And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.
Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.
Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.
A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.
Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.
This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.
Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:
I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .
Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …
I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …
In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.
I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.
With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.
TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.
Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”
Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”
Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:
Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.
And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:
Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.
Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.
Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.
This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.
I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.
This is what MRA “activism” looks like.
Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.
Ugh, trust me, if you’re already in a negative state of mind you don’t want to read about the open source boob project right now, unless you think that seeing how thoroughly the originators ended up backing down might make you feel better.
@bahumbugi
Internet hugs if wanted. (I feel like I’m offering those a lot today, but they also seem more needed). Sometimes I do that whole numb thing too, though normally the more I hear about it the less numb it is, but I don’t know if that’s a good thing, since there are so many other bad emotions then. Just rambling about it. I think the times I feel worse about it is when I hear something bad happened and I just kinda nod and numb over it and when I hear about it a couple days/ weeks later I almost thought it was a dream and then I’m like ‘f- I hate people.’
And that didn’t make any sense, so I probably should go to bed…goodnight, if I can refrain from posting longer.
@ Marie – hugs always accepted.
@ Cassandra – I’m curious though if it’s a coding/developer/programmer-related misogyny thing. My partner is a programmar and was reading programmers being dicks, and I’d like to pass it on to him if it’s related to that. Especially if they backed down originally. But I guess I can find it on my own.
Still don’t quite understand why people don’t declare things as terrorism. If it’s a violent spectacle intended to hurt people and mainly to frighten them…why isn’t this terrorism? It has to have a specific “agenda” according to…who? Just baffles me. I’m really sleepy now and should relax.
It happened at a mixed fandom/Linux convention, so yeah, the name isn’t an accident. The implications are exactly what they sound like. Info here.
http://geekfeminism.wikia.com/wiki/Open_Source_Boob_Project
And the asshole whose colossally tactless initial post brought the whole thing to light’s comments here.
http://theferrett.livejournal.com/1087686.html
Robotarmygeneral, welcome and thank you for the kittieeeeeeeeeee! Looks just like my Hadji did at that age … well, with more fur. Hadj was a bit deficient hair-wise then. 😀
Oh my god. So much awfulness…
My heart goes out to everyone affected by what happened at Boston. And to the Redhead Lady for what was done to her.
http://cdn.homedit.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/58.jpg
This doxxing and threatening of one protester is scary as hell. It’s why my partner doesn’t like my even logging on here, much less blogging. She’s afraid some cracked MRA is going to go after me. Well, that is their aim, isn’t it? To chill, to silence, to show those uppity feminists who’s boss! The scarier they get, the angrier I get. What a bunch of bullies! Today I have been having fantasies of posting my address just so I can meet them at the door with a shotgun (which I don’t own BTW.). Only a fantasy I assure you! Now it’s time to fix myself a tasty adult beverage and watch this week’s episode of “Game of Thrones” (so I can vicariously strike down all the villains).
My five-second rendition of a dog-eared clown horn.
That reminds me of the Eater of Socks from Hogfather. 🙂
And, of course, the Mens Rights subreddit is already denying MRAs had anything to do with this shit…
http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1cfdga/apparently_mra_is_now_responsible_for_the_entire/
God, I had no idea the MRAs were slithering off of Reddit and into Toronto Universities. Or anywhere outdoors.
I think this woman’s list, had she been allowed to read it in entirety, would have been a shining beacon of common sense in that sea of gorrila-poop that is an MRA rally.
Yonkers, katz, that is an awesome dog-earred (sic) clown horn.
I passed along the supportive messages some of you sent me for the red-haired activist, and she wanted me to pass this message along to you:
Wow. She sounds resilient, strong and pissed-off. That’s so awesome, not letting the bastards grind her down. Stay strong, Redhead.
Yay, Redhead! Stay strong!
And unfortunate side-affect of refreshing this page is that I keep reading the hateful comments above. One asshole posted, “Feminists should be punished with rape!” Wow, I’m trying not to be cynical, but christ. *shakes head*
If anyone wants to read about love (y’know, that thing MRAs know nothing of) I’ve just done a new blog post.
(NB I do talk about sexytimes at the end, because I’m sick of baulking or feeling coy about them in my own damn blog.)
Speaking of MRAs, I was just arguing with some dude who thinks that a woman shouldn’t be allowed to revoke her consent during sex. I’m not going to bother responding to him as he has never shown himself to be considerate of rape victims or vehemently opposed to rape culture. After all, he’s also argued that marital rape isn’t a thing and that women who make false accusations of rape deserved to be raped by the people they accused.
Gross. Was this in bodyspace or online?
Please tell redhead she’s my kinda gal. Reading her words makes ME feel stronger too. Bravissima bella!
Online. I don’t know what I’d do if I encountered him in bodyspace.
Oh sorry, duh – online is clear when you said you’re not going to bother responding to him. ::slaps forehead::
Here’s what he said:
And here’s a link to the full thread. Warning: it’s awful.
In case it’s not obvious, I’m the one with the grey Botan avatar.
Umm…warning.
“”If someone continues to penetrate another person who is no longer consenting, then that person is committing rape.”
Not always. In some places an individual can’t rescind consent.”
Disgustingly, that’s true. Which I know because I debated pressing charges until realizing I’d be a test case for exactly that. So yeah, if we could make that legally rape, that’d be awesome.
So yeah, logically, ethically, that’s fucking rape (psych #1 of the current round said as much even). Legally…not always and where it is rape…argggghhhh. If your laws include how long after “stop” the stopping can wait before it becomes rape, you’re doing law wrong.