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Canadian feminist activist receives death threats and other abuse after being targeted by Men’s Rights Activists

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And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.

Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.

Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.

A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running  an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.

Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.

This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.

Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:

I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .

Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …

I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …

In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.

I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.

With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.

TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.

Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”

REDHFBmusbroDeaththreatANON

Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”

REDHtumbmessDOXanonRedHtumblraddressANON

Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:

REDHTumbbakedThreatANON

Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.

REDHytheraccountDannyANON2

And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:

REDHYTmessGagANON

Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.

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Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.

REDHYTcheesegraterANON

REDHYTnewbulletANONREDHYTnewequalanonREDHYTnewkitchenpunchanon

redhytnewoad2anonREDHYTnewpunchedanonREDHYTnewtitsanonREDHYTnewpunchcuntanonREDHYTnewwouldhavepunchanonREDHYTnewpunchrapeanon REDHYTnewpunchagainanonREDHYTnewripjawanon REDHYTsaudiarabiaANON

REDHYTslitthroatANON

REDHYTneedstodieANONUSETHISONEREDHYTdoublepenANONREDHYTpunchANONREDHytgetrapedANONREDHYTwantpunchANONREDHYTshovedANONREDHYTfemdeserveANONREDHYTanotherpunchANONREDHyTpenisANON

Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.

This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.

I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments  linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.

This is what MRA “activism” looks like.

Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.

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LBT
LBT
11 years ago

RE: Amatyultare

That just made the kids go @_@ and make goo-goo noises at it. Mega-adorable.

Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
11 years ago

Holy crap! All the best to those who are worried about loved ones.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

“(And sadly disappointed that the trolls can’t even shut up for a bombing.)”

I predict that it won’t take long before the MRAs are cheering that women have been hurt or killed in the Boston bombing.

Buntzums
Buntzums
11 years ago

Watching this unfold is frightening because DannyBMRA is putting money on the table he said in a tweet down for CAFE, so I feel like the MRA’s are going to end up running this campus group. It’s disturbing CAFE are not making a statement about this but I guess it suits their needs?

Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
11 years ago

@ Kittehserf – That’s assuming that women have been hurt. If not, it’s clearly misandry.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

True, Sir Bodsworth, true.

starskita
starskita
11 years ago

quote from cbsnews.com:

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-201_162-57579671/deadly-bombs-rock-boston-marathon/

“Boston Children’s Hospital told CBS News that they are treating 10 patients, including a 2-year-old-boy with a head injury and a 9-year-old girl with leg trauma.”

Female persons were definitely hurt.

In the snark mode, are 9-year-olds woman enough for MRAs to cheer for their injuries?

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I feel like I keep reading Buntzum’s stream of consciousness and I need a translator, or maybe whatever drugs zie is on.

Emilygoddess
Emilygoddess
11 years ago

Thanks everyone! Afaik everyone I know here is ok, and I’m glad I had my phone on me at work because everyone was checking in when the news broke – I hate to think of my parents worrying all night.

We haven’t seen any 4-legged victims tonight, so that’s a little bit of good news.

I just keep thinking how the forum thread for Bostonian boozers calls us ‘BoMbz’. We’re gonna have to change that…

Kittehserf
11 years ago

Starskita – “In the snark mode, are 9-year-olds woman enough for MRAs to cheer for their injuries?”

Unfortunately yes. 🙁

Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
Sir Bodsworth Rugglesby III
11 years ago

Yep. Remember it’s “men and boys” and “females”.

Doug Spoonwood
Doug Spoonwood
11 years ago

hellkell: “Doug: so women should just expect rape and death threats every time they speak up? FUCK YOU.”

No, they morally should not (note a threat involves an “I/he/she/we *will* or *shall* statement), because there exist several different forms of speaking up. However, if you go and protest at a CAFE event, you almost surely will get videotaped. If you behave in such a way as “BigRed” or other protestors have such as some at the Warren Farrell event, such a video will get put up on YouTube and that might result in you getting doxxed by someone, somewhere. Comment sections on the internet can’t get controlled, so strong invective probably will get directed at such a person by someone, somewhere. That’s the sort of environment these events exist in.

