And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.
Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.
Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.
A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.
Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.
This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.
Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:
I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .
Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …
I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …
In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.
I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.
With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.
TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.
Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”
Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”
Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:
Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.
And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:
Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.
Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.
Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.
This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.
I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.
This is what MRA “activism” looks like.
Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.
sans “assumed to” in my second sentence X_X
Alice: solid point, and I mean that, but I and EVERY MAN I KNOW want actual rapists jailed and perhaps hanged. I was conditioned from a young age to think this way. I know nothing of this rape culture.
RE: RulingPart
If I am a douche bag I am by definition slick, or else I’m just a bag.
No, you’re a foreign object that gets shoved up in people’s personal space for stupid reasons, only you talk too. If ONLY you were just a bag.
And admit it; you’ve never seen the mushroom thing played so well.
You deeply underestimate the purpleness of the prose of the trolls of winters past. Really, you’re disappointing to me. Step up your GAME, grasshopper! You’ll never get in the running for Troll of the Year this way. You’re not even in the top twenty, and the picking have been LEAN this year!
RE: RulingPart
I know nothing of this rape culture.
We noticed.
Don’t try to butter me up by calling me adorable, Ally. It won’t… Damnit! Now I feel warm and tingly! Female privilege! Female privilege!
Workers of the world unite…
RulingPart – If that’s the case, then good, you’re not a jackass! That doesn’t mean that rape culture doesn’t exist, nor does it mean that all men share the same attitudes (as I’ve already shown through the long list of links).
LBT: do you think that I want to rape people?
LBT: I wish you had written him; he’d make a hell lot more sense.
And old fashioned re-useable douchebags could be used for both vaginal douching and enemas:
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Douche
Though now I kinda wished I didn’t know that.
o_o lol ok
Alice: if I am being honest the MRA does draw people from the fringe and links like those ou posted are far too common, but I’m a Critical G type MRA. We believe in equality, rule of law… Things that the vast majority of men believe. You folks look at the fringe and attribute their views to society in general.
RE: RulingPart
LBT: do you think that I want to rape people?
Of course I don’t. Why would you think I would?
RE: sparky
Please. You know RulingPart ain’t gonna come back. This troll’s as reusable as a crappy condom, and a lot less enjoyable to be in close contact with. He’s a one-hit mediocrity.
Sparky: I use something that looks like that to clean out earwax. I mean I used to.
Critical G type MRA
Please tell me what Critical G means.
You folks look at the fringe and attribute their views to society in general.
You’re the one who just said those posts were far too common. How fringe IS your fringe, if that’s the case?
Well, hey, everybody! RulingPart has assured us that he certainly doesn’t condone rape, so rape culture can’t possibly exist, because OBVIOUSLY all men are exactly just like him! (And victim-blaming isn’t a thing! Steubenville didn’t result in the victim being excoriated for drinking! That judge didn’t sentence a child molester to 30 days because the child was such a whore!) I guess our work here is done. We can dismantle feminism and all go home.
LBT: isn’t the whole argument that society conditions me toward rape? And my counterpoint is that rape is almost universally despised.
Please tell me this doesn’t mean they used to use the same bag for both. My inner germphobe is shrieking in horror.
There are good ways to start conversations. Necroing dead posts and signing off with vague Internet tough guy threats are not good ways to start conversations. You might as well be waving a big glittery (GIF) sign saying, “Hi. I’m an asshole.”
Having conversations: YOU ARE DOING IT WRONG.
Not MRAs, these people are saying that the rape survivor deserved to be raped and are saying that her rapists shouldn’t be punished (or labeled sex offenders).
Not MRAs, these people are saying that other men would totally do the same thing in their shoes (i,e, rape a person), and how the rapists’ lives are RUINED because the rape survivor dared to say “you know what, rape sucks”.
No. If you’re going to come in and shit all over a blog over definitions, you might want to take a moment to look one up.
Unimaginative: that’s a good point. Snarky, but good. My point is that I don’t see the sweeping societal movement in favor of rape that you seem to see, because it doesn’t exist. Do we need protests against rape? Is it just to assume that most men like rape until proved otherwise?
Claud: doesn’t appear to be too dead to me! I am kind of an asshole. Mom tried, God bless her. I mean Goddess! Goddess! Isn’t this fun, though?
My eyes rolled so hard that I was able to see my prefrontal cortex.
Watching TV right now and I have to say that I just can’t buy Keanu Reeves as a samurai. Just can’t.
I like you, Ally. I like you and Captain Hook and Sparky… Hell, the whole damned lot! Wouldn’t this be better if we were all at the pub pounding beer!
Inserting foreign objects into the ear canal is not recommended.
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http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/earwax-blockage/DS00052/DSECTION=preparing%2Dfor%2Dyour%2Dappointment
And awww, shit, are we already jumping to denial of rape culture? Yes, you are right, LBT, this definitely a single use troll.