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So who exactly has been harassing that red-haired Canadian feminist? A not-quite-scientific survey

MRAs rarely let facts get in the way of their tantrums
MRAs rarely let facts get in the way of their tantrums

So the Men’s Rights subreddit has temporarily relaxed its policy of not allowing links to the terrible cesspool of lies that is Man Boobz to allow this post attacking me for detailing the disgusting threats and harassment a certain Canadian feminist activist has faced in recent days.

Most of the commenters flatly ignored the evidence of doxing and harassment that I included in my post — if they even bothered to read it — and simply invented their own story of what had happened. Instead of denouncing those who left death threats, they attacked me and the activist in question. And blamed all the ugliness on “trolls.”

Men’s Rights regular Sigil1, who used to post awful comments on Man Boobz as Eoghan (and using countless other sockpuppet accounts) responded in an all-too-predictable fashion, by falsely accusing me of making “false accusations” against MRAs.

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You may recall that in my post I offered two pieces of evidence that showed that MRAs were involved in posting this woman’s personal information on the internet — that is, doxing her. One was a large screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum containing a wide array of her personal information including phone numbers and her home address. I also noted that the A Voice for Men forum featured links to several of her dating profiles.

In other words, these are clearly MRAs, and they have been disseminating her personal information — that is, doxing — her. To repeat, and I’m sorry that I have to repeat such an utterly simpleminded point: THE FACT THAT SOME PEOPLE (WHO ARE MRAS) ARE DOXING HER MEANS THAT MRAS HAVE BEEN DOXING HER. Other people who are probably not MRAs have also been doxing her.

In the Reddit thread, giegerwasright complains that “they” — meaning me –“are also moving the goalposts on doxxing to suit their needs.” Well, no. I’d say that a post on a Men’s Rights forum that includes her picture, links to her Facebook page, her Tumblr blog, her YouTube account, her old Twitter account, a dating profile, her home address and two phone numbers is “doxing” by pretty much everyone’s definition of the term.

As anyone who looks at the large screenshot I posted earlier would see, its author  — a famous MRA spammer who goes by the name John Rambo — urged men to “contact her through one of the below methods and ask her why she hates men so much.”

In my earlier post I showed you the sort of horrific stuff many of those who have been contacting her have been saying.

Did I provide proof that any of these threatening and harassing comments were from MRAs? Well, aside from one message from A Voice for Men’s Dan Perrins, which was more of a gloating message than a threatening one, no. Part of the reason for this is that most of the direct threats sent to the activist were sent — wait for it — anonymously. That’s how threat-makers generally do things. Cuts down the possibility of getting in trouble.

As for the YouTube comments, I didn’t check. Why? Because, given that the video in question was titled “mras and feminists arguing at u of t mra event,” and that the video was linked to on assorted Men’s Rights sites including the Men’s Rights subreddit and A Voice for Men, I figured that the odds were pretty good that a lot of them were MRAs; certainly the odds that none of them were MRAs were pretty much zero. (And of course I never claimed they were all MRAs.)

But as I sat down to write this post I found I was curious about these nasty YouTube people. So I did a little experiment. I went through the list of awful YouTube comments that I posted on Monday, and took at look at the YouTube feeds of the various commenters who left them to see if I could determine whether or not they were MRAs. I included only those who made threatening and/or misogynist comments, and left out a few that didn’t provide enough information for me to make an educated guess.

Here are the results. But first, a TRIGGER WARNING, because I quote liberally from their nasty, violent and often crudely sexual comments. (You can skim down to my summary of what I found if you wish to avoid the gruesome details.)

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YouTuber Kilz Bryce, who wished a gruesome “death by cheese grater” to the red-haired activist (henceforth RHA), is an otherwise unassuming Japanese fan of Taylor Swift and Carly Rae Jepsen. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

Slurpos, who suggested shooting the RHA, is a racist conspiracy-monger who recently called MSNBC’s Melissa Harris-Perry a “slut.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Joris667, who suggested a “cock up the arse,” recently “liked” an antifeminist video by Mykeru, who just happens to be a contributor to A Voice for Men. VERDICT: Possibly an MRA.

Damndisplace07, who suggested punching the RHA, has posted a bunch of rambling, ranty misogynistic videos on YouTube, some of which rely heavily on Manosphere ideology and jargon. VERDICT: Probably an MRA.

BusinessmanBandit is a young entrepreneur and goldbug who likes referring to women as “bitches.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Lazywhiteb0y, who “would love to punch this annoying cunt directly in the face,” is a fan of rap, country music, guns and beer. VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Akranejames, who also favors punching “this type of feminist,” is mostly obsessed with video games. But he also made a recent comment suggesting that we should abandon feminism and “machism” for “equalism,” and the only people I’ve ever heard use that ridiculous term have been hopeless MRA types. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least a sometime reader of Mens’ Rights sites.

