And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.
Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.
Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.
A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running  an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.
Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.
This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.
Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:
I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .
Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …
I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …
In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.
I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.
With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.
TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.
Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”
Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”
Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:
Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.
And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:
Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.
Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.
Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.
This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.
I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.
This is what MRA “activism” looks like.
Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.
@Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
Did you read? I added Far less support, Screwed during divorce, and At least 75% of the homless
population.
@Chris
Why don’t you go your own way already?
Edit: it’s never too early for the War On Christmas. I, for one, just sent everyone I know nice little cards with “Seasons Greetings” and some snowflakes on them. The horror.
@EJ (The Other One)
You’re obviously misquoting my comment.
Going his own way so damn hard that he came back to
whine morecontinue the conversation a week later.Yes, Chris. There are timestamps on each and every post. The post before yours was 4 months old. The blog post itself was from over 3 years before and the comments to which you responded were themselves in response to someone else necroing the thread.
@kupo
I would if I wasn’t be ganged up on by Feminazis.
Given that I’m a Skeptic of all religion, I say “Happy” Saturnalia.
Men don’t get screwed in divorce. Their income goes up while women’s goes down.
http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2009/jan/25/divorce-women-research
Of course, I still don’t know what this has to do with a Canadian feminist being harassed. A list of MRA talking points could’ve gone in any old thread.
You do realize that you came to us. We didn’t go to you. Right?
If you’re constantly being
handily defeated in argumentsganged up on by “Feminazis” it’s probably because you keep spouting bullshit in feminist/feminist friendly spaces.Of course you are. *pats on the head*
(Well, except for your preferred manospherian cult of no personality, in which case you’re less skeptical than a little kid singing Santa Claus Is Coming To Town on the 24th.)
@Chris
I’m Richard Dawkins and I order you to go take a nap now.
@Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
I’m just responding back. Sorry I’m not on social media 24/7.
No, I’m Richard Dawkins!
@weirwoodtreehugger
Men are unfairly treated in child custody cases and pay outdated alimony.
@pitshade
You can be Sam Harris?
That’s ok. I was going for The Life of Brian, “I’m Richard Dawkins and so’s my wife!”
@Scented Fucking Hard Chairs
I don’t belong to any MRA group, but nice try. I just point out the hypocrisy of modern feminism.
I can’t figure out what Chris thinks he’s going to accomplish here. Does he imagine that the little nuggets he’s shitting out are original, or that we’ve never heard them before? Did he fall off the turnip truck yesterday, is what I’m asking.
@weirwoodtreehugger
“Spouting off BULLSHIT”???? Wrong again.
Citation needed. When men seek shared or primary custody they tend to get it and only a small percentage of the time do men have to pay alimony to their wives. You have feminism to thank for the latter fact because it’s thanks to feminism that it’s socially acceptable for women to work full time even after marrying and having kids. Alimony is generally only paid to stay at home moms.
Again, what does any of this have to do with the post? Are you saying it’s okay to make death threats to feminists because some men pay alimony? Help my feeble ladybrain out here.
This troll might be the slowest typer we’ve ever had. He takes hours to produce just a few words.
I hate it when feminazis gang up on me by forcing me to post comments in a years-old thread that’s been dormant for months. Those jerks, they don’t even listen to my well-reasoned points!
@Policy of Madness
So even when facts are pointed out againist feminist hypocrisy, You still
follow a group who pretends to be for “Equality”?????
Feminist Logic: “Equality For All” “KillAllMen” or unless that “equality”
backfires when it fails to suit your Special Treatment needs.
@kupo
I find it hystericall that your group goes after me for pointing out valid points.
Katie never told me that part about KILLALLMEN. So betrayed.
@Chris
Actually, the “arguments” you make have been proven wrong, so yeah, we’re not going to just take it at face value. We’re going to research it and find actual studies that show the facts, and we’re going to keep fighting for equality while there’s still an imbalance. We’ve won many things, and when that happens we stop. We don’t keep pushing to try and tip the scales in the other direction like MRAs like to believe. If that were true we’d be lobbying to take the vote away from men or to ban men from serving in the military.
And feminists don’t actually say #killallmen in any way that isn’t meant to be satirical.