And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.
Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.
Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.
A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.
Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.
This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.
Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:
I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .
Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …
I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …
In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.
I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.
With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.
TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.
Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”
Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”
Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:
Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.
And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:
Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.
Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.
Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.
This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.
I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.
This is what MRA “activism” looks like.
Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.
Kirbywarp’s a Bostonite, isn’t he? Boston boobzers check in, are y’all okay?
LBT: I heard about that. Seems the Herald website is down, at least when I tried it about 15 minutes ago.
“I haven’t commented on what I think about the response to her, I stated that I don’t care about her predicament.”
And that, douchecanoe, is comment enough. You’re indifferent to a woman getting rape and death threats. You don’t need to say any more.
Could we maybe have one day where nobody is either trying to kill other people or threatening to kill other people? That would be nice.
“Are you experiencing some kind of emotion driven cognitive dissonance?”
Mark did what I have struggled to do: succinctly describe the MRM. I am giggling so much about this one.
This is good only in that it exposes how absurd and disgusting they are.
RE: CassandraSays
Yeah. I’m checking all my friends, since my friend’s boyfriend and his dad work in the same building of my old workplace, and it was common practice for folks to pause in work to watch the Marathon. I’m checking to make sure everyone’s okay.
Okay, three confirmed deaths and twelve injuries so far. Goddammit.
I remember this feeling from the attack on the tube in London. The waiting to hear from people part is hard.
Scary world. I hope your friends are all okay, LBT.
My best friend lived way too close to the towers on 9/11. I didn’t find out until hours later that she was actually in Boston on that day. It’s a frantic feeling.
Have they shut down the cell network? There was a friend of a friend who was in Sendai during the tsunami, and that was the hardest version of the waiting that I can remember, being completely unable to reach him because there was no phone or internet access at all for a while.
The NYTimes and CNN only report two dead. Anyone get ahold of Kirby and Cliff?
Okay, I’ve pretty much heard from everyone I know personally in the area except Manboobzers. Pervocracy’s okay too.
Thanks for letting us know about Cliff. I hope Kirby checks in.
RE: CassandraSays
Phone and Internet is still up and running; I’m hearing from my friends loud and clear, which is good, since I’m pretty much running down my contacts list and checking EVERYONE. Fortunately most of my friends are at work in a totally different section of town, so I know they’re okay.
And yeah princessbonbon, Cliff’s fine.
Do we have any idea yet who set off the bombs or why?
CNN and the WaPo are reporting a homemade bomb and someone has lost a leg. :*(
Wait, Bostonian hasn’t been here since three. Does anyone know if they’re okay?
RE: CassandraSays
It only happened less than two hours ago; I don’t think anybody knows much yet. I’m trying not to check the news until tomorrow morning, when they’ve had some time to check things.
Oh fuck… just read about this on CBC about a minute before they found the work-safe images. That was an awful lot of blood. 🙁
“I remember this feeling from the attack on the tube in London. The waiting to hear from people part is hard”
Yeah I have family in London. The riots were the worst. My condolences to those hurt by the Boston bombing =(
I’m ok! I am in Texas right now, but my family and friends in Boston proper are all accounted for!
FUCK half my family is at the Boston Marathon!
katz, Hope you can track them down soon and they’re all fine.
Bostonian, glad you’re all okay.
OMG Katz!
here is a post with links to help find
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