Categories
a voice for men advocacy of violence antifeminism atheism minus creepy harassment hate lying liars men who should not ever be with ponies ever men who should not ever be with women ever misogyny MRA rape culture rape jokes reddit threats YouTube

So who exactly has been harassing that red-haired Canadian feminist? A not-quite-scientific survey

MRAs rarely let facts get in the way of their tantrums
MRAs rarely let facts get in the way of their tantrums

So the Men’s Rights subreddit has temporarily relaxed its policy of not allowing links to the terrible cesspool of lies that is Man Boobz to allow this post attacking me for detailing the disgusting threats and harassment a certain Canadian feminist activist has faced in recent days.

Most of the commenters flatly ignored the evidence of doxing and harassment that I included in my post — if they even bothered to read it — and simply invented their own story of what had happened. Instead of denouncing those who left death threats, they attacked me and the activist in question. And blamed all the ugliness on “trolls.”

Men’s Rights regular Sigil1, who used to post awful comments on Man Boobz as Eoghan (and using countless other sockpuppet accounts) responded in an all-too-predictable fashion, by falsely accusing me of making “false accusations” against MRAs.

siggle

You may recall that in my post I offered two pieces of evidence that showed that MRAs were involved in posting this woman’s personal information on the internet — that is, doxing her. One was a large screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum containing a wide array of her personal information including phone numbers and her home address. I also noted that the A Voice for Men forum featured links to several of her dating profiles.

In other words, these are clearly MRAs, and they have been disseminating her personal information — that is, doxing — her. To repeat, and I’m sorry that I have to repeat such an utterly simpleminded point: THE FACT THAT SOME PEOPLE (WHO ARE MRAS) ARE DOXING HER MEANS THAT MRAS HAVE BEEN DOXING HER. Other people who are probably not MRAs have also been doxing her.

In the Reddit thread, giegerwasright complains that “they” — meaning me –“are also moving the goalposts on doxxing to suit their needs.” Well, no. I’d say that a post on a Men’s Rights forum that includes her picture, links to her Facebook page, her Tumblr blog, her YouTube account, her old Twitter account, a dating profile, her home address and two phone numbers is “doxing” by pretty much everyone’s definition of the term.

As anyone who looks at the large screenshot I posted earlier would see, its author  — a famous MRA spammer who goes by the name John Rambo — urged men to “contact her through one of the below methods and ask her why she hates men so much.”

In my earlier post I showed you the sort of horrific stuff many of those who have been contacting her have been saying.

Did I provide proof that any of these threatening and harassing comments were from MRAs? Well, aside from one message from A Voice for Men’s Dan Perrins, which was more of a gloating message than a threatening one, no. Part of the reason for this is that most of the direct threats sent to the activist were sent — wait for it — anonymously. That’s how threat-makers generally do things. Cuts down the possibility of getting in trouble.

As for the YouTube comments, I didn’t check. Why? Because, given that the video in question was titled “mras and feminists arguing at u of t mra event,” and that the video was linked to on assorted Men’s Rights sites including the Men’s Rights subreddit and A Voice for Men, I figured that the odds were pretty good that a lot of them were MRAs; certainly the odds that none of them were MRAs were pretty much zero. (And of course I never claimed they were all MRAs.)

But as I sat down to write this post I found I was curious about these nasty YouTube people. So I did a little experiment. I went through the list of awful YouTube comments that I posted on Monday, and took at look at the YouTube feeds of the various commenters who left them to see if I could determine whether or not they were MRAs. I included only those who made threatening and/or misogynist comments, and left out a few that didn’t provide enough information for me to make an educated guess.

Here are the results. But first, a TRIGGER WARNING, because I quote liberally from their nasty, violent and often crudely sexual comments. (You can skim down to my summary of what I found if you wish to avoid the gruesome details.)

.

.

.

