And so the MRAs have found yet another woman to hate.
Earlier this month, as many of you no doubt know, a Men’s Rights group sponsored a lecture at the University of Toronto. The event drew protesters, and the protesters drew MRAs with video cameras. One of the MRAs filmed a confrontation between a red-haired feminist activist and a number of MRAs who continually interrupted her as she tried to read a brief statement.
Her crime? She wasn’t exactly polite in responding to the interrupters. And so, after video of the confrontation was uploaded to YouTube, and linked to on the Men’s Rights subreddit and elsewhere, she became a virtual punching bag for the angry misogynists of the internet.
A Voice for Men, naturally, led the charge, running an article by Canadian MRA Dan Perrins labeling her “Little red frothing fornication mouth” and commenting on her breasts. The Amazing Atheist weighed in with a video I couldn’t bring myself to even watch.
Since being targeted by angry YouTube misogynists and MRAs, the red-haired activist has received death threats, rape threats and literally hundreds of other hateful and harassing messages. She’s also been “doxxed” — that is, she’s had her personal information plastered all over the internet, including on A Voice for Men’s forum. Ten days after being uploaded to YouTube, the video of her faceoff against the MRAs has garnered more than 300,000 views, and YouTubers are still leaving threats and insults and crude sexual comments.
This, apparently, is what “Men’s Human Rights Activism” consists of: the doxxing and harassment of individual women.
Several days ago, she contacted me to tell me about the harassment she’s endured. Here’s some of what she wrote:
I’m the red-head. I’m sure by now, you’re one of the 260,000 people who have seen the video of me … .
Because I had the audacity to tell a dude to stfu, an MRA no less, I have since been the target of not only just online misogyny (as if that’s a surprise) but cyber stalking, rape and death threats. They somehow found my facebook, they found my tumblr, they found a twitter acct that I don’t even use, they even found an old [dating site] profile of mine with outdated info …
I also got an anonymous message on tumblr that specifically said “[name deleted] would be disappointed”. [Name deleted] is my dog that died 1.5 years ago, I don’t talk about him on tumblr, nor fb, so they would have had to reaaaaalllly dig to find this info. …
In about 12-24hours, I got about400-500 new messages on my blog, most of them hate, which included rape and death threats, also people wishing death upon me or the typical troll “kill yourself” message. They made a meme of me.
I dunno how many haters I have, and I don’t know where they are. I can’t be sure at any given second, if I’m ever outside my house … if anyone is going to recognize me and try to hurt me.
With her permission, I am reposting screenshots she sent me documenting some of the harassment she’s endured. Even though her personal information has already been widely disseminated online, I don’t want to contribute to that, so I’ve whited out any information that might reveal her identity.
TRIGGER WARNING for what follows, for threatening language and crude sexual remarks.
Here’s a death threat she received from someone claiming to represent the “Islamic Brotherhood.”
Here are some sample comments from her Tumblr inbox. I’ve whited out comments and parts of comments that consist of her contact info, which being sent to her in an attempt to intimidate and frighten her by letting her know they “know where she lives.”
Here’s another threatening comment sent to her via Tumblr:
Here are some comments sent to her via her YouTube account. You’ll notice that the second comment comes from AVFM’s Dan Perrins, who is clearly relishing the attacks on her.
And another glimpse into her YouTube inbox:
Here’s a screenshot from a Men’s Rights forum revealing her personal information.
Meanwhile, over on YouTube, the hateful comments continue to pile up. Here are some of the nastiest ones I’ve collected. I am deliberately posting a lot of them in an attempt to convey something of the relentless nature of the attacks on teh red-haired activist — though I should note I’ve only gone through a small portion of the total comments there and this doesn’t even reflect all of the awful ones I found. These are not in any particular order. I threw in a few non-threatening ones that struck me as a tad ironic or otherwise revealing.
Again, this is only a small fraction of the abuse she’s gotten on YouTube.
This is what happens when MRAs and other misogynists target a woman online. The only thing that’s surprising here is the sheer amount of the hateful comments.
I’ve seen no serious attempts from any MRAs to rein in this sort of hatred. A Voice for Men has tried to distance itself in a superficial way from some of the harassment it has played a central role in unleashing, with an official announcement asking readers to refrain from posting the personal information of the red-haired activist in the comments. Meanwhile, in the AVFM forum, comments linking to her defunct dating profiles remain up.
This is what MRA “activism” looks like.
Coming tomorrow: A more detailed look at AVFM’s role in the harassment.
Sending hopeful thoughts your way katz.
Just heard from them and they are OK.
Oh good!
So all our peeps and their friends and family are now accounted for?
