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Canadian feminist activist receives death threats and other abuse after being targeted by Men’s Rights Activists

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And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.

Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.

Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.

A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running  an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.

Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.

This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.

Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:

I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .

Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …

I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …

In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.

I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.

With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.

TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.

Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”

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Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”

REDHtumbmessDOXanonRedHtumblraddressANON

Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:

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Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.

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And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:

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Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.

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Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.

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REDHYTnewbulletANONREDHYTnewequalanonREDHYTnewkitchenpunchanon

redhytnewoad2anonREDHYTnewpunchedanonREDHYTnewtitsanonREDHYTnewpunchcuntanonREDHYTnewwouldhavepunchanonREDHYTnewpunchrapeanon REDHYTnewpunchagainanonREDHYTnewripjawanon REDHYTsaudiarabiaANON

REDHYTslitthroatANON

REDHYTneedstodieANONUSETHISONEREDHYTdoublepenANONREDHYTpunchANONREDHytgetrapedANONREDHYTwantpunchANONREDHYTshovedANONREDHYTfemdeserveANONREDHYTanotherpunchANONREDHyTpenisANON

Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.

This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.

I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments  linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.

This is what MRA “activism” looks like.

Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.

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DefJam
DefJam
10 years ago

Do you have any proof that these individuals are MRAs or regulars at avoiceformen.com? Or are you, as I suspect, talking out of your ass?

Argenti Aertheri
10 years ago

Cassandra — do you mean any of the various “you can’t set the tone here!!” idiots?

Def(initely no fun) — buy an antecedent for “these”.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

Nah, I think we had one that was more like this too. The “you can’t set the tone here!” ones I think were all the same person.

sparky
sparky
10 years ago

Do you have any proof that these individuals are MRAs or regulars at avoiceformen.com? Or are you, as I suspect, talking out of your ass?


http://manboobz.com/2013/04/17/so-who-exactly-has-been-harassing-that-red-haired-canadian-feminist-a-not-quite-scientific-survey/

Alice Sanguinaria
10 years ago

Honestly, AVFM trolls are really, really, really boring. ZZZZZZZ

DefJam
DefJam
10 years ago

MRAs are difficult to classify. What types of MRAs were those? Spearheadians? The “right wing manosphere”? Both of those are decidedly distinct from the mainstream community that is r/mensrights and avoiceformen.com.

Ultimately, the focal point of the Men’s Human Rights movement in its mainstream, unadulterated form is, I think, avoiceformen.com.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

He has to be getting paid per URL drop.

titianblue
titianblue
10 years ago

Yep, ‘cos that’s the important hing to do. Forget condemning the rape & death threats, let’s decide precisely which brand of MRA sent them. Preferably while giving AVfM lots of hits.

Not transparent at all.

vaiyt
10 years ago

DefJam thinks A Voice For Men is the reasonable wing of MRAdom.

Ha.

Ha.

Bina
10 years ago

Wait…is this the same AVFM whose head honcho is all about Fucking Their Shit Up? And how October is Bash A Violent Bitch Month? And whose lieutenants are all about letting rapists off the hook at jury trials and letting little girls drown?

Yeah. Real reasonable “movement” you “human rights activists” got going there, bubba.

emilygoddess
emilygoddess
10 years ago

Then I like to ask myself “what are the odds that the average heterosexual man really wants to rape lesbians?”

Straw man. Find me one feminist claiming that “rape culture” means “straight men want to rape lesbians”.

I have never known anybody to celebrate rapists. Go pro-rape in public and you (rightly) end your career.

Like the boys in Steubenville, and all the people who fretted over their lost futures when they were sent to jail. Like the boys in Maryville, where the accuser was run out of town and her family’s home torched. Like Penn State, where countless students, alumni and fans rallied around Paterno and Sandusky and pitched a collective fit after the firings. Like Roman Polanski, whose career has yet to end and who, to this day, has both the public and dozens of Hollywood movers and shakers on his side.

Why would anyone ever get the idea that this culture doesn’t take rape very seriously?

Alice: solid point, and I mean that, but I and EVERY MAN I KNOW want actual rapists jailed and perhaps hanged.

Watch out, we got a badass over here. And I’m sure you’ve asked EVERY MAN YOU KNOW what they think about rape, and gotten a totally honest answer.

So what do you mean by “actual rapists”? Gonna pull a Whoopi on us?

