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Canadian feminist activist receives death threats and other abuse after being targeted by Men’s Rights Activists

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And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.

Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.

Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.

A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running  an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.

Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.

This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.

Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:

I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .

Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …

I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …

In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.

I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.

With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.

TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.

Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”

REDHFBmusbroDeaththreatANON

Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”

REDHtumbmessDOXanonRedHtumblraddressANON

Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:

REDHTumbbakedThreatANON

Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.

REDHytheraccountDannyANON2

And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:

REDHYTmessGagANON

Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.

redhinfopostedrambo2

Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.

REDHYTcheesegraterANON

REDHYTnewbulletANONREDHYTnewequalanonREDHYTnewkitchenpunchanon

redhytnewoad2anonREDHYTnewpunchedanonREDHYTnewtitsanonREDHYTnewpunchcuntanonREDHYTnewwouldhavepunchanonREDHYTnewpunchrapeanon REDHYTnewpunchagainanonREDHYTnewripjawanon REDHYTsaudiarabiaANON

REDHYTslitthroatANON

REDHYTneedstodieANONUSETHISONEREDHYTdoublepenANONREDHYTpunchANONREDHytgetrapedANONREDHYTwantpunchANONREDHYTshovedANONREDHYTfemdeserveANONREDHYTanotherpunchANONREDHyTpenisANON

Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.

This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.

I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments  linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.

This is what MRA “activism” looks like.

Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.

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Quackers
Quackers
11 years ago

Do you have a link to this? Until then, you’re full of it.

http://www.somethingawful.com/d/weekend-web/spearhead-forum-misandry.php?page=7

Right here you piece of shit…but lemme guess, not all MRAs are like that? NAMRAALT? why don’t you have a look at the rest of the thread too, that shit was, for many of us, our first introduction to MRAs and the manosphere.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Hugs, bahumbugi, if they’re wanted. Sleep well.

Marie
11 years ago

@bahumbugi

Internet hugs if you want them 🙁 Rough week.

Shiraz
Shiraz
11 years ago

David, this:

“Ah, thebionicmommy, I see your mistake. You think women have the right to speak.”

Please? I think a banning is in order.

freemage
11 years ago

http://manboobz.com/2013/04/15/canadian-feminist-activist-receives-death-threats-and-other-abuse-after-being-targeted-by-mens-rights-activists/comment-page-14/#comment-287044

Since you seem to have missed it, or at least claim to have, Clint, you proven, libelous, lying, shit-spewing weasel-fucker.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

So, perma moron, you’re an MRA who tells us how reasonable MRAs are but you’ve never seen that shit? Funny, I’ve seen it here without even needing to go to the malware, mal-user sites you’re so fond of. You haven’t given one single example of the “reasonable” MRA talking points or sites you pretend exist. No MRA troll here ever has.

So tell us, what’s this “equality” you think men are missing out on, hmm? What benefits has society systematically and systemically denied men on the basis of being men? Where are straight cis men as a class having to defend things like bodily autonomy or the right to vote or the right to have sex only when they want to, not when it is demanded of them?

You’re beneath contempt, and my contempt can reach down a long way.

Gametime
11 years ago

Do you have a link to this? Until then, you’re full of it.

http://www.somethingawful.com/d/weekend-web/spearhead-forum-misandry.php?page=7

Actually just one MRA, but there’s the source.

And could you do me a favor and quote some of the SRS lines that you found “hateful” to me? Because I skimmed that long-ass link you provided and I’m not seeing the hate.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Shiraz, I said that “You think women have the right to speak” in sarcasm, just making sure you know that. (Though I do think that is behind what our resident MRAs are so upset about, because if a dude said STFU to them it would be like “Well the internet is pretty rough and tumble.”)

Marie
11 years ago

And, going to bed now before I get drawn into troll again. G’night for real this time, manboobzers.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Night, Marie. Sweet dreams of spanakopita!

Gametime
11 years ago

As an experiment, I just visited r/mensrights to see what they’re talking about these days, these fine reasonable men. Top discussion: “Stop child abuse.” Well, I think to myself, that’s encouraging! No reasonable person could ever use such a topic as a crude instrument to advance their own hateful ideology!

… and then I click on it and realize the post is about a mockup of those “stop rape” posters, edited to blame mothers for child abuse and offer sarcastic tips to help mothers stop abusing their children.

Sigh.

Shiraz
Shiraz
11 years ago

Ah, I get you, cloudiah. No worries. I still want a ban.

katz
11 years ago
kirbywarp
kirbywarp
11 years ago

Oi, was reading through SRSSucks. Take a look at this comment. Apparently, SRS is so stupid as to think that silly things are cultural appropriation. Click every link, and you’ll see…

You’ll see…

… You’ll see very reasonable dialogue in the comments, in most cases telling the op that they’re worrying to much overall, but recognizing how cultural appropraition works. And then a crosspost to SRSMythos about how silly the op I linked to was.

*smacks head*

Kittehserf
11 years ago

Niters, Marie!

Gametime, hi, been a while! 🙂 Thanks for finding that link.

Quackers
Quackers
11 years ago

It’s always an excuse for them isn’t it? they can’t ever admit it when they are just plain wrong about something. I’m just trying to imagine what MRAs would do if this situation happened to them, they’d blow a fucking gasket. Regardless of what happens to a woman be it rape or harassment, they always did something to ask for it. Even if it’s just expressing an opinion they don’t like.

What disgusting creeps. I also vote for the banhammer.

Fade
Fade
11 years ago

@quackers

seconding. They’re misogynistic, boring, dishonest, and don’t actually bother to engage in the conversation. I could get more stimulating conversation out of my sister’s guinea pigs.

bagelsan
bagelsan
11 years ago

Wheek wheek. Wheek? WHEEEEEK.

bagelsan
bagelsan
11 years ago

There, I just wrote a comment a thousand times less nonsensical than our boring-ass trolls’.

Fade
Fade
11 years ago

@Bagelsan

And I d’awwwed at the wheeking, so it functioned as a pick me up, too! XD

clintiskeen
11 years ago

Sticks and stones, Freemage.

The point still remains the same. She did more than just say fuck to people who interrupted her. She’s still wrong. You can’t both have 0 tolerance to harassment as someone previously said and also support big red’s actions.

I don’t agree with MRAs, but people like you are why they exist, what gives them power, and why there will be more of them in the future

katz
11 years ago

I don’t agree with MRAs, but people like you are why they exist, what gives them power, and why there will be more of them in the future

And people like them are why Mbz exists, what gives it power, and why there will be more from it in the future! Shall I link to the ouroboros again?

Fade
Fade
11 years ago

Shorter clintshit:

It’s your protesting of rape and death threats that gives birth to groups who make rape and death threats!

Gametime
11 years ago

Hi, Kitteh, it has! Was pretty busy with law school applications for a while there. It’s oddly refreshing to come back and see that, while the troll-faces might be new, the bloviating, pontificating nonsense is the same as ever.

@Kirby: What really strikes me about that is that, even if that was represented totally accurately by SRSSucks and was an excellent example of how SRS operates, the worst it would say about them is that they overreact. So… on the one hand you have SRS calling people out for saying hateful, oppressive things, and on the other you have SRSSucks calling out SRS for… overreacting a little bit.

I mean, even if SRSSucks wasn’t being grossly dishonest, that’d be a pretty flimsy basis for criticism.

bagelsan
bagelsan
11 years ago

The point still remains the same.

I’m pretty sure the “point” is that you’re a fucking dumbass who doesn’t know he’s lost. Go fuck a pinecone.

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