Leinster4life13, who wanted to ship her to Saudi Arabia, is a soccer enthusiast who also recently “liked” a video by the notoriously misogynistic Manhood Academy. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least an MRA-in-training.

Chocolateking1, who made a joke about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen, seems to be, well, the sort of trolly asshole who thinks jokes about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen. VERDICT: Misogynist, probably not an MRA.

MadDogFritz, who railed about “feminazi propaganda” and made three separate comments on three different videos demanding to know “who is the the red headed pig monster with the attitude,” has recently commented on a number of MRA videos and is also a big fan of TheAmazingAtheist and his antifeminist rants. Also has complained about “women’s lib.” VERDICT: Seems pretty damn MRAish to me.

Robert alakaka, who declared that the RHA is “one of the most unlikable cunts in his [?] existence,” and that he “sincerely hopes she dies,” is a raging misogynist and homophobe who recently “liked” a video featuring the MRA-ish “Dick Masterson” explaining how “men are better than women.” Aaaaand he’s a fan of TheAmazingAtheist. VERDICT: Definitely MRA-ish.

TheTrueValkyrie66, who compared the RHA unfavorably to goatse, is also a fan of TheAmazingAtheist and — wait for it — MyLittlePony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but seems to have stepped straight out of the Big Book of Redditor Stereotypes.

HUEHEUHE HEUHEUEH, who made a generic misogynist remark, seems to be a Brony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

EndlessCycleofPride, who declared “I hope you get raped,” is way into bodybuilding. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but a terrible person nonetheless.

Dominic Galvin, who declared “I want to punch her,” is a vintage car enthusiast and yet another fan of TheAmazingAtheist, especially his antifeminist rants. VERDICT: Possible MRA.

Corbbin Goldsmith, who suggested oral rape, is a software synth enthusiast and bedroom musician. VERDICT: An awful person, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.

Amaurypenseur, who thinks that “feminists deserve rape as punishment,” is a weird Belgian who hates American culture, “hanker[s for] a society based on war, inequality and irrationally,” and is a sort-of fan of, um, Hitler. Verdict: Antifeminist (obviously) but probably not an MRA as such.

Theninja36, who wanted to “punch her in the face,” is a American gamer who seems a tad obsessed with Japan. VERDICT: Clearly hates feminists, as several of his comments attest, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.

About all I can tell  about Jack Ofalltrades, who made a crude, racist sexual suggestion, is that he’s a fan of the XFactor. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

So what have we learned here, aside from the sad fact that going through the histories of a whole bunch of YouTubers takes a fuck of a lot longer than I thought it would when I started out? Well, a number of things.

Out of the nineteen horrible commenters I was able to determine anything about, only one, Chocolateking1, seems to even vaguely fit the stereotype of the amoral, lulz-seeking troll that our friend Sigil1 wants to blame for all this.

Most of the commenters have been on YouTube for some time, with most of them using the site as an outlet for their various obsessions, which may or may not include hating on feminism. In a few cases they seem to be posting under their real names, which makes it all the more amazing that they’re perfectly willing to post violent and/or sexual comments as if no one except the nasty feminists would find any of this at all objectionable. Virtually all of them seem to be genuinely and unashamedly misogynistic.

Eight of the nineteen commenters are explicitly antifeminist, which puts them more than halfway along the route to possible MRAhood. Six — roughly a third of the total — are probably MRAs, or at the very least consumers of Men’s Rights and/or Manosphere media. Four are fans of TheAmazingAtheist. (NOTE TO SELF: TheAmazingAtheist has some really, really shitty fans.)

So congratulations, fellas: only perhaps a third of the many hundreds of terrible people who have been harassing and threatening the activist in question on YouTube seem to be MRAs or MRA-adjacent. Given that the total number of MRAs in the world is probably less than the number of people who watched that one video, that’s pretty impressive.

The comments I looked at here, nonetheless, are only a small fraction of the total number of threatening and/or harassing comments about the red-haired activist that have been posted to YouTube, and that are still being posted as you read this. She also received hundreds of messages directly, most of them anonymous.

Even if most of these messages weren’t sent by people who identify explicitly as MRAs, a signficant proportion clearly were, so we’re still talking about many dozens, perhaps even hundreds, of MRAs and fellow travelers who decided that the appropriate response to the video of the red-haired activist was to fire off comments and messages calling her a “bitch” or a “cunt” or something equally odious — and/or suggesting that she should be punched, or raped or even killed.

This whole exercise has helped to make even clearer to me why so many MRAs have made their names posting videos on YouTube: Because YouTube is filled to overflowing with the sort of terrible people who think rape threats are hilarious and that GirlWritesWhat is a genius.

