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Men’s Rights Activists Greet Adria Richards’ Firing with Cheers, Gendered Slurs

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And so the Internet has found a new woman to hate. Most of you are probably already familiar with the Adria Richards debacle that’s developed over the past several days. If not, Jill at Feministe has a good summary of events:

Adria Richards, formerly of the company SendGrid, was at a tech conference this week when some dudes behind her made a series of inappropriate and sexual jokes. Annoyed by the pervasiveness of misogyny in the tech world, she snapped a photo of them and put in on Twitter with a complaint. One of the conference organizers spoke to the men and they apologized. Totally reasonable! Good response, PyCon. Later, one of the dudes got fired. Instead of getting mad at the company that made the choice to fire him, the internet hordes descended on Adria. She was on the receiving end of rape and death threats. Her address and phone number were published. Her blog and her company’s website came under DDoS attack. Oh and then her company, SendGrid, fired her.

Like Jill, I think firing someone for a “dongle” joke is an overreaction, to say the least. But Richards wasn’t responsible for that; indeed, she told the fired man she hoped his employer would reconsider and take him back.

SendGrid’s firing of Richards is far more problematic. It’s one thing to get in trouble for acting like a sexist boor; it’s quite another to get in trouble for simply pointing out someone else’s problematic behavior. Richards faced a virtual lynch mob for simply documenting an example of the everyday sexism that permeates the tech world; by firing her, SendGrid essentially sided with the mob.

Is “lynch mob” an unfair term to describe those who’ve gone after Richards? No. In this context, the term is sadly apropos, as the target of all this online “activism” is not only female but black – two strikes against her in the minds of many of her, er, “critics,” who attacked her as a “fucking nigger” as well as a “cunt.” (The more genteel racists referred to her derisively as a “diversity hire.”)

Numerous commenters have already documented some of the appallingly racist and misogynist attacks on Richards. (The links in the above paragraph contain plenty of examples.)

Here, I’d like to focus specifically on the attacks on Richards coming from Men’s Rights activists – that is, from people who like to think of themselves as upstanding human rights activists for the 21st century, virtual equivalents of Martin Luther King. In fact, many of the reactions of MRAs show them to have far more in common with the bigots who fought against the civil rights movement than they do with King.

In the Men’s Rights subreddit, the MRA masses gave more than one hundred upvotes to a graphic describing Richards as a “racist, sexist and hypocritical cunt.” Evidently pointing out that white men as a class have certain advantages in the world is a kind of “racism.”

Elsewhere in the subreddit, aasorted commenters indulged themselves in gendered slurs. Greyfeld got dozens up upvotes for comments denouncing Richards as a “feminist cunt” and a “screeching harpy cunt.” DerpaNerb described Richards as “a racist/sexist cunt [who’s] clearly … not capable of doing her job properly.” Buster2209 scored 160 upvotes with a comment describing Richards as a “stupid bitch [who] brought it on herself.” Cyridius simply declared “I hate her because she’s a dumb ignorant bitch.”

Others happily gave the Men’s Rights movement credit for Richards’ firing. The execrable EvilPundit got 180 upvotes for a post essentially endorsing the virtual lynch mob and declaring Richards’ firing to be proof that the Men’s Rights movement had entered a “new phase.”

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Sorry to burst your bubble, Mr. Pundit, but there’s nothing new about men harassing and threatening a black woman.

AnnArchist – a former contributor to Reddit’s now-banned Beating Women subreddit —  reacted with indignation to someone who pointed out Richards had been harassed:

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Over on A Voice for Men, where the locals describe themselves with no sense of irony as Men’s Human Rights Activists, there was much rejoicing over the firing of Richards, who was variously described as an “entitled bitch,” a “sociopathic bitch,” a “femshit” and a “bush pig.” Naturally, the c-word, applied to all feminists, made an appearance as well.

Daflory hoped that Richards’ firing would be the start of an industry-wide purge:

Adria Richards seems like an entitled narcissist, who had become used to deference as a moral authority through her impeccable credentials as a diversity goddess: black, Jewish, and female. …

No one ever told Adria Richards that she was at best only an tolerated guest in the world of tech, and she could either play by male rules and contribute, or get lost. Hopefully other feminists in tech will get a similar message.

And August Løvenskiolds’ mind went straight to the gutter:

[A]fter being outed as a betrayer of her customers, none of them will want to work with her, and any tech company that hires her will instantly lose credibility.

