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Canadian feminist activist receives death threats and other abuse after being targeted by Men’s Rights Activists

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And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.

Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.

Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.

A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running  an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.

Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.

This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.

Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:

I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .

Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …

I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …

In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.

I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.

With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.

TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.

Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”

REDHFBmusbroDeaththreatANON

Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”

REDHtumbmessDOXanonRedHtumblraddressANON

Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:

REDHTumbbakedThreatANON

Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.

REDHytheraccountDannyANON2

And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:

REDHYTmessGagANON

Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.

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Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.

REDHYTcheesegraterANON

REDHYTnewbulletANONREDHYTnewequalanonREDHYTnewkitchenpunchanon

redhytnewoad2anonREDHYTnewpunchedanonREDHYTnewtitsanonREDHYTnewpunchcuntanonREDHYTnewwouldhavepunchanonREDHYTnewpunchrapeanon REDHYTnewpunchagainanonREDHYTnewripjawanon REDHYTsaudiarabiaANON

REDHYTslitthroatANON

REDHYTneedstodieANONUSETHISONEREDHYTdoublepenANONREDHYTpunchANONREDHytgetrapedANONREDHYTwantpunchANONREDHYTshovedANONREDHYTfemdeserveANONREDHYTanotherpunchANONREDHyTpenisANON

Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.

This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.

I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments  linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.

This is what MRA “activism” looks like.

Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.

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cloudiah
11 years ago

Racism is an organization. Misogyny is a protected class of persons.

You heard it here first, folks.

Marie
11 years ago

I’d say condoning hatred is tantamount to practicing hostility.

………………………………………………………………………………….

haha. no.

Lack of perspective time again.

Marie
11 years ago

Racism is an organization. Misogyny is a protected class of persons.

You heard it here first, folks.

what we learn from trolls 😉

BlackBloc (@XBlackBlocX)

Still waiting on that “hate white men” thing.

Pro-Equality MRA
Pro-Equality MRA
11 years ago

“They pretend to hate straight white men”

They don’t pretend, they do.

“because everywhere else in the world hates on non-SWASCM (straight white able STEM cis men, I think) folks.”

Well, I think this is probably the justification for a lot of hate groups.

“And they get called a hate group because of it. Kinda playing into their hands right there.”

Well, yes. That would be because they are, by definition, a hate group. Now, the hate group can justify its existence through whatever convoluted reasoning, but it’s still a hate group.

kirbywarp
kirbywarp
11 years ago

@Marie:

Also, it looks like a lot of posts are lacking context, or are incomplete texts. I mean that they seem to be incomplete thoughts in and of themselves.

cloudiah
11 years ago

PEM seems to be here just to make MRAs look stupid. Dude, you do realize that your screencaps from SRS don’t actually show what you say they do?

Shiraz
Shiraz
11 years ago

This is a kid we’re debating with, right?

BlackBloc (@XBlackBlocX)

I do not see hate in that link. I see hilarity.

cloudiah
11 years ago

“Hate all white men” = criticizing some men for some things, rightly or wrongly. I am learning so many things from PEM. 😀

Marie
11 years ago

Seriously, ‘pro equality’ I’m going to say this again because you’ve fucking ignored it time after time again.

We are on a thread where the mra are threatening someone with DEATH THREATS AND HARRASMENT and your pathetic little ass is whining about someone FUCKING QUOTING YOU? Get some fucking perspective.

Fade
Fade
11 years ago

@BLackbloc

Yeah, I didn’t even see if those random conversations came from SRS and even if they did from the random bboring crap I glimpsed I did not see any straight white men hate.. but maybe that’s cuz my sister summarized it for me and said it was random boring crap

clintiskeen
11 years ago

Can anyone at least agree that “The Redhead” harassed the men?

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Wow, PEM, you’re one logic fail after another. Isn’t it past your bedtime?

Fade
Fade
11 years ago

@Marie

quoting mras when they say dispicable things is hate.

Marie
11 years ago

Also, it looks like a lot of posts are lacking context, or are incomplete texts. I mean that they seem to be incomplete thoughts in and of themselves.

Yeah. I was just sort of taking it on face value that supposedly they were all the context (partly cuz bored, partly cuz sleepy not thinking). But even so nothing seemed like hate-incite-y.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

No, Clint she did not harass the men. Quit whining.

Marie
11 years ago

Can anyone at least agree that “The Redhead” harassed the men?

No.

Pro-Equality MRA
Pro-Equality MRA
11 years ago

“I do not see hate in that link. I see hilarity.”

Then I think you’re an idiot.

“Wow, PEM, you’re one logic fail after another.”

Actually, I’m not. And I’m 33 years old, thank you.

Fade
Fade
11 years ago

no, clintshit. you have not provided sufficient proof. She was protesting outside a misogynistic meeting, which according to the more educated than me commenters here is something you can do in canada.

Marie
11 years ago

Actually, I’m not. And I’m 33 years old, thank you.

ok…not relevant to your logic fail but whatever.

Aaliyah
11 years ago

There are some hateful sayings in that link, but most of them have been down-voted a lot and they aren’t even the majority. Fail.

Fade
Fade
11 years ago

even if your 33 you’re still ignorant and annoying

and I am 18 years old, thank you

BlackBloc (@XBlackBlocX)

Nope. The Redhead protested, legitimately, an hate group gathering on her campus. You should have seen how we dealt with Human Life International in Montreal if you think that’s “harassment”.

Marie
11 years ago

@aaliyah

There are some hateful sayings in that link, but most of them have been down-voted a lot and they aren’t even the majority. Fail.

Ah. I guess I must have missed them. Probably shouldn’t be on this late…

but trolls…

::om nom nom::

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