AVfM has NOT doxxed “BigRed” as they have other people that they have on register-her.com

I simply do NOT know why David Futrelle has made her information even more public here. I don’t know why David Futrelle has done something like doxxing of “BigRed” here.

Fade
11 years ago

Doug, nobody cares. This is protesting disgusting behavior by the MRAs who think they can threaten and intimidate a woman into silence. And if all women acted like “Oh, well someone might threaten me so I’d better not say anything”, the MRAs would have what they want and all of us would be scared to fucking spit because of harrasment.

TL;DR: Fuck you.

Doug Spoonwood
Doug Spoonwood
11 years ago

@Marie

“I see now everyone has to avoid being videotaped to avoid getting death threats.”

No, I made no such claim. However, if you participate in such a high-profile event where you will get videotaped and act in a hateful way at the event, you probably will get a death threat. That’s the sort of environment these events exist in.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Doug: where did David dox her?

I see, she had it coming. You’re a piece of shit, you know that?

Fade
11 years ago

No, I made no such claim. However, if you participate in such a high-profile event where you will get videotaped and act in a hateful way at the event, you probably will get a death threat. That’s the sort of environment these events exist in.

I made no such claim, I just implied that it’s the kind of thing people should expect because there’s no law to protect people from violent misogyny.

Nobody cares. She did not act in hateful way. From what Amatyultare said, it sounded like all she did was tell someone who was “what about teh menz?”ing to shut up.

Oh no, a woman told someone to shut up! Call the MRAs! Misandry!

Men send death and rape threats to someone: something to expect.

Marie
Marie
11 years ago

However, if you go and protest at a CAFE event, you almost surely will get videotaped. If you behave in such a way as “BigRed” or other protestors have such as some at the Warren Farrell event, such a video will get put up on YouTube and that might result in you getting doxxed by someone, somewhere. Comment sections on the internet can’t get controlled, so strong invective probably will get directed at such a person by someone, somewhere. T

God forbid people try to change things, they should just be quite if they don’t want to have death threats hurled at them.

/translated from asshole.

No, I made no such claim. However, if you participate in such a high-profile event where you will get videotaped and act in a hateful way at the event, you probably will get a death threat. That’s the sort of environment these events exist in.

fucking context asshole. It’s what you were implying.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Why do MRAs think death threats are acceptable, Dougie? Weren’t you assholes raised right?

pillowinhell
11 years ago

Big Red isn’t being doxxed here. None of her personal info is being posted. What is being posted is the threats and hatemail she is receiving on ALL her social media and the fact that she is being harrassed. This is being done by David with her full knowledge and..wait for it…consent.

This is a space where she will be supported and is safe for her. Much like her social media accounts before misogynistic asshats that should tread on lego decided to attack her.

Aaliyah
11 years ago

if you participate in such a high-profile event where you will get videotaped and act in a hateful way at the event, you probably will get a death threat. That’s the sort of environment these events exist in.

Please, spew more irrelevant ideas. We’ll take you more seriously that way, surely.

cloudiah
11 years ago

Let me correct you, Dougie. I have been attending demos for decades. Many of those were videotaped. I have been filmed by supporters of Apartheid in S. Africa, the Contras in Nicaragua, and by rabid anti-union folks at strikes and other labor events. None of them ever sent me death threats. So the real truth is, “If you participate in such a high-profile event filmed by MRAs, they will then do everything in their power to make sure you get threatened online. That’s how MRAs roll.”

There, that’s a little bit more accurate.

Kittehserf
11 years ago

“No, they morally should not (note a threat involves an “I/he/she/we *will* or *shall* statement), because there exist several different forms of speaking up. However, if you go and protest at a CAFE event, you almost surely will get videotaped.”

So you’re shrugging it off. You’re talking as if being videotaped is just something that happens. It isn’t. It’s people doing something deliberately. You’re using exactly the same “argument” that’s thrown at women who are raped. “Oh, you shouldn’t go out at night/go to a pub/do anything at all, because you might get raped.” How about putting the blame for either action on the ones doing it? How about pointing the finger at the people who videotaped this and, more particularly, the men threatening to rape or kill her?

But nooo, your argument is really for women to be invisible and inaudible … for our own protection, of course.

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