She’s going to be hard-pressed to find a job as a sex-worker unless the light is quite dim.

Taking a step back from the particulars of the incident, Mark Trueblood wondered if a man strike might help to put things right once again:

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I’m pretty sure Amnesty International doesn’t exactly endorse this sort of “human rights” activism.

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The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

Pretty!

I’d wreck those just putting ’em on, going from experience.

Viscaria
Viscaria
11 years ago

@Cassandra, ooh, pretty! But I have a million zillion billion sweaters. Also jackets. And blazers.

I have this problem where I go shopping for foundation pieces and come home with three new completers.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

Oooh I like that cardie! But I also do not need more long cardies …

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

But sweaters are useful! I’m the person who has about 50 pairs of jeans – if you’re looking for someone to talk you out of buying useful basics you’ve come to the wrong place.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

I was terribly good and took a heap of clothes to the Red Cross a couple of weeks back.

My wardrobe is still full.

I never really do useful basics. I like variety, variety, variety! I have a very short attention span with clothes. 😛

Viscaria
Viscaria
11 years ago

Oooooooh shopping. If only I had unlimited money and unlimited time.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

With things like jeans I tend to prefer simple rather than must have variety because the search for variety ends with people buying things like this.

http://access-fashion.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/HUDSON-Jeans-Loulou-Tuxedo-Crop-Super-Skinny-Chopin-Manson-access-fashion.jpg

I saw someone wearing those a few weeks ago and nearly guffawed right in the middle of the restaurant. I will, however, acknowledge that I have no room to talk since I once bought silk cargo pants.

Viscaria
Viscaria
11 years ago

Do I need a new dress for my cousin’s upcoming wedding? No. No I do not. Probably. Maybe.

Anyway I didn’t realize how super late it is here! Good night everyone.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

Lordy, what are they – trackpants x jeans hybrids? Yech. Way to get the worst of both.

Niters, Viscaria!

cloudiah
11 years ago

I will, however, acknowledge that I have no room to talk since I once bought silk cargo pants.

A short woman once convinced a man to buy a pair of leather pants. CassandraSays, was that you acting in revenge? 😀

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I don’t think I know any men who I’m not related to who’d actually have to be talked into buying leather pants…

BTW the unfortunate garment above is referred to as “tuxedo jeans”. Just stop and think about that, and ask yourself why it exists.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

That’s one funny article. I’ve yet to see anyone look good in leather pants, even at the Pride March or Mardi Gras.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

Tuxedo jeans?

The mind boggles. If I hadn’t seen that pic first, I’d be thinking of a black and white cat in jeans.

Which would be a better image.

cloudiah
11 years ago

It takes a certain kind of person to wear leather pants (and I do not mean that as a put down, just to be clear). I imagine this scenario as a woman convincing a guy who is NOT that kind of person to buy those pants. 😀

I am going to sleep now! Night, all.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I should mention that the woman who I ran into was wearing her tuxedo jeans with a short pouffy jacket, so she ended up looking like a matador.

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

@ Kittehs

The secret to leather pants is that they have to be skin tight. If you can breathe or sit down easily when you first try them on, they’re not tight enough. This goes for men as well as women.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

I hope she had a matador’s cap on as well. Gotta do these things properly.

That sounds like the process of breaking leather pants in would be … painful.

Niters, cloudiah!

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

It is a bit uncomfortable for those whose plumbing is of the inward variety, so I can only imagine how un-fun it must be if you have balls. The end result is worth it, though!

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

This reminds me of a bit in Due South last night – Fraser was wearing tights and saying that whoever invented them should be on trial for crimes against humanity ‘cos of what they do to the bits. Ray pointed out that the people they’re designed for don’t have said bits …

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

Now that’s a pretty man (the one who played the Mountie) We should keep him in mind for the next time we need to banish some trolls by talking about icky girl stuff.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

Yes indeed.

Paul Gross

CassandraSays
CassandraSays
11 years ago

I remember watching that show as a teenager and thinking “hmm, Canada, that might be a nice place to visit”.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

Whoa, and look at him here in Slings and Arrows.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

I’ve never heard of it, but the outline I read on the blog with that pic sounded like it’d be worth seeing.

The Kittehs' Unpaid Help

Never heard of Slings and Arrows, I mean.

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