And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.
Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.
Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.
A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.
Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.
This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.
Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:
I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .
Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …
I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …
In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.
I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.
With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.
TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.
Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”
Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”
Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:
Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.
And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:
Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.
Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.
Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.
This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.
I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.
This is what MRA “activism” looks like.
Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.
This made me smile.
http://www.retailhellunderground.com/.a/6a00e54f10a0988834017eea3f1038970d-500wi
Okay. No cookies necessary.
The Pecunium comment had question marks in it. I gave an answer to one of them.
I appreciate the feedback.
Harassing and making rape and death threats against women does nothing whatsoever to help men or anybody else, yet it’s the thing that most consistently excites”men’s rights activists” and spurs them to action.
I’m starting to think Dani is a bot. Appreciating the feedback is all he seems to do.
He’s the online equivalent of a Gap greeter.
neuroticbeagle: I saw that! Yay for awesome dads.
At least he’s a polite bot.
Gods, the contrasts of the morning. I arrive at work blissed out on love and cartwheels and autumn air and see the Boston marathon news … I hope Kirbywarp’s okay, and all the loved ones of our Manboobzers.
Kind of relaxing if you ask me.
That’s why he just doesn’t fit in over at AVFM – he’s much too polite, Elam must find him confusing.
I just read the Sam and Sofia the First story out at work. Yay for dad and old lady and Sam!
I saw this today: http://www.buzzfeed.com/awesomer/profound-wisdom-from-bob-ross
Did I miss something here with Dani Pettas? (Er, unless he doesn’t like his name capitalized.) I mean, I’ve only seen the guy today, and I get the sense he hasn’t figured out AVFM is full of shit but seems… okay? He hasn’t been retaliating. I feel like in his position, “I appreciate your feedback” is probably one of the least aggressive things he could say. Maybe he’s just pushing out, figuring things out? (Sorry if I’m putting words in your mouth.)
Or is this guy like one of the many sporadic trolls who says something horrible, then comes back pretending nothing happened?
RE: mysexymaster
I repeat what I said. Fuck off. I just had a panicked day calling everyone I knew to make sure they hadn’t been blown up and getting called by everyone else to make sure I hadn’t been blown up. I have no patience for your flavor of shit today.
Nobody’sSexyAnything, a loveless loser just like the rest of the MRM.
Bob Ross was such a lovely fellow. I just love watching his painting videos. They help me fall asleep.
(Loveless as in incapable of feeling love, of course, not as in never been loved, though in their cases, the second is a likely consequence of the first.)
RE: Aaliyah
Happy Little Trees Guy is dead? D: Aw man, today is shaping up to be a mega bummer…
Why isn’t Youtube deleting the accounts of people obviously breaking the law? This is uttering threats. Uttering threats is illegal. You’re not allowed to post illegal content on Youtube, but this is allowed because…?
I guess it’s supposed to be like hypnotism for dummies? He figures that if he calls himself “your sexy master” people will go “oh, hey, i guess he must be really sexy, i should probably let him boss me around in bed”.
That kid and the movie = D’AWW!
Also, a tiny puppy —
Sorry, I can’t deal with the world today, so I offer cute.
He passed away nearly twenty years ago. 🙁
http://www.buzzfeed.com/dunkindonuts/animals-that-need-a-little-pick-me-up
squee!
Oh my goodness, how tiny is that puppy?
Who needs a roomba when you’ve a floor-polisher kitty?
RE: princessbonbon
He passed away nearly twenty years ago.
Wow. I’m really out of date. <.<