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So who exactly has been harassing that red-haired Canadian feminist? A not-quite-scientific survey

MRAs rarely let facts get in the way of their tantrums
MRAs rarely let facts get in the way of their tantrums

So the Men’s Rights subreddit has temporarily relaxed its policy of not allowing links to the terrible cesspool of lies that is Man Boobz to allow this post attacking me for detailing the disgusting threats and harassment a certain Canadian feminist activist has faced in recent days.

Most of the commenters flatly ignored the evidence of doxing and harassment that I included in my post — if they even bothered to read it — and simply invented their own story of what had happened. Instead of denouncing those who left death threats, they attacked me and the activist in question. And blamed all the ugliness on “trolls.”

Men’s Rights regular Sigil1, who used to post awful comments on Man Boobz as Eoghan (and using countless other sockpuppet accounts) responded in an all-too-predictable fashion, by falsely accusing me of making “false accusations” against MRAs.

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You may recall that in my post I offered two pieces of evidence that showed that MRAs were involved in posting this woman’s personal information on the internet — that is, doxing her. One was a large screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum containing a wide array of her personal information including phone numbers and her home address. I also noted that the A Voice for Men forum featured links to several of her dating profiles.

In other words, these are clearly MRAs, and they have been disseminating her personal information — that is, doxing — her. To repeat, and I’m sorry that I have to repeat such an utterly simpleminded point: THE FACT THAT SOME PEOPLE (WHO ARE MRAS) ARE DOXING HER MEANS THAT MRAS HAVE BEEN DOXING HER. Other people who are probably not MRAs have also been doxing her.

In the Reddit thread, giegerwasright complains that “they” — meaning me –“are also moving the goalposts on doxxing to suit their needs.” Well, no. I’d say that a post on a Men’s Rights forum that includes her picture, links to her Facebook page, her Tumblr blog, her YouTube account, her old Twitter account, a dating profile, her home address and two phone numbers is “doxing” by pretty much everyone’s definition of the term.

As anyone who looks at the large screenshot I posted earlier would see, its author  — a famous MRA spammer who goes by the name John Rambo — urged men to “contact her through one of the below methods and ask her why she hates men so much.”

In my earlier post I showed you the sort of horrific stuff many of those who have been contacting her have been saying.

Did I provide proof that any of these threatening and harassing comments were from MRAs? Well, aside from one message from A Voice for Men’s Dan Perrins, which was more of a gloating message than a threatening one, no. Part of the reason for this is that most of the direct threats sent to the activist were sent — wait for it — anonymously. That’s how threat-makers generally do things. Cuts down the possibility of getting in trouble.

As for the YouTube comments, I didn’t check. Why? Because, given that the video in question was titled “mras and feminists arguing at u of t mra event,” and that the video was linked to on assorted Men’s Rights sites including the Men’s Rights subreddit and A Voice for Men, I figured that the odds were pretty good that a lot of them were MRAs; certainly the odds that none of them were MRAs were pretty much zero. (And of course I never claimed they were all MRAs.)

But as I sat down to write this post I found I was curious about these nasty YouTube people. So I did a little experiment. I went through the list of awful YouTube comments that I posted on Monday, and took at look at the YouTube feeds of the various commenters who left them to see if I could determine whether or not they were MRAs. I included only those who made threatening and/or misogynist comments, and left out a few that didn’t provide enough information for me to make an educated guess.

Here are the results. But first, a TRIGGER WARNING, because I quote liberally from their nasty, violent and often crudely sexual comments. (You can skim down to my summary of what I found if you wish to avoid the gruesome details.)

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YouTuber Kilz Bryce, who wished a gruesome “death by cheese grater” to the red-haired activist (henceforth RHA), is an otherwise unassuming Japanese fan of Taylor Swift and Carly Rae Jepsen. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

Slurpos, who suggested shooting the RHA, is a racist conspiracy-monger who recently called MSNBC’s Melissa Harris-Perry a “slut.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Joris667, who suggested a “cock up the arse,” recently “liked” an antifeminist video by Mykeru, who just happens to be a contributor to A Voice for Men. VERDICT: Possibly an MRA.

