So the Men’s Rights subreddit has temporarily relaxed its policy of not allowing links to the terrible cesspool of lies that is Man Boobz to allow this post attacking me for detailing the disgusting threats and harassment a certain Canadian feminist activist has faced in recent days.
Most of the commenters flatly ignored the evidence of doxing and harassment that I included in my post — if they even bothered to read it — and simply invented their own story of what had happened. Instead of denouncing those who left death threats, they attacked me and the activist in question. And blamed all the ugliness on “trolls.”
Men’s Rights regular Sigil1, who used to post awful comments on Man Boobz as Eoghan (and using countless other sockpuppet accounts) responded in an all-too-predictable fashion, by falsely accusing me of making “false accusations” against MRAs.
You may recall that in my post I offered two pieces of evidence that showed that MRAs were involved in posting this woman’s personal information on the internet — that is, doxing her. One was a large screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum containing a wide array of her personal information including phone numbers and her home address. I also noted that the A Voice for Men forum featured links to several of her dating profiles.
In other words, these are clearly MRAs, and they have been disseminating her personal information — that is, doxing — her. To repeat, and I’m sorry that I have to repeat such an utterly simpleminded point: THE FACT THAT SOME PEOPLE (WHO ARE MRAS) ARE DOXING HER MEANS THAT MRAS HAVE BEEN DOXING HER. Other people who are probably not MRAs have also been doxing her.
In the Reddit thread, giegerwasright complains that “they” — meaning me –“are also moving the goalposts on doxxing to suit their needs.” Well, no. I’d say that a post on a Men’s Rights forum that includes her picture, links to her Facebook page, her Tumblr blog, her YouTube account, her old Twitter account, a dating profile, her home address and two phone numbers is “doxing” by pretty much everyone’s definition of the term.
As anyone who looks at the large screenshot I posted earlier would see, its authorΒ — a famous MRA spammer who goes by the name John Rambo — urged men to “contact her through one of the below methods and ask her why she hates men so much.”
In my earlier post I showed you the sort of horrific stuff many of those who have been contacting her have been saying.
Did I provide proof that any of these threatening and harassing comments were from MRAs? Well, aside from one message from A Voice for Men’s Dan Perrins, which was more of a gloating message than a threatening one, no. Part of the reason for this is that most of the direct threats sent to the activist were sent — wait for it — anonymously. That’s how threat-makers generally do things. Cuts down the possibility of getting in trouble.
As for the YouTube comments, I didn’t check. Why? Because, given that the video in question was titled “mras and feminists arguing at u of t mra event,” and that the video was linked to on assorted Men’s Rights sites including the Men’s Rights subreddit and A Voice for Men, I figured that the odds were pretty good that a lot of them were MRAs; certainly the odds that none of them were MRAs were pretty much zero. (And of course I never claimed they were all MRAs.)
But as I sat down to write this post I found I was curious about these nasty YouTube people. So I did a little experiment. I went through the list of awful YouTube comments that I posted on Monday, and took at look at the YouTube feeds of the various commenters who left them to see if I could determine whether or not they were MRAs. I included only those who made threatening and/or misogynist comments, and left out a few that didn’t provide enough information for me to make an educated guess.
Here are the results. But first, a TRIGGER WARNING, because I quote liberally from their nasty, violent and often crudely sexual comments. (You can skim down to my summary of what I found if you wish to avoid the gruesome details.)
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YouTuber Kilz Bryce, who wished a gruesome “death by cheese grater” to the red-haired activist (henceforth RHA), is an otherwise unassuming Japanese fan of Taylor Swift and Carly Rae Jepsen. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.
Slurpos, who suggested shooting the RHA, is a racist conspiracy-monger who recently called MSNBC’s Melissa Harris-Perry a “slut.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.
Joris667, who suggested a “cock up the arse,” recently “liked” an antifeminist video by Mykeru, who just happens to be a contributor to A Voice for Men. VERDICT: Possibly an MRA.
Damndisplace07, who suggested punching the RHA, has posted a bunch of rambling, ranty misogynistic videos on YouTube, some of which rely heavily on Manosphere ideology and jargon. VERDICT: Probably an MRA.
BusinessmanBandit is a young entrepreneur and goldbug who likes referring to women as “bitches.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.
Lazywhiteb0y, who “would love to punch this annoying cunt directly in the face,” is a fan of rap, country music, guns and beer. VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.
