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So who exactly has been harassing that red-haired Canadian feminist? A not-quite-scientific survey

MRAs rarely let facts get in the way of their tantrums
MRAs rarely let facts get in the way of their tantrums

So the Men’s Rights subreddit has temporarily relaxed its policy of not allowing links to the terrible cesspool of lies that is Man Boobz to allow this post attacking me for detailing the disgusting threats and harassment a certain Canadian feminist activist has faced in recent days.

Most of the commenters flatly ignored the evidence of doxing and harassment that I included in my post — if they even bothered to read it — and simply invented their own story of what had happened. Instead of denouncing those who left death threats, they attacked me and the activist in question. And blamed all the ugliness on “trolls.”

Men’s Rights regular Sigil1, who used to post awful comments on Man Boobz as Eoghan (and using countless other sockpuppet accounts) responded in an all-too-predictable fashion, by falsely accusing me of making “false accusations” against MRAs.

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You may recall that in my post I offered two pieces of evidence that showed that MRAs were involved in posting this woman’s personal information on the internet — that is, doxing her. One was a large screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum containing a wide array of her personal information including phone numbers and her home address. I also noted that the A Voice for Men forum featured links to several of her dating profiles.

In other words, these are clearly MRAs, and they have been disseminating her personal information — that is, doxing — her. To repeat, and I’m sorry that I have to repeat such an utterly simpleminded point: THE FACT THAT SOME PEOPLE (WHO ARE MRAS) ARE DOXING HER MEANS THAT MRAS HAVE BEEN DOXING HER. Other people who are probably not MRAs have also been doxing her.

In the Reddit thread, giegerwasright complains that “they” — meaning me –“are also moving the goalposts on doxxing to suit their needs.” Well, no. I’d say that a post on a Men’s Rights forum that includes her picture, links to her Facebook page, her Tumblr blog, her YouTube account, her old Twitter account, a dating profile, her home address and two phone numbers is “doxing” by pretty much everyone’s definition of the term.

As anyone who looks at the large screenshot I posted earlier would see, its authorΒ  — a famous MRA spammer who goes by the name John Rambo — urged men to “contact her through one of the below methods and ask her why she hates men so much.”

In my earlier post I showed you the sort of horrific stuff many of those who have been contacting her have been saying.

Did I provide proof that any of these threatening and harassing comments were from MRAs? Well, aside from one message from A Voice for Men’s Dan Perrins, which was more of a gloating message than a threatening one, no. Part of the reason for this is that most of the direct threats sent to the activist were sent — wait for it — anonymously. That’s how threat-makers generally do things. Cuts down the possibility of getting in trouble.

As for the YouTube comments, I didn’t check. Why? Because, given that the video in question was titled “mras and feminists arguing at u of t mra event,” and that the video was linked to on assorted Men’s Rights sites including the Men’s Rights subreddit and A Voice for Men, I figured that the odds were pretty good that a lot of them were MRAs; certainly the odds that none of them were MRAs were pretty much zero. (And of course I never claimed they were all MRAs.)

But as I sat down to write this post I found I was curious about these nasty YouTube people. So I did a little experiment. I went through the list of awful YouTube comments that I posted on Monday, and took at look at the YouTube feeds of the various commenters who left them to see if I could determine whether or not they were MRAs. I included only those who made threatening and/or misogynist comments, and left out a few that didn’t provide enough information for me to make an educated guess.

Here are the results. But first, a TRIGGER WARNING, because I quote liberally from their nasty, violent and often crudely sexual comments. (You can skim down to my summary of what I found if you wish to avoid the gruesome details.)

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YouTuber Kilz Bryce, who wished a gruesome “death by cheese grater” to the red-haired activist (henceforth RHA), is an otherwise unassuming Japanese fan of Taylor Swift and Carly Rae Jepsen. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

Slurpos, who suggested shooting the RHA, is a racist conspiracy-monger who recently called MSNBC’s Melissa Harris-Perry a “slut.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Joris667, who suggested a “cock up the arse,” recently “liked” an antifeminist video by Mykeru, who just happens to be a contributor to A Voice for Men. VERDICT: Possibly an MRA.

