And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.
Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.
Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.
A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.
Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.
This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.
Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:
I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .
Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …
I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …
In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.
I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.
With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.
TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.
Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”
Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”
Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:
Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.
And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:
Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.
Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.
Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.
This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.
I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.
This is what MRA “activism” looks like.
Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.
TTF: I wasn’t talking about the right to protest or Canada really, except to point out to Clint that US laws don’t apply there. So calm down.
Also, I don’t think talking so loudly a speaker can’t be heard is a violation of your charter rights. Neither is disrupting a speech by pulling a fire alarm.
::channels clint::
The burden of proof is not on me, even though I’m the one who linked to the video trying to prove something
::done channeling::
Clint, you seem angry and overly emotional. (As men are so fond of saying to women.)
Bear in mind that this is David Futrelle’s blog, and he seems just fine with hellkell expressing her opinions here as he’s never banned her. I know you seem to have a problem with women expressing themselves, but the thing is, hellkell has the right to tell you she thinks you should STFU.
Or is that harassing you?
@clintiskeen:
No you haven’t, which is my point. You claim that her “crime” is not simply that she was “not exactly polite.” According to the video in the op, that is exactly what her “crime” was, and you have not shown otherwise.
What you have done is bring up a video of an unrelated event where she is part of a protesting group where a fire alarm is pulled. If you show that people are responding to that event, then you have shown that people think her “crime” is more than just being impolite. You have not done so.
Heck, I know if MRAs were at my school, I would protest.
But probably behind a mask because you know, MRAs would want to threaten me.
Hey, maybe we can get equalist masks for that!
Yeah, in your dreams you did. 😀
@fade
I should design cool feminist masks XD Only they’d be really simplistic cuz I
suck at making masks look coolI mean, something about style! It just looks better that way. /rambles@Fade:
If you are referencing legend of korra… YAY! I UNDERSTOOD THAT REFERENCE! Such a good show, so sad there’s only one season so far.
@ Hellkell- I wasn’t arguing, just talking. I feel really bad about that time I was being an asshole. Like, really bad. If I wore out my welcome I get it, but I really hope I didn’t.
@kirbywarp
I have all the disappointments about legend of korra. Dang love triangles >:(
Actually, I preffered the original series. But I am still waiting for the second season…
And your I understood that reference reminded me of this I understood that reference
@ Time travelling fool
I don’t think you wore out your welcome (though I was not partaking in that thread, just lurking). I mean, I don’t think anyone minds people messing up so long as they apologize and then don’t do it again.
TTF: we’re cool, but this is not the first time you’ve jumped on me without reading.
So true, Clint. So why do you keep building your houses on shit?
Ooh, let’s throw a misandry party! I’ll bring wine flavored with the tears of our vanquished enemies. Can someone bring a cheese plate?
Bitter cheese, cloudiah?
Can the cheese have feta? Three out of the five people I know who adore that cheese are women, and if women like it it must be misandric, right?
*mouth waters*
FEEEEETTAAA
@cloudiah
I could bring brie. Or feta, but I’d always be tempted to make something with the feta.
@Marie:
That’s fair, that kinda irritated me too, though I was impressed that the characters were unusually blunt in their interactions. Like, korra actually did come out and say “ireallylikeyouandithinkweshouldgoout.” Hooray for actually strong female characters (as far as I know anyway).
@Fade:
I get that too. I did like the original series a ton, probably more than the new one. The new one is going in a completely different direction, though, so I’m finding it hard to really compare the two.
And to be fair, I didn’t understand the reference to your “I understood that reference,” but from now on I will understand that reference. … Yeah.
Feta, while not bitter, is I think an acceptable cheese for a misandry party. Now we need a hot dish — any suggestions?
I dunno about the hot dish, but we’re having bon-bons for dessert.
that’s a good point 🙂 I’ve been so busy being disapointed I didn’t notice the good things. Not a huge deal for me though, I never was the biggest avatar fan, but yeah for blunt character interactions. Kinda how I have to do my whole life, only way I can really articulate my feelings + get along well XD
I’ll bring the hard chairs.
A hot dish…I’ve been craving some kind of kebabs recently, although I know how to make spanakopita… IN TRIANGLES! Is that misandry?
I’ll also bring scented fucking candles.