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Canadian feminist activist receives death threats and other abuse after being targeted by Men’s Rights Activists

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And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.

Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.

Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.

A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running  an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.

Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.

This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.

Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:

I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .

Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …

I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …

In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.

I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.

With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.

TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.

Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”

REDHFBmusbroDeaththreatANON

Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”

REDHtumbmessDOXanonRedHtumblraddressANON

Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:

REDHTumbbakedThreatANON

Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.

REDHytheraccountDannyANON2

And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:

REDHYTmessGagANON

Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.

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Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.

REDHYTcheesegraterANON

REDHYTnewbulletANONREDHYTnewequalanonREDHYTnewkitchenpunchanon

redhytnewoad2anonREDHYTnewpunchedanonREDHYTnewtitsanonREDHYTnewpunchcuntanonREDHYTnewwouldhavepunchanonREDHYTnewpunchrapeanon REDHYTnewpunchagainanonREDHYTnewripjawanon REDHYTsaudiarabiaANON

REDHYTslitthroatANON

REDHYTneedstodieANONUSETHISONEREDHYTdoublepenANONREDHYTpunchANONREDHytgetrapedANONREDHYTwantpunchANONREDHYTshovedANONREDHYTfemdeserveANONREDHYTanotherpunchANONREDHyTpenisANON

Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.

This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.

I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments  linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.

This is what MRA “activism” looks like.

Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.

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CassandraSays
CassandraSays
10 years ago

Even the cat has decided that she’s not leaving her spot right by the heater except to eat and pee. It got down to 28 degrees last night. It’s like being back in the UK.

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

RE: RulingPart

This is what a pro-penis anti-Christmas stealing puppy drowning activist looks like. End the oppression, Sparky.

Cool story, pro-penis anti-Christmas stealing puppy drowning bro.

RE: Argenti

LBT — Sneak can totally call this androgyne sweetie! I’d say you and Mac can too, but well, fellow non-binary folks go BLOOP! together?

Sneak is deeply pleased by this and says “bloop bloop.”

So does anyone know what RulingPart is going on about, or did they just open a word salad bar or something? (Also, lulz, they think I’m a llllllady.)

Alice Sanguinaria
10 years ago

Unimaginative – Oh yeah, you forgot that we’re giving those for Kitty!Sharks and Puppy!Sharks to eat. Diabolical gynocratic plan, remember? 😉

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

RE: RulingPart

vampires, like rape culture, don’t exist.

Trololol. Sure buddy. You keep telling yourself that. There’s no social pressure on men to have lots of sex, not at ALL. There’s CERTAINLY no myth that men can’t be raped.

What a maroon.

RulingPart
RulingPart
10 years ago

I imaginative: I understand that HR ag Google either drowns your puppy OR mutilates your penis. That’s a big reason why they are The Best Firm To Work For In America. The takeaway? If you are male and get hired at Google, buy a puppy. Pro tip.

RulingPart
RulingPart
10 years ago

LBT: when you speak to your countrymen I get about 25% of it. I imagine the same holds true when you troll MRA blogs, yes? Interesting to see the other side of it. It’s like I’ve travelled to a postapocalyptic future where English has morphed into a clockwork orange style pidgin.

I showed up for a brawl and landed in a snark festival, which is fine by me. You guys… Ladies… and any LGBT’s are fun.

Ally S
10 years ago

Another douchebag mocking trigger warnings. Wonderful.

Alice Sanguinaria
10 years ago

Ally – But don’t you know? In MRA world, trigger warnings are for BABIES. REAL MEN™ don’t NEED trigger warnings! They SHUN THEM with their powerful MAN AURA™.

RulingPart
RulingPart
10 years ago

Do you honestly think that I and my fellow heterosexual men feel pressured by society to have sex to the point that rape seems like a credible option? That is so far outside of any reality that I have experienced that it staggers the imagination. Empathize with me a moment: it’s as if I told you “don’t pretend that society doesn’t pressure transgendered people to smother the elderly with pillows.” I have never known anybody to celebrate rapists. Go pro-rape in public and you (rightly) end your career. Where is this rape culture?