Akranejames, who also favors punching “this type of feminist,” is mostly obsessed with video games. But he also made a recent comment suggesting that we should abandon feminism and “machism” for “equalism,” and the only people I’ve ever heard use that ridiculous term have been hopeless MRA types. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least a sometime reader of Mens’ Rights sites.
Leinster4life13, who wanted to ship her to Saudi Arabia, is a soccer enthusiast who also recently “liked” a video by the notoriously misogynistic Manhood Academy. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least an MRA-in-training.
Chocolateking1, who made a joke about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen, seems to be, well, the sort of trolly asshole who thinks jokes about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen. VERDICT: Misogynist, probably not an MRA.
MadDogFritz, who railed about “feminazi propaganda” and made three separate comments on three different videos demanding to know “who is the the red headed pig monster with the attitude,” has recently commented on a number of MRA videos and is also a big fan of TheAmazingAtheist and his antifeminist rants. Also has complained about “women’s lib.” VERDICT: Seems pretty damn MRAish to me.
Robert alakaka, who declared that the RHA is “one of the most unlikable cunts in his [?] existence,” and that he “sincerely hopes she dies,” is a raging misogynist and homophobe who recently “liked” a video featuring the MRA-ish “Dick Masterson” explaining how “men are better than women.” Aaaaand he’s a fan of TheAmazingAtheist. VERDICT: Definitely MRA-ish.
TheTrueValkyrie66, who compared the RHA unfavorably to goatse, is also a fan of TheAmazingAtheist and — wait for it — MyLittlePony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but seems to have stepped straight out of the Big Book of Redditor Stereotypes.
HUEHEUHE HEUHEUEH, who made a generic misogynist remark, seems to be a Brony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.
EndlessCycleofPride, who declared “I hope you get raped,” is way into bodybuilding. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but a terrible person nonetheless.
Dominic Galvin, who declared “I want to punch her,” is a vintage car enthusiast and yet another fan of TheAmazingAtheist, especially his antifeminist rants. VERDICT: Possible MRA.
Corbbin Goldsmith, who suggested oral rape, is a software synth enthusiast and bedroom musician. VERDICT: An awful person, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.
Amaurypenseur, who thinks that “feminists deserve rape as punishment,” is a weird Belgian who hates American culture, “hanker[s for] a society based on war, inequality and irrationally,” and is a sort-of fan of, um, Hitler. Verdict: Antifeminist (obviously) but probably not an MRA as such.
Theninja36, who wanted to “punch her in the face,” is a American gamer who seems a tad obsessed with Japan. VERDICT: Clearly hates feminists, as several of his comments attest, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.
About all I can tellΒ about Jack Ofalltrades, who made a crude, racist sexual suggestion, is that he’s a fan of the XFactor. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.
So what have we learned here, aside from the sad fact that going through the histories of a whole bunch of YouTubers takes a fuck of a lot longer than I thought it would when I started out? Well, a number of things.
Out of the nineteen horrible commenters I was able to determine anything about, only one, Chocolateking1, seems to even vaguely fit the stereotype of the amoral, lulz-seeking troll that our friend Sigil1 wants to blame for all this.
Most of the commenters have been on YouTube for some time, with most of them using the site as an outlet for their various obsessions, which may or may not include hating on feminism. In a few cases they seem to be posting under their real names, which makes it all the more amazing that they’re perfectly willing to post violent and/or sexual comments as if no one except the nasty feminists would find any of this at all objectionable. Virtually all of them seem to be genuinely and unashamedly misogynistic.
Eight of the nineteen commenters are explicitly antifeminist, which puts them more than halfway along the route to possible MRAhood. Six — roughly a third of the total — are probably MRAs, or at the very least consumers of Men’s Rights and/or Manosphere media. Four are fans of TheAmazingAtheist. (NOTE TO SELF: TheAmazingAtheist has some really, really shitty fans.)
So congratulations, fellas: only perhaps a third of the many hundreds of terrible people who have been harassing and threatening the activist in question on YouTube seem to be MRAs or MRA-adjacent. Given that the total number of MRAs in the world is probably less than the number of people who watched that one video, that’s pretty impressive.
The comments I looked at here, nonetheless, are only a small fraction of the total number of threatening and/or harassing comments about the red-haired activist that have been posted to YouTube, and that are still being posted as you read this. She also received hundreds of messages directly, most of them anonymous.
