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So who exactly has been harassing that red-haired Canadian feminist? A not-quite-scientific survey

MRAs rarely let facts get in the way of their tantrums
MRAs rarely let facts get in the way of their tantrums

So the Men’s Rights subreddit has temporarily relaxed its policy of not allowing links to the terrible cesspool of lies that is Man Boobz to allow this post attacking me for detailing the disgusting threats and harassment a certain Canadian feminist activist has faced in recent days.

Most of the commenters flatly ignored the evidence of doxing and harassment that I included in my post — if they even bothered to read it — and simply invented their own story of what had happened. Instead of denouncing those who left death threats, they attacked me and the activist in question. And blamed all the ugliness on “trolls.”

Men’s Rights regular Sigil1, who used to post awful comments on Man Boobz as Eoghan (and using countless other sockpuppet accounts) responded in an all-too-predictable fashion, by falsely accusing me of making “false accusations” against MRAs.

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You may recall that in my post I offered two pieces of evidence that showed that MRAs were involved in posting this woman’s personal information on the internet — that is, doxing her. One was a large screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum containing a wide array of her personal information including phone numbers and her home address. I also noted that the A Voice for Men forum featured links to several of her dating profiles.

In other words, these are clearly MRAs, and they have been disseminating her personal information — that is, doxing — her. To repeat, and I’m sorry that I have to repeat such an utterly simpleminded point: THE FACT THAT SOME PEOPLE (WHO ARE MRAS) ARE DOXING HER MEANS THAT MRAS HAVE BEEN DOXING HER. Other people who are probably not MRAs have also been doxing her.

In the Reddit thread, giegerwasright complains that “they” — meaning me –“are also moving the goalposts on doxxing to suit their needs.” Well, no. I’d say that a post on a Men’s Rights forum that includes her picture, links to her Facebook page, her Tumblr blog, her YouTube account, her old Twitter account, a dating profile, her home address and two phone numbers is “doxing” by pretty much everyone’s definition of the term.

As anyone who looks at the large screenshot I posted earlier would see, its author  — a famous MRA spammer who goes by the name John Rambo — urged men to “contact her through one of the below methods and ask her why she hates men so much.”

In my earlier post I showed you the sort of horrific stuff many of those who have been contacting her have been saying.

Did I provide proof that any of these threatening and harassing comments were from MRAs? Well, aside from one message from A Voice for Men’s Dan Perrins, which was more of a gloating message than a threatening one, no. Part of the reason for this is that most of the direct threats sent to the activist were sent — wait for it — anonymously. That’s how threat-makers generally do things. Cuts down the possibility of getting in trouble.

As for the YouTube comments, I didn’t check. Why? Because, given that the video in question was titled “mras and feminists arguing at u of t mra event,” and that the video was linked to on assorted Men’s Rights sites including the Men’s Rights subreddit and A Voice for Men, I figured that the odds were pretty good that a lot of them were MRAs; certainly the odds that none of them were MRAs were pretty much zero. (And of course I never claimed they were all MRAs.)

But as I sat down to write this post I found I was curious about these nasty YouTube people. So I did a little experiment. I went through the list of awful YouTube comments that I posted on Monday, and took at look at the YouTube feeds of the various commenters who left them to see if I could determine whether or not they were MRAs. I included only those who made threatening and/or misogynist comments, and left out a few that didn’t provide enough information for me to make an educated guess.

Here are the results. But first, a TRIGGER WARNING, because I quote liberally from their nasty, violent and often crudely sexual comments. (You can skim down to my summary of what I found if you wish to avoid the gruesome details.)

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YouTuber Kilz Bryce, who wished a gruesome “death by cheese grater” to the red-haired activist (henceforth RHA), is an otherwise unassuming Japanese fan of Taylor Swift and Carly Rae Jepsen. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

Slurpos, who suggested shooting the RHA, is a racist conspiracy-monger who recently called MSNBC’s Melissa Harris-Perry a “slut.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Joris667, who suggested a “cock up the arse,” recently “liked” an antifeminist video by Mykeru, who just happens to be a contributor to A Voice for Men. VERDICT: Possibly an MRA.

Damndisplace07, who suggested punching the RHA, has posted a bunch of rambling, ranty misogynistic videos on YouTube, some of which rely heavily on Manosphere ideology and jargon. VERDICT: Probably an MRA.

BusinessmanBandit is a young entrepreneur and goldbug who likes referring to women as “bitches.” VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Lazywhiteb0y, who “would love to punch this annoying cunt directly in the face,” is a fan of rap, country music, guns and beer. VERDICT: Misogynist, but not a confirmed MRA.

Akranejames, who also favors punching “this type of feminist,” is mostly obsessed with video games. But he also made a recent comment suggesting that we should abandon feminism and “machism” for “equalism,” and the only people I’ve ever heard use that ridiculous term have been hopeless MRA types. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least a sometime reader of Mens’ Rights sites.

Leinster4life13, who wanted to ship her to Saudi Arabia, is a soccer enthusiast who also recently “liked” a video by the notoriously misogynistic Manhood Academy. VERDICT: Probably an MRA, or at least an MRA-in-training.