YouTuber Kilz Bryce, who wished a gruesome “death by cheese grater” to the red-haired activist (henceforth RHA), is an otherwise unassuming Japanese fan of Taylor Swift and Carly Rae Jepsen. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

Slurpos, who suggested shooting the RHA, is a racist conspiracy-monger who recently called MSNBC’s Melissa Harris-Perry a “slut.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Joris667, who suggested a “cock up the arse,” recently “liked” an antifeminist video by Mykeru, who just happens to be a contributor to A Voice for Men. VERDICT: Possibly an MRA.

Damndisplace07, who suggested punching the RHA, has posted a bunch of rambling, ranty misogynistic videos on YouTube, some of which rely heavily on Manosphere ideology and jargon. VERDICT: Probably an MRA.

BusinessmanBandit is a young entrepreneur and goldbug who likes referring to women as “bitches.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Lazywhiteb0y, who “would love to punch this annoying cunt directly in the face,” is a fan of rap, country music, guns and beer. VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Akranejames, who also favors punching “this type of feminist,” is mostly obsessed with video games. But he also made a recent comment suggesting that we should abandon feminism and “machism” for “equalism,” and the only people I’ve ever heard use that ridiculous term have been hopeless MRA types. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least a sometime reader of Mens’ Rights sites.

Leinster4life13, who wanted to ship her to Saudi Arabia, is a soccer enthusiast who also recently “liked” a video by the notoriously misogynistic Manhood Academy. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least an MRA-in-training.

Chocolateking1, who made a joke about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen, seems to be, well, the sort of trolly asshole who thinks jokes about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen. VERDICT: Misogynist, probably not an MRA.

MadDogFritz, who railed about “feminazi propaganda” and made three separate comments on three different videos demanding to know “who is the the red headed pig monster with the attitude,” has recently commented on a number of MRA videos and is also a big fan of TheAmazingAtheist and his antifeminist rants. Also has complained about “women’s lib.” VERDICT: Seems pretty damn MRAish to me.

Robert alakaka, who declared that the RHA is “one of the most unlikable cunts in his [?] existence,” and that he “sincerely hopes she dies,” is a raging misogynist and homophobe who recently “liked” a video featuring the MRA-ish “Dick Masterson” explaining how “men are better than women.” Aaaaand he’s a fan of TheAmazingAtheist. VERDICT: Definitely MRA-ish.

TheTrueValkyrie66, who compared the RHA unfavorably to goatse, is also a fan of TheAmazingAtheist and — wait for it — MyLittlePony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but seems to have stepped straight out of the Big Book of Redditor Stereotypes.

HUEHEUHE HEUHEUEH, who made a generic misogynist remark, seems to be a Brony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

EndlessCycleofPride, who declared “I hope you get raped,” is way into bodybuilding. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but a terrible person nonetheless.

Dominic Galvin, who declared “I want to punch her,” is a vintage car enthusiast and yet another fan of TheAmazingAtheist, especially his antifeminist rants. VERDICT: Possible MRA.

Corbbin Goldsmith, who suggested oral rape, is a software synth enthusiast and bedroom musician. VERDICT: An awful person, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.

Amaurypenseur, who thinks that “feminists deserve rape as punishment,” is a weird Belgian who hates American culture, “hanker[s for] a society based on war, inequality and irrationally,” and is a sort-of fan of, um, Hitler. Verdict: Antifeminist (obviously) but probably not an MRA as such.

Theninja36, who wanted to “punch her in the face,” is a American gamer who seems a tad obsessed with Japan. VERDICT: Clearly hates feminists, as several of his comments attest, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.

About all I can tell  about Jack Ofalltrades, who made a crude, racist sexual suggestion, is that he’s a fan of the XFactor. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

So what have we learned here, aside from the sad fact that going through the histories of a whole bunch of YouTubers takes a fuck of a lot longer than I thought it would when I started out? Well, a number of things.

Out of the nineteen horrible commenters I was able to determine anything about, only one, Chocolateking1, seems to even vaguely fit the stereotype of the amoral, lulz-seeking troll that our friend Sigil1 wants to blame for all this.