MRAs, these people are your audience. Your peeps. Your most likely source of future converts. (Well, maybe not that Belgian Hitler fan. He’s got some ideas about statutory rape of teen boys that are as likely to offend MRAs as they are to offend feminists.)

And you wonder why so many see the Men’s Rights movement as a hate movement. (Hint: It’s the hate.)

NOTE: My promised post reflecting a bit more on A Voice for Men’s role in this all should go up tomorrow.

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TomBcat
11 years ago

I’m a ninja! Swooped in, commented, and off to work!

clintiskeen
11 years ago

1) is this a game? AM NOT INFINITY PLUS ONE

2) That’s the whole crux behind the “teach children not to rape” thing I wrote. Aaliyah responding to it said “BUT ALL RAPISTS ARE MEN, THAT’S WHAT YOU DON’T GET”

that person completely missed the entire point I was making about rape culture.

Unless you read it, you are just swinging at ghosts because Aaliyah is an idiot, who thinks that because all squares are rectangles, rectangles are squares

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

TomBcat — ya covered it, but let me try repeating it with smaller words?

2) Rape, as we’re generally told, is a stranger, a violent assault. In reality, the vast majority of rape is perpetrated by someone the victim knows, often a lover. The idea that you stop when told, don’t “fool around with” drunk people, that these are rape, it’s not something we’re generally taught.

If nothing else, little point not walking alone at night to avoid some strranger raping you when the guy you take to “protect” you is more likely to rape you when you get home.

But the concept of “if your partner says stop, you fucking stop” is so damned hard for some people that Aaliyah posted someone arguing that nope, that isn’t rape, you carry on boning her while she’s begging you to stop.

If you can’t see what’s fucking up about that, you’re so far beyond hope that I don’t know what to do with you.

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

*sigh* it appears I may’ve still not made it simple enough.

Most people have a picture of what rape looks like, and that isn’t what rape looks like in practice. Women, being more likely to be raped, need to know what rape actually looks like to recognize rape apologia (this is what TomBcat said). Men, being most of the rapists, need to know what rape actually is so they don’t walk around thinking that stranger rape is rape and that drunk girl passed out in the corner is “fair game”.

clintiskeen
11 years ago

clearly you didn’t read what I wrote and you are basing what you are saying off what someone said about what I said.

clintiskeen
11 years ago

or even more abstract what I wrote about what someone wrote about what I wrote

TomBcat
11 years ago

At work I could help but check in.
Clint, if you really want to argue, you have to be willing to learn.
If you want to show you are willing, you should step back, get calm, listen to what we say and stop being defensive.
But most of all: This blog is full of regulars who like each other. Don’t call people I like idiots. If you’d go up to me in person and call my friend an idiot, I would very much not listen to anything you say, and I don’t see why anyone should make an exception here.
Even if I hadn’t read the conversation, I have read Aaliyah’s arguments often enough to no they are well thought over and intelligent and to assume you missed the point.
You, on the other hand, have so far proven to be easily agitated, dismissive and overall uninformed on the subject. You don’t understand the reactions because you don’t fully understand what is going on. So it’s reasonable for me to doubt you, not Aaliyah.

Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
11 years ago

On planet Clint, teaching drivers not to drink and drive is tantamount to claiming that all drivers are drunks.

Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
11 years ago

Or that no one who isn’t a driver can have to many drinks and cause damage by bumping into things.

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Oh Clint, have you never had a conversation with more than one person before? Because this is common:
person 1 says something
person 2 responds
person 3 responds to 2
2 responds to 3
4 responds to 2’s response to 3

Here, have an example (relevant even!):
1: steelers could win the Super Bowl again
2: assuming Roethlisberger doesn’t get injured
3: you know, replacing him with someone not accused of rape would be nice
2: accused! He was never convicted
4: he was accused twice, and suspended, and then that was reduced. Taking it seriously, they are not. (Seriously, I’d like to be able to watch them play and not groan everytime he’s mentioned)

Because oh hey, having sex with a girl too drunk to know how she ended up needing stitches won’t even get you arrested if you’re famous. That? That’s the sort of shit we need to straight up call rape and tell men (being the majority of rapists) is rape. And FFS of course everyone already knows rape is unacceptable. Problem is all the “well maybe it was just rough sex”

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

“Or that no one who isn’t a driver can have to many drinks and cause damage by bumping into things.”

*dies of laughter* my mac has a dent from where I dropped it on a shot glass. The mac survived, the shot glass did not. /anecdote

tina
tina
11 years ago

there we go.