Damndisplace07, who suggested punching the RHA, has posted a bunch of rambling, ranty misogynistic videos on YouTube, some of which rely heavily on Manosphere ideology and jargon. VERDICT: Probably an MRA.

BusinessmanBandit is a young entrepreneur and goldbug who likes referring to women as “bitches.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Lazywhiteb0y, who “would love to punch this annoying cunt directly in the face,” is a fan of rap, country music, guns and beer. VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Akranejames, who also favors punching “this type of feminist,” is mostly obsessed with video games. But he also made a recent comment suggesting that we should abandon feminism and “machism” for “equalism,” and the only people I’ve ever heard use that ridiculous term have been hopeless MRA types. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least a sometime reader of Mens’ Rights sites.

Leinster4life13, who wanted to ship her to Saudi Arabia, is a soccer enthusiast who also recently “liked” a video by the notoriously misogynistic Manhood Academy. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least an MRA-in-training.

Chocolateking1, who made a joke about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen, seems to be, well, the sort of trolly asshole who thinks jokes about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen. VERDICT: Misogynist, probably not an MRA.

MadDogFritz, who railed about “feminazi propaganda” and made three separate comments on three different videos demanding to know “who is the the red headed pig monster with the attitude,” has recently commented on a number of MRA videos and is also a big fan of TheAmazingAtheist and his antifeminist rants. Also has complained about “women’s lib.” VERDICT: Seems pretty damn MRAish to me.

Robert alakaka, who declared that the RHA is “one of the most unlikable cunts in his [?] existence,” and that he “sincerely hopes she dies,” is a raging misogynist and homophobe who recently “liked” a video featuring the MRA-ish “Dick Masterson” explaining how “men are better than women.” Aaaaand he’s a fan of TheAmazingAtheist. VERDICT: Definitely MRA-ish.

TheTrueValkyrie66, who compared the RHA unfavorably to goatse, is also a fan of TheAmazingAtheist and — wait for it — MyLittlePony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but seems to have stepped straight out of the Big Book of Redditor Stereotypes.

HUEHEUHE HEUHEUEH, who made a generic misogynist remark, seems to be a Brony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

EndlessCycleofPride, who declared “I hope you get raped,” is way into bodybuilding. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but a terrible person nonetheless.

Dominic Galvin, who declared “I want to punch her,” is a vintage car enthusiast and yet another fan of TheAmazingAtheist, especially his antifeminist rants. VERDICT: Possible MRA.

Corbbin Goldsmith, who suggested oral rape, is a software synth enthusiast and bedroom musician. VERDICT: An awful person, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.

Amaurypenseur, who thinks that “feminists deserve rape as punishment,” is a weird Belgian who hates American culture, “hanker[s for] a society based on war, inequality and irrationally,” and is a sort-of fan of, um, Hitler. Verdict: Antifeminist (obviously) but probably not an MRA as such.

Theninja36, who wanted to “punch her in the face,” is a American gamer who seems a tad obsessed with Japan. VERDICT: Clearly hates feminists, as several of his comments attest, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.

About all I can tellΒ  about Jack Ofalltrades, who made a crude, racist sexual suggestion, is that he’s a fan of the XFactor. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

So what have we learned here, aside from the sad fact that going through the histories of a whole bunch of YouTubers takes a fuck of a lot longer than I thought it would when I started out? Well, a number of things.

Out of the nineteen horrible commenters I was able to determine anything about, only one, Chocolateking1, seems to even vaguely fit the stereotype of the amoral, lulz-seeking troll that our friend Sigil1 wants to blame for all this.

Most of the commenters have been on YouTube for some time, with most of them using the site as an outlet for their various obsessions, which may or may not include hating on feminism. In a few cases they seem to be posting under their real names, which makes it all the more amazing that they’re perfectly willing to post violent and/or sexual comments as if no one except the nasty feminists would find any of this at all objectionable. Virtually all of them seem to be genuinely and unashamedly misogynistic.

