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Men’s Rights Activists Greet Adria Richards’ Firing with Cheers, Gendered Slurs

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And so the Internet has found a new woman to hate. Most of you are probably already familiar with the Adria Richards debacle that’s developed over the past several days. If not, Jill at Feministe has a good summary of events:

Adria Richards, formerly of the company SendGrid, was at a tech conference this week when some dudes behind her made a series of inappropriate and sexual jokes. Annoyed by the pervasiveness of misogyny in the tech world, she snapped a photo of them and put in on Twitter with a complaint. One of the conference organizers spoke to the men and they apologized. Totally reasonable! Good response, PyCon. Later, one of the dudes got fired. Instead of getting mad at the company that made the choice to fire him, the internet hordes descended on Adria. She was on the receiving end of rape and death threats. Her address and phone number were published. Her blog and her company’s website came under DDoS attack. Oh and then her company, SendGrid, fired her.

Like Jill, I think firing someone for a “dongle” joke is an overreaction, to say the least. But Richards wasn’t responsible for that; indeed, she told the fired man she hoped his employer would reconsider and take him back.

SendGrid’s firing of Richards is far more problematic. It’s one thing to get in trouble for acting like a sexist boor; it’s quite another to get in trouble for simply pointing out someone else’s problematic behavior. Richards faced a virtual lynch mob for simply documenting an example of the everyday sexism that permeates the tech world; by firing her, SendGrid essentially sided with the mob.

Is “lynch mob” an unfair term to describe those who’ve gone after Richards? No. In this context, the term is sadly apropos, as the target of all this online “activism” is not only female but black – two strikes against her in the minds of many of her, er, “critics,” who attacked her as a “fucking nigger” as well as a “cunt.” (The more genteel racists referred to her derisively as a “diversity hire.”)

Numerous commenters have already documented some of the appallingly racist and misogynist attacks on Richards. (The links in the above paragraph contain plenty of examples.)

Here, I’d like to focus specifically on the attacks on Richards coming from Men’s Rights activists – that is, from people who like to think of themselves as upstanding human rights activists for the 21st century, virtual equivalents of Martin Luther King. In fact, many of the reactions of MRAs show them to have far more in common with the bigots who fought against the civil rights movement than they do with King.

In the Men’s Rights subreddit, the MRA masses gave more than one hundred upvotes to a graphic describing Richards as a “racist, sexist and hypocritical cunt.” Evidently pointing out that white men as a class have certain advantages in the world is a kind of “racism.”

Elsewhere in the subreddit, aasorted commenters indulged themselves in gendered slurs. Greyfeld got dozens up upvotes for comments denouncing Richards as a “feminist cunt” and a “screeching harpy cunt.” DerpaNerb described Richards as “a racist/sexist cunt [who’s] clearly … not capable of doing her job properly.” Buster2209 scored 160 upvotes with a comment describing Richards as a “stupid bitch [who] brought it on herself.” Cyridius simply declared “I hate her because she’s a dumb ignorant bitch.”

Others happily gave the Men’s Rights movement credit for Richards’ firing. The execrable EvilPundit got 180 upvotes for a post essentially endorsing the virtual lynch mob and declaring Richards’ firing to be proof that the Men’s Rights movement had entered a “new phase.”

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Sorry to burst your bubble, Mr. Pundit, but there’s nothing new about men harassing and threatening a black woman.

AnnArchist – a former contributor to Reddit’s now-banned Beating Women subreddit —  reacted with indignation to someone who pointed out Richards had been harassed:

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Over on A Voice for Men, where the locals describe themselves with no sense of irony as Men’s Human Rights Activists, there was much rejoicing over the firing of Richards, who was variously described as an “entitled bitch,” a “sociopathic bitch,” a “femshit” and a “bush pig.” Naturally, the c-word, applied to all feminists, made an appearance as well.

Daflory hoped that Richards’ firing would be the start of an industry-wide purge:

Adria Richards seems like an entitled narcissist, who had become used to deference as a moral authority through her impeccable credentials as a diversity goddess: black, Jewish, and female. …

No one ever told Adria Richards that she was at best only an tolerated guest in the world of tech, and she could either play by male rules and contribute, or get lost. Hopefully other feminists in tech will get a similar message.

And August Løvenskiolds’ mind went straight to the gutter:

[A]fter being outed as a betrayer of her customers, none of them will want to work with her, and any tech company that hires her will instantly lose credibility.

She’s going to be hard-pressed to find a job as a sex-worker unless the light is quite dim.

Taking a step back from the particulars of the incident, Mark Trueblood wondered if a man strike might help to put things right once again:

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I’m pretty sure Amnesty International doesn’t exactly endorse this sort of “human rights” activism.

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titianblue
titianblue
11 years ago

You’ve got to hand it to @ThomasR, he zeroes in on the real issue underlying this. Forget the rape & death threats – the really important thing to decide in all this is whether the men’s comments were completely smutty or merely double entendres.

Thomas R.
Thomas R.
11 years ago

Wow, I just realized something.

I’ve been reading David’s blog for quite some time now, and I enjoyed it very much.
You seemed to be a reasonable crowd while you where talking to and about people that I myself oppose.

But now that I’ve written a few polite (!) sentences, I finally realized it:
You are bullies. I just didn’t see it before because you were bullying those who had it coming.

Pear_tree
Pear_tree
11 years ago

Has anyone heard the Mitchell and Webb Sound, “friends of Hitler” sketch? It is two men discussing why Hitler isn’t coming to their party (busy with work). During it they discuss how Hitler is a nice guy but if you didn’t know he was joking you’d think he was racist, but obviously they know he is only being ironic.