Cliff just posted on Tumblr.
Except kirbywarp, I think. He’s a Bostonian too, right?
The ratio of male suicides to female suicides in the US is about 4:1. However the number of male suicide attempts to female attempts is 1:3. Women are markedly less successful because they choose ways which impact other people less than men do. Men are less likely to think of “Who is going to clean up” or “Who else is this going to hurt” so they do things like shoot themselves, jump off buildings, intentionally crash their cars, and step in front of trains. Women tend to attempt suicide by hanging, overdose, and slitting their wrists – methods less likely to succeed.
The fastest way to reduce the number of male suicides is to increase gun control. 80% of male suicides in the US are carried out with a gun.
This woman is a bigot that spouted off death threats and misandry like a tsunami of hate, now do you honestly think half these youturds and twatter fucktards would ever follow through with these childish threats come on there is bound to be a few internet bad asses in every group the only time you need to worry about this stuff is if the actual video demands shit like “Do your part”, and connection to government organizations, so far I haven’t found to much beyond net thug wannbes. Oddly the way this chick behaved I wouldn’t be shocked if she made most of these things herself.
RE: yoursexymaster
Go to hell you asshole we’re talking about the fucking Boston bombings right now. You’re not important. FUCK OFF I’m busy checking on my fucking friends.
Oh, whatever, NoOnesNotSexyMaster. You think misandry is real, tells me all I need to know about your dumb ass.
Okay. I’ve checked in with pretty much all my friends and they’ve checked in okay, including my fellow comic makers. Apparently there’s been a suspicious package found at Harvard and the bomb squad’s taking care of it.
“Not white not straight not left and not right. I am as much an MRA as I am a feminist its the same thing, but most on both sides are to stupid to realize it.”
Luckily, yoursexypasta knows better than everyone else. Dude, I am sending you a punctuation care package. Learn how to use it.
Glad to hear that everyone else is ok. Anyone know other places where we could check on kirbywarp?
Horrendous. Sending good vibes to everyone in Boston right now.
Alex Jones is already tweeting that this is a false flag attack. I can’t even.
She is not the one spouting death threats, that is all the MRM. Also, since most of the threats are posted by MRAs who are proud to be identified as MRAs, your idea of her doing it herself is easily disproven.
That’s nice, UnsexyFailure.
RE: Chie Satonaka
Who’s Alex Jones?
I could email Kirby.
Sent him an email.
I’m bored and need a chew toy. So.
Bigot: How? Needs proof.
Same for death threats: citation needed.
Misandry: does not exist.
Fucktards: Nice ableism you got going there.
Childish threats: like what?
Internet badasses: It is not badass to send death threats.
Accusing her of making it up herself: Citation needed.
Re: everyone affected by the Boston bombing
Sympathies and consensual jedi-hugs around. Hoping the best for everyone’s family.
LBT, be thankful you have not been introduced to that turd. He is a piece of garbage.
Whether they will actually follow through is irrelevant – it’s the threats themselves that’s the problem. Unless you think that threats themselves are meaningless. Now get the fuck out, as LBT said.
RE: Chie Satonaka
Will do!
Does anyone have… not brain bleach, but calm down? In situations like this my adrenaline goes haywire and I’m having a hard time calming down and getting out of emergency tunnel vision. (It’s like DODODO CHECK EVERYTHING SAVE EVERYONE WAIT WHAT IS DO THERE IS NO MORE DO AWAITING DO)
LBT, Do you have examples of things that have helped you calm down in the past?
dani petras: @pecunium. I don’t think I’m out of line or something by posting a comment, or that there’s anything wrong with what I wrote. It seems like you are making an ad hominem criticism. If you’re telling me to stop commenting, I will do that.
I’m not telling to you to stop, and I’m not making an ad hominem.
But you haven’t actually, so far as I can see, done anything to condemn this behavior to the people perpetrating, and praising it.
So what’s your point in coming here, to tell us you don’t like it. Good for you.
But you are active in the MRM. If you really think this is bad, you should be telling them; because they won’t listen to us. They, in fact, gloat over our being upset.
Maybe you’re suggesting that I ask them to remove my stuff. Honestly, I’ve thought about that, but I keep hoping that they’ll improve their image. I don’t have to be a moral “crusader” (to borrow from Manboobz’s description of Erin Pizzey).
Why not submit a new post? Because really, you should be a moral crusader; at least to the point of crusading for moral behavior.
You want them to improve their image? Hold their feet to the fire. Do you get a lot of slack from me? No. You are contributing to a hate group, in the hope they will improve. You want them to improve, fine; what are you doing about it?