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Men’s Rights Activists Greet Adria Richards’ Firing with Cheers, Gendered Slurs

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And so the Internet has found a new woman to hate. Most of you are probably already familiar with the Adria Richards debacle that’s developed over the past several days. If not, Jill at Feministe has a good summary of events:

Adria Richards, formerly of the company SendGrid, was at a tech conference this week when some dudes behind her made a series of inappropriate and sexual jokes. Annoyed by the pervasiveness of misogyny in the tech world, she snapped a photo of them and put in on Twitter with a complaint. One of the conference organizers spoke to the men and they apologized. Totally reasonable! Good response, PyCon. Later, one of the dudes got fired. Instead of getting mad at the company that made the choice to fire him, the internet hordes descended on Adria. She was on the receiving end of rape and death threats. Her address and phone number were published. Her blog and her company’s website came under DDoS attack. Oh and then her company, SendGrid, fired her.

Like Jill, I think firing someone for a “dongle” joke is an overreaction, to say the least. But Richards wasn’t responsible for that; indeed, she told the fired man she hoped his employer would reconsider and take him back.

SendGrid’s firing of Richards is far more problematic. It’s one thing to get in trouble for acting like a sexist boor; it’s quite another to get in trouble for simply pointing out someone else’s problematic behavior. Richards faced a virtual lynch mob for simply documenting an example of the everyday sexism that permeates the tech world; by firing her, SendGrid essentially sided with the mob.

Is “lynch mob” an unfair term to describe those who’ve gone after Richards? No. In this context, the term is sadly apropos, as the target of all this online “activism” is not only female but black – two strikes against her in the minds of many of her, er, “critics,” who attacked her as a “fucking nigger” as well as a “cunt.” (The more genteel racists referred to her derisively as a “diversity hire.”)

Numerous commenters have already documented some of the appallingly racist and misogynist attacks on Richards. (The links in the above paragraph contain plenty of examples.)

Here, I’d like to focus specifically on the attacks on Richards coming from Men’s Rights activists – that is, from people who like to think of themselves as upstanding human rights activists for the 21st century, virtual equivalents of Martin Luther King. In fact, many of the reactions of MRAs show them to have far more in common with the bigots who fought against the civil rights movement than they do with King.

In the Men’s Rights subreddit, the MRA masses gave more than one hundred upvotes to a graphic describing Richards as a “racist, sexist and hypocritical cunt.” Evidently pointing out that white men as a class have certain advantages in the world is a kind of “racism.”

Elsewhere in the subreddit, aasorted commenters indulged themselves in gendered slurs. Greyfeld got dozens up upvotes for comments denouncing Richards as a “feminist cunt” and a “screeching harpy cunt.” DerpaNerb described Richards as “a racist/sexist cunt [who’s] clearly … not capable of doing her job properly.” Buster2209 scored 160 upvotes with a comment describing Richards as a “stupid bitch [who] brought it on herself.” Cyridius simply declared “I hate her because she’s a dumb ignorant bitch.”

Others happily gave the Men’s Rights movement credit for Richards’ firing. The execrable EvilPundit got 180 upvotes for a post essentially endorsing the virtual lynch mob and declaring Richards’ firing to be proof that the Men’s Rights movement had entered a “new phase.”

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Sorry to burst your bubble, Mr. Pundit, but there’s nothing new about men harassing and threatening a black woman.

AnnArchist – a former contributor to Reddit’s now-banned Beating Women subreddit —  reacted with indignation to someone who pointed out Richards had been harassed:

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Over on A Voice for Men, where the locals describe themselves with no sense of irony as Men’s Human Rights Activists, there was much rejoicing over the firing of Richards, who was variously described as an “entitled bitch,” a “sociopathic bitch,” a “femshit” and a “bush pig.” Naturally, the c-word, applied to all feminists, made an appearance as well.

Daflory hoped that Richards’ firing would be the start of an industry-wide purge:

Adria Richards seems like an entitled narcissist, who had become used to deference as a moral authority through her impeccable credentials as a diversity goddess: black, Jewish, and female. …

No one ever told Adria Richards that she was at best only an tolerated guest in the world of tech, and she could either play by male rules and contribute, or get lost. Hopefully other feminists in tech will get a similar message.