Eight of the nineteen commenters are explicitly antifeminist, which puts them more than halfway along the route to possible MRAhood. Six — roughly a third of the total — are probably MRAs, or at the very least consumers of Men’s Rights and/or Manosphere media. Four are fans of TheAmazingAtheist. (NOTE TO SELF: TheAmazingAtheist has some really, really shitty fans.)

So congratulations, fellas: only perhaps a third of the many hundreds of terrible people who have been harassing and threatening the activist in question on YouTube seem to be MRAs or MRA-adjacent. Given that the total number of MRAs in the world is probably less than the number of people who watched that one video, that’s pretty impressive.

The comments I looked at here, nonetheless, are only a small fraction of the total number of threatening and/or harassing comments about the red-haired activist that have been posted to YouTube, and that are still being posted as you read this. She also received hundreds of messages directly, most of them anonymous.

Even if most of these messages weren’t sent by people who identify explicitly as MRAs, a signficant proportion clearly were, so we’re still talking about many dozens, perhaps even hundreds, of MRAs and fellow travelers who decided that the appropriate response to the video of the red-haired activist was to fire off comments and messages calling her a “bitch” or a “cunt” or something equally odious — and/or suggesting that she should be punched, or raped or even killed.

This whole exercise has helped to make even clearer to me why so many MRAs have made their names posting videos on YouTube: Because YouTube is filled to overflowing with the sort of terrible people who think rape threats are hilarious and that GirlWritesWhat is a genius.

MRAs, these people are your audience. Your peeps. Your most likely source of future converts. (Well, maybe not that Belgian Hitler fan. He’s got some ideas about statutory rape of teen boys that are as likely to offend MRAs as they are to offend feminists.)

And you wonder why so many see the Men’s Rights movement as a hate movement. (Hint: It’s the hate.)

NOTE: My promised post reflecting a bit more on A Voice for Men’s role in this all should go up tomorrow.

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Marie
Marie
11 years ago

@katz

πŸ™

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Mark clearly needs the validation. I guess mockery is as good a fix as any for someone like him.

katz
11 years ago

And I’ll validate that reading a TAA post is like finding out that you have to throw away $7 of food and probably ate flour beetles.

baroncognito
11 years ago

Yep, this was a terrible case of doxxing. I mean, David actually saved us all of two clicks of the mouse – 1 to go to youtube, 1 to click on the relevant commenter’s name.

Clearly, quoting someone in a location where their words can be disagreed with is even worse than doxxing. You’re infringing upon a person’s freedom of speech by pointing out that they’re jackasses if they honestly believe what they’ve written. People must be immune from all possible consequences of saying things online. It’s not as if it’s real life after all.

qocheedy
qocheedy
11 years ago

@ Marie:

Thank you! I think the “dead rodent in a box of cereal” analogy applies to the MRM in general, actually. Like pretty much all of the Manboobz regulars (as far as I can tell), I would gladly support any movement that worked toward preventing sexual and domestic violence against men and boys, or raising awareness of health issues that disproportionately affect men, or any of a dozen other things in that vein . . . that is, if that movement didn’t come packaged together with a vast, stinking clusterfuck of misogyny and other assorted bigotry. Looking for the good in the MRM as it currently exists makes about as much sense as finding a massive dead rat in your box of breakfast cereal and then picking the individual flakes off of its decaying carcass. Any person who genuinely wanted cereal would go to the store and get another box; the flake-pickers are just looking for an excuse to get up close and personal with something vile.

qocheedy
qocheedy
11 years ago

Ugh, I bought a bag of super-fancy granola a few weeks ago and it was full of bugs.

Ugh indeed. I hope you were able to get your money back!

I’ve actually been pretty lucky with the finding-gross-things-in-food department. Yeah, I’ve encountered the occasional hair in my food at restaurants, one lone grub hanging out inside a bit of Kix cereal, but I don’t have any real horror stories. My mother, on the other hand, once found a hair net (and quite a bit of hair) in a can of tuna.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

I once found a rubber glove finger (no actual finger, thank god) in a can of tuna. I had coupons for years after that.

katz
11 years ago

My mother, on the other hand, once found a hair net (and quite a bit of hair) in a can of tuna.

I guess it wasn’t net-free tuna.

