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So who exactly has been harassing that red-haired Canadian feminist? A not-quite-scientific survey

MRAs rarely let facts get in the way of their tantrums
MRAs rarely let facts get in the way of their tantrums

So the Men’s Rights subreddit has temporarily relaxed its policy of not allowing links to the terrible cesspool of lies that is Man Boobz to allow this post attacking me for detailing the disgusting threats and harassment a certain Canadian feminist activist has faced in recent days.

Most of the commenters flatly ignored the evidence of doxing and harassment that I included in my post — if they even bothered to read it — and simply invented their own story of what had happened. Instead of denouncing those who left death threats, they attacked me and the activist in question. And blamed all the ugliness on “trolls.”

Men’s Rights regular Sigil1, who used to post awful comments on Man Boobz as Eoghan (and using countless other sockpuppet accounts) responded in an all-too-predictable fashion, by falsely accusing me of making “false accusations” against MRAs.

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You may recall that in my post I offered two pieces of evidence that showed that MRAs were involved in posting this woman’s personal information on the internet — that is, doxing her. One was a large screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum containing a wide array of her personal information including phone numbers and her home address. I also noted that the A Voice for Men forum featured links to several of her dating profiles.

In other words, these are clearly MRAs, and they have been disseminating her personal information — that is, doxing — her. To repeat, and I’m sorry that I have to repeat such an utterly simpleminded point: THE FACT THAT SOME PEOPLE (WHO ARE MRAS) ARE DOXING HER MEANS THAT MRAS HAVE BEEN DOXING HER. Other people who are probably not MRAs have also been doxing her.

In the Reddit thread, giegerwasright complains that “they” — meaning me –“are also moving the goalposts on doxxing to suit their needs.” Well, no. I’d say that a post on a Men’s Rights forum that includes her picture, links to her Facebook page, her Tumblr blog, her YouTube account, her old Twitter account, a dating profile, her home address and two phone numbers is “doxing” by pretty much everyone’s definition of the term.

As anyone who looks at the large screenshot I posted earlier would see, its author  — a famous MRA spammer who goes by the name John Rambo — urged men to “contact her through one of the below methods and ask her why she hates men so much.”

In my earlier post I showed you the sort of horrific stuff many of those who have been contacting her have been saying.

Did I provide proof that any of these threatening and harassing comments were from MRAs? Well, aside from one message from A Voice for Men’s Dan Perrins, which was more of a gloating message than a threatening one, no. Part of the reason for this is that most of the direct threats sent to the activist were sent — wait for it — anonymously. That’s how threat-makers generally do things. Cuts down the possibility of getting in trouble.

As for the YouTube comments, I didn’t check. Why? Because, given that the video in question was titled “mras and feminists arguing at u of t mra event,” and that the video was linked to on assorted Men’s Rights sites including the Men’s Rights subreddit and A Voice for Men, I figured that the odds were pretty good that a lot of them were MRAs; certainly the odds that none of them were MRAs were pretty much zero. (And of course I never claimed they were all MRAs.)

But as I sat down to write this post I found I was curious about these nasty YouTube people. So I did a little experiment. I went through the list of awful YouTube comments that I posted on Monday, and took at look at the YouTube feeds of the various commenters who left them to see if I could determine whether or not they were MRAs. I included only those who made threatening and/or misogynist comments, and left out a few that didn’t provide enough information for me to make an educated guess.

Here are the results. But first, a TRIGGER WARNING, because I quote liberally from their nasty, violent and often crudely sexual comments. (You can skim down to my summary of what I found if you wish to avoid the gruesome details.)

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YouTuber Kilz Bryce, who wished a gruesome “death by cheese grater” to the red-haired activist (henceforth RHA), is an otherwise unassuming Japanese fan of Taylor Swift and Carly Rae Jepsen. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

Slurpos, who suggested shooting the RHA, is a racist conspiracy-monger who recently called MSNBC’s Melissa Harris-Perry a “slut.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Joris667, who suggested a “cock up the arse,” recently “liked” an antifeminist video by Mykeru, who just happens to be a contributor to A Voice for Men. VERDICT: Possibly an MRA.

Damndisplace07, who suggested punching the RHA, has posted a bunch of rambling, ranty misogynistic videos on YouTube, some of which rely heavily on Manosphere ideology and jargon. VERDICT: Probably an MRA.