Even if most of these messages weren’t sent by people who identify explicitly as MRAs, a signficant proportion clearly were, so we’re still talking about many dozens, perhaps even hundreds, of MRAs and fellow travelers who decided that the appropriate response to the video of the red-haired activist was to fire off comments and messages calling her a “bitch” or a “cunt” or something equally odious — and/or suggesting that she should be punched, or raped or even killed.
This whole exercise has helped to make even clearer to me why so many MRAs have made their names posting videos on YouTube: Because YouTube is filled to overflowing with the sort of terrible people who think rape threats are hilarious and that GirlWritesWhat is a genius.
MRAs, these people are your audience. Your peeps. Your most likely source of future converts. (Well, maybe not that Belgian Hitler fan. He’s got some ideas about statutory rape of teen boys that are as likely to offend MRAs as they are to offend feminists.)
And you wonder why so many see the Men’s Rights movement as a hate movement. (Hint: It’s the hate.)
NOTE: My promised post reflecting a bit more on A Voice for Men’s role in this all should go up tomorrow.
@Fade
Hysterical. Coming from a group of “people” that think you can shut someone else from discussions by pulling a fire alarm for no other reason, (multiple times) one would think that you would be the last to ask someone if they were five. I didn’t hear MRA’s shouting like children in the hall of a university either.
Yeah. Certainly. Kind of loud, sort of beliggerent, definitively outspoken… What’s your point? What, that because she raises her voice and shouts she deserves to be asked to die?
Smooth.
Wait. Wait no. Fade! FADE! You’ve said this before! I’ve said this before. We’ve all said this before. I can see the Matrix! I know what the system is! We’re stuck in a loop, this is a Groundhog Day scenario! Aaaaah god no, in a minute it’ll loop back around and someone is going to point out that what she did is no different than what abortion protestors do is no different than what westboro baptists does is no different than what the nazis did is no different than what terrorists is no different than what the MRA does.
Space is warped and time is bendable! I can see the structures of null-logic wherein resides the nexus of no-thought that informs these ideas, the sycopants that ride behind thoughts, the parasitic worms that lurk between our synapses the misogynists that twist their tangled webs between ideas, breathing shadows into the cracks between actual conversations, strawmen. strawmen everywhere, the whole world is just hypergamy all the way down, bitches sluts she asked for it. Right? Right? Because having an opinion equals desiring death threats nothing is better than the other, the worms that eat the heart of men, ten thousand thousand Minters screaming.
Manboob.
Manbooob.
Cthulhu F’laghan, Klaatu Baratuu Elam! Elaaaaam!
You’re right! Oh noooooo!
“A group promoting the rights of men”βthe video’s description is already inaccurate.
@Fibinachi
that made me crack up. XD Well, the Matrix parts and deja vu. The Having an opinion = deserving death threats is probably too close to what the MRAs actually think, at least for women.
Re: marky
Isn’t it cute when trolls think they made a point?
@anti equality mra
wait, the mrm thinks single mothers should be kept in whorehouses and shit reddit says is a hate group for quoting people? God you are full of shit.
nvm, someone said it better than me:
@bittersweet
π Internet hugs if wanted.
Ah, I can smell the fear in the hearts of manboobers as the mainstream media gives more and more attention to MRAs and paints feminists as a bunch of shrill unhinged lunatics.
Keep it up MRA’s you’re doing a great job.
Keep it up protesters, you’re also doing a great job.
@marky
dude, the media often tries to paint feminists as ‘shrill unhinged lunatics’. Not a new thing.
Marky baby, feminists have been painted as “shrill” and “unhinged” in the media for quite some time. This shit isn’t even new, and you think we’re afraid of the local news? I can smell your
masturbationindifference from here.And as for “giving more attention to MRAs,” that is literally what Manboobz is for. I relish the thought of of the mainstream being aware of you little keyboard warriors piling on to random mommy bloggers, declaring that women are “freaking begging” to be raped, and whining about the nonexistent draft.
Mark, if the only point you can make is how “shrill/looney” I or other feminists there were, then you’ve got a weaksauce point. You can’t counter anything that I said, you can’t counter any feminist point, just point out that I look like someone who should be taken away by people with white coats.
