And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.
Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.
Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.
A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.
Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.
This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.
Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:
I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .
Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …
I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …
In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.
I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.
With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.
TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.
Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”
Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”
Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:
Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.
And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:
Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.
Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.
Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.
This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.
I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.
This is what MRA “activism” looks like.
Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.
Does this mean that we can all send lots of really horrific and inexcusable threats to Roosh now? Or does it only apply to Redhead?
Also, I love how no matter how much we say, “No, we’re not talking about B, we’re talking about A,” people will INSIST on going, “BUT WHAT ABOUT A????”
The irony is that irl I’m very polite (I did go to boarding school after all), but I can still see why being a rude jerk is not equivalent to death threats. I thought Redhead was being kind of obnoxious, but the MRA response just ended up making her rudeness look more justified than it would otherwise have done.
(And no matter how unjustified someone’s rudeness is, you still don’t get to send them death threats, not if you’re going to try to claim any sort of moral high ground.)
Trigger Language Warning: I’m gonna say “sweetie!”
Oh, there’s plenty of extremism to go around. I think that many of you probably know that. Gina, this doesn’t apply to you.
Me contributing to it doesn’t help, though. And the response to the memorial in the recent post is sobering, I’ll admit. Not good.
Sparky, do you think that I want to punish women with rape and death? Because I am against rape and death. Your tactic is to get me to claim that I am against rape and death so that I seem to protest too much, yes? Is that why you are for forced male genital mutilation? Also drowning puppies and stealing Christmas? Because that’s not OK. This is what a pro-penis anti-Christmas stealing puppy drowning activist looks like. End the oppression, Sparky.
Hey, I like the “sweetie” thing. I assume that come the revolution we glorious androgynes can call each other sweetie to our hearts content! There will be some consolation in that. Do you have any idea what would happen to me if I dared call somebody “sweetie” at work? HR would mutilate my penis, which is what Sparky wants. So wrong, Sparky! Why can’t you see that?
Been fun, ladies. Captain Hook with the cat? I like you best of all. You seem OK.
Auggz — the bug. Equal rights for all women. Except trans* women.
TW: transphobia and rape ahead
They’re really men who want to rape us by forcing us lesbians to have sex with hem and everybody knows that penis = male and lesbians don’t have sex with dicks. Add in dox’ing, including out’ing trans* teens, and you’re getting a tip of the shit iceberg.
I too am against death! Also taxes, breathing, and the fact that the sun rises and falls every day.
Also gravity.
Gravity sucks, all right. I’m also philosophically opposed to freezing rain.
Winter. I don’t agree with it and I don’t think it should be allowed.
Also pollen. Fucking pollen, what is it for?
LBT — Sneak can totally call this androgyne sweetie! I’d say you and Mac can too, but well, fellow non-binary folks go BLOOP! together?
RulingPart — just where did you ever get the idea we’re all ladies? In fact, I’m fairly sure most of the cis women here don’t like being called ladies. But I’m entirely sure not everyone replying to you is a cis woman.
Fruit. Mangos. Pollen is for making baby mangos, therefore it’s evil. QED
Ah, but it also makes sweet, sweet honey. Oh look, back to sweetie!
Hey, don’t go dissing death, I need it to get back home permanently. Especially since I need to check if Sir’s still got both hands.
WTF was that about Captain Hook and HR mutilating penises?
Also, who’s Gina?
I love the linguistic incompetence of MRAs, I really do. It provides endless lulz.
Captain Hook was a variation on the Guy Fox thing – aka people who’ve no idea who’s in my gravatar. This one’s amusing, because it’s a roundabout family reference, though trollboy wouldn’t know that.
Gina’s either a typo for Bina or that person who gets the tingles.
Cassandra, anyone who is against breathing and sunlight is pro-death.
Or a vampire. Or sarcastic.
But probably a vampire.
Or a sarcastic vampire.
Obviously HR will punish men by castration for defying the gynocracy, right???
MRA language fail – the gift that keeps on giving.
Sir calls me “my lady” all the time, but that’s just habit. 🙂
Right now I feel like I’ve turned into the opposite of a vampire, since it’s so cold at night that I don’t want to go outside unless the sun is out.
Argenti: huh? Look, you can’t just go and eat any old mushroom. Buy yourself a field guide and you’ll be fine. Trigger Warning: Lee Fields
When I’m spouting non sequiturs after a shroom binge I like to put on some shades, sit in my favorite easy chair, play Lee Fields and the expressions and mellow out. Then I like to ask myself “what are the odds that the average heterosexual man really wants to rape lesbians?” The answer is “why do I worry about vast social conspiracies which don’t exist?”
You’ll need to swap vampire for werewolf and grow some lovely thick fur. Or just set a new vampire fashion for long black furry cloaks.
Obviously. I was just checking on the Labour Federation website the other day, and the rules have been updated so that, for every situation, men must be castrated, and women must be given all their stuff. Except their ‘nads, cuz nobody wants those once they’re removed.
Probably. There may be somebody out there who’d want them, but I can’t imagine for what.
Argenti: got me on the vampire thing, except that vampires, like rape culture, don’t exist.