Marie
Marie
11 years ago

Did some random troll called daboys just get un-modded. Cuz:

Feminism is the hate movement. They are just scared now that someone has the audacity to stand up to them. Oh and feminist does not equal woman therefore anti-feminist does not equal anti-woman. Nice try but no cigar, sisters.

Citation needed, daboys.

@qocheedy

eah, I’ve encountered the occasional hair in my food at restaurants, one lone grub hanging out inside a bit of Kix cereal, but I don’t have any real horror stories

I’ve gotten pretty lucky, if my memory serves me right. But we did have weevils in our cheerios for the longest time, but that was just our house thing. We had weevils everywhere with grains. We threw away a box of batter for chicken I think, that was swarming in weevils, but the rest everyone just gave in and ate. That was weird, thinking back on it.

baroncognito
11 years ago

I once found a rubber glove finger in a can of tuna

I once found a dog in my bed hogging both the pillows.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

That’s nice, Baroncognito.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

I’m sure Daboys is totally for women, as long as they’re subservient to him.

Aaliyah
11 years ago

Feminism is the hate movement. They are just scared now that someone has the audacity to stand up to them.

In this case, standing up to them means sending one feminist woman rape threats and death threats and doxxing her. Telling.

Oh and feminist does not equal woman therefore anti-feminist does not equal anti-woman. Nice try but no cigar, sisters.

That is one of the worst arguments I’ve ever heard. Feminism doesn’t have to be the same as womankind in order for anti-feminism to be misogynistic. Rather, anti-feminism is almost always misogynistic because it opposes feminism’s goals, which are in favor of treating women as equally valuable human beings. That is, of course, if we’re talking about inclusive feminism.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

Net-free tuna

Ba-doom-tish!

Worst I’ve had was a packet of pasta that was moldy. Luckily I saw it as soon as I opened it! I know I’m s’posta eat more greens but that’s not really how I fancy doing it.

Speaking of greens, Marie – Louis made spinach and feta omelettes for breakfast yesternight! Or rather, he made one for me and helped himself to bits of it, ‘cos he’s a thieving thief. πŸ˜‰

Marie
Marie
11 years ago

@kittehs

Yay and awww πŸ™‚ I hope you guys enjoyed it.

cloudiah
11 years ago

I once bought one of those pre-washed bags of spinach, got home, threw it in the refrigerator, opened it the next day and put it on the counter for a second. When I turned back to it, a huge furry moth was slowly crawling out of the leaves and onto the counter.

I put the refrigerated moth outside. Don’t know if it eventually warmed up and flew away, or if a bird got it.

I couldn’t bring myself to eat the spinach after that. I washed it, and tried to imagine eating it, and then threw it out.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

Very much! Thick and creamy (for an omelette) is how I remember it.

Katie didn’t approve of adulterating eggs with spinach, though. πŸ˜›

gelar
gelar
11 years ago

Well, I’m never eating again.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

cloudiah, urgh, that reminded me of something I’d forgotten – getting a salad sandwich from a takeaway shop and seeing a little white grub wriggling around in it.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Chanty, welcome. (Previous page.) Hope you’re doing okay; sorry the MRA asshats are … asshats.

katz
11 years ago

Ugh, all these stories are making me never want to eat anything again.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

We even have to check our coffee at work sometimes, to make sure the grounds don’t have legs. Damn ants!

Sarah Rose
Sarah Rose
11 years ago

Is it really a surprise that the “The Amazing Atheist” has shitty fans when he is shitty himself? He can’t disagree with a woman without referring to her as a ‘cunt’ and is virtually incapable of making a pro male-rights argument without to gendered slurs and stereotypes. Just like all male rights activists!

Marie
Marie
11 years ago

@cloudiah

I once bought one of those pre-washed bags of spinach, got home, threw it in the refrigerator, opened it the next day and put it on the counter for a second. When I turned back to it, a huge furry moth was slowly crawling out of the leaves and onto the counter.

O_O ew.

Biot
Biot
11 years ago

I know that the MRAs on the Men’s Rights subreddit either lack self-awareness or attempt to rationalize away any involvement in this debacle. That said, I wish I could believe that some or most of them have failed the Turing test on a regular basis.