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Canadian feminist activist receives death threats and other abuse after being targeted by Men’s Rights Activists

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And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.

Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.

Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.

A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running  an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.

Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.

This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.

Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:

I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .

Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …

I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …

In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.

I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.

With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.

TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.

Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”

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Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”

REDHtumbmessDOXanonRedHtumblraddressANON

Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:

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Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.

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And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:

REDHYTmessGagANON

Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.

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Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.

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REDHYTnewbulletANONREDHYTnewequalanonREDHYTnewkitchenpunchanon

redhytnewoad2anonREDHYTnewpunchedanonREDHYTnewtitsanonREDHYTnewpunchcuntanonREDHYTnewwouldhavepunchanonREDHYTnewpunchrapeanon REDHYTnewpunchagainanonREDHYTnewripjawanon REDHYTsaudiarabiaANON

REDHYTslitthroatANON

REDHYTneedstodieANONUSETHISONEREDHYTdoublepenANONREDHYTpunchANONREDHytgetrapedANONREDHYTwantpunchANONREDHYTshovedANONREDHYTfemdeserveANONREDHYTanotherpunchANONREDHyTpenisANON

Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.

This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.

I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments  linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.

This is what MRA “activism” looks like.

Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.

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Argenti Aertheri
10 years ago

Kitteh — unless you don’t like mangos ^.^

It’s funny, he hates them, is fine with that teasing as long as I don’t bring mangos near him, but offered to get me mango juice for my vodka…and claims he’s civil, not nice…yeah okay, I’ll play along, oh civil one. I guess the juiced doesn’t smell nearly as horrid as the mangos themselves do or something. Delicious as mango juice and vodka is, I told him I was fine without it, cuz really, if he’s going to be nice civil enough to have me as a guest, I can refrain from having mango products!

(Folks, if you like mangos, and vodka, try mixing the two)

Ally S
10 years ago

Why should anyone jump on you for that, Ally? Food bullying’s not the go here. I have lots of foods I don’t like and this is one place I don’t get grief about it.

Sorry, I’m just very used to people jumping on me for not liking seafood. It doesn’t really bother me since I’m used to it, but it’s pretty common.

kittehserf
10 years ago

I don’t eat any shellfish, crustacea, etc. Even if I knew what the fuss was about taste-wise, I eat chicken, beef, fish, the occasional bit of lamb or ham, and that’s quite enough animals to be eating, for me. I’ll never be vegetarian, but I don’t have to eat more animals than I do already.

kittehserf
10 years ago

I can understand that, Ally: I’ve had the same shit about not liking hot food, though not that often. You’ve nothing to apologise for, btw!

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

Go figure, my net died. Ah well, it’s not like RulingPart was actually looking to learn anything. Aw, look how PROUD he is of being such a lousy troll! Ssh, nobody tell him about Tom Martin. Let him keep his little dreams of being the baddest troll on Manboobz.

RE: Alice

Vaginal MRSA? *shudder*

…I misread that as vaginal MRAs and I SHUDDERED.

RE: DefJam

Both of those are decidedly distinct from the mainstream community that is r/mensrights and avoiceformen.com.

BWAHAHAHA! Pull the other one, it has bells on.

Alice Sanguinaria
10 years ago

Vaginal MRAs? OHGODSOHGODSOHGODSWTFNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Bina
10 years ago

Aaaaaargh. Keep those MRAs the hell out of my vagina! They hate ’em anyway…

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

MRAs may well be the only thing that I want near my vagina less than flesh eating bacteria.

augochlorella
augochlorella
10 years ago

Wow, that troll was trying really hard.

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

I guess it’s the disease that, if you catch it, you become a jerk. HORROR.

hellkell
hellkell
10 years ago

Viscaria: Thanks! That is the perfect cookie recipe.

Alex
10 years ago

RulingPoop? I thought RulingShart was funnier. 🙁 Whatever. He’s still boring. And I too suspect return troll.

hellkell
hellkell
10 years ago

A;ex: I liked RulingShart too.