BusinessmanBandit is a young entrepreneur and goldbug who likes referring to women as “bitches.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Lazywhiteb0y, who “would love to punch this annoying cunt directly in the face,” is a fan of rap, country music, guns and beer. VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Akranejames, who also favors punching “this type of feminist,” is mostly obsessed with video games. But he also made a recent comment suggesting that we should abandon feminism and “machism” for “equalism,” and the only people I’ve ever heard use that ridiculous term have been hopeless MRA types. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least a sometime reader of Mens’ Rights sites.

Leinster4life13, who wanted to ship her to Saudi Arabia, is a soccer enthusiast who also recently “liked” a video by the notoriously misogynistic Manhood Academy. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least an MRA-in-training.

Chocolateking1, who made a joke about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen, seems to be, well, the sort of trolly asshole who thinks jokes about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen. VERDICT: Misogynist, probably not an MRA.

MadDogFritz, who railed about “feminazi propaganda” and made three separate comments on three different videos demanding to know “who is the the red headed pig monster with the attitude,” has recently commented on a number of MRA videos and is also a big fan of TheAmazingAtheist and his antifeminist rants. Also has complained about “women’s lib.” VERDICT: Seems pretty damn MRAish to me.

Robert alakaka, who declared that the RHA is “one of the most unlikable cunts in his [?] existence,” and that he “sincerely hopes she dies,” is a raging misogynist and homophobe who recently “liked” a video featuring the MRA-ish “Dick Masterson” explaining how “men are better than women.” Aaaaand he’s a fan of TheAmazingAtheist. VERDICT: Definitely MRA-ish.

TheTrueValkyrie66, who compared the RHA unfavorably to goatse, is also a fan of TheAmazingAtheist and — wait for it — MyLittlePony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but seems to have stepped straight out of the Big Book of Redditor Stereotypes.

HUEHEUHE HEUHEUEH, who made a generic misogynist remark, seems to be a Brony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

EndlessCycleofPride, who declared “I hope you get raped,” is way into bodybuilding. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but a terrible person nonetheless.

Dominic Galvin, who declared “I want to punch her,” is a vintage car enthusiast and yet another fan of TheAmazingAtheist, especially his antifeminist rants. VERDICT: Possible MRA.

Corbbin Goldsmith, who suggested oral rape, is a software synth enthusiast and bedroom musician. VERDICT: An awful person, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.

Amaurypenseur, who thinks that “feminists deserve rape as punishment,” is a weird Belgian who hates American culture, “hanker[s for] a society based on war, inequality and irrationally,” and is a sort-of fan of, um, Hitler. Verdict: Antifeminist (obviously) but probably not an MRA as such.

Theninja36, who wanted to “punch her in the face,” is a American gamer who seems a tad obsessed with Japan. VERDICT: Clearly hates feminists, as several of his comments attest, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.

About all I can tell  about Jack Ofalltrades, who made a crude, racist sexual suggestion, is that he’s a fan of the XFactor. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

So what have we learned here, aside from the sad fact that going through the histories of a whole bunch of YouTubers takes a fuck of a lot longer than I thought it would when I started out? Well, a number of things.

Out of the nineteen horrible commenters I was able to determine anything about, only one, Chocolateking1, seems to even vaguely fit the stereotype of the amoral, lulz-seeking troll that our friend Sigil1 wants to blame for all this.

Most of the commenters have been on YouTube for some time, with most of them using the site as an outlet for their various obsessions, which may or may not include hating on feminism. In a few cases they seem to be posting under their real names, which makes it all the more amazing that they’re perfectly willing to post violent and/or sexual comments as if no one except the nasty feminists would find any of this at all objectionable. Virtually all of them seem to be genuinely and unashamedly misogynistic.

Eight of the nineteen commenters are explicitly antifeminist, which puts them more than halfway along the route to possible MRAhood. Six — roughly a third of the total — are probably MRAs, or at the very least consumers of Men’s Rights and/or Manosphere media. Four are fans of TheAmazingAtheist. (NOTE TO SELF: TheAmazingAtheist has some really, really shitty fans.)

