And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.
Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.
Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.
A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running  an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.
Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.
This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.
Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:
I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .
Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …
I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …
In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.
I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.
With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.
TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.
Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”
Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”
Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:
Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.
And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:
Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.
Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.
Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.
This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.
I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.
This is what MRA “activism” looks like.
Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.
@Amy
“Work doubly as hard”??????
Men work longer office hours, and go into riskier jobs.
Men have always been forced into war.
Men receive longer prison terms.
Studies reveal that women are equally as violent.
@Chris
I’m so close to bingo. Please keep going.
@Auntie Alias
Longer prison sentences, Forced into war, 75-90% of the homeless population, Screwed during divorce,
Far less support for male victims, etc…..= “A Few Valid Points”
You’ve already said those. Come on! I only need “false rape allegations” for bingo.
@Chris
“Keep going” doesn’t mean “Repeat yourself in slightly different wording.” What is it with you MRAs and having a total inability to understand that words mean things?
I saw this trending and went “Necro troll, or another Canadian feminist harassed by MRAs?”
Today alone, I have forced 7 men into war.
@ viscaria
And I bet you made them pay for dinner first.
@Viscaria
War on Christmas already?
They just get to be like mold after a while. I wonder if we’ll get a glossary troll next.
Indeed, I did demand that the men buy me 7 dinners, and indeed, I did not reward their $20 with sex. Now they are conscripts in my War on Christmas army. “Happy Holidays!” they shout at the defenseless May shoppers.
I only forced 4 men into war today but I sperm jacked them and filed for child support first. Plus, I made a couple dozen false rape allegations. Proper and thorough misandering takes time!
ETA: I just noticed that this thread has 43 pages! That’s over 2000 comments. These MRAs are obsessed to an unhealthy degree.
That is some next-level misandering. Props.
@wwth
This is actually a perfect example of what I was talking about in that other thread recently: MRAs completely obsessed with some random person for years and years.
I love how they always bring numbers and claim studies but never link to them. Studies and numbers they bring always come from Up my Ass Institute.
I always thought that the people threatening to conscript men, and the people being violent to them in jail, were themselves men? Evidently I haz a confuz. It must have been women, and specifically must have been Amy and/or said Canadian activist, because a scholar like Chris wouldn’t bring it up unless it was revelant.
What’s going on in here now? This seems like it’s a little bit old to be a point of –
Oh, of course.
What I want to know is – why did he pick this ancient thread to ambush instead of coming to something active? Is it because he wanted to drop some truth bombs on the past and avoid actually confronting people with different opinions? Or is he spending his time digging through the backlog to work himself up into an angry frenzy?
Why are you here, @Chris? Why not something more recent, where people are still paying attention?
Maybe to try and limit the potential for embarassment ?
Oh wait. That’s not something MRAs do.
I figure the reason certain threads get necroed over and over and over again is because the page has had enough hits that it shows up in search results for some trolly-ass search, like “why are women evil and also not having sex with me?” or whatever the hell else it is MRAs search for. Once they click it, they are too incensed by months-old comments on a years-old blog post to be able to form rational thoughts, such as “hey, maybe I should join a conversation currently in progress, rather than venting my spleen at the ghost of commenters past.”
@Viscaria:
I Googled that, and the first page of results is… yikes.
The very first result is mgtow.com, and I feel like that sets the tone for what the rest of them likely are, too.
Weird how he waited just over an hour to make a second response and that was also to an old post, not to IP who responded to his necro. I wonder if he just kept the page open and then still fuming an hour later spat out another one?
You don’t even have to put the whole thing into Google to start getting fuckery. After typing why are women. I got why are women so mean, emotional, shallow, and beautiful. Ish. For me, searching why are women so evil and not having sex with me got some fundie Christian sites. Not any better than getting manosphere sites. But scrolling down a bit did get an MGTOW post about why having sex with women is really evil!
Yep, that was the one.
@pitshade
My necro?????
Btw, I just left it on to go to my job.
Fuck off, Woody.