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

Oh man, speaking of easy delicious food, my husband improvised something delicious not long ago! It’s a really good way to get rid of rice that’s been previously cooked, but is drying out. (I mean YOU, leftover Chinese takeout from three days ago!)

You need a pound of ground meat (hubby prefers ground Italian sausage meat), your little Chinese takeout container of rice, and a leek.

Dump meat into greased pan. When it’s mostly cooked, chop up the leek into coins and toss that in, plus the rice. The rice will soak up the meat’s grease and the flavor of leek, and get nice and moist again in the process. Then OM NOM NOM.

That amount gave us food for three meals too!

Argenti Aertheri
10 years ago

“MRAs may well be the only thing that I want near my vagina less than flesh eating bacteria.”

MRSA is antibiotic resistant staph, which can lead to necrotizing fasciitis (science for eating your flesh), but doesn’t necessarily, and other things can go all flesh eating.

Genital necrotizing fasciitis is Bad Bad Beans (or telling buttered bread to get out and stay out, your choice which Doctor Who silliness to go with)

And this is an actual men’s rights issue! I was down a rabbit hole of anti-circumcision and there’ve been a handful of cases of baby boys recently circumcised bits going necrotic (afaik doctors managed to preserve functionally anatomy in the few necrotizing fasciitis cases…when the glans itself went necrotic…no such luck) But MRAs blame the mothers instead of the doctors for not sharing the potentially serious risks. Or, instead of blame, publicize the risks!

Viscaria
Viscaria
10 years ago

(afaik doctors managed to preserve functionally anatomy in the few necrotizing fasciitis cases…when the glans itself went necrotic…no such luck)

Those poor babies O_O

kittehserf
10 years ago

But MRAs blame the mothers instead of the doctors for not sharing the potentially serious risks.

Or the fathers, because of course no man’s ever said “I want him to look like me.” But like you said, they could be publicising the risks themselves, but noooo, it’s all about women wanting Baby Men mutilated.

Which is odd, given we supposedly want to ride that cock carousel.

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

D: *crosses legs*

And this is why, even though hubby is fine, I never, EVER want to be cut. Or, in the unlikelihood we ever had a child with a dick, never want THEM to be cut. AAAAAAH NO.

Ally S
10 years ago

MAJOR TMI warning for circumcision:

Honestly, I kind of wish I wasn’t cut. When I was little, I had to undergo two circumcision operations because the first doctor messed up horribly. Now I have a large (but harmless) hole on the side of my shaft, and it’s awful. It looked like someone punctured the shaft with a needle. X_X At least the hole doesn’t go through the other side…

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

D:

AAAAAH MY SQUISHY BITS THEY BURN WITH SECONDHAND PAAAAAAIN

DefJam
DefJam
10 years ago

DefJam thinks A Voice For Men is the reasonable wing of MRAdom.

Ha.

Ha.

No, I would call r/mensrights the most moderate forum in the community.

avoiceformen.com is more of a heated discussion forum where individual ideas are discussed, melted down as if in a furnace, and ultimately refurnished into something greater than before.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

What Jammy thinks AVFM is like.

hellkell
hellkell
10 years ago

…and ultimately refurnished into something greater than before

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

If it was garbage going in, it’ll hot garbage coming out.

AVfM is proof that you can only polish a turd but so much before you have to stop and just admit it’s a shiny turd.

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

RE: DefJam

avoiceformen.com is more of a heated discussion forum where individual ideas are discussed, melted down as if in a furnace, and ultimately refurnished into something greater than before.

Sorry, guy, but coprolites aren’t THAT great.

kittehserf
10 years ago

So Elam saying he’d never vote guilty in a rape trial is “something greater than before”? Yeah, right, fuckwit.

Ally – owww!

I think my brother’s circumcision was a bit botched – can’t really remember, it’s ages since Mum mentioned it. Not her idea, either: it was Uber Protestant Male Parent who insisted.

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