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Canadian feminist activist receives death threats and other abuse after being targeted by Men’s Rights Activists

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And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.

Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.

Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.

A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running  an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.

Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.

This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.

Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:

I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .

Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …

I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …

In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.

I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.

With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.

TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.

Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”

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Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”

REDHtumbmessDOXanonRedHtumblraddressANON

Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:

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Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.

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And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:

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Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.

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Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.

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REDHYTnewbulletANONREDHYTnewequalanonREDHYTnewkitchenpunchanon

redhytnewoad2anonREDHYTnewpunchedanonREDHYTnewtitsanonREDHYTnewpunchcuntanonREDHYTnewwouldhavepunchanonREDHYTnewpunchrapeanon REDHYTnewpunchagainanonREDHYTnewripjawanon REDHYTsaudiarabiaANON

REDHYTslitthroatANON

REDHYTneedstodieANONUSETHISONEREDHYTdoublepenANONREDHYTpunchANONREDHytgetrapedANONREDHYTwantpunchANONREDHYTshovedANONREDHYTfemdeserveANONREDHYTanotherpunchANONREDHyTpenisANON

Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.

This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.

I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments  linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.

This is what MRA “activism” looks like.

Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.

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RulingPart
RulingPart
10 years ago

Ladies, lets at least agree not to give a minor drinking advice, shall we? Not classy. I mean, I know she’s high, so does she really need another bad habit?

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago
cloudiah
10 years ago

Pandas!

RulingPart
RulingPart
10 years ago

Look, lady, if you want to ingest shit storms I’m not here to judge. Please do follow up with a broad spectrum antibiotic, though. Safety first!

Argenti Aertheri
10 years ago

What did we decide was in the argentini? Mango juice and vodka and what else? (And is that a hard g or a soft g? Cuz I use the soft g for my nym, but this use should be a hard g, I think)

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

Shouldn’t any cocktail you drink involve coffee?

I’ve had a coffee martini. It wasn’t bad (not great either).

Argenti Aertheri
10 years ago

Guys, serious time, do not take broad spectrum antibiotics as a preventative. This is how we have MRSA. My pharm student once had a tale from the hospital of fucking vaginal MRSA (you may all shudder now) — idk what happened to her either, she ended up being airlifted to a bigger hospital and obviously ze couldn’t tell me more than the barebones cuz confidentiality.

Ally S
10 years ago

Ladies, lets at least agree not to give a minor drinking advice, shall we? Not classy. I mean, I know she’s high, so does she really need another bad habit?

This is one of the weirdest things I’ve ever heard a troll say. =S

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

Poor thing, he’s trying so hard.

RulingPart
RulingPart
10 years ago

I enjoyed this. G’night, all,

Alice Sanguinaria
10 years ago

Argenti – Oh gods. Vaginal MRSA? *shudder*

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

As if the idea of using douchebags for enemas wasn’t bad enough…

Ally S
10 years ago

My only real regret with getting into drugs and alcohol at an early age (15) is the fact that I had my first drink ever way sooner than I should have. I was at risk of becoming alcoholic at that point in my life. I’m thankful that never happened.

cloudiah
10 years ago

I could actually use a cocktail right now… Speaking of which, the last time I met a friend for drinks we picked the wrong place. Everything was super sweet, even the drinks that weren’t supposed to be sweet — who makes a sweet gin and tonic? The waitress finally admitted that they add simple syrup to everything because they mostly cater to people who’ve just turned 21, and if we wanted regular cocktails we should ask for them “diet.”

NOT going back there.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

Eh, I started drinking wine with dinner (diluted, initially) with my parents at 13 or so and I never developed any sort of dependence. The reasons for setting the drinking age at 21 in the US are social more than developmental, imo. It’s 18 where I’m from, and most people actually start drinking at more like 15 or 16.

Ally S
10 years ago

The reason I was prone to becoming an alcohol is that I was very depressed at the age of 18 because of loneliness. And I tried drinking as a means of being more sociable. I mostly drank either rum or red wine.

And then I saw it as necessary because it would make me a Real Man and stuff (I was repressing my transness at the time). I even went to a punk rock concert, got drunk there, and nearly got beaten up by some random dude in the mosh pit (which I just accidentally stumbled into). It was a very bitter, dark time in my early teens. I snapped out of that phase when, the morning after the concert, my mom saw my bruised-up face and became very worried, and that made me feel awful.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

Yeah, drinking as a social lubricant or as a way of self-medicating is not so good. Also if you happen to have alcoholism in the family it might be smart to wait till you’re older.

Ally S
10 years ago

Sorry I mean I was depressed at the age of 15. X_X I need to sober up.

Argenti Aertheri
10 years ago

“Shouldn’t any cocktail you drink involve coffee?”

But coffee and mangos don’t mix. This is a conundrum…

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

Oh, look, we have a live one in…every other thread, apparently.

Ally S
10 years ago

Yeah, drinking as a social lubricant or as a way of self-medicating is not so good. Also if you happen to have alcoholism in the family it might be smart to wait till you’re older.

My grandfather on my mother’s side was an alcoholic – and so was her step-brother – but I don’t know if that means I’m at some kind of genetic risk. Especially since I don’t know anyone else in my family who was an alcoholic.

kittehserf
10 years ago

Is anyone else’s trolldar going with this one? I wouldn’t be at all surprised if this is Mr 90% playing his silly little games again. All that faux-humour and aren’t-I-so-clever stuff feels familar.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

We had another one who pulled the “if you didn’t enjoy talking to me you wouldn’t still be posting on this blog, you know, the one where you hung out all the time before I showed up” thing recently. It was just as boring the first time.

kittehserf
10 years ago

I forget their names sooo quickly these days. They mesh into one horrible mess that stinks of old socks even when they aren’t.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

Maybe there’s a factory somewhere that churns out cheap knock-off socks.

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