And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.
Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.
Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.
A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.
Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.
This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.
Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:
I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .
Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …
I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …
In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.
I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.
With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.
TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.
Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”
Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”
Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:
Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.
And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:
Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.
Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.
Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.
This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.
I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.
This is what MRA “activism” looks like.
Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.
Everyone can agree that people who rape virgin nuns who were on their way to deliver puppies to needy children should be jailed. Well, that takes care of 0.00000000000000000000000000001% of rapists. What about all the rest?
Cassandra, you aren’t exactly defeating my mushroom hypothesis.
Bina… She said it. She said she is underage. You think that my patriarchal leanings make me assume that she is, despite the fact that it is right there in print. Says a lot, Bina.
Rape is forced sex. Rape is not consent plus regret.
Sparky must win a prize for ninja’ing the Dark Lord! O_O
kitteh: Ninja-ing the Dark Lord actually freaked me out a little bit. O_O.
Now, this is just disappointing. “There is no rape culture. Everybody hates rape. Real rape, that is. Most rape allegations are just those dizzy females regretting a night of bad sex.”
::rolls::
That lingering foot smell is growing stronger and stronger.
I think he’s hungry, and we should stop feeding him.
Now I’m hungry. 🙁
I made a gyro sandwich made with…an old, flimsy pita, stale hummus, and gyro strips. It’s a
dreary day for sure.
Aw, poor Raging Poop. Did I make ‘ums mad?
Even the stale hummus sounds good.
Anybody have any good ideas for shrimp? I made the mistake of sending hubby to grocery store last week, and he came back with 3 bags of frozen shrimp “because it was on sale! It was cheap!”
And I have no clue what to do with it.
I have a really strong cookie craving. It’s the time of year, I think. I should make whipped shortbread soon…
Whipped shortbread? *folds hands under chin and looks raptly at Viscaria* Do go on.
sparky – I make Vietnamese spring rolls.
What you need for the spring rolls:
– rice paper (you can get this in the international food section, I’m pretty sure)
– lettuce
– carrots (shredded or cut into thin strips)
– shrimp (skin off)
– a bowl of water (to wet the rice paper)
Dipping sauce 1:
– hoisin sauce (international food section)
– peanuts
Dipping sauce 2:
– fish sauce
– lemon or lime juice
– chili garlic sauce (international food section)
– sugar
– water
Directions (spring rolls):
1. cook the shrimp (duh), and let it cool before you use it.
2. soak a sheet of rice paper in water, and put it on a flat surface (we use plates at home)
3. put in the lettuce, carrots, and shrimp in the middle of the rice paper, but be careful to not over stuff it!
4. roll the spring roll (fold in the sides and then roll it towards you). If the sheet rips, don’t worry, it’s still edible!
Directions (dipping sauce 1):
1. toast the peanuts; my mother would just put them in a wok and heat them over a low flame, but you can do this in an oven
2. crush the peanuts (a pot with a large bottom, a huge Chinese-style cleaver, a hammer, whatever it takes, just get them crushed)
3. heat up the hoisin sauce in a sauce pan
4. add the peanuts into the hoisin sauce and stir
Directions (dipping sauce 2):
1. squeeze the lemon or lime juice into a bowl
2. add the fish sauce, the chili garlic sauce, the sugar, and a bit of water
3. taste. If it’s not sour enough, add more lemon or lime juice. If not sweet enough, add sugar.
NOM
Damn you, it is way too cold for me to go get rolls.
(Though I prefer the tofu version)
True, you can totally use any protein you like. I just used shrimp in there because the question was ‘what can I do with three bags of shrimp’?
That would make a lot of rolls, though.
Random – I hate shrimp. I’ve had them made many different ways and nope, it’s not a preparation issue, I just don’t like them.
Things to to with shrimp – bin it?
Make husband cook it since it was his brilliant idea to buy so much?
So are you going to address any of my examples, or what? If everyone is so eager to punish rapists, why did they run the Maryville victim out of town and burn her house down? Why are people crying for the perps in Steubenville? Why did people practically riot when Joe Paterno was fired?
Hey, maybe those ten year old boys consented to have sex with Jerry Sandusky, then changed their minds later!
(Don’t even get me started on the “consent plus regret” bullshit. In addition to being a straw man, I’ve seen it applied to things like being plied with alcohol until consent was no longer possible, or giving in to avoid more aggressive rape, or being coerced or threatened, so…)
As for the shrimp: My partner and I are fans of pasta puttanesca. We use Rachael Ray’s recipe, but of course there are endless variations.
If you’re feeling really ambitious, you could do jambalaya or paella.
People are probably going to jump on me for saying this, but I don’t like any kind of seafood. The only fish I ever came close to liking is salmon.
@Hellkell
Whipped shortbread is the ideal cookie for lazy people! There are 3 ingredients: butter, icing sugar, flour. Maybe 4 if you decide to put something on top of your cookies like sprinkles or maraschino cherries or something. My grandmother used to always make them at Christmastime.
Best of Bridge’s recipe can be found here.
Alice, those spring rolls sound yummy…and not hard! Gonna give them a try. (Hey, no frying means no unholy mess!) I’m an absolute glutton for seafood of any kind, so double yum for me, as far as shrimps go.
And yay for pasta puttanesca, too. I vary my ingredients, but the constants are fresh diced tomatoes, olive oil, onion, garlic and green herbs, and of course, hot peppers. I love to make it with pickled capers if I’ve got ’em, or sliced green olives if not. Top with Parmesan or Romano cheese (or shredded mozzarella or Asiago, or Tre Formaggi if you’re feeling foo-foo), and you have an easy, delicious veggie dish.
Ally — jump on you? I think that rocks, seeing how I think the swimming ones are pets not food 🙂 (granted what I’d do with one of those shrimp is feed puff, had him eating a tiny species of shrimp out of my hand yesterday!)
As for beer, if you can get it, Yuengling black and tan is about all I will drink. (If you can get it basically meaning PA and adjacent states, I can’t get it here, and must remember to when at pecunium’s, cuz that lucky fuck can)
*squees* my cory babies are big enough to see swimming around from across the room! Which also means they’re begging, feeding time at the zoo I guess!
Why should anyone jump on you for that, Ally? Food bullying’s not the go here. I have lots of foods I don’t like and this is one place I don’t get grief about it.
Oh and I cannot stomach shrimp. I ate way too much as a kid, puked it all up, and nope, never eating that again. Little dude is apparently a glutton for whatever sort of shrimp I offer though, so that’s cool, glad he’ll hand feed since he won’t be small enough for the pipette for terribly much longer. (Another one who’s getting big!)