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

RE: RulingPart

It’s like I’ve travelled to a postapocalyptic future where English has morphed into a clockwork orange style pidgin.

Then why are you here? And I have little trouble understanding what MRAs say. It’s YOU I’m having trouble with.

Alex
10 years ago

*yawn* RulingShart is boring.

RulingPart
RulingPart
10 years ago

Ally: you just labeled me as a feminine hygiene product. Does this mean that I am gaining acceptance? And should’ve we all take a deep breath and examine the anti-fem implications of a gendered insult like “douche bag?” I’m going to call the komissar on you! Marxist trope burn! Bam!

Ally S
10 years ago

Do you honestly think that I and my fellow heterosexual men feel pressured by society to have sex to the point that rape seems like a credible option?

Why don’t you ask female-on-male rape victims that question?

Alice Sanguinaria
10 years ago

The fact that people decided to send rape threats to a woman simply because she swore at a lot of people doesn’t hint on the idea that men see rape as a form of control?

No one ever said that it’d be a good thing if Hugo Schwyzer got raped in prison?

No one has ever claimed that terrifying women is part of human’s rights activism?

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

RE: RulingPart

Do you honestly think that I and my fellow heterosexual men feel pressured by society to have sex to the point that rape seems like a credible option?

No, I don’t think that at all. I think that if men feel pressured by society to have sex, they’ll feel less safe going to someone when they’ve been raped. Seriously, you got what I said completely backwards. I was speaking that rape culture HARMS MEN.

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

RE: RulingPart

you just labeled me as a feminine hygiene product.

Oh please. You should BE so useful. A douchebag tends to WORSEN the health of the user, not help it. To call someone a douchebag isn’t anti-fem at all; douches are actively harmful to a user’s body, generally. You think you’re being slick, but you’re saying shit I’ve been hearing for years and expecting me to be impressed.

RulingPart
RulingPart
10 years ago

Ally S: you want me to find a man who has been raped by a woman and ask him if he thinks that the average heterosexual man wants to rape lesbians. I truly cannot imagine what the poor fellow would say. Maybe “please leave me alone.” Better let that sleeping dog lay where it is.

Ally S
10 years ago

Ally: you just labeled me as a feminine hygiene product. Does this mean that I am gaining acceptance? And should’ve we all take a deep breath and examine the anti-fem implications of a gendered insult like “douche bag?” I’m going to call the komissar on you! Marxist trope burn! Bam!

The origin of the word “douchebag” is what you implied, but its use isn’t gendered at all. Its intended insult is the association with feces, not the fact that it’s for women.

And look! You already said “Marxist.” That’s adorable.

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

I thought the reason douchebag was an insult is that it was a useless, harmful thing marketed to people with the idea of making them “clean.” *snort* RulingPart WISHES he were as useful as a “feminine hygiene” product. (Who came UP with that term, anyway? Just call ’em bloodrags and be done with it.)

sparky
sparky
10 years ago

WTF do puppies and Christmas have to do with the OP?

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Ally S
10 years ago

RulingPart, my point is that female-on-male rape victims suffer from rape culture. The main reason people think that men can’t be raped by women is the assumption that men are assumed to always want sex. This has happened to one of my closest family members. And that’s just one example.

LBT
LBT
10 years ago

I guess feminists are anti-Christmas? I don’t know, man, I didn’t write this guy.

RulingPart
RulingPart
10 years ago

If I am a douche bag I am by definition slick, or else I’m just a bag. I’m not expecting you to be impressed, but I am hoping. And admit it; you’ve never seen the mushroom thing played so well. Usually people jus say “you’re high on shrooms.” I added a little something. Give the patriarchal privileged oppressor devil his due.

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