STOP FUCKING TALKING ABOUT ME. YOU ARE STILL FUCKING TALKING ABOUT ME FOUR FUCKING MONTHS LATER. I WAS NOT STEELE. I WAS NOT FUUCCCCCCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKINNNNNNNNNG STEELE. I DON’T GIVE ONE SHITTTT WHAT THE IPS WERE. GET IT? I WAS NOT FUCKKCKING STEELE. AND I AM NOT THIS FUCKING RAYMOND GUY OR FUCKKING ANYONE ELSE EITHER. IS THAT FUCKING CLEAR? I AM NOT FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKING ANYONE> SO STOP FUCKING TELLING LIES ABOUT ME LIKE “THE 90%” AND FUCKING STOP TALKING ABOUT ME AND FUCKING GO TO HELL>

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

He’d be funnier if he did meltdown like that, instead you end up with good old Steele debating the definition of misandry for 10 pages.

Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
11 years ago

@ Argenti Aertheri – sorry about your shotglass. 🙁

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Lol, thanks but it was a cheap ikea one, and last summer (and by shot glass I mean more like a tiny tumbler, the one finger = one shit size 🙂 )

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Good chicken recipes, you say? This one definitely isn’t boring.

http://lengskitchen.blogspot.com/2013/01/chicken-rendang-moms-recipe-2.html

I knew clint would eventually melt down in an entertaining way. ALL CAPS OF RAGE I AM NOT AN MRA FUCK YOU STOP SPITTING ON ME.

Dan Perrins
Dan Perrins
11 years ago

@ May Falwell
Thanks for linking to my first site. I appreciate it.
However the Ontario legal system isn’t going to like you so much or dave if he starts pointing to documents and such on that site. Politicians, ministry of the A.G. people, high ranking police officers, members of the judiciary, they don’t like it when their misandric corruption is exposed.
Have at it, please have at it, so the systemic misandry in the Ontario legal system is exposed.
I’ve been dx as having post traumatic stress disorder since 2009, from their (police and other legal system employees) threats of violence and death.
The ‘paranoia’ part you mentioned is a layman’s term, the clinical term for it is hypervigilance. An indicator of PTSD. Obsession is as well another indicator of PTSD. What those corrupt officials did in the name of misandry almost put me in the ground.
Proof here:
http://youtu.be/xLooaA9wKE4?t=6m20s
And my ex is going to love you for linking to that site as well. Now the same people who doxxed ‘red’ may do that to my ex. Something I avoided doing but now that you have done it, she can thank you for that.
That blog has sat silent waiting for someone like you to come along and help make it popular.
I’m going to wait for daves next article, life is interesting and it’s going to get a lot more interesting for the corrupt misandric govt employees who were involved in my matters.
Have at it dave bring it all to light, manufactured evidence, negligence etc, all to keep the misandric gristle mill going in the name of feminism.
I’ve got about a 1000 pages of documents that have been waiting ever so patiently to see the light of day. What’s on that website is a small sample.

Thanks again,
Dan Perrins

Kittehserf
11 years ago

But what about a good solid keyboard smash of rage? C’mon clintyboy, you can do it.

Kavette
Kavette
11 years ago

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

See, the problem here is that he doesn’t have a cat. This leads to both feelings of aimless loneliness (which leads to trolling) and him having to type nonsensical all caps word vomit because there’s no cat to walk across the keyboard for him.

WeeBoy
WeeBoy
11 years ago

Kavette – Oh wow, because gays aren’t men. Because gay men NEVER get married while still in the closet and of course never have to deal with alimony or child support. Because gay men never deal with workplace discriminations.

I love how he just states that 40% of men are homophobic buttwipes. Sorry, who’s pushing misandry again?

Kittehserf
11 years ago

Like this:

Hmm.

This cat broadcast has been delayed because the cat is lying in front of the heater.

Typical.

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Kittehserf
11 years ago

Argh my kitty’s ears have fallen off!

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

First, nice school schedule on the fridge (might be recycling schedule or something). Second, got enough food stored up? Oh hey, seeing the nice sized gun safe in the room behind your white board, probably not. Chex doesn’t last nearly as long as all that pasta sauce, just so you know. And vacation photos? Can’t tell but that’s a nice board of photos you’ve got there.

Amazing, a leftie who can write on a white board (that’s not mocking, my mother’s a leftie and ends up wearing the ink)

Letting gay men “push a gay agenda” will hose the MRA movement like hurricane Katrina? I can’t even mock that, it mocks itself.

So we have a survivalist, who probably has kids, and odds are he’s got a woman living there, either that or a thing for photos that doesn’t really fit his rack of food (or maybe that’s just my family where the survivalist types hang shit like deer legs and moose skulls and have to move shit for senior portraits to go up). No fucking clue what his movement is about besides that it’s for men and supporting “the gay agenda” is what “feminists and the people who support them” want because it’d reduce the number of MRAs.

Can I call wingnut? (Fairly sure that’s a gun safe, maybe he’s using it for something else, but my father has the same safe, and it isn’t light, not the sort of thing you buy for document storage, jewelry, etc)

Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Kitteh — HTML collapses multiple spaces, you need  

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