And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.
Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.
Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.
A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.
Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.
This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.
Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:
I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .
Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …
I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …
In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.
I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.
With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.
TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.
Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”
Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”
Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:
Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.
And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:
Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.
Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.
Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.
This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.
I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.
This is what MRA “activism” looks like.
Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.
MRAs: Doing their damnedest to claim ALL the spots under “Victim-Blaming Asshats” on Jeopardy.
MRAS fight for freedom by harassing someone who appeared at protest one time. No actual work need apply.
RE: Mark Jones
What did she say about male suicide?
Also, one woman on a Youtube video saying something asinine != hundreds of death and rape threats. Sense of proportion, yes?
Aaand this is why I’ve been reluctant to be public online. I haven’t been trolled much, but urgh…
RE: freemage
That slug is awesome and helps me feel better. (I’ve had a VERY busy week. A good week, but exhaustingly busy, so I’m feeling blurgh. On the plus side, I made $150!)
“,.. confused. Did she say anything about male suicide?
Also, fuck you and your lack of basic human empathy.”
Yes, her response (as captured on video and shown on youtube) to the question about what’s being done to address the male suicide issue was to start singing “cry me a river” in a falsetto voice in a mocking tone.
So much for empathy.
Random rape, catcalls etc. are ways of raising the general fear level so women feel and behave like mice.
Reading this made me very sad. Thanks for the good people who support her.
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Well I saw this.
What are MRAs doing about male suicide? Fuckall from what I can see. What’s wrong, too busy harassing women?
RE: Mark Jones
…soooo, this totally justifies hundreds of death and rape threats. I see. Obviously you have a very good point and I shall now totally rethink all of this.
Man, hell hath no fury like a bruised ego.
Yes, and this opinion justifies the whole page full of vile shit on ever single piece of social media she has….
ARE YOU SHITTING ME?!?!??!
Doug silver spoon-fed: is seriously the non-existent draft your biggest concern in life? Get over it. There is no fucking draft anymore. Are you going to go cry about the titanic now? Other people in this world have real threats. Like the woman in the post who is getting real fuckin death threats today! A more real, and immediate concern, unlike the draft which pretty much doesn’t fucking exist anymore. And if you go and wank-cry that men at forced to in wars blah blah… At least the men were given fucking guns, unlike the women and children casualties in war-torn parts of the world, who were/are given nothing for defense. Fuck sakes you’re an ignorant asshole. STFU.
Mark: shove it. I’m not being nice today. Fuck you, you ignorant fuck who uses the misfortune of others for your own gain. You don’t give a shit about suicides, male or female. You only want to use it as a beating stick. Feminists care about all suicide victims and to claim they are not is an outright lie. Especially since many suicide victims are trans, lgbt, bullied, victims of abuse… Many of which have connections to problems with patriarchy and to deny this is just being disingenuous .
Um, does anyone who’s not an unreliable source like Mark Jones have anything to say about this?
Because I can definitely see someone being like “Well, women are privileged because Male Suicide” then I’d be like “cry me a fucking river” because they clearly don’t understand anything.
You. Do. Not. Have. Any. It’s not about whether she does. It’s about YOU not having any for the completely out-of-proportion response.
Jeez, I thought MRAs thought men were smarter than women. You’re sure not helping your cause, buddy.
So Mark Jones is bravely defending those who are threatening to rape and gut her! Because that is totally a rational response!
MRAS are totally real activists!
They just specialize in sending threats to home addresses and trying to get women raped and killed.
Because that is totally how true activism is done.
Forgive typos all. I am so many levels of pissed off at these mra shit heads right now. I have literally no sympathy f
RE: hellkell
Didn’t we just have some MRA troll a while ago saying that men just need to man up and not be depressed or suicidal anymore? Yeah, he really impressed me, that one.
The appropriate response for someone showing a marked lack of empathy is to say this “That is a terrible way to react to someone suffering. You should be ashamed that is the way you think of someone who is depressed.”
Not a death threat, rape threat or other disgusting comments.
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@Mark Jones
What I see in the video is people screaming at each other about how many subjects? Subjects that have been addressed again and again and then misused by MRA to derail because they don’t care enough to actually inform themselves? A woman trying to get one sentence without being yelled into silence? Yeah, ‘cry me a fucking river’ would be my response to that, too.
No wonder people call MRAs the abuser lobby. Like any abusive partner, they use any minor justification to pile on disproportionate punishment.
Geez, princessbonnon, you think MRAS should not be horrible people? That is misandry! How dare you suggest they actually spend one moment actually caring about men who are depressed and commit suicide! MRAS need to spend much more time threatening to rape women in order for justice to be done!
Mark Jones said so!
“…soooo, this totally justifies hundreds of death and rape threats. I see. Obviously you have a very good point and I shall now totally rethink all of this.”
This is a non sequitur. I never justified or defended any of the responses or threats, nor did I comment on whether I felt the response was out of proportion, I merely stated my indifference towards her predicament, a similar indifference she feels towards males who commit suicide.
Do all commenters here have trouble understanding the English language?
No Mark, only you have trouble understanding the English language.
** De-lurks to +1 the support for Redhead **
So, Mark, what are you doing about the male suicide rate?
Be aware that while you’re answering, I’m going to interrupt you a dozen times to ask you to address what I want to talk about instead. You’re not allowed to get mad, though, or I’ll dox you and make sure you get hundreds of threats to yourself and your family.
(I am genuinely interested in what you’re doing about the male suicide rate, though, since you seem to think the “wrong” answer is grounds for large-scale harassment)
@Leftwingfox
QFT. Also, your icon makes me giggle like a fool every time.
Oh I know, it is misandry to expect someone to act like a decent human being. I haz a shamed.
This comment is full of so much crap it could be used as part of an episode of that stupid Penn and Teller show.