Chocolateking1, who made a joke about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen, seems to be, well, the sort of trolly asshole who thinks jokes about keeping “bitches” in the kitchen. VERDICT: Misogynist, probably not an MRA.

MadDogFritz, who railed about “feminazi propaganda” and made three separate comments on three different videos demanding to know “who is the the red headed pig monster with the attitude,” has recently commented on a number of MRA videos and is also a big fan of TheAmazingAtheist and his antifeminist rants. Also has complained about “women’s lib.” VERDICT: Seems pretty damn MRAish to me.

Robert alakaka, who declared that the RHA is “one of the most unlikable cunts in his [?] existence,” and that he “sincerely hopes she dies,” is a raging misogynist and homophobe who recently “liked” a video featuring the MRA-ish “Dick Masterson” explaining how “men are better than women.” Aaaaand he’s a fan of TheAmazingAtheist. VERDICT: Definitely MRA-ish.

TheTrueValkyrie66, who compared the RHA unfavorably to goatse, is also a fan of TheAmazingAtheist and — wait for it — MyLittlePony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but seems to have stepped straight out of the Big Book of Redditor Stereotypes.

HUEHEUHE HEUHEUEH, who made a generic misogynist remark, seems to be a Brony. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

EndlessCycleofPride, who declared “I hope you get raped,” is way into bodybuilding. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA, but a terrible person nonetheless.

Dominic Galvin, who declared “I want to punch her,” is a vintage car enthusiast and yet another fan of TheAmazingAtheist, especially his antifeminist rants. VERDICT: Possible MRA.

Corbbin Goldsmith, who suggested oral rape, is a software synth enthusiast and bedroom musician. VERDICT: An awful person, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.

Amaurypenseur, who thinks that “feminists deserve rape as punishment,” is a weird Belgian who hates American culture, “hanker[s for] a society based on war, inequality and irrationally,” and is a sort-of fan of, um, Hitler. Verdict: Antifeminist (obviously) but probably not an MRA as such.

Theninja36, who wanted to “punch her in the face,” is a American gamer who seems a tad obsessed with Japan. VERDICT: Clearly hates feminists, as several of his comments attest, but there’s no indication he’s an MRA.

About all I can tell  about Jack Ofalltrades, who made a crude, racist sexual suggestion, is that he’s a fan of the XFactor. VERDICT: Probably not an MRA.

So what have we learned here, aside from the sad fact that going through the histories of a whole bunch of YouTubers takes a fuck of a lot longer than I thought it would when I started out? Well, a number of things.

Out of the nineteen horrible commenters I was able to determine anything about, only one, Chocolateking1, seems to even vaguely fit the stereotype of the amoral, lulz-seeking troll that our friend Sigil1 wants to blame for all this.

Most of the commenters have been on YouTube for some time, with most of them using the site as an outlet for their various obsessions, which may or may not include hating on feminism. In a few cases they seem to be posting under their real names, which makes it all the more amazing that they’re perfectly willing to post violent and/or sexual comments as if no one except the nasty feminists would find any of this at all objectionable. Virtually all of them seem to be genuinely and unashamedly misogynistic.

Eight of the nineteen commenters are explicitly antifeminist, which puts them more than halfway along the route to possible MRAhood. Six — roughly a third of the total — are probably MRAs, or at the very least consumers of Men’s Rights and/or Manosphere media. Four are fans of TheAmazingAtheist. (NOTE TO SELF: TheAmazingAtheist has some really, really shitty fans.)

So congratulations, fellas: only perhaps a third of the many hundreds of terrible people who have been harassing and threatening the activist in question on YouTube seem to be MRAs or MRA-adjacent. Given that the total number of MRAs in the world is probably less than the number of people who watched that one video, that’s pretty impressive.

The comments I looked at here, nonetheless, are only a small fraction of the total number of threatening and/or harassing comments about the red-haired activist that have been posted to YouTube, and that are still being posted as you read this. She also received hundreds of messages directly, most of them anonymous.

Even if most of these messages weren’t sent by people who identify explicitly as MRAs, a signficant proportion clearly were, so we’re still talking about many dozens, perhaps even hundreds, of MRAs and fellow travelers who decided that the appropriate response to the video of the red-haired activist was to fire off comments and messages calling her a “bitch” or a “cunt” or something equally odious — and/or suggesting that she should be punched, or raped or even killed.

This whole exercise has helped to make even clearer to me why so many MRAs have made their names posting videos on YouTube: Because YouTube is filled to overflowing with the sort of terrible people who think rape threats are hilarious and that GirlWritesWhat is a genius.

MRAs, these people are your audience. Your peeps. Your most likely source of future converts. (Well, maybe not that Belgian Hitler fan. He’s got some ideas about statutory rape of teen boys that are as likely to offend MRAs as they are to offend feminists.)

And you wonder why so many see the Men’s Rights movement as a hate movement. (Hint: It’s the hate.)

NOTE: My promised post reflecting a bit more on A Voice for Men’s role in this all should go up tomorrow.

