And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.
Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.
Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.
A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.
Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.
This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.
Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:
I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .
Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …
I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …
In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.
I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.
With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.
TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.
Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”
Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”
Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:
Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.
And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:
Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.
Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.
Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.
This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.
I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.
This is what MRA “activism” looks like.
Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.
The worst part of this is that because this is online, a lot of it isn’t actually breaking the law in Canada. Ever since Harper made internet and phone communication exempt from the hate speech laws, this shit has become easier for people.
Wait, hate speech doesn’t count if you do it over the internet?
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WTF
Well, the death threats are still illegal, at least I hope they are.
I’d say I’m glad I don’t live in Canada, but I bet the hate speech laws in the US are even worse because FREEEDOM OF SPEECH!!eleventy
And yeah, Stephen Harper in his authoritarian social conservative glory mandated that hate speech laws no longer apply to the internet. Our dear glorious leader everyone.
“This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.”
Very funny Mr. Futrelle. First off, she did know that she was getting videotaped, and she did protest at a CAFE event where people have gotten doxxed before. There exists another video of her up on YouTube at another protest about a year ago. She does engage in commentary there. Consequently, she almost surely knew… or at least had to anticipate… her reading of Lindy West would end up on YouTube. Again, that she might get doxxed also comes as reasonable to anticipate, given the doxxing of people at the Warren Farrell protest in November. I don’t like the violent comments that some have directed at her, but that’s nothing new for very visible protestors, is it?
Now I will mock you Mr. Futrelle.
Apparently your commentary on Men’s Human Rights Activism consists of just looking at part of the picture so you can mock the Men’s Human Rights Movement. It must be so nice to get so many readers for doing so little work! I envy you, Mr. Futrelle, you’re my hero in commenting on the Men’s Human Rights Movement, because you’ve got such a big audience!!!!
More seriously, the National Coalition for Men has recently sued the U. S. Selective Service System: http://ncfm.org/2013/04/action/ncfm-sues-selective-service-for-requiring-only-men-to-register-for-the-draft/ Also, you can find Dan Perrins at an intactivist protest here: http://ncfm.org/2013/04/action/ncfm-sues-selective-service-for-requiring-only-men-to-register-for-the-draft/ And then there’s the issue of family courts…
I see your Stephen Harper and raise you One Arizona State Legislature (where one of the members recently told people to raise their guns and shoot them into the air.)
So she should’ve known that MRAs want to silence and intimidate any woman who doesn’t agree with them? And then let them?
Wow, you sound like a reasonable human being and not a misogynistic troll
/sorry if I’m pissing of anyone (not misogynistic) today, I’m just cranky due to being sick and this… happening so much.
I thought mocking was supposed to be funny.
I mean David sometimes is not able to be super funny because the subject matter is so nasty but generally he manages to frame things in an amusing way.
What Doug Spoonwood has not done is be funny. Mr. Spoonwood has managed to beat up his exclamation point key a lot though. I suppose that is funny if you think beating keys is funny.
First post — worst impression of a feminist, EVER.
And this, the stupid actually hurts:
“One man’s terrorist is another man’s freedom- fighter. And feminists always claimed to seek equality after all.”
What? Threatening her is making her equal? Your’re too stupid to post here, son.
Gotta say, a society in which anyone attending a political protest should expect to receive rape and death threats is not a society that I want no matter who the targets might be.
Redhead, if you read this, I support you. Be safe please!
I’m sorry Mr. Spoonwood but how does threatening the safety of a human being got anything to do with what you fight for? We all want equality, why can’t we work together for it an not resort to doxxing and harassment of people who don’t deserve it?
Doug Spoonwood, you are being neither eloquent, or humorous. You lose, please leave.
1) Even if she knew it was a possibility, that doesn’t make the doxxing and harassment OK, asshole
2) Do you really think any given protester at an event has a reasonable expectation of becoming the target of HUNDREDS of threats, all over their social media accounts? Talk about a chilling effect.
You just don’t think they’re terribly important
Which I notice you’ve declined to address. Probably because it’s fucking weaksauce. Meanwhile, feminists have been opposed to the male-only draft for decades, and quite a few of us see the male circumcision issue as part of our overall quest for individual bodily autonomy (if maybe not a priority in the face of some other issues), so once again, your super-important human rights movement proves that its legitimate grievances don’t actually distinguish it from it hated enemy, FEMINISM.
Doug: so women should just expect rape and death threats every time they speak up? FUCK YOU.
@Shiraz
Well, yeah. It’s Abnoy.
I will respond to her concerns with the same words she used in response to the issue of male suicide; “cry me a river”.
,.. confused. Did she say anything about male suicide?
Also, fuck you and your lack of basic human empathy.
A reblogué ceci sur Au courant and commented:
Being doxxed. OK, now I know how it’s called. Zionists do it too, by the way.
Oh, great. All the MRA asswipes are oozing out of the woodwork.
MRAs: rape and death threats come standard, human decency does not come at all.
@Hellkell
This is actually the most MRAs I’ve seen in the comments here by far.
*gets a buck of water and some ammonia* I swear I had just cleaned this last week…
Probably has something to do with the fact that they’re being objectively shitty people right now, so they feel they have to get defensive. Most of the time, they could easily be dismissed as “Oh, look at those silly MRAs, living in their fantasy world again.”
Not that they SHOULD be, but they COULD be.