Damndisplace07, who suggested punching the RHA, has posted a bunch of rambling, ranty misogynistic videos on YouTube, some of which rely heavily on Manosphere ideology and jargon. VERDICT: Probably an MRA.

BusinessmanBandit is a young entrepreneur and goldbug who likes referring to women as “bitches.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Lazywhiteb0y, who “would love to punch this annoying cunt directly in the face,” is a fan of rap, country music, guns and beer. VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Akranejames, who also favors punching “this type of feminist,” is mostly obsessed with video games. But he also made a recent comment suggesting that we should abandon feminism and “machism” for “equalism,” and the only people I’ve ever heard use that ridiculous term have been hopeless MRA types. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least a sometime reader of Mens’ Rights sites.

Leinster4life13, who wanted to ship her to Saudi Arabia, is a soccer enthusiast who also recently “liked” a video by the notoriously misogynistic Manhood Academy. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least an MRA-in-training.

Chocolateking1, who made a joke about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen, seems to be, well, the sort of trolly asshole who thinks jokes about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen. VERDICT: Misogynist, probably not an MRA.

MadDogFritz, who railed about “feminazi propaganda” and made three separate comments on three different videos demanding to know “who is the the red headed pig monster with the attitude,” has recently commented on a number of MRA videos and is also a big fan of TheAmazingAtheist and his antifeminist rants. Also has complained about “women’s lib.” VERDICT: Seems pretty damn MRAish to me.

Robert alakaka, who declared that the RHA is “one of the most unlikable cunts in his [?] existence,” and that he “sincerely hopes she dies,” is a raging misogynist and homophobe who recently “liked” a video featuring the MRA-ish “Dick Masterson” explaining how “men are better than women.” Aaaaand he’s a fan of TheAmazingAtheist. VERDICT: Definitely MRA-ish.

TheTrueValkyrie66, who compared the RHA unfavorably to goatse, is also a fan of TheAmazingAtheist and — wait for it — MyLittlePony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but seems to have stepped straight out of the Big Book of Redditor Stereotypes.

HUEHEUHE HEUHEUEH, who made a generic misogynist remark, seems to be a Brony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

EndlessCycleofPride, who declared “I hope you get raped,” is way into bodybuilding. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but a terrible person nonetheless.

Dominic Galvin, who declared “I want to punch her,” is a vintage car enthusiast and yet another fan of TheAmazingAtheist, especially his antifeminist rants. VERDICT: Possible MRA.

Corbbin Goldsmith, who suggested oral rape, is a software synth enthusiast and bedroom musician. VERDICT: An awful person, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.

Amaurypenseur, who thinks that “feminists deserve rape as punishment,” is a weird Belgian who hates American culture, “hanker[s for] a society based on war, inequality and irrationally,” and is a sort-of fan of, um, Hitler. Verdict: Antifeminist (obviously) but probably not an MRA as such.

Theninja36, who wanted to “punch her in the face,” is a American gamer who seems a tad obsessed with Japan. VERDICT: Clearly hates feminists, as several of his comments attest, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.

About all I can tell  about Jack Ofalltrades, who made a crude, racist sexual suggestion, is that he’s a fan of the XFactor. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

So what have we learned here, aside from the sad fact that going through the histories of a whole bunch of YouTubers takes a fuck of a lot longer than I thought it would when I started out? Well, a number of things.

Out of the nineteen horrible commenters I was able to determine anything about, only one, Chocolateking1, seems to even vaguely fit the stereotype of the amoral, lulz-seeking troll that our friend Sigil1 wants to blame for all this.

Most of the commenters have been on YouTube for some time, with most of them using the site as an outlet for their various obsessions, which may or may not include hating on feminism. In a few cases they seem to be posting under their real names, which makes it all the more amazing that they’re perfectly willing to post violent and/or sexual comments as if no one except the nasty feminists would find any of this at all objectionable. Virtually all of them seem to be genuinely and unashamedly misogynistic.