It just reminds me how we have to pretend that because forking and dongle are tech words they are never used for innuendo. It is mandatory that we accept this misinformation. The same always happens when someone is explicitly sexist or racist. It is just nice to see a sketch that satirises that.

titianblue
titianblue
11 years ago

Nice tone trolling, ThomasR. You might want to step back in your moment of revelation and think about why you got such a reaction to your few polite sentences.

reginaldgriswold
reginaldgriswold
11 years ago

Is there any way to find out if these posters who come in and are long-time visiters, but are just SO SHOCKED and SO HURT at their responses are actually long-time visiters?

Thomas R.
Thomas R.
11 years ago

@titanblue
[quote]
This is lazy, ableist shit.

Disgusting? Definitely? Crazy? Oh, yes, let’s decide they’re the crazies, then it’s nothing to do with “us”, the sane ones, no one should try to stop them or argue with them or call them out on this because hey, they’re crazy. /sarcasm

Shorter: Try thinking!
[/quote]

I just can’t imagine how you can read those things into what I have written. I am not interested in being subject to such childish tantrums.

titianblue
titianblue
11 years ago

Oh Thomas, you are such a joker!

Thomas R.
Thomas R.
11 years ago

Seriously, I’m done with this. I was interested in a conversation between adults.

blitzgal
11 years ago

But now that I’ve written a few polite (!) sentences

Bullshit. You’ve trotted out known talking points that are being spread across the internet and already refuted a thousand times over.

Buh-bye

nerdypants
nerdypants
11 years ago

You seemed to be a reasonable crowd while you where talking to and about people that I myself oppose.

I suppose it’s possible that an otherwise reasonable crowd suddenly, apropos of nothing, became unreasonable just at the moment when you came along. Or perhaps there’s another, much simpler, explanation.

Thomas R.
Thomas R.
11 years ago

@David
Just to make sure not to make the wrong impression:
The mail-address given in my last posts is not working, so I posted this with an actual working one. I wouldn’t want to look like a cheap troll, as your friendly guests might be suggesting.

titianblue
titianblue
11 years ago

Seriously, I’m done with this. I was interested in a conversation between adults.

Also bullshit. Ableist language and victim blaming to not an adult conversation make.

So floks, how long can ThomasR stick the flounce?

titianblue
titianblue
11 years ago

^ “do not an adult …. “, damnit!

nerdypants
nerdypants
11 years ago

It really irks me the way that her sexual joke on Twitter with a friend is being used as an excuse, as though it implies that she should have been cool with this situation. This idea, that a woman is known to have done sexual things before, therefore she presumably consents to it in any given situation … is it just me or does this remind us of something?

cloudiah
11 years ago

I am playing my micro-violin for ThomasR, very quietly.

Because the most important thing when discussing a woman getting rape & death threats posted alongside her home address is to consider what she must have done to deserve it.

Tulgey Logger
Tulgey Logger
11 years ago

Thomas R can’t imagine how we read those things into what he’s written.

Dear Thomas R: they’re called words.

Podkayne
11 years ago

The pharmacist I was working with today took the time to explain the Steubenville rape trial to me. Only I think he had the details mixed up with the plot of ‘The Accused’, and his conclusion was ‘something something what girls should expect when they go to parties like that’ (My reaction was ‘Whatever, I can’t listen to this even one more time, let’s go see if there’s anything new in the skin care aisle. Oooh, Prevex on sale!’). Then this when I get home. Honestly, world.

John-H
John-H
11 years ago

I suspect that ThomasR either hasn’t been reading for as long as he claims or hasn’t been paying much attention to what he is reading. Because if he had he probably would have noticed the numerous discussions on abelism and he would have realised what response he was going to get for calling people making rape and death threats crazy.
I guess its possible that he did know what the response would be and just couldn’t contain his urge to be an asshole.

Deoridhe
11 years ago

But what happened at PyCon: The two men were quietly talking to each other. The “series of inappropriate and sexual jokes” is said to be the following:
First guy (talking about the speaker): “I would totally fork that guys repository”
Nothing sexual there. That’s an absolutely everyday figure of speach used as a compliment among tech-nerds. Given Adria’s reputation, I think she knows that, too.
Second guy (later): “You’ll need a big dongle for that”

You have a source for this claimed detailing of events, I suppose? Especially since Adria reported she was talking to Guy #1 when he mentioned forking the repo of someone not present, and it was after a minute or more of sexual jokes that she took the picture and tweeted?

Deoridhe
11 years ago

It really irks me the way that her sexual joke on Twitter with a friend is being used as an excuse

It’s how prior sexual experience is used by assholes against rape victims. Honestly, the whole line of argument that she was “asking for it” or “caused” it is identical to rape apology, it’s just being used for death and rape threat apology now.

Deoridhe
11 years ago

Also… I think we all need this:

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
11 years ago

I love the kitties’ almost complete lack of interest in playing for the camera. 🙂

titianblue
titianblue
11 years ago

Squees at the cuteness. Aah, let sleeping kitties lie.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
The Kittehs' Unpaid Help
11 years ago

And by way of contrast: Sandwich the jumping cat.

http://youtu.be/MAbuHJRsBOw

Lulabelle
Lulabelle
11 years ago

So… she makes sexual jokes on a private twitter feed. Therefore, she can’t POSSIBLY be offended by others making similar jokes at a professional conference (where such conduct is presumably not permitted) and while a speaker is presenting.

Maybe I’m just agitated today, but I can’t help but consider the similarities between saying “she can’t be offended because she makes these jokes in other places” and “she can’t have been rape because she has casual sex with other men”. 😛

What the men did was entirely inappropriate given the context and she was, by all means, right for calling them out on it. The fact that she was fired over it, and especially after being barraged with these hateful attacks…

Sometimes I feel as if there is no hope for the human race.