And August Løvenskiolds’ mind went straight to the gutter:

[A]fter being outed as a betrayer of her customers, none of them will want to work with her, and any tech company that hires her will instantly lose credibility.

She’s going to be hard-pressed to find a job as a sex-worker unless the light is quite dim.

Taking a step back from the particulars of the incident, Mark Trueblood wondered if a man strike might help to put things right once again:

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I’m pretty sure Amnesty International doesn’t exactly endorse this sort of “human rights” activism.

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TomBcat
TomBcat
11 years ago

@Hippie belongs at the end, it makes more sense then.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Never mind, that was actually tame. Judgybitch thinks that drunk women can consent because no one would believe that a drunk man didn’t consent…and feminists are deluded if they (we) think that we live in a rape culture. Par the course for her.

Of course, it started with how rape looks like this: teen boy and teacher, male marine with a drink spiked by a woman, the male companion of the Indian rape victim begging them to stop. Those three! Third was CNN, so just more filler on the coverage of her rape (and death), middle one was another site arguing against victim blaming, all good so far! No we shouldn’t go blaming a marine for getting raped just because he’s supposed to be a big strong man! The first one? On AVfM and actually just about his specific situation, his past, how it isn’t “a bonus” for a teen boy, and then the first comment, the very top one!

“They are all-too-familiar figures these days – the incarnation of the Eat, Pray, Love ethos so eagerly promoted by feminists. She gets away with her sins by artfully cloaking herself – base entitlement masquerading as free sexual expression. She is Earth Mother Vagina, bestowing her gifts throughout the generational spectrum.. Come one come all. Er…not you..”

The original judgybitch post is here for the curious — http://www.avoiceformen.com/feminism/you-werent-raped-join-the-club/

That’s recent…wonder what would happen if I posted either rapist ex sans pronouns…victim blaming masked as support probably — of course you couldn’t do anything because society says if a girl is injured!

Lol, I just looked up to see 5 snails climbing the closer tube to my new sponge filter. I’m glad they approve. And a snail’s pace is actually pretty speedy, for the size of snails. Should be a sloth’s pace!

talacaris
talacaris
11 years ago

For starters, you dont’ consider me an actual troll, which is demeaning. Secondly, all I hear is “boring, weaksauce &c”, while others get hundreds of replies,like looksie/virgil. So what did he do more intelligently than me?

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

So the takeaway here is that rape is OK because sometimes some women have consensual sex with lots of men and none of those men are MRAs? Alrighty then.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

“…it is like a pain you had all your life: You stop noticing it until it disappears for a while” — also made in appearance in the comments of that Pecunium post.

It’s funny, for all the trolls and assholes here, it’s one of the few places I feel like I can let my guard down, because I know I’ll have back-up if a troll strikes a nerve. Y’all are awesome in other words. Whiskey anyone?

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Don’t give me any booze, I’ll fall asleep and I still have a couple of projects to finish and then lunch with Mr C to wake up for. Coffee, please.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

For starters, you dont’ consider me an actual troll, which is demeaning.

Oh, boo-hoo, Wall of Blah.

Judgybitch is truly reprehensible. I hope she steps on all the Legos.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Coffee? Here’s a fresh cup of dark roast salted caramel, it’s delicious.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Can we put Legos in her cereal?

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Sure, why not?

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Cassandra, I think so? He was too far down the rabbit hole for me to parse well…or I’m too drunk for that. I’m guessing the former as I’m relatively sober at this point.

Talacaris — Virgil was offensive, very much so towards the end. You’re just boring. But that means you could, in theory, redeem yourself by being interesting. You keep fish? Have a cat? Other pet? Cooking fan? Knitting? Spinning? Crochet? Embroidery? Music? Chime in when these things come up!

Speaking of music, have I had a random music plug lately? No? It’s time for pirates then!