Eight of the nineteen commenters are explicitly antifeminist, which puts them more than halfway along the route to possible MRAhood. Six — roughly a third of the total — are probably MRAs, or at the very least consumers of Men’s Rights and/or Manosphere media. Four are fans of TheAmazingAtheist. (NOTE TO SELF: TheAmazingAtheist has some really, really shitty fans.)

So congratulations, fellas: only perhaps a third of the many hundreds of terrible people who have been harassing and threatening the activist in question on YouTube seem to be MRAs or MRA-adjacent. Given that the total number of MRAs in the world is probably less than the number of people who watched that one video, that’s pretty impressive.

The comments I looked at here, nonetheless, are only a small fraction of the total number of threatening and/or harassing comments about the red-haired activist that have been posted to YouTube, and that are still being posted as you read this. She also received hundreds of messages directly, most of them anonymous.

Even if most of these messages weren’t sent by people who identify explicitly as MRAs, a signficant proportion clearly were, so we’re still talking about many dozens, perhaps even hundreds, of MRAs and fellow travelers who decided that the appropriate response to the video of the red-haired activist was to fire off comments and messages calling her a “bitch” or a “cunt” or something equally odious — and/or suggesting that she should be punched, or raped or even killed.

This whole exercise has helped to make even clearer to me why so many MRAs have made their names posting videos on YouTube: Because YouTube is filled to overflowing with the sort of terrible people who think rape threats are hilarious and that GirlWritesWhat is a genius.

MRAs, these people are your audience. Your peeps. Your most likely source of future converts. (Well, maybe not that Belgian Hitler fan. He’s got some ideas about statutory rape of teen boys that are as likely to offend MRAs as they are to offend feminists.)

And you wonder why so many see the Men’s Rights movement as a hate movement. (Hint: It’s the hate.)

NOTE: My promised post reflecting a bit more on A Voice for Men’s role in this all should go up tomorrow.

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Fade
11 years ago

Ableism. Nice.

Also, from your wordpress

When boys act in traditionally male behavior such as being distracted or boisterous they are labeled hyperactive and are medicated. Boys are mediated for behavioral issues at five times the rate of girls.

MRA talking point.

There is clearly an anti-male bias in the system based on a system of false assumptions about male privilege.

Denial of male privilege.

No I didn’t I said for FUCK AND ALL if you are going to hold everyone in a group to the standards of the worst of their group that can be found on youtube there isn’t a single group in the world, save for perhaps the amish that aren’t horrible by that definition

And I refuted by saying the MRAs were horrible by any definition, even if you go to their leaders. You said that that was making up what you meant yet I am not seeing that leap of logic. I respond… directly to your point… and I am making up what you said?

cloudiah
11 years ago

Clint, we think you’re not very bright and that you are also a very bad person. Why would we read your blog? Also, you may want to drink a cup of chamomile tea and have a little lie down. ALL CAPS and ableist/classist insults make you seem cranky, and also confirm my belief that you’re a bad person.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

cloudiah: I usually just get a whole chicken and spic it up, but Mr. HK likes to make teriyaki chicken.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

Awww, clinty’s having a meltdown! Isn’t that cute!

cloudiah, dunno if it counts as a recipe, but Mum and I like chicken stewed with tomato, onion and mushroom, and served with rice.

OT OT, I just ordered two new things from Secret Lentil. 🙂

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

^spice the chicken. I do not slur the chicken.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

What did you order, Kitteh’s?

Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
11 years ago

@ clint “…violence against Warren Farrell…”

This is news to me. Care to elaborate?

Fade
11 years ago

@Cloudiah

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070813073547AAQpiMT this one is one of my favorites. I like to make a bunch, and then save it in the fridge while warming it up in burritos w/ refried beans and cheese the rest of the week, and my sister likes it in quesadillas.

cloudiah
11 years ago

I’m relieved to hear that you’re not racist against chicken, hellkell. 😀

pillowinhell
11 years ago

Okay Clint, I’ll give you what you want. You’re not an MRA.

You are however the scummiest dreg of filth in the lowest reaches of a very fetid sewer. Why? Because you cannot bring yourself to condemn a group of predominently men who think they are entitled to threaten rape and murder, stalk and post personal contact info and wank in inglorious expectation of one womans demise, all because she inconvenienced them briefly and told at least one of them to shut the fuck up.