Most of the commenters have been on YouTube for some time, with most of them using the site as an outlet for their various obsessions, which may or may not include hating on feminism. In a few cases they seem to be posting under their real names, which makes it all the more amazing that they’re perfectly willing to post violent and/or sexual comments as if no one except the nasty feminists would find any of this at all objectionable. Virtually all of them seem to be genuinely and unashamedly misogynistic.

Eight of the nineteen commenters are explicitly antifeminist, which puts them more than halfway along the route to possible MRAhood. Six — roughly a third of the total — are probably MRAs, or at the very least consumers of Men’s Rights and/or Manosphere media. Four are fans of TheAmazingAtheist. (NOTE TO SELF: TheAmazingAtheist has some really, really shitty fans.)

So congratulations, fellas: only perhaps a third of the many hundreds of terrible people who have been harassing and threatening the activist in question on YouTube seem to be MRAs or MRA-adjacent. Given that the total number of MRAs in the world is probably less than the number of people who watched that one video, that’s pretty impressive.

The comments I looked at here, nonetheless, are only a small fraction of the total number of threatening and/or harassing comments about the red-haired activist that have been posted to YouTube, and that are still being posted as you read this. She also received hundreds of messages directly, most of them anonymous.

Even if most of these messages weren’t sent by people who identify explicitly as MRAs, a signficant proportion clearly were, so we’re still talking about many dozens, perhaps even hundreds, of MRAs and fellow travelers who decided that the appropriate response to the video of the red-haired activist was to fire off comments and messages calling her a “bitch” or a “cunt” or something equally odious — and/or suggesting that she should be punched, or raped or even killed.

This whole exercise has helped to make even clearer to me why so many MRAs have made their names posting videos on YouTube: Because YouTube is filled to overflowing with the sort of terrible people who think rape threats are hilarious and that GirlWritesWhat is a genius.

MRAs, these people are your audience. Your peeps. Your most likely source of future converts. (Well, maybe not that Belgian Hitler fan. He’s got some ideas about statutory rape of teen boys that are as likely to offend MRAs as they are to offend feminists.)

And you wonder why so many see the Men’s Rights movement as a hate movement. (Hint: It’s the hate.)

NOTE: My promised post reflecting a bit more on A Voice for Men’s role in this all should go up tomorrow.

479 Comments
Inline Feedbacks
View all comments
Ella
Ella
11 years ago

I was telling some male friends of mine about this whole harassment of women campaign. They had not heart of mra’s (I guess because they are all in happy relationships), and were extemely troubled by not only the posted videos (being film fans they recognized that these clips were edited to achieve maximum neg. effect towards this poor woman). Time to start watching some of the youtube clips by Nocturnus Libertus which are actually very postive, equality based clips.

bahumbugi
bahumbugi
11 years ago

Until Mark Jones can actually respond to this:

No matter how jerkish someone acts, that doesn’t justify death threats. Also, I could swear we’ve been through this like, a hundred times before.

I don’t think anyone should engage with him at all. Of course, you all have the right to continue to engage with him — I won’t threaten you if you disagree with me. Or even if you insult me! Or curse me out!

Marie
11 years ago

@bahumbugi

I’m totally okay with not engaging him til then.

theladyzombie
theladyzombie
11 years ago
Doug Spoonwood
Doug Spoonwood
11 years ago

The ideas and basis of a movement come from its leaders. The ideas and basis of a movement come from those who create and disseminate its information. The ideas and basis of a movement comes from its most outspoken and most active activists. The ideas and basis of Christianity come from Jesus and his apostles, NOT their followers (given Christianity as qualifying as a movement). The ideas and basis of the American Civil Rights Movement come from people like Dr. Martin Luther King and Malcolm X. The ideas and basis of ideological Feminism come from people like Gloria Steinem, Andrea Dworkin, Valerie Solanas, Betty Friedan, and Bell Hooks… not the feminists taking their first gender studies course.

Granting the people you’ve called MRAs as MRAs, they are clearly NOT the leaders of the MRM, its most active activists, and the like. So the implied assertion here that you’ve proven the MRM as a hate movement via this little exercise Mr. Futrelle is nothing more than a joke. And a very funny one at that!!!!!! (I admit it… I’m violent with the exclamation points… my keyboard is oppressed by my fingers!!!!! Oops… that’s depressed… I’ve made my keyboard depressed!!!!!)

