And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.
Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.
Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.
A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.
Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.
This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.
Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:
I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .
Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …
I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …
In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.
I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.
With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.
TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.
Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”
Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”
Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:
Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.
And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:
Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.
Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.
Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.
This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.
I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.
This is what MRA “activism” looks like.
Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.
Why are assholes so proud of being assholes? It’s such a weird thing to be proud of. Like I’m proud of the work I’ve done that has helped make the world a better place, and of my kindness to the people and animals in my life, and the excellent spanokopita I make occasionally, and all kinds of other things — but being an asshole, while I have been one on occasion, is not something I would chortle gleefully about on the Internet.
Claudia: if the goal of a conversation is to stimulate social interaction, I’m doing everything right! Let’s see you generate a shitstorm like this! It’s a German art film at this point!
Exhibit B: Pride at thinking he’s generated a shitstorm.
So fucking weird. I don’t get it.
(Not to mention the fact we’re just enjoying having a chew toy to sharpen our fangs on.)
If we’re going to parse I’d go more with “son-of-a-bitch.” Shit! Gender bias! Sorry! Sorry! Kudos for your many kindnesses. My sole hobby is orphan kicking, but you… You got to me. Next time I’ll give the orphans a cookie.
I like the chew toy thing. I told all of my MRA cronies that they were being idiotic; feminists don’t grow fangs. Imagine my surprise.
This is the most pathetic excuse for a shitstorm I’ve ever seen. Trolling fail.
@ Cloudiah
I saw your comment in the other thread about your mom. Want a kitten?
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x13deuu_adorable-kitten-rolling-around_people
Cloudiah, it would be good if it was less rubbery. Rawhide is tastier and does a better job of scraping off the tooth scunge.
If interacting with you on the internet while high is yawn-worthy, I don’t really think interacting with you offline while I’m drunk would be any better. Also, I can’t stand beer.
Cassandra: oh yeah? BIG TALKER! Link to a shitstorm you started and let’s compare notes. Come to think of it, if you win I’ll just accuse you of shitstorm privilege anyway. Never mind.
Ally, if it was yawn-worthy you wouldn’t still be here. Your disdain lacks credibility. I like cheap whiskey and club soda.
@ Ally
*Fistbump* I think beer smells like stale cat piss. Do not want.
Question. Why is the go to “we are SO friends!” is a beer? I don’t get it. What’s so great about alcohol?
Unimaginative: allow me to suggest Crest Pro-health Clinical. Much better than rubbing your fangs against the skin of a dead cow. Homo sapien privilege, by the way.
Alice: can we at least agree on whiskey?
I’m saying you’re yawn-worthy in the sense of you being kind of amusing, but also prone to making me yawn. So your logic is incorrect
I once smelled a neighbor’s beer can, and it did indeed smell like piss. The only alcoholic drinks I actually like are red wine and Shirley Temples. I’ve also been wanting to try margaritas, but I haven’t had any change to do so because underage. V_V
Wouldn’t waste the whiskey.
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9uuqXXT7VYo&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D9uuqXXT7VYo
That kitten’s belly is so adorable.
So, since my dinner came from a hospital cafeteria, did anyone else have a delicious dinner they can tell me about so I can enjoy it vicariously?
I can’t stand whiskey. X_X I took a sip of it once and felt like I was going to vomit immediately. Too strong for me.
I honestly don’t understand the draw to alcohol as a whole. Granted, I’m underage, so I legally can’t have any (and for some weird reason I think I’m the only one in my school who hasn’t experimented ever), but the smell of alcohol makes me gag.
When you do try a margarita I recommend trying to get one that’s made with anejo or reposado rather than blanco. So much tastier, and tends to be smoother too.
Shirley Temples are alcoholic? I always thought they were grenadine with 7-Up.
That only makes sense if you yawn when you are amused. If that is true, then it is logically consistent., and I am greatly complimented. And good for you, staying away from the booze.
cloudiah – I had two bowls of chicken noodle soup that I made. Chicken stock, oregano, salt, pepper, whole wheat pasta, chunks of chicken breasts, celery, onions, and carrots.
*sends virtual bowl*
1) when did I ingest shrooms? I need to know this so I can calculate when to head to the bathroom to pray to the porcelain goddess, there’s a reason I prefer acid and MDMA.
1b) wtf? Was it the mango crack, or my impersonating the bug, or the vampire line? Newb clearly isn’t familiar with my sense of humor.
2) Oh hey, I just happen to have a link defining rape culture handy, cuz I’m yet again working on the Borg 101 pages — http://taikonenfea.wordpress.com/2013/04/12/social-justice-101-rape-culture/
I once had Shirley Temples consisting of cherry liquor and ginger ale. I guess there are different ways to make them.