“Smiling to himself, Jonesy Markson clicked the link. Things loaded, wires buzzing with information as monochrome blips filtered across the screen as the smoke from his cigarette curled lazily into the air. This was the life. This was it, the pay off to these many years of toil and turmoil. One machine, one video, one test and his pre-emptive victory cigarette. He huffed his brand of SmugSticks, inhaling the heedy mixture of nictone, confirmation bias and denial. The steady whoop of the fan above him his only company. This wasn’t a time for other people, this was his moment, this was his victory parade. Sure, many months – years – lay ahead of him, but tonight? Tonight was the night everything changed.
He moved the cursor across the screen. Careful, careful… There. One last drag on the cigarette, one final rush of self-satisfied moral superiority. He blew out a ring of cloying patronization, which expanded across the room as swiftly as his goalposts.
That was the cigarette. Now for business. The next ten minutes will would tell whether or whether not his machine worked, his ultimate plan came true or if his unassailable sense of righteousness had actually led him astray.
He clicked.
Somewhere in the dark, a little machine went “BLOING”.
A video played. Figures, dancing across the screen. Their suits the only point of colour in an otherwise black and white world.
Their words? Their journalism, the hard hitting, straight shooting inside story was just the thing. A word was cut out as another thing went BLOING BONK.
And then it began in earnest, a rapturous cacophanous roar of noise, drowning out the rest of the video. A cut to a studio, chittering, chuttering noises from all around him and then finally… fade to black. Sudden silence. A silence interupted by the whooping of the fan, and… something else. A different sensation. His greatest invention, releasing its payload.
Something oozed into the tiny black and white world.
Something… beautiful.’
Wafting towards his noise, the unmistakable smell of fear. Smelled like… victory.
It worked. The Smell-O-Meter worked. This was the greatest, most effluent victory of the mind of man over its detractors, the true mark of a champion of movements.
A grand victory not only of MORALS, MATTER or MINDS…
But of noses.”
Yeah, the same mainstream media that breathlessly reported on the “dark-skinned male” who’d been arrested today in connection with the Boston bombing. Nope, they never jump the gun or show their biases. NEVER.
Also, the fact that you continue to shift focus away from the doxxing and the RAPE AND DEATH THREATS is extremely telling, shitbird.
Oh what’s that? The mainstream media is giving attention to men and painting feminists as shrill?
Yawn.
This is definitely NOT news.
Mark Jones shifting focus? NEVER! He is Super Concerned about our evil feminist doxxing of hateful fedorakin on YouTube. He does have a heart, you know.
Keep grasping those straws, Mark. Must suck to know you’re aligned with a bunch of shitheads on the wrong side of everything.
Fibinachi, that was inspired!
Slowclap.
Wow, Fibanachi, I can’t ever say that I’ve been the subject of a short story before. Thanks, that made my day. While it’s not uncommon for men and women to fantasise about me, I’m impressed at how important it was for you to put your imagination to work.
I DO think TAA makes good points sometimes. There are other areas where I disagree with him, for example, I think his hatred of feminism is a little over-the-top.
The thing is, all of the good points that TAA makes have already been made by many other people, usually with far greater eloquence, nuance, and compassion. And his bad points are just . . . stunningly bad. He’s a vitriolic, unrepentant misogynist. He openly mocks rape victims (including male rape victims), for fuck’s sake. You can’t get much fouler than that.
You know those cheap store-brand cereals that have names like “Oatie-O’s” and are clearly designed to imitate popular name-brand cereals but taste like cardboard instead? And you know those horror stories you sometimes hear about people finding maggots and dead mice and other such unsavory things in packages of food? Well, TAA is like a box of offbrand cereal with a dead rodent inside: at best a shoddy knockoff, at worst downright poisonous, and on the whole vile beyond salvaging.
Lots of hard work on this one! Thanks for toiling in the fields of data.
Marky has no concept of when he’s being mocked, does he?
@Qocheedy
The more I look at this analogy, the more I approve of it π
I love it when MRA’s gloat over the attention they receive over their worst public actions. “hey, have you heard of that group called the Men’s Rights Thingy’? “Yeah, aren’t they the ones who picked a random protestor on the crowd and published her name so a bunch of strangers would start sending her threats of rape and death? Now that’s a movement the whole family can enjoy- count me in!!”
Ugh, I bought a bag of super-fancy granola a few weeks ago and it was full of bugs π