So congratulations, fellas: only perhaps a third of the many hundreds of terrible people who have been harassing and threatening the activist in question on YouTube seem to be MRAs or MRA-adjacent. Given that the total number of MRAs in the world is probably less than the number of people who watched that one video, that’s pretty impressive.

The comments I looked at here, nonetheless, are only a small fraction of the total number of threatening and/or harassing comments about the red-haired activist that have been posted to YouTube, and that are still being posted as you read this. She also received hundreds of messages directly, most of them anonymous.

Even if most of these messages weren’t sent by people who identify explicitly as MRAs, a signficant proportion clearly were, so we’re still talking about many dozens, perhaps even hundreds, of MRAs and fellow travelers who decided that the appropriate response to the video of the red-haired activist was to fire off comments and messages calling her a “bitch” or a “cunt” or something equally odious — and/or suggesting that she should be punched, or raped or even killed.

This whole exercise has helped to make even clearer to me why so many MRAs have made their names posting videos on YouTube: Because YouTube is filled to overflowing with the sort of terrible people who think rape threats are hilarious and that GirlWritesWhat is a genius.

MRAs, these people are your audience. Your peeps. Your most likely source of future converts. (Well, maybe not that Belgian Hitler fan. He’s got some ideas about statutory rape of teen boys that are as likely to offend MRAs as they are to offend feminists.)

And you wonder why so many see the Men’s Rights movement as a hate movement. (Hint: It’s the hate.)

NOTE: My promised post reflecting a bit more on A Voice for Men’s role in this all should go up tomorrow.

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Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

“Say, should we add antiques to our welcome package? Some of those antique chairs are really hard …”

Unfortunately I could only add more links if David increased the amount of links it takes to set off the spam filter. I could just add the word antique before the hard chair bit though. Yea or nay?

Kittehserf
11 years ago

Yea!

That’s a very good point about commissioning a portrait. Some poor man was ROBBED because MISANDRY and his picture didn’t show what a manly man hunk he was!

eumenidis
eumenidis
11 years ago

Of course, the MRAs are *never* at fault in anything, by definition; so anyone who does engage in doxing, harassing, threatening, etc. people the MRAs don’t like is by definition not a “real” MRA. Must be nice to live in a reality that rewrites itself to suit the person’s convenience of the moment.

clintiskeen
11 years ago

So then we’re holding movements to their lowest comments on youtube? If so then everyone is what they are on youtube. All feminists want to cut men’s balls off. Everyone who likes Harry Potter is a pedophile who want to see Snape rape Harry. Everyone who likes pretty much anything is a homophobe. David wants to sing “Cry me a river” every time he hears about men committing suicide. EVERYTHING IS ANYTHING.

I mean for fuck’s sake, son was this your first time ever seeing youtube comments or something?

I love youtube and I have been visiting it for years, but I have yet to ever say to myself, “I’m really glad I read the comments on this video. I should stop avoiding them like they will set my eyes on fire”

cloudiah
11 years ago

Clint,

I hate to break this to you, but you’re not very keen.

cloudiah

Marie
11 years ago

@clint

Newflash, even if someone is a jerk on youtube, they still are a jerk in real life.

Fade
11 years ago

Clintshit, your leaders aren’t exactly shining examples of humanity, either. Like whatshisface “the only reason girls mind getting raped by their father is because society tells them to” Ferrel and Paul “fucking their shit up gives me an erection” Elam who also thinks that a woman’s looks equates to her personality.

Bostonian
Bostonian
11 years ago

Ok clintiskeen, how come it was ok for AVFM to dox her then?

The AVFM website posted her phone numbers and address.
Stop tapdancing, and answer!

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Clint: go back and read why David was looking at Youtube comments. Keep reading until you get it, I know you’re slow.

Bostonian
Bostonian
11 years ago

I demand that all the trolls answer that actually, why was it ok to have her phone number and address up on the AVFM website?
Why do you think it was ok for people to threaten to kill her?

No one will answer.

Because MRAs are just a hate movement, but they want to pretend they are not.

bahumbugi
bahumbugi
11 years ago

No, Clint. Anyone on YouTube is who they are on YouTube. We looked at a high number of individuals who said nasty, disgusting, threatening things on YouTube (with no “doxxing” in any form), and showed that many of those who said these things, from our small sample, are interested in MRA-related material.