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titianblue
titianblue
11 years ago

I do not envy you wading through that putrescent soup.

thebionicmommy
thebionicmommy
11 years ago

MRA’s accept no responsibility for anything they say, and will lie and deny until they’re blue in the face. Some of them are also blaming “13 year olds” for all the abuse. Well, if some teenagers are the ones sending rape threats and telling “bitches” to get back in the kitchen or else, then they are probably learning all that from MRM crap online. They will be encouraged for such nonsense from older MRA’s and could go on to become adult MRA’s.

And because MRA’s are so terrible, they have made the term MRA into a dirty word, so people that agree with 99% of MRA talking points will swear up and down that they’re not a MRA, no sirree! Sorry, but walk like a duck, talk like a duck, you are probably a duck.

ithiliana
11 years ago

You are amazing–and it’s too bad that your points will be lost on the MRAs!–but still worth doing.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Wow. And they’ll still come here with their justifications and pretzel logic. Nothing gets through to them.

Abnoy
Abnoy
11 years ago

Tsk tsk, rag on the MRM all you want, but where would this blog be without it? Somehow I doubt that cute animal pictures would be enough to keep the usual sadimasochistic regulars coming back time and again despite all the “triggering” they keep whining about…

Chie Satonaka
Chie Satonaka
11 years ago

In before no true Scotsman

Fibinachi
Fibinachi
11 years ago

Not all MRA’s are… dammit, Satonaka! ONE DAY. One day I will beat your impeccably good timing and ability to foresee my trite attempts at muddling the waters!

ignotussomnium
ignotussomnium
11 years ago

Wow, that must have taken a while. Impressive work. It’s a pity these douchebags aren’t going to believe anything that contradicts their delusions.

La Strega
11 years ago

I echo Titianblue’s comment above: “putrescent soup” indeed, and it IS a job so unpleasant and often so tedious that I myself can no longer do it. I’ve tried, but I just don’t have the fortitude or emotional stability. Yet it’s important that these MRAs be monitored and reported. So I’ve told you before and I’ll say it once again David: thanks for doing this on others’ behalf.

leftwingfox
11 years ago

Now there’s an episode of Dirty Jobs for you. You should get Mike Rowe as an intern.

Mark Jones
Mark Jones
11 years ago

Oh wow, so posting links to people’s social network sites is OK now? I’ll have to tell the folks at AVFM so they can get busy doing the same. Or would that not be OK?

lightcastle
lightcastle
11 years ago

I was deeply saddened to hear a friend of mine recently say how “You have to admit The Amazing Athiest makes some good points, even if he makes you want to punch him a lot of the time.”

katz
11 years ago

Truly David has an iron stomach.

May Falwell
11 years ago

Danny Boy MRA, who is otherwise known as Dan Perrins or like “Dan” or “Daniel” has said on a Hammilton blog:

“I am here to ensure that equality is observed and adhered to if not then be prepared to be named on this page.
Be prepared to be named as a criminal who obstructs justice, a criminal who promotes discrimination.
Be prepared to be named as you should be an enemy to the Constitution of Canada.
Be prepared to be named for your fraud.”

He may be a likely doxxer because he was the one talking to her on the street in all the video’s along with another asian woman from CAFE. That entry was from June 17th 2010 and shows Danny to be a little obsessed. I think he has some valid complaints but after reading the full blogs I can only conclude he’s become increasingly paranoid. The original blog is found at: http://fixourworld.ning.com/profiles/blogs/what-this-web-page-is-about and is authored by Dan Perrins.

pillowinhell
11 years ago

Mike Rowe has handled some really disgusting shit in his time, but I don’t think he’d last ten minutes as Davids intern.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Ick. Thanks for wading through this.

Pro-Equality MRA
Pro-Equality MRA
11 years ago

“I was deeply saddened to hear a friend of mine recently say how “You have to admit The Amazing Athiest makes some good points, even if he makes you want to punch him a lot of the time.””

I DO think TAA makes good points sometimes. There are other areas where I disagree with him, for example, I think his hatred of feminism is a little over-the-top.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Mark: shut up.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

You too, PEMRA.

Mark Jones
Mark Jones
11 years ago

“Mark: shut up.”
That’s the standard feminist’s response when confronted with their own hypocrisy.

Pro-Equality MRA
Pro-Equality MRA
11 years ago

Mark Jones: It’s not just feminists that act this way, though. It’s very difficult to admit you’re in the wrong. It takes a lot of moral courage.

howardbann1ster
11 years ago

“a little over the top.”

That’s what they said about Hitler, right?

“a little over the top”

You’re a member of a hate movement.

Pro-Equality MRA
Pro-Equality MRA
11 years ago

Howard Bann1ster: The Amazing Atheist isn’t an MRA as far as I know, though his views seem to be somewhat vaguely aligned with ours.

Mark Jones
Mark Jones
11 years ago

“Mark Jones: It’s not just feminists that act this way, though. It’s very difficult to admit you’re in the wrong. It takes a lot of moral courage.”

That’s why you’ll never see that on here. More kitten videos please!

Howard Bannister
11 years ago

Right in line with your views, amiright?

You belong to a hate movement.

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