I don’t think much of her response to male suicides. In fact, it was cruel and callous in my books. I would totally support someone being very angry with her response. What I don’t support is the terrorism campaign that you seem to have zero problem with. You want to make her rather callous brush off of male suicide the same as threats of her rape, torture and murder. You want to totally overlook what is happening, what men are threatening her with and have the whole story revolve around how she Deserves It. And so do the MRA’s.

Since this is the first thing I’ve heard from you on the first time I’ve seen anything from you… What do you think the reasonable first approximation theory as to what you identify is going to be?

Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
11 years ago

Also – chicken breast, pounded flat, stuffed with cooked spinach and pine nuts, rolled up and coated in your selection of herbs and spices, pan fried.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

I ordered this and this.

Oh, Helen didn’t know your Manboobz handle, hellkell, so she doesn’t know who told me about her site. She has a secret benefactor!

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Of all the damn typos to make…

What kind of chicken do you have around? Oh–I made some great spinach/feta stuffed chicken wrapped in bacon last week.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Kitteh’s: nice stuff!

cloudiah
11 years ago

I’ll be going to the market tomorrow, so in theory I could have any kind of chicken. You all have already given me some great ideas!

cloudiah
11 years ago

Kittehs, Those are really nice! You’ll have to send pictures.

bahumbugi
bahumbugi
11 years ago

MAY I DIRECT YOUR ATTENTION TO CLINTY’S OTHER BLOG:

http://doccarnage.wordpress.com/

Some of my favorite quotes:

“They [feminists] control thoughts with repeated mantras like a cult. The most vitriolic is teach men not to rape. In just that sentence, they paint all men as rapists. No other crime is talked about like that. We don’t say teach men not to bank rob, because we all inherently know that most men aren’t bank robbers and all men know bank robbing is wrong, but some people just take what they want. The rape culture is a construct made by feminists, in order to gain power and attention at the expense of actual victims.”

You then quote Farrall and go on to say:

“Men call it coyote ugly, women call it a mistake, feminists call it rape.”

You never read MRA sites, huh? Don’t engage with them at all?

His overall message to us, guys?

“The key to arguing with feminists is to argue real equality.”

He’s just a bit confused what that means.

SO CLINTY, IMMA TYPE IN THE CAPS SO YOU CAN HEAR ME: I THINK YOU WERE LYING WHEN YA SAID:

DOES NOT MEAN I AM IN AN MRA, READ AN MRA WEBSITE, OR GIVE A SHIT ABOUT MRA LEADERS

bahumbugi
bahumbugi
11 years ago

You got it, folks, he thinks it’s malicious to teach boys to understand consent and not commit rape.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Yeah, Clint’s a big fat lying liar who lies. He’s an MRA.

pecunium
11 years ago

clint: Take a look at this We went to a Mens’ Rights Lecture in Toronto

Another lecture took place in March of this year, this time an overly critical look at feminist studies by Janice Fiamengo in which she described the discipline as “intellectually incoherent and dishonest.” Again, protesters were on hand waving placards and this time a fire alarm was pulled but, once more, the lecture went on as scheduled. [emphasis added]

Given that the lectures both took place, how do you justify the claim of “preventing speech/harassment” you were making to justify the reaction of the MRM?

U mad bro?

cloudiah
11 years ago

hellkell, isn’t that redundant?

Marie
Marie
11 years ago

@bahumbugi

You got it, folks, he thinks it’s malicious to teach boys to understand consent and not commit rape.

Wow. clint can go step on a lego.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

“Oh–I made some great spinach/feta stuffed chicken wrapped in bacon last week.”

*drools*

cloudiah, I’ll certainly send pics! Probably taken by the local expert photographer aka the guy who runs my favourite cafe. 🙂

Clinty saying telling men not to rape is a bad thing … yup, totally not an MRA.

bahumbugi
bahumbugi
11 years ago

He actually posted this link himself earlier.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

LOL bahumbigi, so he’s not only an MRA, he’s no brighter than the rest of ’em!

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