And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.
Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.
Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.
A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.
Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.
This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.
Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:
I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .
Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …
I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …
In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.
I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.
With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.
TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.
Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”
Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”
Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:
Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.
And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:
Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.
Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.
Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.
This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.
I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.
This is what MRA “activism” looks like.
Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.
Ally – *reads screwed up circumcision story* OWOWOWOWOWOWOW
sparky – No, you eat it as it is. Also, I forgot to add, you can add basil and mint in there to add a nice herb flavor. My bad!
Argenti – Apparently we started doing it en masse because some people thought that it would prevent kids from masturbating. Go figure.
Right? Back when I had only ever seen one (circumcised), I saw an episode of the dreaded Sex & The City where they were discussing how ugly uncut penises were, so I Googled and was promptly confused. That’s it? IDK, maybe if I’d seen a lot of penises and they were all cut, I’d have come to think of it as normal, but from outside I just don’t see a huge difference. Current hubby is uncut and we muddle along just fine 😉
I do know one person who had frequent infections as a kid and had to be circumcised as an older child, and from what I’ve heard that’s not an uncommon problem in places with poor access to clean water (it may even be why the Jews started doing it). But as others have said, we don’t go trimming any other organs just in case they get infected. And as someone with strong opinions on bodily autonomy, I’m not a fan of it in general.
Alice – oh, yes, wasn’t Mr “eat bland breakfast foods so they won’t irritate the sexysexbits’ nerves” Kellog heavily promoting circumcision for that reason?
RE: emilygodess
Yeah, and I get it, sometimes, people’s bodies are jerks and do nasty things to them, and you have to get rid of those bits. Cancer, necrosis, constant infections, and so on. I’m just kinda perturbed at how it’s now just something you do. But at least it’s going out of fashion!
kittehs – Yeah, he was! He and the “really bland and dry crackers will keep people from wanting to do sexy things” Graham!
Bland, dry crackers might put me off sex, but only in that they’d put me off life in general if I had to eat them too often.
This thread will never end, but I’m glad it’s just us now.
Ever since I really gave it some thought, I’ve been opposed to routine infant circumcision, but I can’t help but notice that every “intactivist” I’ve ever met has been an unrepentant asshat who is this movement’s worst enemy. Is it just me?
Nope. Given that Mr C is circumcised I get a little annoyed on his behalf when they start going on about how men who’re circumcised are “mutilated” and incapable of enjoying sex and so on.
And then they start talking about how it’s just as bad as infibulation and I decide not to talk to them any more.
Yeah. I mean, I never want it to happen to my kids myself, but hubby has never had any trouble sexually. However, it stands to reason that different people would be more troubled than others, and if someone did it to me without my consent, I know I would feel mutilated.
Er, I mean, even though hubby obviously doesn’t feel the same way. And I don’t see him as mutilated, he’s a glorious… *pause* package.
I’m sorry, I couldn’t help myself.
🙄
Isn’t activists…well I typed intactivists but autocorrect is more correct on this one. Like, I was reading one on myobsaidwhat.com and they went after this mother for having her son circumcised after repeat infections. Cuz obviously she just didn’t know how to clean him, it’s like wiping a finger, or can’t she wipe off a finger?
Seriously people, you think this will help your cause?
” Back when I had only ever seen one (circumcised), I saw an episode of the dreaded Sex & The City where they were discussing how ugly uncut penises were, so I Googled and was promptly confused.”
Meanwhile, my only exposure to cut penises ever was from American-made porn. I guess we’re an entire country of ugly-dicked people, who knew?
Nope. My only exposure to ’em is on the Net, but that describes all the ones whose stuff I’ve read.
Argenti – I could totally be an isn’tactivist. Those slactivists are overachievers.
[threatening comment redacted –DF]
Necro-ing a thread to leave a vague comment. Was it worth it?
Shorter Blah: blah blah blah vague comment blah blah blah
What, you don’t love the smell of death threats in the morning?
Of course, Blah, if tyou meant to say that you (you singular, there is “we” – own your shit) hoped someone followed through on the rape and death threats then you are not just incoherent but also a disgusting human being lacking in either courage or empathy. May you step on lego.
Bummocks. should have been a “no” between “is” and “we” ^
Is Blah the Buffy fan?
Blah:
Follows through on what? The rape and death threats the red-haired woman received? Because silencing your political opponents through violence or threat of violence is how a “human rights movement” does things?
Our heroes, ladies and gentlemen!
Blah is indeed the one who posted the same Buffy video on two different threads for no ascertainable coherent reason. And now he’s passed the completely-unacceptable-not-okay line.
Well blah, good thing nobody has and the awesome red head is still going strong on her blog. I hope that serves as a big ole fuck you
Ninja’d by everyone! 🙂
But seriously, Blah, do fuck off.