And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.
Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.
Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.
A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.
Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.
This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.
Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:
I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .
Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …
I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …
In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.
I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.
With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.
TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.
Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”
Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”
Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:
Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.
And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:
Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.
Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.
Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.
This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.
I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.
This is what MRA “activism” looks like.
Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.
RE: thebionicmommy
Thanks. I’m actually feeling more like a human being again instead of EmergencyBot1000. Hopefully soon I will feel up to facing the grocery store so I can make myself dinner. (Had a slight relapse due to losing my packed lunch and being trapped in transit for seven hours without lunch.)
RE: CassandraSays
Urrrrrgh, the open source boob project.
I admit, aside from all the body comfort things, one of my quiet moments of gratitude is that I apparently ceased to be a geek fetish object the moment I lost my tits. Some of the creepery and fetishization there just gives me the screaming meemies.
@marky jones
You wouldn’t know the meaning of empathy if you were a fucking dictionary.
@LBT
Wow. 🙁 Internet hugs if you want them. Hope you’re okay.
And have to go now. Sorry to post and run before even finishing the thread, and a round of internet hugs for anyone who wants them.
Hi, Kendra! Good to hear from you 🙂
What’s up, katz, and all other manboobzers? It’s good to see you all again, too! I’m doing good, got my younger kid potty trained so that’s cool.
But I’m sad for that feminist activist in the OP. I hope I can offer some moral support if she’s reading this thread.
I have to say, I don’t understand the comment:
In what setting is punching someone in the face for saying ‘shut the fuck up’ acceptable? Who does this? Who HONESTLY thinks to themselves “If that person wasn’t a woman, I’d totally punch her in the face for saying that.”?
Is it just “Oh, if we weren’t in public where punching her in the face could have social repercussions, I’d totally punch her in the face.”?
I’ll admit that the justice system has problems, but I think they’re just as likely to charge a man for punching a man in the face if charges are pressed as they are to charge a man for punching a woman in the face. Do they just assume the man isn’t going to press charges?
more proof feminists fail to read before they write
Way to non-sequitor, UnsexyFail.
Nah, we understood your comment. And it was full of shit, sorry to say.
Email Futrelle about it if you want to send her a message via him.
Can someone lend the unsexy one some punctuation?
Could someone also lend him a clue as well? He’s an embarrassment to the Marines if his gravatar is anything to go by.
Kendra: David is passing along messages to her. And woo for potty training! Fist bump!
Wait… even worse, the guy is suggesting not that punching guys in the face is wrong, but that they should be able to punch women in the face. What the ever-loving fuck?
The few, the currently embarrassed at being associated with such an asshat.
Baroncognito, welcome to what passes for MRA logic.
http://www.newstatesman.com/laurie-penny/2013/01/take-back-net-its-time-end-culture-online-misogyny
Ugh, Kamilla’s doing it again!
Do we need glove puppets to get the point across to kamilla?
So many of those comment are just disgusting. It always pains me to know morons like this are out there running loose.
@pecunium Just so you know, I have submitted other writing in past that wasn’t accepted.
Kee-rist, Kamilla, knock it off already.
Hi Kendra! Good to see you!
Oh, well in that case, I guess you’re just quite the crusader. So what?
@hellkell
Pecunium wrote, “Why not submit a new post?” That’s why I put that. I appreciate the criticism.
Do you want cookies or what? I’m not sure why you’re here at all.
So you submitted a post/posts PaulE declined, big whoop. You have your own blog, publish there.
Kendra, hi, good to see you!
LBT – you’ve already had the info but I’m just adding my don’t use Facebook message. I had an account there; never posted anything on it, absolutely didn’t put any personal information there. But my boss – who isn’t on ANY social media sites – got an email at work from them, saying he should join because all these people he knew were on it.
One had worked for us a decade ago.
One was our general manager’s offsider.
One was me.
If that doesn’t spell data mining and gross invasion of privacy, I don’t know what does. I closed my account immediately.
Do you like piano music? If so, I really recommend George Winston’s albums. Really, really peaceful. Autumn is my favourite:
http://youtu.be/PFcde9aI9Z0
In order to criticize your writing we’d have to read it, and that’s probably not going to happen.
(Or at least I, personally, am not that bored.)