MRM, I challenge you to find a parallel example of this: where groups of feminists or people affiliated with feminism on YouTube violently threaten, in mass numbers, one particular non-famous individual for, say, “being rude.” Then, I want to see if you can find that this behavior extends way beyond YouTube, to involve spreading said offender’s personal information all across the internet, with cries of delight at imagining his/her violent demise. At the level experienced by Redhead.

clintiskeen
11 years ago

FOR SHIT’S SAKE AND THE 300TH TIME. JUST BECAUSE I DISAGREED WITH HOW DAVID PORTRAYED CHANNITY DOES NOT MEAN I AM IN AN MRA, READ AN MRA WEBSITE, OR GIVE A SHIT ABOUT MRA LEADERS. I don’t know why you idiots maintain this false equivalency where I either agree with you or I agree with them. In fact, I think you’re all misguided cretins.

Marie
11 years ago

That’s fascinating clint.

Bostonian
Bostonian
11 years ago

Oh sure, now you are shouting! That will convince us that you are not an MRA.

You just swanned into the thread defending them, and not reading the post for content. (Just like an MRA)

Threatening and doxxing women is universal! ( according to clint, anyway)

pillowinhell
11 years ago

Spoonwood needs to get with the program. With todays social media and technologies, movements are increasingly becoming more lateral. More ideas and people are being heard and listened to. And the top down approach is breaking up.

I don’t listen much to feminists on TV or newsprint. I read a ton of online magazines and blogs. Which means I hear a lot more variety of viewpoints and information. What I don’t hear about is Dworkin and Solanas…unless I hit a wiki page, or pop my head into a radfem hub.

Fade
11 years ago

Um, clintshit you were the one who brought up the leaders… and frankly I don’t give a flying fuck whether you think I’m a misguided credit or not.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Clint, why are you so upset?

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Clint, honey, calm down. You’re hysterical.

clintiskeen
11 years ago

No I didn’t I said for FUCK AND ALL if you are going to hold everyone in a group to the standards of the worst of their group that can be found on youtube there isn’t a single group in the world, save for perhaps the amish that aren’t horrible by that definition.

Quit making up what I mean from what you want me to mean. I have one dipshit up there asking me why it was OK to DOX her, one saying I condone date rape because I didn’t like violence against Warren Farrell and a bunch of other crazy crap. How the hell am I supposed to respond to why I said stuff I literally never said outside your crazy warped brains?

How many of you are crazy shut ins on SSID who just sit around all day hoping some MRA guy will wander in here and engage you? I’m guessing it’s most of you because you are pretending I am that guy and then yelling things at me that aren’t fitting, despite if any of you had bothered to click on teh whole clintiskeen thing you’d see one of the 4 posts I have bothered to make was anti MRA

Kittehserf
11 years ago

If we’re all so hopelessly stupid, clintyboy, take your superior brain elsewhere, don’t waste it on us, hmm?

You refuse to grasp that protesters delaying a public meeting is not harassment, much less harassment on the scale of rape and death threats. By harping on what Redhead purportedly did (it’s been noted those videos were edited to make her look bad) you’re trying to deflect attention from what was done to her, in totally disproportionate response. That gives the lie to all your claims not to condone or approve of those threats. Your focus would be on protesting about the men threatening her if you were a decent human being.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Trolls are boring. Chicken can also be boring. [segue to OT question] Anyone got any good chicken recipes?

clintiskeen
11 years ago

Harassment (/həˈræsmənt/ or /ˈhærəsmənt/) covers a wide range of behaviours of an offensive nature. It is commonly understood as behaviour intended to disturb or upset, and it is characteristically repetitive. In the legal sense, it is intentional behaviour which is found threatening or disturbing.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Clint, you ableist fuckwad, go the hell away. You are dull. You are a liar. Piss off.

It’s cute how frothing mad we make him.

Marie
11 years ago

Clint is boring. Cloudiah, sorry, no chicken recipes here.

Bostonian
Bostonian
11 years ago

LOL, but still defending the poor, helpless, MRAs.’

I’ll put folding money down on him having an “epiphany” and declaring himself a proud MRA from now on.

We drove him to it, after all, because we thought someone defending MRAs might be one himself!

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