@Clintshit
“No” doesn’t mean “no”, it means “try harder” — date rapists sometimes. and people who apologize for them.
If a woman has had a sex life, her being raped doesn’t matter as much — rape apologists
If a woman is unconscious, she is available for sex — rapists. ALso that one disgusting university professor.
If a woman goes home with a man, it’s only natural he’d try to have sex with her or rape her — rape apologists.
If a man buys a woman a drink, she owes him physical affection in return — rapists and rape apologists.
“OH SHIT I WASN’T SUPPOSED TO DO THAT??!?!!- no rapist ever”
And yet no rapist or rape apologist has framed it as a “misunderstanding” or “mixed signals” or “she couldn’t withdraw consent that late” or anything else.
“How many of you are crazy shut ins on SSID who just sit around all day hoping some MRA guy will wander in here and engage you?”
Clint is 90% of our trolls?
And one welcome package coming right up!
Clint the wrong the RHA commited…is so small by comparison to what is being done to her now that you could spread her wrongful act one electron thin and still not have a veneer thin enough to cover what MRAs and the other scum buckets are doing to her.
Clint, the only lying ass here is you.
Sounds like the argument a rapist would make. Well, we can’t excuse that she: ignored me, slapped me, hit me, threw a drink in my face, laughed at me, or even that she laughed about suicide — so two wrongs don’t make a right!
That welcome package: an antique misandrist hard chair, matching bath towels, SCENTED MOTHERFUCKING CANDLES, flavored bottled water (your choice of brand and flavor) and cupcakes, delivered by female (whore) penguins in spanx.