Bina
10 years ago

Do you honestly think that I and my fellow heterosexual men feel pressured by society to have sex to the point that rape seems like a credible option? That is so far outside of any reality that I have experienced that it staggers the imagination. Empathize with me a moment: it’s as if I told you “don’t pretend that society doesn’t pressure transgendered people to smother the elderly with pillows.” I have never known anybody to celebrate rapists. Go pro-rape in public and you (rightly) end your career. Where is this rape culture?

You’re soaking in it. As are all the other right-wing dudes who regularly stage pooping raids on my blog, full of (porno)graphic descriptions of what they’d like to do to me, or see done to me, just because I dare to be (a) overtly female, and (b) expressing an opinion in public.

It’s not our fault if you’re too far gone on ‘shrooms to realize that your “human rights movment” is all about depriving one-half the human race of THEIR rights.

Also, pro tip: Lay off the fucking ‘shrooms.You don’t need to wax any more incoherent than you already are.

emilygoddess
emilygoddess
10 years ago

Wouldn’t this be better if we were all at the pub pounding beer!

Oh. You’re one of those assholes who deliberately upsets people and then claims it’s just a fun debate, aren’t you?

Let’s see you generate a shitstorm like this!

Someone’s got a high opinion of himself. Honey, by this blog’s standards, you’re a shit drizzle at best.

hellkell
hellkell
10 years ago

RulingShart definitely has that old sock smell, and Def Jam is getting there.

Ally S
10 years ago

Find me one feminist claiming that “rape culture” means “straight men want to rape lesbians”.

In a way, that’s true. While certainly not all straight men want to rape lesbians, corrective rape committed against queer/trans folks is unfortunately very common.

emilygoddess
emilygoddess
10 years ago

@Ally, the Shirley Temple isn’t an alcoholic drink. Not on the East Coast, anyway. Also, my margarita advice: (1)I like on the rocks better than the crushed-ice kind, and (2) go somewhere where they make it with real lime juice, not that vaguely lime-flavored sugar syrup “margarita mix”. They’re also pretty easy to make at home, if you have access to the liquor and a shaker. And if you like lime, I also recommend Cuba Libre: rum and coke with lime juice.

I agree than many beers smell like piss, especially when they’ve gone stale (for example, if it’s been sitting in the can for a bit). But there is a world of good beer out there that neither smells nor tastes like the big-name American/Canadian brands (which are pretty gross IMO). IMO it’s a lot like orange juice: if you’d only ever had the frozen concentrated stuff, you’d be totally justified in wondering how people could drink it, not knowing that some of those people were drinking fresh-squeezed. I mention this, not to pester people into trying something they don’t like, but to answer those who were wondering what the appeal is.

@Cassandra

The reasons for setting the drinking age at 21 in the US are social more than developmental, imo.

Specifically, it’s the drinking age at which, statistically, incidence of drunk driving is lowest. And IIRC, every state has the right to set its own drinking age, but the federal Dept of Transportation will withhold money from states that don’t set it at 21+.

@DefJam

Ultimately, the focal point of the Men’s Human Rights movement in its mainstream, unadulterated form is, I think, avoiceformen.com.

And that’s terrible.

David, are you able to edit comments? You could undo his blatant link-drops, if only for the joy of seeing Paulie flip out about you “censoring” links to his site.

emilygoddess
emilygoddess
10 years ago

In a way, that’s true. While certainly not all straight men want to rape lesbians, corrective rape committed against queer/trans folks is unfortunately very common.

Yeah, I wasn’t too happy with the way I left that sentence, but I was afraid he’d try to wiggle out of it if I said “all” or “most”. Should’ve just borrowed his phrasing.

Besides, he’d probably deny that corrective rape is really a thing, or try to blame it on homo/transphobia rather than misogyny, or whatever MRAs do.

titianblue
titianblue
10 years ago

I missed almost all of RulingFart, too. Zie was totally lacking in reading comprehension but I’d give a bonus point for unpredictability.

Ally S
10 years ago

The part where RulingPart was calling out people giving me advice about drinking was almost cute because it was so unexpected and bizarre. But nope, still obnoxious.

Bina
10 years ago

I love the way that anus ASSumed that Ally was underage. Seems he was going “gallantly” out of his way to be patronizing to just about everyone here.

Ally S
10 years ago

To his credit, I’m pretty sure I openly said I was underage. =P

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

Well, a sock would know how old Ally is…

vaiyt
10 years ago

“solid point, and I mean that, but I and EVERY MAN I KNOW want actual rapists jailed and perhaps hanged.”

Everyone says that, bucko. The difficult part is not defining “rape” in such narrow terms that an excuse can be found for every rapist.

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