Marie
11 years ago

@spoonwood

Go fuck yourself, you’re boring and annoying.

Ugh
Ugh
11 years ago

Granting the people you’ve called MRAs as MRAs, they are clearly NOT the leaders of the MRM, its most active activists, and the like. So the implied assertion here that you’ve proven the MRM as a hate movement via this little exercise Mr. Futrelle is nothing more than a joke.

Name one MRA leader who has not advocated for increased acceptance rape, domestic violence or child abuse in society.

Ugh
Ugh
11 years ago

*of

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Ok, Dougie, I’ll bite–who are these MRM leaders then?

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Try using examples that are both alive and still relevant. Eg the ideas and basis of Catholicism come from the pope.

Otherwise you’re taking about history — “The ideas and basis of ideological second wave Feminism come from people like Gloria Steinem, Andrea Dworkin, Valerie Solanas, Betty Friedan, and Bell Hooks”

Also, zombie Solanas and zombie Dworkin!

Fade
11 years ago

I’m amused that spoonwood thinks that the civil rights movement and feminism don’t have newleaders. I mean, Malcolm X and Martin Luther King Jr are both dead. Does he think the civil rights movement stopped happening? Or people just follow all of their words to the last letters, b/c nothing ever evolves.

Same with zombie Dworkin. Sorry, Spoonwood, nobody is following Zombie Dworkin any more.

Fade
11 years ago

ninja’d!

timetravellingfool
timetravellingfool
11 years ago

Which of these leaders not at all participating in the harassment and threats for this woman heavens no casually left her contact info on their page for a bit of time and left links to her OkCupid profile in their forum? It’s pretty hard to blame a kid for a fire when you give them matches and gasoline and say you think that house would look way better as a pile of ash.

timetravellingfool
timetravellingfool
11 years ago

Oh. My. God- next haloween I am Zombie Dworkin

Marie
11 years ago

It’s pretty hard to blame a kid for a fire when you give them matches and gasoline and say you think that house would look way better as a pile of ash.

This is the second analogy I’ve really liked today. And I normally hate them. Why are you guys so awesome?

Kittehserf
11 years ago

Lady Zombie, I liked that article. Only comment on it worth reading was “Antiques Roadshow, pillar of oppression” though.

Say, should we add antiques to our welcome package? Some of those antique chairs are really hard …

timetravellingfool
timetravellingfool
11 years ago

Thanks, Marie!! I am coming off of a deeply un-awesome moment here, so I’m glad to be contributing again!

pecunium
11 years ago

Oh Dougie: Granting the people you’ve called MRAs as MRAs, they are clearly NOT the leaders of the MRM,

Ok… who are the leaders?

Kittehserf
11 years ago

Given the type of “movement” it is, I guess the leaders could be described as “first turds out the arse”.

pecunium
11 years ago

So… I went and read that piece about the CAFE/AVfM relationship, and it said the lecture RHA was protesting did happen, all it was is delayed.

What was it Clint was arguing, that the prevention of the lecture = harassment. If the lecture did happen, then there is absolutely zero equivalence on his terms.

Dishonest. I’m shocked.

theladyzombie
theladyzombie
11 years ago

Kittehserf, clearly, the failure to sell a portrait of a man is misandry! And you’re right; some of those old parlor chairs are too narrow and not padded enough for the male buttocks. More misandry!

Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
11 years ago

Odds of Dougie backing up any of his assertions?

Also did I see two trolls acknowledging each others’ presence on the previous page? Will wonders never cease?

Kittehserf
11 years ago

And it’s probably misandry that the portrait made him look like some beta nobody wants a picture of! 😀

theladyzombie
theladyzombie
11 years ago

That’s a good point. Correct my ignorance but didn’t you have to be fairly well off to commission a portrait? Would a beta male have enough resources to do that?

Hmm, so many questions!

1 3 4 5 6 7 20