Marie
Marie
11 years ago

@tomBcat

I’ve read the comments for a while now and your ramblings have so far always been interesting to read!

thanks 😀 And no reason not to respond late if you want, that’s what I do half the time. Like, whenever something interesting happens while I’m gone XD

@argenti aertheri

Never mind, that was actually tame. Judgybitch thinks that drunk women can consent because no one would believe that a drunk man didn’t consent…and feminists are deluded if they (we) think that we live in a rape culture. Par the course for her.

Wow. So, in judgybitch-land, drunk women can consent because rape culture hurts men too. I mean, just because ‘no one would believe a drunk man didn’t consent’ doesn’t mean they actually consented. Gah. Judgybitch, rape culture 101 here. >:(

That may not have made sense. But, um, tell me if it didn’t, and I’ll try to ramble in a slightly more coherent manner.

Earth Mother Vagina,

ohmygod I must use this phrase…everywhere. I will be watching bad movies with my dad and sister and randomly say it and only my sister will know what I mean and I’ll start cracking up. Um…anyway.

So what did he do more intelligently than me?

idk about more ‘intelligently’ but he’s certainly less boring.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Imma just sit over here with hellkell and contemplate how drunk we’d have to be to use the term “earth mother vagina” in a non-ironic way. Actually I don’t think booze is going to cut it, I’m going to need enough acid to hallucinate that I woke up with a completely different personality.

Marie
Marie
11 years ago

@argenti aertheri

It’s funny, for all the trolls and assholes here, it’s one of the few places I feel like I can let my guard down, because I know I’ll have back-up if a troll strikes a nerve

Yes! It’s much nicer. I think I’ve said this before, but there are a lot of things that are hard to talk about (imo) but people get called out when they say something bad, back up if trolls are asses, idk, it’s perfect. Um… hehe. I love this website 😀

Related-ish, it also helps me be calmer w/ trolls on other websites. Not everyone is laughing at them, but at least I am amused.

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

Speaking of pirates, I was at Petsmart yesterday, and they had a kitty for adoption who broke my heart. He was a three-year-old black kitty with one eye who had been abused. I wanted to take him home, give him an eye-patch and call him Captain Black the Pirate Kitty, and give him ALL THE LOVE. I hope he finds the best home ever.

I would have snatched him up, but Lilly is a territorial BITCH kitty with anything but kittens.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

(In all seriousness, there are actual woo-loving radical feminists. They exist. Why can’t both the MRAs and scrapemind go find them? Google isn’t that hard to use.)

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

I don’t know what kind of chemical combo I’d have to be on to use “earth mother vagina” with a straight face.

Marie
Marie
11 years ago

@hellkell

that poor kitty 🙁

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I think by that point I’d be walking around going “I’m a tree!” and trying to fly too.

TomBcat
TomBcat
11 years ago

@Argenti Aertheri

I haven’t read any of Pecuniums posts yet(going to start now), so not sure if that’s a good thing…

hellkell
hellkell
11 years ago

I think by that point I’d be walking around going “I’m a tree!” and trying to fly too.

It would be like the time in college I was completely off my tits on mushrooms looking at a Pink Floyd poster and thinking, “If I could be that color blue, my life would be perfect.”

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

TomBCat — he’s a regular around these parts, so give him a fair shake before worrying about the comparison.

Lego cereal or Lego head cereal?

TomBcat
TomBcat
11 years ago

@ Argenti Aertheri

No, I meant…ah, damn the language barrier.
Oh well. No, after reading his comments for a while I’m excited to learn there’s more to read.
I tried to check out what the regulars here are doing besides the comments, but for some reason never clicked his name.

To say earth mother vagina with a straight face one just has to stay awake for 5 nights in a row listening to the same dubstep mix over and over again. But by then it’ll feel like nothing will be funny ever again.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Earth mother vagina (SFW)

TomBCat — ah, I hadn’t realized you weren’t a native speaker. In any case, in the sidebar is A Voice for Pierre, it’s one of katz’s joke blogs about some of the stranger MRAs.

Argenti Aertheri
Argenti Aertheri
11 years ago

Random — why are so many meds little white pills?!